imago said:

Deadflow3r said:

I am starting to learn that as long as you are clean and well groomed men can fuck you. They may not come back for more but they can make it work when need be.

this went over my head. (your new avatar is more like emogo)

Deadflow3r said:

imago said:

this went over my head. (your new avatar is more like emogo)

I actually posted the wrong emoticon, but was too lazy to edit.

EMOgo ^

imago said:

EMOgo ^

you liked that did you?

I am right aren' t I? I thought men would be so turned off by my weight and they are not really. They just want to fk and fk and fk every orafice that i have, lol.

Deadflow3r said:

HobbesLeCute said:

Really though I don't think looks are important as much as a complete and total willingness to torture my balls without mercy.

Balls are beautiful, why would anybody torture them?

HobbesLeCute said:

Deadflow3r said:

Balls are beautiful, why would anybody torture them?

when I think torture I think of piercing, biting etc.

Deadflow3r said:

HobbesLeCute said:

when I think torture I think of piercing, biting etc.

I think "without mercy" was a bit of an exaggeration on my part because that sounds horrible.

Really I just like having them squeezed really hard every once in awhile.

HobbesLeCute said:

Deadflow3r said:

when I think torture I think of piercing, biting etc.

I think "without mercy" was a bit of an exaggeration on my part because that sounds horrible.

Really I just like having them squeezed really hard every once in awhile.

I don't know why that makes me think of wire coat hangers

ZombieKitten said:

HobbesLeCute said:

I think "without mercy" was a bit of an exaggeration on my part because that sounds horrible.

Really I just like having them squeezed really hard every once in awhile.

I don't know why that makes me think of wire coat hangers

I just felt my boys suck into my body a bit just now.

Maybe I shouldn't have made that joke about ball torture.

HobbesLeCute said:

ZombieKitten said:

I don't know why that makes me think of wire coat hangers

I just felt my boys suck into my body a bit just now.

Maybe I shouldn't have made that joke about ball torture.

sorry! my brain GOES THERE

every time

ZombieKitten said:

HobbesLeCute said:

I just felt my boys suck into my body a bit just now.

Maybe I shouldn't have made that joke about ball torture.

sorry! my brain GOES THERE

every time

Well there is that thread about Mommy Dearest kicking about too.

HobbesLeCute said:

ZombieKitten said:

sorry! my brain GOES THERE

every time

Well there is that thread about Mommy Dearest kicking about too.

I never saw that movie, but I should definitely look into it

ZombieKitten said:

HobbesLeCute said:

Well there is that thread about Mommy Dearest kicking about too.

I never saw that movie, but I should definitely look into it

Now if I watch it my grapes will decend so far back I'll cough them up.

HobbesLeCute said:

ZombieKitten said:

I never saw that movie, but I should definitely look into it

Now if I watch it my grapes will decend so far back I'll cough them up.

JustErin said:

They are most important in both situations.

I'm sorry , I'm too busy focusing all my mirrors in my house on me to answer this question with the care it needs.

kewlschool said:

I'm sorry , I'm too busy focusing all my mirrors in my house on me to answer this question with the care it needs.

That almost happened to me once but it turned out it was just a bunch of TVs with Cookie Monster on them.

HobbesLeCute said:

kewlschool said:

I'm sorry , I'm too busy focusing all my mirrors in my house on me to answer this question with the care it needs.

That almost happened to me once but it turned out it was just a bunch of TVs with Cookie Monster on them.

I have learned that I do not believe what Janet sings about in Doesn't Really Matter at all. I tried not to be superficial, and even before the song came out, but I noticed a pattern that the guys I dated were not very good looking, just average and most of the time, they were the ones interested in me first though I liked their personality at first just a little. The guy I found the most attractive I could not be in a relationship with cause he was too flirty and giddy with other girls, but we dated for a bit, had chemistry, I loved his friends, but we decided to just stay friends after that. He lives elsewhere now and with another girl so I think he may be settling down. The guy I went the furthest with was not attractive physically so it was very weird, but it was hard to get away cause of the facade he presented about himself, and being a pathological liar about his life.

So sue me for being superficial, from now on, I will date who I find attractive, I deserve it. You know, it's hard going dancing with someone and getting into it if he's not attractive and stuff like that, and though the guy tried wearing stuff that he though I would like, something was just so unnatural and off.

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HobbesLeCute said:

ZombieKitten said:

I don't know why that makes me think of wire coat hangers

I just felt my boys suck into my body a bit just now.

Maybe I shouldn't have made that joke about ball torture.

So...is this the first "ball torture" thread in GD?

angel345 said:

Dalia11 said:

People who study psychology know that individuals are attracted to others who have similar qualities. That includes looks, personality, interests, etc.

When it comes to serious relationships or marriage, do people mostly choose partners, based on those qualities or more on opposities? Do you know of any studies on that?

I will look that up. I know that opposites can attract people to each other, but the attraction is not enough. Sexual/emotional compatibilty is also a factor. Shared interests and friendship is also important.

Let me tell you this, I am a good 80 lbs overweight and men that like that kind of thing freak when I talk about loosing it. So looks matter a great deal to chubby chasers.

Men are visual and need more visual stimulation. Women need emotional and mental stimulation. According to most experts. I think most women also need visual stimulation.

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Dalia11 said:

angel345 said:

When it comes to serious relationships or marriage, do people mostly choose partners, based on those qualities or more on opposities? Do you know of any studies on that?

I will look that up. I know that opposites can attract people to each other, but the attraction is not enough. Sexual/emotional compatibilty is also a factor. Shared interests and friendship is also important.

From my observation, I have seen mostly physical opposites. For an example, most slim guys that I've seen like heavy women,with average looks. No offense to anyone. Of course I would not know the rest of it, unless I knew them personally.

From my experience, I found that most or maybe some guys don't take physically attractive women seriously because they're just superficial and brainless to them. Then, there's the misconception that all of them will cheat. Did they really get to know her or all of them to form that conclusion? That's why I applaud the OP for being secure about all types of women, as long as there's an attraction, and have no qualms about getting serious with a physically attractive woman. Also, who's to say that the women they think will not cheat, will not cheat?

I have also seen alot of couples who are opposites. Some men look for women who look or act like their mother, and women look for men that are similar to their father.

Dalia11 said:

I have also seen alot of couples who are opposites. Some men look for women who look or act like their mother, and women look for men that are similar to their father.

I forgot about that possibility , but then if they cheat, it's possible that it gets old after awhile

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Number23 said:

Ottensen said:

JustErin said:

A lot of men are more concerned about their wives being good mothers and housewives than they are about them being hot and sexy.

But then they go hang out at strip clubs and/or go get some on the side.

Sorry, Aries Lady. I have an Aries husband and as godly as he is, he is waaaay into me keeping it tight and sexy and working my itty bitty skinny jeans and fierce-go-get-'em attitude..and if you've ever had the pleasure of being with a Scorpio, then you know that, um...well...they're sexually intense...no strip clubs or hooker side pieces needed

Scorpios!

What was the OP question?

Oh yeah....um

I'll go with "Looks are Important period!" for 500 Alex. Ooh look! A Daily Double!

angel345 said:

Dalia11 said:

I will look that up. I know that opposites can attract people to each other, but the attraction is not enough. Sexual/emotional compatibilty is also a factor. Shared interests and friendship is also important.

From my observation, I have seen mostly physical opposites. For an example, most slim guys that I've seen like heavy women,with average looks. No offense to anyone. Of course I would not know the rest of it, unless I knew them personally.

From my experience, I found that most or maybe some guys don't take physically attractive women seriously because they're just superficial and brainless to them. Then, there's the misconception that all of them will cheat. Did they really get to know her or all of them to form that conclusion? That's why I applaud the OP for being secure about all types of women, as long as there's an attraction, and have no qualms about getting serious with a physically attractive woman. Also, who's to say that the women they think will not cheat, will not cheat?

Back to what I was saying earlier.

To men who prefer heavy girls, looks are very important. The mistake on this thread is that some men are settling for Rosie O'Donnell because they can't have Sandra Bullock.

Some men don't want to have sex with skinny girls. That is just not very tactile to them. They physically are more attracted to a fat lady naked then a skinny one. So in their case, looks are Very important.

Next, there is this thing that has been on this forum before that pretty things and sexy lingerie are for skinny girls only. Not true. Men who love heavy women want their ladies to show their stuff in sexy clothes and lingerie. What you may think o as gross they think of as divine. They want her showing off all that fabulous flesh. Remember Star Jones when she was a T V Judge? That is pretty much their ideal. They often loooove lots of make-up, nails and jewelry too. I loooove dressing up so it is a win/win (money is the only thing holding me back).

As for lanky men, I find them very sexy and prefer their bodies over any kind. They can wrap those long arms and legs around anything it seems and I love their long necks. Time and time again the men chosen for Peoples "Sexiest Men Alive" are not my type. But that does not mean I am settling for the lanky guy, no THAT is my preference.

My only problem now is that for health reasons I need to take off a bunch of weight. I have sleep apnea, high blood pressure and borderline diabetes. Hopefully I am still attractive to someone in a size 8 as I am in a size 18.

I love a guy I can't have and I saw recent pics, he looks so happy and hot, but I can't have him now. He has somebody else and I feel possessive that he's chummy with a lot of girls, but when we dated a few years ago before deciding to be friends, I didn't trust him at all. And then he got into a relationship with someone else and didn't want me after though we stayed friends and now there's someone else I could have had him. I can't believe I found myself doing this, but she's not attractive at all, so plain looking and he is far from a boring person, with how he looks and acts and everything, I know I'm better looking and even found a nice recent pic of myself and put it next to his new one, we would have looked so hot together! Sorry I sound self-obsessed but it's true! But then again, we would probably hate each other if we got together, I like him and his friends are sweet too and I still keep in touch.