LadyCasanova said:

Sooo, I am still talking to the guy. Its very interesting so far. I wanted to see how far he

would go with this so I text him at like 2 in the morning and told him I wanted a pepsi and some

peanuts...he showed up like 30 mins later with exactly what I asked for, plus some, then went back

home.

So wrong.

morningsong said:

myfavorite said:

...if it be left up to the org, wouldnt nobody have a relationship cause we always hollar...RUN!!! ... just an observation...

You might be on to something around here.

But then, I think about this radio thing they do here called 'war of the roses' where someone calls in, to have the radio folks fake out their significant other to see who that person would send a dozen roses to. 9 times out of 10 that significant other is cheatin' or gettin' ready to cheat, not necessarily cause 9 out of 10 folks is cheatin' but because those that call already KNOW that their partner is cheatin'. Same difference, folks here already KNOW something wrong with the situation, they just need confirmation.

Wow, I never thought of it like that.

Now I will be looking at threads a bit differently.

itsnotallover said:

LadyCasanova said:

This shit is scary, but it's also interesting as hell.

What I find most interesting is that by just looking at him you would never guess.

He is 6'3, built, educated, funny, witty, has a great job, friends who love him, is in contact

with his family, loves his mom, has a pet...

I haven't told him to catch a train yet...

The most perfect looking guy in the world can still turn out to be a Serial Killer

It's exactly those that you want to be very careful about. They dress/talk/move/behave in a way that they know will make you like him. So, you will forgive his minor awkward behavior. Then he will stretch your boundaries little by little.

And this guy will do that literally.

LadyCasanova said:

Sooo, I am still talking to the guy. Its very interesting so far. I wanted to see how far he

would go with this so I text him at like 2 in the morning and told him I wanted a pepsi and some

peanuts...he showed up like 30 mins later with exactly what I asked for, plus some, then went back

home.

Don't play games. Just run as fast as you can.

Where, oh, where, did you meet this guy? That would tell more about him too.

Deadflow3r said:

Where, oh, where, did you meet this guy? That would tell more about him too.

I met him in the San Francisco Financial District. I was in a store looking at shoes and I couldn't

decide what I wanted, so I was like "I should get all of them" and then I heard someone behind me

laugh and say "a beautiful woman should never have to choose."

I think he might be the devil...

PurpleJedi said:

LadyCasanova said:

Sooo, I am still talking to the guy. Its very interesting so far. I wanted to see how far he

would go with this so I text him at like 2 in the morning and told him I wanted a pepsi and some

peanuts...he showed up like 30 mins later with exactly what I asked for, plus some, then went back

home.

So wrong.

I mentor some of the college kids at my old college and the other day I had him bring me 3 boxes

of pizza because I was "sad and needed comfort food" but couldn't decide on what kind of pizza

I wanted. That bitch was pretty much skipping when he brought them to me. I then told him

I was too tired and upset to spend time together and he was like "of course dear, just call me if

you decide you want something else" and dipped again. I then took the pizzas to the school and

left them...might as well have him feed the starving college students.

LadyCasanova said:

Deadflow3r said:

Where, oh, where, did you meet this guy? That would tell more about him too.

I met him in the San Francisco Financial District. I was in a store looking at shoes and I couldn't

decide what I wanted, so I was like "I should get all of them" and then I heard someone behind me

laugh and say "a beautiful woman should never have to choose."

I think he might be the devil...

Besides the constant food supply, what is he like? What are his non-culinary interests?

Have you had sex with him yet?

LadyCasanova said:

Deadflow3r said:

Where, oh, where, did you meet this guy? That would tell more about him too.

I met him in the San Francisco Financial District. I was in a store looking at shoes and I couldn't

decide what I wanted, so I was like "I should get all of them" and then I heard someone behind me

laugh and say "a beautiful woman should never have to choose."

I think he might be the devil...

Yes. He sounds like the typical predator. Hanging around places where there are always women to find and easy aproachable. A shoestore!

Really, I don't think it's wise to play games with him. Before you know, you'r sucked into something and you can't get out anymore.

Deadflow3r said:

LadyCasanova said:

I met him in the San Francisco Financial District. I was in a store looking at shoes and I couldn't

decide what I wanted, so I was like "I should get all of them" and then I heard someone behind me

laugh and say "a beautiful woman should never have to choose."

I think he might be the devil...

Besides the constant food supply, what is he like? What are his non-culinary interests?

He is big into fitness, he runs, rock climbs, swims, and plays a mean game of Rugby.

He is also into Philosophy (which I really like) and Classical Music.

He smiles a lot and is quick to laugh, so far I haven't seen him get mad about anything. He leads

a large group of people, and they really seem to like him, even though he is their boss.

He owns his own home, multiple cars, he loves his mom, dresses well (maybe too well).

He is well educated and witty. He says that he just believes that women are supposed to be

round, curvy, and well taken care of and that men should be hard, solid, and dependable.

LadyCasanova said:

Deadflow3r said:

Besides the constant food supply, what is he like? What are his non-culinary interests?

He is big into fitness, he runs, rock climbs, swims, and plays a mean game of Rugby.

He is also into Philosophy (which I really like) and Classical Music.

He smiles a lot and is quick to laugh, so far I haven't seen him get mad about anything. He leads

a large group of people, and they really seem to like him, even though he is their boss.

He owns his own home, multiple cars, he loves his mom, dresses well (maybe too well).

He is well educated and witty. He says that he just believes that women are supposed to be

round, curvy, and well taken care of and that men should be hard, solid, and dependable.

LadyCasanova said:

Deadflow3r said:

Besides the constant food supply, what is he like? What are his non-culinary interests?

He is big into fitness, he runs, rock climbs, swims, and plays a mean game of Rugby.

He is also into Philosophy (which I really like) and Classical Music.

He smiles a lot and is quick to laugh, so far I haven't seen him get mad about anything. He leads

a large group of people, and they really seem to like him, even though he is their boss.

He owns his own home, multiple cars, he loves his mom, dresses well (maybe too well).

He is well educated and witty. He says that he just believes that women are supposed to be

round, curvy, and well taken care of and that men should be hard, solid, and dependable.

This scares me. He's hanging around shoe shops being all charming. And makes sure he comes across as the perfect guy. With just one litttle flaw......

Well, it seems he already has got you where he wants you. I truly hope you are careful and one day be able to get out with not too much harm done. Ofcourse, that's just my opinion.

If you think you'r save with him, that's your inventory.

Wish you the best.

dJJ said:

LadyCasanova said:

He is big into fitness, he runs, rock climbs, swims, and plays a mean game of Rugby.

He is also into Philosophy (which I really like) and Classical Music.

He smiles a lot and is quick to laugh, so far I haven't seen him get mad about anything. He leads

a large group of people, and they really seem to like him, even though he is their boss.

He owns his own home, multiple cars, he loves his mom, dresses well (maybe too well).

He is well educated and witty. He says that he just believes that women are supposed to be

round, curvy, and well taken care of and that men should be hard, solid, and dependable.

This scares me. He's hanging around shoe shops being all charming. And makes sure he comes across as the perfect guy. With just one litttle flaw......

Well, it seems he already has got you where he wants you. I truly hope you are careful and one day be able to get out with not too much harm done. Ofcourse, that's just my opinion.

If you think you'r save with him, that's your inventory.

Wish you the best.

Take note Jedi, more ladies around shoe shops than at any "ladies night".

Meanwhile, this is turning into an interesting thread.

djj sees red flags going up everywhere.

He is coming across as a "perfect guy" and do we know he loves his mama or is he well aware that it is better to tell a woman that then go on about how much he hates her or his apathy for her?

Have we proof of the cars and houses?

Have we any proof that he is the boss of people that genuinely like him?

He is far from stupid. Everyone knows that when looking for a future spouse/lover you should choose someone who is close to their family. That is what all the magazines say. They tell women that if a man has issues with his parents most likely he is a troubled man psychologically and will not be a good mate.

Mr. Feeder has to know this.

How old is Mr. Feeder?

Some part of me wants Lady Casanova to stay with this guy so I can learn more about him. I find him fascinating in a spooky castle sort of way. She could end up being the queen of the castle or perhaps tied up in the basement for life.

LadyCasanova said:

Sooo, I am still talking to the guy. Its very interesting so far. I wanted to see how far he

would go with this so I text him at like 2 in the morning and told him I wanted a pepsi and some

peanuts...he showed up like 30 mins later with exactly what I asked for, plus some, then went back

home.

lovely!!

dJJ said:

LadyCasanova said:

He is big into fitness, he runs, rock climbs, swims, and plays a mean game of Rugby.

He is also into Philosophy (which I really like) and Classical Music.

He smiles a lot and is quick to laugh, so far I haven't seen him get mad about anything. He leads

a large group of people, and they really seem to like him, even though he is their boss.

He owns his own home, multiple cars, he loves his mom, dresses well (maybe too well).

He is well educated and witty. He says that he just believes that women are supposed to be

round, curvy, and well taken care of and that men should be hard, solid, and dependable.

This scares me. He's hanging around shoe shops being all charming. And makes sure he comes across as the perfect guy. With just one litttle flaw......

Well, it seems he already has got you where he wants you. I truly hope you are careful and one day be able to get out with not too much harm done. Ofcourse, that's just my opinion.

If you think you'r save with him, that's your inventory.

Wish you the best.

u make him sound like a perv!!

DoffieParker said:

LadyCasanova said:

Sooo, I am still talking to the guy. Its very interesting so far. I wanted to see how far he

would go with this so I text him at like 2 in the morning and told him I wanted a pepsi and some

peanuts...he showed up like 30 mins later with exactly what I asked for, plus some, then went back

home.

lovely!!

Is she not the funniest? Can you imagine texting a man at 2 am for peanuts and pepsi? (isn't it suppose to be peanuts and Dr Pepper because you put the nuts in the Dr Pepper?).

Deadflow3r said:

Take note Jedi, more ladies around shoe shops than at any "ladies night".

...weekend plans being changed as we speak...

This is bizarre all the way from the "meeting at a shoe store" to the "2am peanut run"...

The ultimate test... Go to a 5 star restaurant with a friend, text him that you're hungry and see if he'll buy dinner for you and your friend, meanwhile you're both acting as if he weren't even there...

If he pays for all that then there's def a dom/sub feedy thing goin' on here...

Deadflow3r said:

DoffieParker said:

lovely!!

Is she not the funniest? Can you imagine texting a man at 2 am for peanuts and pepsi? (isn't it suppose to be peanuts and Dr Pepper because you put the nuts in the Dr Pepper?).

she's funny & lucky!! every girl should own a feeder!!

RenHoek said:

This is bizarre all the way from the "meeting at a shoe store" to the "2am peanut run"...

The ultimate test... Go to a 5 star restaurant with a friend, text him that you're hungry and see if he'll buy dinner for you and your friend, meanwhile you're both acting as if he weren't even there...

If he pays for all that then there's def a dom/sub feedy thing goin' on here...

On one hand I see how and why you came up with a test like that, but my intuition keeps screaming

"Fuggidabout allll dat. "

Any dude that admits he wants to feed me to baloon me up to 350lbs just for pleasure ain't stickin' around. Why even invite the crazy into your life like that?

Ottensen said:

RenHoek said:

This is bizarre all the way from the "meeting at a shoe store" to the "2am peanut run"...

The ultimate test... Go to a 5 star restaurant with a friend, text him that you're hungry and see if he'll buy dinner for you and your friend, meanwhile you're both acting as if he weren't even there...

If he pays for all that then there's def a dom/sub feedy thing goin' on here...

On one hand I see how and why you came up with a test like that, but my intuition keeps screaming

"Fuggidabout allll dat. "

Any dude that admits he wants to feed me to baloon me up to 350lbs just for pleasure ain't stickin' around. Why even invite the crazy into your life like that?

Hey, I'm just tryin' to get the lady and her friend a free 5 star meal...

That feeder iSht is too much Ka-Razy for even me!! That's jus' plain narsty... so many levels o' wrong on that...

RenHoek said:

Ottensen said:

On one hand I see how and why you came up with a test like that, but my intuition keeps screaming

"Fuggidabout allll dat. "

Any dude that admits he wants to feed me to baloon me up to 350lbs just for pleasure ain't stickin' around. Why even invite the crazy into your life like that?

Hey, I'm just tryin' to get the lady and her friend a free 5 star meal...

That feeder iSht is too much Ka-Razy for even me!! That's jus' plain narsty... so many levels o' wrong on that...

I mean...he could come in handy for a trip or two to The Cheesecake Factory, but, day-um!

You know what I was thinking though? I know people all have their special "preferences" when it comes to getting down with others and whathaveyou...but, I actually wonder that if she continues to string him along as if she's actually interested in indulging his fetishes, but then the s*** gets too deep and she has to step out of it, how is he going to react?

How safe will it be for her to have invited this person into her world and then suddenly drop his ass cause she was never really feeling his tendencies to begin with? The thing with fetishes is that they really need to be indulged in by two fully consenting adults who know what they're getting into, becaue they carry so much psychological impact. She doesn't really know this dude to know how hot the fire is that she's playing with, so I'm thinking, alright run through the Cheesecake Factory right quick, then step the hell out of this before you get burned...or before you end up having to have the local firemen break into your house and wheel your ass out on flatbed... to be later interviewed by Dr. Phil

Ottensen said:

RenHoek said:

Hey, I'm just tryin' to get the lady and her friend a free 5 star meal...

That feeder iSht is too much Ka-Razy for even me!! That's jus' plain narsty... so many levels o' wrong on that...

I mean...he could come in handy for a trip or two to The Cheesecake Factory, but, day-um!

You know what I was thinking though? I know people all have their special "preferences" when it comes to getting down with others and whathaveyou...but, I actually wonder that if she continues to string him along as if she's actually interested in indulging his fetishes, but then the s*** gets too deep and she has to step out of it, how is he going to react?

How safe will it be for her to have invited this person into her world and then suddenly drop his ass cause she was never really feeling his tendencies to begin with? The thing with fetishes is that they really need to be indulged in by two fully consenting adults who know what they're getting into, becaue they carry so much psychological impact. She doesn't really know this dude to know how hot the fire is that she's playing with, so I'm thinking, alright run through the Cheesecake Factory right quick, then step the hell out of this before you get burned...or before you end up having to have the local firemen break into your house and wheel your ass out on flatbed... to be later interviewed by Dr. Phil

This took me to another place. I wonder if he wants her to eat while he pleasures her? I mean this could be all kinds of crazy.

I don't really know who is the Dom here because he is "serving her" but he also get uptight if she pushes food away and that is control or Dom behavior.

I have a feeling that if this guy really has a reputable job he is not a date rape kind of guy and may come clean with how into fetishes he is.

[Edited 10/12/11 7:12am]

Deadflow3r said:

Ottensen said:

I mean...he could come in handy for a trip or two to The Cheesecake Factory, but, day-um!

You know what I was thinking though? I know people all have their special "preferences" when it comes to getting down with others and whathaveyou...but, I actually wonder that if she continues to string him along as if she's actually interested in indulging his fetishes, but then the s*** gets too deep and she has to step out of it, how is he going to react?

How safe will it be for her to have invited this person into her world and then suddenly drop his ass cause she was never really feeling his tendencies to begin with? The thing with fetishes is that they really need to be indulged in by two fully consenting adults who know what they're getting into, becaue they carry so much psychological impact. She doesn't really know this dude to know how hot the fire is that she's playing with, so I'm thinking, alright run through the Cheesecake Factory right quick, then step the hell out of this before you get burned...or before you end up having to have the local firemen break into your house and wheel your ass out on flatbed... to be later interviewed by Dr. Phil

This took me to another place. I wonder if he wants her to eat while he pleasures her? I mean this could be all kinds of crazy.

I don't really know who is the Dom here because he is "serving her" but he also get uptight if she pushes food away and that is control or Dom behavior.

I have a feeling that if this guy really has a reputable job he is not a date rape kind of guy and may come clean with how into fetishes he is.

[Edited 10/12/11 7:12am]

I'm not all deep into what he wants to do to her like that, but he doesn't have to date rape her to end up being a problem for her at a later time.

He could turn out to be a stalker, imbalanced- hell, any kind of craziness that's probably not worth exploring.... Look, Ted Bundy was a good looking, well educated, and dedicated professional politically aligned with a Rockefeller. Some of his girlfriends survived and recall him fondly. Some others chicks..not quite so much.

Ottensen said:

Deadflow3r said:

This took me to another place. I wonder if he wants her to eat while he pleasures her? I mean this could be all kinds of crazy.

I don't really know who is the Dom here because he is "serving her" but he also get uptight if she pushes food away and that is control or Dom behavior.

I have a feeling that if this guy really has a reputable job he is not a date rape kind of guy and may come clean with how into fetishes he is.

[Edited 10/12/11 7:12am]

I'm not all deep into what he wants to do to her like that, but he doesn't have to date rape her to end up being a problem for her at a later time.

He could turn out to be a stalker, imbalanced- hell, any kind of craziness that's probably not worth exploring.... Look, Ted Bundy was a good looking, well educated, and dedicated professional politically aligned with a Rockefeller. Some of his girlfriends survived and recall him fondly. Some others chicks..not quite so much.

I didn't know about any girlfriends remembering Ted Bundy fondly. But it is all very weird how stalkers are. There was that premed student in Boston who I think has a long term girlfriend who killed a girl he met on Craigslist.

Maybe that is part of it. To be an outstanding citizen to some so that you are beyond reproach when the dead bodies start showing up or even lesser cases, when a woman claims you raped her. It seems to work if you have all sorts of "character witnesses">

Deadflow3r said:

Ottensen said:

I'm not all deep into what he wants to do to her like that, but he doesn't have to date rape her to end up being a problem for her at a later time.

He could turn out to be a stalker, imbalanced- hell, any kind of craziness that's probably not worth exploring.... Look, Ted Bundy was a good looking, well educated, and dedicated professional politically aligned with a Rockefeller. Some of his girlfriends survived and recall him fondly. Some others chicks..not quite so much.

I didn't know about any girlfriends remembering Ted Bundy fondly. But it is all very weird how stalkers are. There was that premed student in Boston who I think has a long term girlfriend who killed a girl he met on Craigslist.

Maybe that is part of it. To be an outstanding citizen to some so that you are beyond reproach when the dead bodies start showing up or even lesser cases, when a woman claims you raped her. It seems to work if you have all sorts of "character witnesses">

people ain't walking around with 'crazy' tatoo'd on their forehead, it's a hidden disorder. Playin' with folks 'little secrets' ain't never a good idea, but you know people get their coodles all kinds of ways.

And Ms. Flowers you are a trip and a half.

Im having a feeder relationship.........................................With myself...

Don't bother guys.

He already got her where he wants her to be.

He has convinced her that he's an extraordinary great guy (philosophy and likes his mom) and she should be happy (later he'll change that into grateful) to be with him.

She's seeing her dream come true. What a great guy! Who would have thought they exist for real?!

And he has her experimenting with him feeding her. Great fun!

From now on, every time she has a vague lust for some food, she'll just call him and he will satisfy her urge for some kind of snack.

Her body will get accostumed to that. And will demand more. She'll call him. And he will happily provide that.

And she still thinks she's the one who's in charge. Because he seems so serving.

Then she'll be so fat that she will be happy that at least he will still love her.

Job done for him.

dJJ said:

Don't bother guys.

He already got her where he wants her to be.

He has convinced her that he's an extraordinary great guy (philosophy and likes his mom) and she should be happy (later he'll change that into grateful) to be with him.

She's seeing her dream come true. What a great guy! Who would have thought they exist for real?!

And he has her experimenting with him feeding her. Great fun!

From now on, every time she has a vague lust for some food, she'll just call him and he will satisfy her urge for some kind of snack.

Her body will get accostumed to that. And will demand more. She'll call him. And he will happily provide that.

And she still thinks she's the one who's in charge. Because he seems so serving.

Then she'll be so fat that she will be happy that at least he will still love her.

Job done for him.