JustErin said:

JustErin said:

Call, text or email someone who's done a fuckover in your life and tell them "fuck you" for it (even if you've told them fuck you previously).

I'll be glad you did.

Fuck you.

Ahhhhhh. Yep. Felt great. Will still feel great next week.... and the week after that... etc. etc. etc.

I'd feel much too exposed and uncontrolled if I did that. Even when I do get angry or sad, I never act out my emotions (or do so only carefully and having thinking it through).

I'm curious, though: How does doing that feel? Why do you do that? What happens when you have done it? How you do feel about yourself after doing it?

Cerebus said:

JustErin said:

Call, text or email someone who's done a fuckover in your life and tell them "fuck you" for it (even if you've told them fuck you previously).

I'll be glad you did.

Fuck you.

Ahhhhhh. Yep. Felt great. Will still feel great next week.... and the week after that... etc. etc. etc.

Awwwww....

Dave1992 said:

I'd feel much too exposed and uncontrolled if I did that. Even when I do get angry or sad, I never act out my emotions (or do so only carefully and having thinking it through).

I'm curious, though: How does doing that feel? Why do you do that? What happens when you have done it? How you do feel about yourself after doing it?

I totally act out on my emotions but not usually in this way.

If I did do it, I would just eventually feel guilt and remorse.

Dave1992 said:

I'd feel much too exposed and uncontrolled if I did that. Even when I do get angry or sad, I never act out my emotions (or do so only carefully and having thinking it through).

I'm curious, though: How does doing that feel? Why do you do that? What happens when you have done it? How you do feel about yourself after doing it?

Telling someone to go fuck their rotten troll cunt of a mother when they've done you wrong? (I mean seriously wrong, not taking your parking space.)

It feels pretty good.

I feel like I'm goddamn awesome after.

Then I file that person in the Forget Forever box, and they're dead and gone to me.

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PunkMistress said:

Dave1992 said:

I'd feel much too exposed and uncontrolled if I did that. Even when I do get angry or sad, I never act out my emotions (or do so only carefully and having thinking it through).

I'm curious, though: How does doing that feel? Why do you do that? What happens when you have done it? How you do feel about yourself after doing it?

Telling someone to go fuck their rotten troll cunt of a mother when they've done you wrong? (I mean seriously wrong, not taking your parking space.)

It feels pretty good.

I feel like I'm goddamn awesome after.

Then I file that person in the Forget Forever box, and they're dead and gone to me.

Lord!

I don't know... I think simply showing that you are dissapointed by not letting them close afterwards and not trusting them anymore can by quite powerful aswell.

I just can't yell at someone and deliberately upset and hurt them. Not because I love I have too much respect for them, but rather for myself, if you know what I mean. It's difficult to explain and I understand why other people do it, but it just doesn't correspond with my style somehow.

Dave1992 said:

PunkMistress said:

Telling someone to go fuck their rotten troll cunt of a mother when they've done you wrong? (I mean seriously wrong, not taking your parking space.)

It feels pretty good.

I feel like I'm goddamn awesome after.

Then I file that person in the Forget Forever box, and they're dead and gone to me.

Lord!

I don't know... I think simply showing that you are dissapointed by not letting them close afterwards and not trusting them anymore can by quite powerful aswell.

I just can't yell at someone and deliberately upset and hurt them. Not because I love I have too much respect for them, but rather for myself, if you know what I mean. It's difficult to explain and I understand why other people do it, but it just doesn't correspond with my style somehow.

All you need to know is that the person who urged everyone to tell people "F you!" can't even do it herself.

Which is a good thing.

So now, let's this puppy and go over to my LOVE thread!

Dave1992 said:

PunkMistress said:

Telling someone to go fuck their rotten troll cunt of a mother when they've done you wrong? (I mean seriously wrong, not taking your parking space.)

It feels pretty good.

I feel like I'm goddamn awesome after.

Then I file that person in the Forget Forever box, and they're dead and gone to me.

Lord!

I don't know... I think simply showing that you are dissapointed by not letting them close afterwards and not trusting them anymore can by quite powerful aswell.

I just can't yell at someone and deliberately upset and hurt them. Not because I love I have too much respect for them, but rather for myself, if you know what I mean. It's difficult to explain and I understand why other people do it, but it just doesn't correspond with my style somehow.

I think you've explained it perfectly.

Dave1992 said:

I'd feel much too exposed and uncontrolled if I did that. Even when I do get angry or sad, I never act out my emotions (or do so only carefully and having thinking it through).

I'm curious, though: How does doing that feel? Why do you do that? What happens when you have done it? How you do feel about yourself after doing it?

But didn't you go (tell) off that producer of the TV talent show you where on?

kewlschool said:

Dave1992 said:

I'd feel much too exposed and uncontrolled if I did that. Even when I do get angry or sad, I never act out my emotions (or do so only carefully and having thinking it through).

I'm curious, though: How does doing that feel? Why do you do that? What happens when you have done it? How you do feel about yourself after doing it?

But didn't you go (tell) off that producer of the TV talent show you where on?

I did tell him I do not support the kind of work he does and how he does it and that if he continues to mess with my interviews he can go and fuck himself (meaning I will quit the show on my own), but I didn't say anything that might have hurt his feelings. The "fuck yourself" was probably the only thing that wasn't logical and rational, but I felt like it was the only way for him to understand I was being serious.

Don't get me wrong, I was not always a "rational saint" like I try to by nowadays. I used to become really angry and even physically attack people (including friends and family members). When I seriously hurt one of my best friends it shocked me so much I learned that I wanted to control my emotions from then on. That included hurting people verbally, on purpose.

Dave1992 said:

kewlschool said:

But didn't you go (tell) off that producer of the TV talent show you where on?

I did tell him I do not support the kind of work he does and how he does it and that if he continues to mess with my interviews he can go and fuck himself (meaning I will quit the show on my own), but I didn't say anything that might have hurt his feelings. The "fuck yourself" was probably the only thing that wasn't logical and rational, but I felt like it was the only way for him to understand I was being serious.

Don't get me wrong, I was not always a "rational saint" like I try to by nowadays. I used to become really angry and even physically attack people (including friends and family members). When I seriously hurt one of my best friends it shocked me so much I learned that I wanted to control my emotions from then on. That included hurting people verbally, on purpose.

You appeared to me like a pretty laid back kind of person.

I always try to control my very strong emotions .

Serious said:

Dave1992 said:

I did tell him I do not support the kind of work he does and how he does it and that if he continues to mess with my interviews he can go and fuck himself (meaning I will quit the show on my own), but I didn't say anything that might have hurt his feelings. The "fuck yourself" was probably the only thing that wasn't logical and rational, but I felt like it was the only way for him to understand I was being serious.

Don't get me wrong, I was not always a "rational saint" like I try to by nowadays. I used to become really angry and even physically attack people (including friends and family members). When I seriously hurt one of my best friends it shocked me so much I learned that I wanted to control my emotions from then on. That included hurting people verbally, on purpose.

You appeared to me like a pretty laid back kind of person.

I always try to control my very strong emotions .

We met after I had decided I wanted to change some of my ways...

Dave1992 said:

Serious said:

You appeared to me like a pretty laid back kind of person.

I always try to control my very strong emotions .

We met after I had decided I wanted to change some of my ways...

I guess I was lucky then . Props to you, it's hard to change stuff like that!

Dave1992 said:

kewlschool said:

But didn't you go (tell) off that producer of the TV talent show you where on?

I did tell him I do not support the kind of work he does and how he does it and that if he continues to mess with my interviews he can go and fuck himself (meaning I will quit the show on my own), but I didn't say anything that might have hurt his feelings. The "fuck yourself" was probably the only thing that wasn't logical and rational, but I felt like it was the only way for him to understand I was being serious.

Don't get me wrong, I was not always a "rational saint" like I try to by nowadays. I used to become really angry and even physically attack people (including friends and family members). When I seriously hurt one of my best friends it shocked me so much I learned that I wanted to control my emotions from then on. That included hurting people verbally, on purpose.

Good for you. Controlling ones abusive behaviors is a good thing.