JustErin said:

First I get a thread that is pretty much about me made

and then I get a phone call and get offered a place to live and $2000 a month to move back to Ottawa so that the guy I used to sleep with could continue to have sex with me...but I would have to give it up anytime he wanted...no questions asked.

Weirdest night ever.

It's really not that bad...that's decent money...just get it in writing.

jaimestarr79 said:

just get it in writing.

The trick is to give it to him real good, get him hooked, then raise the price while cutting down

on the actual put out...kinda like marriage without the finger leash or in laws

LadyCasanova said:

The trick is to give it to him real good, get him hooked, then raise the price while cutting down

on the actual put out...kinda like marriage without the finger leash or in laws

Okay then

Tremolina said:

JustErin said:

He's better than average, I'd say. He's a rough mofo.

I think he's crazy enough to actually do it, he has the means....but I really can't imagine that he would ever think I would say yes. He probably felt safe asking it because he knows I would never actually do it.

Military dude is better off than he is...because he has money and comes from money.

Plus military dude lives where you live now AND is an even better fuck?

New guy needs a little training...but yeah, he's here.

AND he's hotter, nicer, etc.

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jaimestarr79 said:

JustErin said:

First I get a thread that is pretty much about me made

and then I get a phone call and get offered a place to live and $2000 a month to move back to Ottawa so that the guy I used to sleep with could continue to have sex with me...but I would have to give it up anytime he wanted...no questions asked.

Weirdest night ever.

It's really not that bad...that's decent money...just get it in writing.

Write up a contract!

LadyCasanova said:

The trick is to give it to him real good, get him hooked, then raise the price while cutting down

on the actual put out...kinda like marriage without the finger leash or in laws

I think he's hooked already.

Maybe I can just get a free trip to Ottawa from him for now.

JustErin said:

JustErin said:

Tremolina said:

Plus military dude lives where you live now AND is an even better fuck?

New guy needs a little training...but yeah, he's here.

AND he's hotter, nicer, etc.

Seems like a no brainer to me.

He gives a shit about the fact that you have a son too?

JustErin said:

jaimestarr79 said:

It's really not that bad...that's decent money...just get it in writing.

Write up a contract!

I can help you with that

ZombieKitten said:

JustErin said:

I think he's hooked already.

Maybe I can just get a free trip to Ottawa from him for now.

Are you and MD exclusive? How would he feel about you going back for some RM?

I dunno...

Tremolina said:

JustErin said:

New guy needs a little training...but yeah, he's here.

AND he's hotter, nicer, etc.

Seems like a no brainer to me.

He gives a shit about the fact that you have a son too?

Yes, but I'm not really trying to decide between the two of them here.

Tremolina said:

JustErin said:

Write up a contract!

I can help you with that

I bet!

oh my

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JustErin said:

Tremolina said:

Seems like a no brainer to me.

He gives a shit about the fact that you have a son too?

Yes, but I'm not really trying to decide between the two of them here.

No need, no need...

But seems like you have already

JustErin said:

Tremolina said:

I can help you with that

I bet!

Yeah. I made a specialisation out of drawing up these kind of contracts.

I have a lot of satisfied female clientèle.

JustErin said:

Honestly, I think I'm worth more.

10K a month would be a good start.

... .. that's the problem now aday's w/ some men.. they actually think that we DON'T know our worth. I bet if the tables were turned, he would want more than he's offering you.

sunflower7 said:

If I only look at the manuel work my Wife does in the house (next to our jobs), for children etc. and I would translate this into market price, I think I would have too start at 5 k euro. So adding everything else, 10 k sounds fair.

hendrikus said:

If I only look at the manuel work my Wife does in the house (next to our jobs), for children etc. and I would translate this into market price, I think I would have too start at 5 k euro. So adding everything else, 10 k sounds fair.

But I don't think Erin is offering to wash his dishes...well...so to speak

NDRU said:

hendrikus said:

If I only look at the manuel work my Wife does in the house (next to our jobs), for children etc. and I would translate this into market price, I think I would have too start at 5 k euro. So adding everything else, 10 k sounds fair.

But I don't think Erin is offering to wash his dishes...well...so to speak

No, but that's like a really small fraction of our time. I'm mostly talking Kids and other stuff. I basically counted the hours she puts into us and our family, took into account her education (on the market she would be expensive) and came up with a number. If you want too estimate your worth this seems like the way. I did not calculate my worth.

If you do this, you can also provide a specified bill...

Tremolina said:

oh my

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Haha...I saw it.

I don't know for sure how he would feel...because we haven't really had a talk about exclusivity. My guess is it wouldn't be cool though.

Tremolina said:

JustErin said:

Yes, but I'm not really trying to decide between the two of them here.

No need, no need...

But seems like you have already

Until we make it official, I'm free to do as I please, right?

Tremolina said:

JustErin said:

I bet!

Yeah. I made a specialisation out of drawing up these kind of contracts.

I have a lot of satisfied female clientèle.

I bet!

ZombieKitten said:

sunflower7 said:

... .. that's the problem now aday's w/ some men.. they actually think that we DON'T know our worth. I bet if the tables were turned, he would want more than he's offering you.

That's very true!

Yeah!!

NDRU said:

hendrikus said:

If I only look at the manuel work my Wife does in the house (next to our jobs), for children etc. and I would translate this into market price, I think I would have too start at 5 k euro. So adding everything else, 10 k sounds fair.

But I don't think Erin is offering to wash his dishes...well...so to speak

He used to have a live in nanny...maybe he was expecting me to take care of his kids too.

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JustErin said:

NDRU said:

But I don't think Erin is offering to wash his dishes...well...so to speak

He used to have a live in nanny...maybe he was expecting me to take care of his kids too.

[Edited 10/25/11 13:50pm]

For 2k? That's like below minimum wage. F that...

^nannies usually don't get more than that. often less