missfee said:

Militant said:

I sent her a one line email. No reply. Wasn't expecting one, so... I think this was the best thing.

Well then thats it and you can move on.

He did his part. Finito.

Militant said:

I sent her a one line email. No reply. Wasn't expecting one, so... I think this was the best thing.

Shame on the shadyness . At least you tried & that's always best .

Giselle said:

Militant said:

I sent her a one line email. No reply. Wasn't expecting one, so... I think this was the best thing.

Shame on the shadyness . At least you tried & that's always best .

Exactly. He can walk away with absolutely no regrets.

If I were you, I would send a really sterile card with a written message, wishing her well in life, but implying that you'd no longer be in contact with her.

Good, clean, not overly emotional way of being polite and cutting ties. After that, just never speak to her again!

......Oops, should have read the whole thread

What you did sounds good too. Forget her. She sounds awful (with all due respect to you)

Militant said:

I sent her a one line email. No reply. Wasn't expecting one, so... I think this was the best thing.

I think so too. You have wished her well and you can feel okay about that.

Sometimes a rant or fight is needed for people to be able to distance themselves and move on. It can be easier to create drama and leave it like that, than leaving eachother with no contact, while you still feel good about eachother. It's just a way some people need to be able to deal with the pain that comes with the separation.

Maybe it's a good thing that it happened, and she needed it to really leave you. Maybe she just couldn't do it in a different way, because it's all too painful.

forgive me, I didn't read through the responses....

but yo, stop talking to her. today. best advice you'll ever get, I promise you. Don't talk to her anymore.

Militant said:

I sent her a one line email. No reply. Wasn't expecting one, so... I think this was the best thing.

Yeah, the best you could do. Regardless of any emotions on every side.

It is not wrong to be polite and friendly. Even if she throw the message away, she will remember it and maybe one day she will be able to talk to you again. Same would be if you would meet her on the street, you should say hello! Even if she ignores this.

However don't worry, sometimes women are really hard to understand.

All the best.

Militant said:

I sent her a one line email. No reply. Wasn't expecting one, so... I think this was the best thing.

so do u think she will do the same 4 u???

and if not how will it affect u???

and if u dont mind me asking when was the last time u 2 had a decent conversation???

i have totally shut out my X from my life, its the only way i can function without getting emotional, and its helping me get over things that still hurt.

i even find it hard to hear his voice when he is on the phone 2 the kids

he makes me feel so claustrophobic i hate it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

PunkMistress said:

PurpleJedi said:

Are you kidding me?

Ignore it.

If memory serves me right...SHE left YOU, right?

Then she throws a titty-fit when you're trying to console her (which mad props to you for even being able to try to do the 'friend' thing)...and cusses you out?

Unless you're trying to leave the door open for future reconciliation, don't even post on FB.

In fact, if you decide that you really want to move on, de-friend and block her on FB.

But if you want to leave that door open, then send a card. Not love-y/dove-y or anything, just warm.

Least that's what I'd do (and I can't be impartial lol).

Every word of this.

Nothing good will come of you trying to be friends with her.

And FUCK her damn birthday. She's not five years old for Christ's sweet sake.

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FuzzyWitch said:

Militant said:

I sent her a one line email. No reply. Wasn't expecting one, so... I think this was the best thing.

so do u think she will do the same 4 u???

and if not how will it affect u???

and if u dont mind me asking when was the last time u 2 had a decent conversation???

Yeah, I'm pretty sure she would actually. Reason being, she always sent all of her exes an email or FB message on their birthdays.

Decent conversation, probably a few weeks ago. Just before the incident.

emails are so fleeting, why didnt you send her something though the mail???

myfavorite said:

emails are so fleeting, why didnt you send her something though the mail???

Because she didn't deserve it.

he still seems to like her tho....what if she gets her shyt together and he finds her irrisitible again