PurpleJedi said:

thekidsgirl said:

I think men have it easier because there are more do-able women than there are men in the world.

Sure a woman could walk out the door and get laid, but would it be by a man she really wanted?

I agree that there are more beautiful women out there, but you just proved my point...we guys have to WORK at getting your attention while (for the most part) you're sitting back picking & choosing.

I realize that I'm stating a generalization but that's I think the rule not the exception (I've know guys who have numbers thrown at them by women, the lucky bastards, but they're the exception).

Tremolina said:

thekidsgirl said:

there are more do-able women than there are men in the world.

I concur

in my 40 years on this earth I've only met about 10 men worth me even thinking about it

(you included )

ZombieKitten said:

PurpleJedi said:

I agree that there are more beautiful women out there, but you just proved my point...we guys have to WORK at getting your attention while (for the most part) you're sitting back picking & choosing.

I realize that I'm stating a generalization but that's I think the rule not the exception (I've know guys who have numbers thrown at them by women, the lucky bastards, but they're the exception).

Oh pleeeeeeease.

Like you're not sitting back picking & choosing what Orger you're gonna have on standby in case things with the Master go sour.

PurpleJedi said:

ZombieKitten said:

Oh pleeeeeeease.

Like you're not sitting back picking & choosing what Orger you're gonna have on standby in case things with the Master go sour.

how do you like your chances?

Guys are expected to approach the women (in most parts of the world). So at least you can sort of choose which people to approach. It's an entirely different thing what your own success rate happens to be, but at least we're not just supposed to pick the most suitable one that has just happened to come talk to us. When I think about it from that perspective it actually seems quite disturbing to me. That's a bit like going to a supermarket and being allowed to choose only from a handful of items what to eat.

I think many attractive women have really weird ideas of what men are like and how men generally behave. That might be because the vast majority of men that approach them tend to have bloated egos or are just slimebags in overall. These seems to be the case especially if these women do not meet many men in work (for example, if they work in a clothes store that sells clothes only for women). If the only place where they meet men are bars, well, that's going to give a you pretty distorted perspective on it.

novabrkr said:

Guys are expected to approach the women (in most parts of the world). So at least you can sort of choose which people to approach. It's an entirely different thing what your own success rate happens to be, but at least we're not just supposed to pick the most suitable one that has just happened to come talk to us. When I think about it from that perspective it actually seems quite disturbing to me. That's a bit like going to a supermarket and being allowed to choose only from a handful of items what to eat.

I think many attractive women have really weird ideas of what men are like and how men generally behave. That might be because the vast majority of men that approach them tend to have bloated egos or are just slimebags in overall. These seems to be the case especially if these women do not meet many men in work (for example, if they work in a clothes store that sells clothes only for women). If the only place where they meet men are bars, well, that's going to give a you pretty distorted perspective on it.

I'm sure things will change with time, I mean humans have only been "hooking up" like this for the last decade or 2, it was "dating" before that, "courting" before that and arranged marriages before that.

Traditions need time to be challenged

So yeah, if the norm for a woman is to wait to be approached, her options are VERY VERY slim.

However, to be honest, from my perspective on it is that I usually don't notice a man until I know he is attracted to me. Disturbing maybe. I've NEVER thought to approach a random guy, I've not ever even WANTED to. So, a guy that comes over and talks to me has a fighting chance. Showing his interest has already earned him part of the way into my knickers

ZombieKitten said:

PurpleJedi said:

Oh pleeeeeeease.

Like you're not sitting back picking & choosing what Orger you're gonna have on standby in case things with the Master go sour.

how do you like your chances?

Judging by your posts and your growing admirers...I gotta raise the bar and up my game so I can beat the competition!

This thread is about hookup opportunities for women--not about relationships or quality men available. If women had low or no standards (like many men) they could get laid any time they wanted.

sextonseven said:

This thread is about hookup opportunities for women--not about relationships or quality men available. If women had low or no standards (like many men) they could get laid any time they wanted.

sextonseven said:

davetherave6767 said:

Men have it easy..............or at least Davetherave does.....This is how eye roll...."Hello..Fancy a drink and a shag?"..No ok.........."Hello ...Fancy a drink and a shag?".....No ok......."Hello....Fancy a drink and a shag?"..................Eye can do that all nite baby!!!!!.............If eye dont have any luck eye go home and spank the .....Its all good....And sometimes it works:evillol: ....Silly women..

[Edited 10/3/11 14:21pm]

ZombieKitten said:

thekidsgirl said:

I think men have it easier because there are more do-able women than there are men in the world.

Sure a woman could walk out the door and get laid, but would it be by a man she really wanted?

50%* of women don't LIKE sex and don't want to get laid, that surely decreases the opportunities for men one would think

*pure speculation

But I agree with you Stacey, women could laid any minute of the day but why would she even want that? It's not the meeting of 2 random bodies women seek He has to be WORTH it

ZombieKitten said:

Tremolina said:

I concur

in my 40 years on this earth I've only met about 10 men worth me even thinking about it

(you included )

That's such a nice thing of you to say! (but why didn't you tell me that when you were in Amsterdam? )

Tremolina said:

ZombieKitten said:

Tremolina said:

That's such a nice thing of you to say! (but why didn't you tell me that when you were in Amsterdam? )

Because I'm very shy and need to work on my sluttiness

...what you MEANT to say was; "Because I'm shy and saving myself for PJ."

It depends on who and and what kind of person you want to hook up with. If you're willing to bed any old slag and scrub then men and women have it equally easy. If you have taste and standards then I'd say women have it easier although slightly and that's just because men are apt to take something that's offered to them whereas women want to think it through.

Basically, you're both right and both wrong.

PurpleJedi said:

ZombieKitten said:

Tremolina said: Because I'm very shy and need to work on my sluttiness

...what you MEANT to say was; "Because I'm shy and saving myself for PJ."

Nah man, she's saying she wanted to be my slut, but that marriage made her shy.

ZombieKitten said:

I need to work on my sluttiness

I'll teach you

Come here...

to Amsterdam

Tremolina said:

ZombieKitten said:

Tremolina said:

Nah man, she's saying she wanted to be my slut, but that marriage made her shy.

You told me you had a girlfriend, so I restrained myself because of that too

I did?

Tremolina said:

Women have it way easier because even the most unattractive woman can still get laid with next to no effort. Yet unattractive men have to work very hard to get noticed at all.

ZombieKitten said:

Tremolina said:

I did?

Yes! and that is a very clear hint that you aren't available

But that doesn't mean you can't make me such nice compliments, does it?

Tremolina said:

ZombieKitten said:

Tremolina said: Yes! and that is a very clear hint that you aren't available

But that doesn't mean you can't make me such nice compliments, does it?

exactly compliments are just that

HonestMan13 said:

Women have it way easier because even the most unattractive woman can still get laid with next to no effort. Yet unattractive men have to work very hard to get noticed at all.

R u refering 2 the "paper bag" method?...

sunflower7 said:

HonestMan13 said:

Women have it way easier because even the most unattractive woman can still get laid with next to no effort. Yet unattractive men have to work very hard to get noticed at all.

R u refering 2 the "paper bag" method?...