Ottensen said:

Hold grudges.

Bitterness isn't sexy, and it's terrible for one's health.

alphastreet said:

Spend too much money and get depressed

I'm real bitter about the money subject right now. Part of the reason I need a 2nd part time job is because I need to pay my credit cards down (only 2, thank God. Could had been worse) and to replenish my savings account and my emergency fund.

Newports.

Drink and then go to the club and make men beg for stuff I know I'm not going to give them.

Work waaaaay too much, sleep waaay to little, waste sleep time on masterbating.

Listen to Prince's music everyday.

Buy shoes...that never leave the house.

Play with fire (in a lot of ways).

LadyCasanova said:

Drink and then go to the club and make men beg for stuff I know I'm not going to give them.

Work waaaaay too much, sleep waaay to little, waste sleep time on masterbating.

Listen to Prince's music everyday.

Buy shoes...that never leave the house.

Play with fire (in a lot of ways).

Tokyo89 said:

LadyCasanova said:

Drink and then go to the club and make men beg for stuff I know I'm not going to give them.

Work waaaaay too much, sleep waaay to little, waste sleep time on masterbating.

Listen to Prince's music everyday.

Buy shoes...that never leave the house.

Play with fire (in a lot of ways).

you're perfect!

davetherave6767 said:

Tokyo89 said:

you're perfect!

Tokyo & Dave :

Lady, Tokyo, & Dave: ???

I'm in the same boat as PurpleJedi.

I rarely get more than 6 hours of sleep on a nightly basis during the week.

Somehow I still manage to function.

I always plan on making up for it on the weekend but I'm usually doing stuff with friends and I'm up even later than usual.

+ I don't want to sleep in too late and miss out on the fun, you dig?

LadyCasanova said:

davetherave6767 said:

Tokyo & Dave :

Lady, Tokyo, & Dave: ???

• not try new things in fear of failure. (such as a job, etc.)
• be too nice to people who don't deserve it. (result is i get used by extended family members)
• worry too much about almost everything. (my mind is always thinking over every little detail wish i could be more carefree about things!)

missfee said:

alphastreet said:

Spend too much money and get depressed

I'm real bitter about the money subject right now. Part of the reason I need a 2nd part time job is because I need to pay my credit cards down (only 2, thank God. Could had been worse) and to replenish my savings account and my emergency fund.

exactly me, I have two on-call jobs and it's still not enough cause the hours vary, have to find a third

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getting depressed and caught up emotionally with people who don't give a damn about me if they mean something to me...it hurts like hell though I know it's ok, but not when it's affecting my functioning.

KidaDynamite said:

I procrastinate. It's a terrible thing. I could have somewhere to go, wait till the very last minute to get ready and then absolutely HATE to rush, when it's time to. My shyness is pretty destructive also but I can't really control that, now can I.

It's like we are soul mates. Except for that rush 'cuz you be late thing.

Now, back to more important things:

alphastreet said:

getting depressed and caught up emotionally with people who don't give a damn about me if they mean something to me...it hurts like hell though I know it's ok, but not when it's affecting my functioning.

Once long ago in a galaxy far far away. Not anymore though. I now just live by this thought: Would I do what my girlfriend (friend/loved one) does to me? No I wouldn't. So, why in the heck would I allow her (loved one) to do this to me? The answer is that it is not okay and it's not cool to treat me like dirt (or fill in the blank).

^^ I hope any of that made any sense.

kewlschool said:

KidaDynamite said:

kewlschool said:

It's like we are soul mates. Except for that rush 'cuz you be late thing.

Now, back to more important things:

Yes, mistress. May I have another?

kewlschool said:

Right now. It's Pringles again!!

kewlschool said:

KidaDynamite said:

kewlschool said:

Right now. It's Pringles again!!

Aren't Pringles "supposed" to be a healthier version of the potato chip?

I don't know about that-but procter & gamble makes it. It's my personal crack!

i'm the same purplejedi.. too many late nights, not getting my beauty sleep.. less sex, eating frosties at 3am is not helping my figure!! i gotta get some disapline

kewlschool said:

alphastreet said:

getting depressed and caught up emotionally with people who don't give a damn about me if they mean something to me...it hurts like hell though I know it's ok, but not when it's affecting my functioning.

Once long ago in a galaxy far far away. Not anymore though. I now just live by this thought: Would I do what my girlfriend (friend/loved one) does to me? No I wouldn't. So, why in the heck would I allow her (loved one) to do this to me? The answer is that it is not okay and it's not cool to treat me like dirt (or fill in the blank).

^^ I hope any of that made any sense.

No one treated me like dirt in this case, I did all the work.

KidaDynamite said:

I procrastinate. It's a terrible thing. I could have somewhere to go, wait till the very last minute to get ready and then absolutely HATE to rush, when it's time to. My shyness is pretty destructive also but I can't really control that, now can I.

I used to be chronically shy. It was because I was afraid of being myself, expressing myself in front of people, you know thoughts and feelings. Once I started doing that then the shyness wasn't so much of an issue. I still feel shy sometimes but really it's an uncomfortable feeling that i equate with being shy. I just let myself feel taht feeling and take risks anyway. After all the thoughts that produce that feeling aren't facts so I don't have to listen to them.

So I would say that we are in control of the shyness because we create ourselves as being shy. No one is born shy.

I made myself sick by honestly wishing it and drowning myself in depression, seeing it as the only way out when I couldn't face my problems last winter, regarding my life choices. I never act in a self-destructive way consciously towards my body, and that was a sign that something was seriously wrong. Then I just kept losing weight and not being able to sleep because of being so tense, and I still haven't managed to fully stop it.

self destructive thing? i post remarks like this on the ORG:

it is massively creeping me out how many of you indulge your reckless side on public roadways.

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You are quite a sick bunch really. Probably a normal reflection as the rest of society.

Tokyo89 said:

LadyCasanova said:

Tokyo & Dave :

Lady, Tokyo, & Dave: ???

buy me a few drinks and i'm down!

Eye dont need a drink 4 that action....

free2bfreeda said:

once in a while on a week-end day i get up at day break and get on the freeway. i get into my vehicle, turn my music up very loud and drive above the speed limit (65mph) at 80-90mph. it's exhilarating. i don't do it often, but it gives me such a natural high and i love the feeling of being un-fettered by the rules of the road.

most times on the week-ends there are no cops on the road that early in the morning, because they know most people are home and not on there way to work.

mind-you i don't do this very often. when i do this, i've found it helps me to leave the stress behind.

I drive to work pretty much each day like that, just stay under 100mph so i don't get an instant ban! I didn't think that was reckless, I thought that was setting off late for work!

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