thank u for sharing that Zombie

but i honestly dont remember

wait

maybe i have not had one yet!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Is it possible to lose virginity without reaching an orgazzm???

that's the difference between men and women I gues... :dizzy:

JoeTyler said:

JoeTyler said:

Is it possible to lose virginity without reaching an orgazzm???

that's the difference between men and women I gues... :dizzy:

Well couldn't a gay man (bottom) possibly lose his virginity while not reaching an orgasm?

ZombieKitten said:

That's a depressing thought FW

i was only kidding

i have had multiple and even more .... i just cant remember the first time

ZombieKitten said:

JoeTyler said:

Is it possible to lose virginity without reaching an orgazzm???

that's the difference between men and women I gues... :dizzy:

what? Society tends to define a woman's virginity taken when she is penetrated for the first time, traditionally by a penis Orgasm isn't always achieved that way sometimes (as is my case) NEVER.

I tihnk it's kind of silly that society generally defines it that way while treating virginity as some sort of symbol of purity and innocence.

If a woman I am with tells me she saved her virginity for me, in the process, letting 50 dudes blow loads in her mouth while DPing her asshole, I'm not gonna be like "Oh thanks, honey! I am so lucky to have someone so chaste and untainted." That doesn't mean I could not love said woman or anything like that. Just that I would hardly consider her a virgin for simply maintaining an unbreached hymen.

FauxReal said:

ZombieKitten said:

Who gave it to you? Was it DIY? Where were you? What tools were employed? (ie. Fingers, tongue, dick, cushion, electric toothbrush ) Me I was about 16 (2 years before I lost my virginity), home alone, was teaching myself to read Swedish from a book of saucy stories and I had a piano tuning tool in my lap that I ended up rubbing against myself faster and faster without really knowing why until my face went all hot and I started twitching of course after that I was always at it as soon as I had some alone time

ZombieKitten said:

Who gave it to you? Was it DIY? Where were you? What tools were employed? (ie. Fingers, tongue, dick, cushion, electric toothbrush ) Me I was about 16 (2 years before I lost my virginity), home alone, was teaching myself to read Swedish from a book of saucy stories and I had a piano tuning tool in my lap that I ended up rubbing against myself faster and faster without really knowing why until my face went all hot and I started twitching of course after that I was always at it as soon as I had some alone time

Wow...

this makes the memories of sharing that pizza so long ago so much more interesting even though the one has absolutely nothing to do with the other...

Remember it very vividly! I was so shocked, surprised and overwhelmed. It was the first and best orgasm in my life.

Oral by an older man when I was 20. Had experiences that I thought of it were orgasms. Untill he started to play with me

Unfortunately it was a one-night stand.

Since I moved around a lot all my life I can tell what age I was by what city I was living in at the time. So I would have been 10 or 11. It was DIY and it was with the help of a pillow...I can't remember how it all led up to it though.

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dJJ said:

Remember it very vividly! I was so shocked, surprised and overwhelmed. It was the first and best orgasm in my life.

Oral by an older man when I was 20. Had experiences that I thought of it were orgasms. Untill he started to play with me

Unfortunately it was a one-night stand.

when you have one you KNOW you don't THINK

RenHoek said:

ZombieKitten said:

Who gave it to you? Was it DIY? Where were you? What tools were employed? (ie. Fingers, tongue, dick, cushion, electric toothbrush ) Me I was about 16 (2 years before I lost my virginity), home alone, was teaching myself to read Swedish from a book of saucy stories and I had a piano tuning tool in my lap that I ended up rubbing against myself faster and faster without really knowing why until my face went all hot and I started twitching of course after that I was always at it as soon as I had some alone time

Wow...

this makes the memories of sharing that pizza so long ago so much more interesting even though the one has absolutely nothing to do with the other...

FauxReal said:

ZombieKitten said:

JoeTyler said: what? Society tends to define a woman's virginity taken when she is penetrated for the first time, traditionally by a penis Orgasm isn't always achieved that way sometimes (as is my case) NEVER.

I tihnk it's kind of silly that society generally defines it that way while treating virginity as some sort of symbol of purity and innocence.

If a woman I am with tells me she saved her virginity for me, in the process, letting 50 dudes blow loads in her mouth while DPing her asshole, I'm not gonna be like "Oh thanks, honey! I am so lucky to have someone so chaste and untainted." That doesn't mean I could not love said woman or anything like that. Just that I would hardly consider her a virgin for simply maintaining an unbreached hymen.

I'm sure if you asked a lot of young women, the conversation would go like this:

"Are you a virgin?"

As in "pure as falling snow and white lillies?"

Or...um... ...well... ....technically I am.

728huey said:

FauxReal said:

I tihnk it's kind of silly that society generally defines it that way while treating virginity as some sort of symbol of purity and innocence.

If a woman I am with tells me she saved her virginity for me, in the process, letting 50 dudes blow loads in her mouth while DPing her asshole, I'm not gonna be like "Oh thanks, honey! I am so lucky to have someone so chaste and untainted." That doesn't mean I could not love said woman or anything like that. Just that I would hardly consider her a virgin for simply maintaining an unbreached hymen.

I'm sure if you asked a lot of young women, the conversation would go like this:

"Are you a virgin?"

As in "pure as falling snow and white lillies?"

Or...um... ...well... ....technically I am.

no, I don't think being a virgin when all your peers AREN'T is that cool

well, I guess that depends on where you are from, if you are expected to remain a virgin until marriage then yes that would be her answer.

ZombieKitten said:

728huey said:

I'm sure if you asked a lot of young women, the conversation would go like this:

"Are you a virgin?"

As in "pure as falling snow and white lillies?"

Or...um... ...well... ....technically I am.

no, I don't think being a virgin when all your peers AREN'T is that cool

well, I guess that depends on where you are from, if you are expected to remain a virgin until marriage then yes that would be her answer.

Well, I think it depends on why you are maintaining your virginity. If you are keeping yourself chaste because you have a lot going in your life with activities and waiting for a quality person to give yourself physically to, then I see no problem with that. What I don't like about how virginity is treated, especially here in the USA, is that it's some sacred act that is incredibly virtuous in itself. The other thing that bugs me is the hypocrisy in how young women and men are looked at with regards to virginity. If a woman is still a virgin, a lot of people see her as wholesome and virtuous, even if she is practically bursting at the seams to get some guy's dick thrusting inside her as quickly as possible. Meanwhile, if a guy her age is still a virgin, he is looked at as a religious freak or loser who can't get laid if his life depended on it.

728huey said:

ZombieKitten said:

no, I don't think being a virgin when all your peers AREN'T is that cool

well, I guess that depends on where you are from, if you are expected to remain a virgin until marriage then yes that would be her answer.

Well, I think it depends on why you are maintaining your virginity. If you are keeping yourself chaste because you have a lot going in your life with activities and waiting for a quality person to give yourself physically to, then I see no problem with that. What I don't like about how virginity is treated, especially here in the USA, is that it's some sacred act that is incredibly virtuous in itself. The other thing that bugs me is the hypocrisy in how young women and men are looked at with regards to virginity. If a woman is still a virgin, a lot of people see her as wholesome and virtuous, even if she is practically bursting at the seams to get some guy's dick thrusting inside her as quickly as possible. Meanwhile, if a guy her age is still a virgin, he is looked at as a religious freak or loser who can't get laid if his life depended on it.

you say that as if it was a bad thing

My first?

I think I had a few close calls before it, but the VERY first time, that I knew without any doubt that I had achieved orgasm was when I was 14?

I was on the phone with my boyfriend and he was getting off. He started saying all kinds of filthy things he would never normally say to me, except he was drunk. I ended up grinding against a

hard pillow until I came. Super hot.

I was 19. (I'm 19 now.)

I seem to recall hearing that a lot of horseriders experience their first "in the saddle"

Well I had a screaming orgasm at 21,

a friend of mine gave it to me, I told them to surprise me and thats what I got,

really good drink might I add,

I dug it ever since... this is not a joke lol. The drink is good!

LadyCasanova said:

My first?

I think I had a few close calls before it, but the VERY first time, that I knew without any doubt that I had achieved orgasm was when I was 14?

I was on the phone with my boyfriend and he was getting off. He started saying all kinds of filthy things he would never normally say to me, except he was drunk. I ended up grinding against a

hard pillow until I came. Super hot.

that's HOT

IamFunkay7 said:

Well I had a screaming orgasm at 21,

a friend of mine gave it to me, I told them to surprise me and thats what I got,

really good drink might I add,

I dug it ever since... this is not a joke lol. The drink is good!

13.

My friend showed me how to masturbate using the bathtub faucet. It was my first vibrator.

I distinctly remember coming out of the bathtub after that first time, wearing my bathrobe, and flopping dreamily into a chair in the living room. I must have looked so happy, relaxed, satisfied, something, because my mom looked at me and said, "What the hell is with you??"

I was around 9 or so. I was messing around with a neighbor in the pool and I got, what I thought, was a cramp that felt soooooo good. I couldn't skeet at the time and my parents never talked to me about sex so I didn't know what was going on.

Oooops. Just realized I'm not a lady!

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ZombieKitten said:

Who gave it to you? Was it DIY? Where were you? What tools were employed? (ie. Fingers, tongue, dick, cushion, electric toothbrush ) Me I was about 16 (2 years before I lost my virginity), home alone, was teaching myself to read Swedish from a book of saucy stories and I had a piano tuning tool in my lap that I ended up rubbing against myself faster and faster without really knowing why until my face went all hot and I started twitching of course after that I was always at it as soon as I had some alone time

Orgasm is always the first addiction.

JustErin said:

Since I moved around a lot all my life I can tell what age I was by what city I was living in at the time. So I would have been 10 or 11. It was DIY and it was with the help of a pillow...I can't remember how it all led up to it though.

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Who made the first move? You or the pillow?