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Thread started 10/08/11 8:00am

HatrinaHaterwi
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When You've Fucked Up Really Bad

And you know there's nothing you can do about it.

What are you supposed to do?

I've just killed my pregnant daughter's dog. It was an accident!

I came home, feeling really good. I pulled into my long ass driveway as I normally do, cutting my headlights off after I hit the garage door opener. I didn't know the light in there was out until I heard her little ass Maltese, which I didn't even know was there...scream!

I rushed him to the Vet. Spent $500.00 for them to tell me there was nothing they could do but put him to sleep.

I am so ridiculously FUCKED, it ain't even funny! disbelief

I knew from the start that I loved you with all my heart.
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Reply #1 posted 10/08/11 8:03am

FuzzyWitch

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HatrinaHaterwitz said:

And you know there's nothing you can do about it.

What are you supposed to do?

I've just killed my pregnant daughter's dog. It was an accident!

I came home, feeling really good. I pulled into my long ass driveway as I normally do, cutting my headlights off after I hit the garage door opener. I didn't know the light in there was out until I heard her little ass Maltese, which I didn't even know was there...scream!

I rushed him to the Vet. Spent $500.00 for them to tell me there was nothing they could do but put him to sleep.

I am so ridiculously FUCKED, it ain't even funny! disbelief

oh noooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!

you just need to tell her!!!!

its aweful, but u did your best!!!! good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

rose rip lill fluffy white dog sad

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Reply #2 posted 10/08/11 8:11am

mynameisnotsus
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It was an accident! You tried to do everything you could. The sooner you tell the better but I feel bad for ya. Good luck

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Reply #3 posted 10/08/11 8:13am

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Tell her ASAP....expect the worse....then buy her a new one later,,,,,,

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Reply #4 posted 10/08/11 8:43am

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Tittypants said:

Tell her ASAP....expect the worse....then buy her a new one later,,,,,,

its going to b so hard to tell because her daughter is pregnant!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

and it will b almost impossible to keep it a secret.......

i really feel bad 4 u HatrinaHaterwitz!!!!!!!!!

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Reply #5 posted 10/08/11 10:10am

alphastreet

:*( :*( :*(

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Reply #6 posted 10/08/11 1:10pm

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Damn... I feel so bad for you hug hug

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Reply #7 posted 10/08/11 2:05pm

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I'm sure your daughter knows you would never do anything to hurt her on purpose. She'll be upset with the situation but she'll understand. And she'll probably realize how much you hurt.

rose

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Reply #8 posted 10/08/11 4:56pm

babynoz

Awww, I'm sorry to hear that. I guess all you can do is apologize. I'm sure she'll realize how bad you feel. hug

Prince, in you I found a kindred spirit...Rest In Paradise.
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Reply #9 posted 10/08/11 6:30pm

purpledoveuk

...getting straight on Prince.org would perhaps not be my first reaction :-)

Just tell the truth...you have no option except blame the dog a little bit more - offer to buy a proper dog
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Reply #10 posted 10/08/11 7:12pm

babynoz

purpledoveuk said:

...getting straight on Prince.org would perhaps not be my first reaction smile Just tell the truth...you have no option except blame the dog a little bit more - offer to buy a proper dog

I don't think she literally came straight to the org...she mentioned taking the dog to the vet, where he was eventually put down. sad

Or were you just being witty?

Prince, in you I found a kindred spirit...Rest In Paradise.
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Reply #11 posted 10/08/11 9:44pm

MarySharon

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I've fucked up really bad two years ago. I wanted to "fix" it, believe me I wanted this so bad. I did my best to express my genuine wish to fix things but it turned out to be a dialogue with the deaf.

Is there any place of refuge one can flee from this insanity
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Reply #12 posted 10/09/11 1:49am

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When i was married we had a row......eye went 2 live live my step dad while things cooled down.

Eye missed my son so much and was an emotional wreck.....My Step Dad was selling his house at the time and was having alot of veiwers.

One day a couple came round 2 veiw the house and had there son with them who was the same age as my son at the time.

Eye lost it and started 2 cry.....Eye was just a wreck couldnt help myself my heart was broken without my son.

When the couple had left my stepdad said i was immature and stupid 2 breakdown like that....He said there were plenty of fish in the sea,and soon i would have another son in no time.....if i was 2 mess around and have fun.

Eye flipped......eye attacked him we got in2 a violent fight.....he had black eyes and in the fight we wrecked his living room......

After this we never spoke again,he moved back 2 the west indies 2 live and died last week.....Why didnt i make contact???Why didnt he make contact??Eye regret that fight and losing touch with him he was a good man realy.....and now hes gone...O Dave:disbelief: disbelief : cry

[Edited 10/8/11 18:50pm]

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Reply #13 posted 10/09/11 2:28am

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davetherave6767 said:

When i was married we had a row......eye went 2 live live my step dad while things cooled down.

Eye missed my son so much and was an emotional wreck.....My Step Dad was selling his house at the time and was having alot of veiwers.

One day a couple came round 2 veiw the house and had there son with them who was the same age as my son at the time.

Eye lost it and started 2 cry.....Eye was just a wreck couldnt help myself my heart was broken without my son.

When the couple had left my stepdad said i was immature and stupid 2 breakdown like that....He said there were plenty of fish in the sea,and soon i would have another son in no time.....if i was 2 mess around and have fun.

Eye flipped......eye attacked him we got in2 a violent fight.....he had black eyes and in the fight we wrecked his living room......

After this we never spoke again,he moved back 2 the west indies 2 live and died last week.....Why didnt i make contact???Why didnt he make contact??Eye regret that fight and losing touch with him he was a good man realy.....and now hes gone...O Dave:disbelief: disbelief : cry

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hug

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Reply #14 posted 10/09/11 2:40am

FuzzyWitch

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davetherave6767 said:

When i was married we had a row......eye went 2 live live my step dad while things cooled down.

Eye missed my son so much and was an emotional wreck.....My Step Dad was selling his house at the time and was having alot of veiwers.

One day a couple came round 2 veiw the house and had there son with them who was the same age as my son at the time.

Eye lost it and started 2 cry.....Eye was just a wreck couldnt help myself my heart was broken without my son.

When the couple had left my stepdad said i was immature and stupid 2 breakdown like that....He said there were plenty of fish in the sea,and soon i would have another son in no time.....if i was 2 mess around and have fun.

Eye flipped......eye attacked him we got in2 a violent fight.....he had black eyes and in the fight we wrecked his living room......

After this we never spoke again,he moved back 2 the west indies 2 live and died last week.....Why didnt i make contact???Why didnt he make contact??Eye regret that fight and losing touch with him he was a good man realy.....and now hes gone...O Dave:disbelief: disbelief : cry

[Edited 10/8/11 18:50pm]

its sad u have this regret.... but its not 2 late to talk to others that may b waiting 2 hear from u Dave

shutting ppl out causes un-resolved pain and sorrow!!!!

comfort

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Reply #15 posted 10/09/11 2:53am

davetherave676
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FuzzyWitch said:

davetherave6767 said:

When i was married we had a row......eye went 2 live live my step dad while things cooled down.

Eye missed my son so much and was an emotional wreck.....My Step Dad was selling his house at the time and was having alot of veiwers.

One day a couple came round 2 veiw the house and had there son with them who was the same age as my son at the time.

Eye lost it and started 2 cry.....Eye was just a wreck couldnt help myself my heart was broken without my son.

When the couple had left my stepdad said i was immature and stupid 2 breakdown like that....He said there were plenty of fish in the sea,and soon i would have another son in no time.....if i was 2 mess around and have fun.

Eye flipped......eye attacked him we got in2 a violent fight.....he had black eyes and in the fight we wrecked his living room......

After this we never spoke again,he moved back 2 the west indies 2 live and died last week.....Why didnt i make contact???Why didnt he make contact??Eye regret that fight and losing touch with him he was a good man realy.....and now hes gone...O Dave:disbelief: disbelief : cry

[Edited 10/8/11 18:50pm]

its sad u have this regret.... but its not 2 late to talk to others that may b waiting 2 hear from u Dave

shutting ppl out causes un-resolved pain and sorrow!!!!

comfort

Eye no ur right fuzzywitch but thats how i am......Eye never want 2 talk 2 my x-wife again that is set in stone.....Can u remember the scene in Home Alone when the old man lost touch with his son,hadnt spoken 4 years!!!!!Then Kevin McAllister said that was stupid and got the old man 2 maake contact with his son.....That cuts me up each time eye see it......Eye can see that being me in years 2 come........disbelief

[Edited 10/8/11 19:54pm]

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Reply #16 posted 10/09/11 2:57am

FuzzyWitch

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davetherave6767 said:

FuzzyWitch said:

its sad u have this regret.... but its not 2 late to talk to others that may b waiting 2 hear from u Dave

shutting ppl out causes un-resolved pain and sorrow!!!!

comfort

Eye no ur right fuzzywitch but thats how i am......Eye never want 2 talk 2 my x-wife again that is set in stone.....Can u remember the scene in Home Alone when the old man lost touch with his son,hadnt spoken 4 years!!!!!Then Kevin McAllister said that was stupid and got the old man 2 maake contact with his son.....That cuts me up each time eye see it......Eye can see that being me in years 2 come........disbelief

[Edited 10/8/11 19:54pm]

it doesnt have 2 b Dave.... Pride is the devils tool

stop wasting time - u have someone that may need u

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Reply #17 posted 10/09/11 2:59am

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sad Oh no, hatrina...I'm so sorry.

There's nothing you can do except apologize and explain.

"Let love be your perfect weapon..." ~~Andy Biersack
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Reply #18 posted 10/09/11 3:20am

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Tell her ASAP....expect the worse....then buy her a new one later,,,,,,

yeahthat i hope you all will be ok. a rose for the puppy dog.

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Reply #19 posted 10/09/11 4:21am

kimrachell

rose rose rose hug

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Reply #20 posted 10/09/11 3:27pm

dJJ

Your daughter will be hurt, however, she knows that you didn't do it purposely. It was never your intention, she'll understand that.

99% of my posts are ironic. Maybe this post sides with the other 1%.
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Reply #21 posted 10/09/11 3:37pm

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Poor dog.

Buy her an elephant, that way at least it would be next to impossible to run over.

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Reply #22 posted 10/09/11 3:39pm

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I'm so sorry this has happened HH.

I agree that you should tell your daughter right away and, while she will be sad, she will understand.

:f: R.I.P. Little dog.
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Reply #23 posted 10/11/11 10:02pm

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grouphug Thanks for all the kindness, everybody.

Through lots of tears, I told her what happened and she's knows it was accident. She's not faulting me and that means alot.

We laid little Maxx to rest on Sunday. My hubby and I are getting my daughter another Maltese this weekend. I tried talking her into a Great Dane or St. Bernard but she wouldn't got for it. disbelief

lol

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Reply #24 posted 10/11/11 10:03pm

dJJ

Thank you for your update.

I'm happy everything went well.

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Reply #25 posted 10/11/11 10:06pm

nursev

Sorry to hear this...glad things are better now.
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Reply #26 posted 10/11/11 10:09pm

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HatrinaHaterwitz said:

And you know there's nothing you can do about it.

What are you supposed to do?

I've just killed my pregnant daughter's dog. It was an accident!

I came home, feeling really good. I pulled into my long ass driveway as I normally do, cutting my headlights off after I hit the garage door opener. I didn't know the light in there was out until I heard her little ass Maltese, which I didn't even know was there...scream!

I rushed him to the Vet. Spent $500.00 for them to tell me there was nothing they could do but put him to sleep.

I am so ridiculously FUCKED, it ain't even funny! disbelief

sad

hug

I'm so sorry you're going through this!

You're such a good mom; you did everything you could.

It's what you make it.
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Reply #27 posted 10/11/11 10:10pm

morningsong

wow, I missed this, but I feel you, glad things worked okay with your daughter even though it's sad.

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Reply #28 posted 10/11/11 10:10pm

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It's what you make it.
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Reply #29 posted 10/12/11 10:37pm

blueblossom

wow ................ shit happens

and that one is a big load of doo doo!confused

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