JerseyKRS said:

thekidsgirl said:

Well if you drove pass a bus stop in one of the bad areas around here and happened to have a few loose cigarettes on you, you would have to fight away the ladies with a stick

omg, that's so gross! around where is this? it's so sad that some ladies are that bad. where exactly is this again? is it at an intersection? do you know the names of the intersecting streets? man, that's terrible. which bus stop exactly?

Put away the credit card man...it's cash-only...

JerseyKRS said:

thekidsgirl said:

there are more do-able women than there are men in the world.

I concur

I would say Women have it waaaaayy easier the Men do. Your friend may be shy & timid which is why she may not get guys as much as maybe she wants to. But to say Men have it easier is hilarious imho. It's only easy for men get women when they're famous, super rich, or both. Other than that, Women have all of the power.

JerseyKRS said:

thekidsgirl said:

Well if you drove pass a bus stop in one of the bad areas around here and happened to have a few loose cigarettes on you, you would have to fight away the ladies with a stick

omg, that's so gross! around where is this? it's so sad that some ladies are that bad. where exactly is this again? is it at an intersection? do you know the names of the intersecting streets? man, that's terrible. which bus stop exactly?

PurpleJedi said:

thekidsgirl said:

I think men have it easier because there are more do-able women than there are men in the world.

Sure a woman could walk out the door and get laid, but would it be by a man she really wanted?

I agree that there are more beautiful women out there, but you just proved my point...we guys have to WORK at getting your attention while (for the most part) you're sitting back picking & choosing.

I realize that I'm stating a generalization but that's I think the rule not the exception (I've know guys who have numbers thrown at them by women, the lucky bastards, but they're the exception).

I don't have numbers thrown at me, but I don't see it as "work" either. However, WHEN it works, it works I mean.

Tittypants said:

I would say Women have it waaaaayy easier the Men do. Your friend may be shy & timid which is why she may not get guys as much as maybe she wants to. But to say Men have it easier is hilarious imho. It's only easy for men get women when they're famous, super rich, or both. Other than that, Women have all of the power.

If you always think like that, it becomes your reality.

PurpleJedi said:

thekidsgirl said:

I think men have it easier because there are more do-able women than there are men in the world.

Sure a woman could walk out the door and get laid, but would it be by a man she really wanted?

I agree that there are more beautiful women out there, but you just proved my point...we guys have to WORK at getting your attention while (for the most part) you're sitting back picking & choosing.

I realize that I'm stating a generalization but that's I think the rule not the exception (I've know guys who have numbers thrown at them by women, the lucky bastards, but they're the exception).

Ah, but you’re talking about hooking up. JustErin hit the nail on the head - it’s easy to find a man for a hook-up, not so easy to find one for a relationship. Most women are looking for a relationship, not just a hook-up.

So if we continue to talk in generalities, knowing that everyone’s individual experience may differ, it’s easy for women to find a hook-up without lowering their standards, but more difficult to find a good man for a long-term partnership. Men looking for relationships and marriage will have a larger pool than those just looking for a hook-up.

Tremolina said:

Tittypants said:

I would say Women have it waaaaayy easier the Men do. Your friend may be shy & timid which is why she may not get guys as much as maybe she wants to. But to say Men have it easier is hilarious imho. It's only easy for men get women when they're famous, super rich, or both. Other than that, Women have all of the power.

If you always think like that, it becomes your reality.

Uh, I have no problem getting women. But I would be lying if I told you it was easy. I have to throw on the charm with my approach. Some Women approach me too, which I find hit & miss [because sometimes, I'm not attracted to them]. I've rarely had a Women I was really diggin' make it easy for me though.....

JustErin said:

Your friend is on crack.

Women have it a million times easier. Any woman can get laid at any time.

...now holding onto a man, that's a different story.

yes, exactly

However, if women are not doing the initiating, then they are limited to whoever asks them out. So choosing who you hit on is the one potential advantage men have in this situation.

thekidsgirl said:

sextonseven said:

Paying for it (with cash) doesn't count.

Well if you drove pass a bus stop in one of the bad areas around here and happened to have a few loose cigarettes on you, you would have to fight away the ladies with a stick

And they don't call them easy for nothing.

Tittypants said:

Tremolina said:

If you always think like that, it becomes your reality.

Uh, I have no problem getting women. But I would be lying if I told you it was easy. I have to throw on the charm with my approach. Some Women approach me too, which I find hit & miss [because sometimes, I'm not attracted to them]. I've rarely had a Women I was really diggin' make it easy for me though.....

I didn't say you had. Notice the if. I was just trying to convey the idea that how you think becomes reality

Tremolina said:

Tittypants said:

Uh, I have no problem getting women. But I would be lying if I told you it was easy. I have to throw on the charm with my approach. Some Women approach me too, which I find hit & miss [because sometimes, I'm not attracted to them]. I've rarely had a Women I was really diggin' make it easy for me though.....

I didn't say you had. Notice the if. I was just trying to convey the idea that how you think becomes reality

I wasn't trying to argue with you or anything, I just took it the wrong way, my apologies. But you are right when you put that way for anyone with that issue

CarrieMpls said:

Men looking for relationships and marriage will have a larger pool than those just looking for a hook-up.

Right. Thing tho' is many men aren't. Or many women are. Depending on how you want to look at it.

Tittypants said:

Tremolina said:

I didn't say you had. Notice the if. I was just trying to convey the idea that how you think becomes reality

I wasn't trying to argue with you or anything, I just took it the wrong way, my apologies. But you are right when you put that way for anyone with that issue

It's okay

NDRU said:

if women are not doing the initiating, then they are limited to whoever asks them out.

Good point

CarrieMpls said:

PurpleJedi said:

I agree that there are more beautiful women out there, but you just proved my point...we guys have to WORK at getting your attention while (for the most part) you're sitting back picking & choosing.

I realize that I'm stating a generalization but that's I think the rule not the exception (I've know guys who have numbers thrown at them by women, the lucky bastards, but they're the exception).

Ah, but you’re talking about hooking up. JustErin hit the nail on the head - it’s easy to find a man for a hook-up, not so easy to find one for a relationship. Most women are looking for a relationship, not just a hook-up.

So if we continue to talk in generalities, knowing that everyone’s individual experience may differ, it’s easy for women to find a hook-up without lowering their standards, but more difficult to find a good man for a long-term partnership. Men looking for relationships and marriage will have a larger pool than those just looking for a hook-up.

..... we still have 2 compete against each other...

If she could get a man....

any woman could.

Women have it easier.

nah

I've reached a point in my life where I've just discovered that straight female/male relationships can only be divided in two categories:

a) affinity

b) lack of affinity

forget all the assumptions, generalizations, studies, magazines, etc. in the end, a straight couple will get along since the very beginning (that means sexual attraction and good conversation since minute 0:01), or they won't...

paintedlady said:

If she could get a man....

any woman could.

Women have it easier.

JoeTyler said:

nah

I've reached a point in my life where I've just discovered that straight female/male relationships can only be divided in two categories:

a) affinity

b) lack of affinity

forget all the assumptions, generalizations, studies, magazines, etc. in the end, a straight couple will get along since the very beginning (that means sexual attraction and good conversation since minute 0:01), or they won't...

Joe man...we're talking about hookups here.

As in walking into a bar and walking out with someone under your arm.

The long-term stuff is for another thread...

PurpleJedi said:

paintedlady said:

If she could get a man....

*fly.girl pic*

any woman could.

Women have it easier.

and yeah.... she has a husband... AND had kids.... someone married that!

You men are nasty!

paintedlady said:

PurpleJedi said:

and yeah.... she has a husband... AND had kids.... someone married that!

You men are nasty!

Hey...if she gives good head...

PurpleJedi said:

paintedlady said:

and yeah.... she has a husband... AND had kids.... someone married that!

You men are nasty!

Hey...if she gives good head...

!!!

Men have it easy..............or at least Davetherave does.....This is how eye roll...."Hello..Fancy a drink and a shag?"..No ok.........."Hello ...Fancy a drink and a shag?".....No ok......."Hello....Fancy a drink and a shag?"..................Eye can do that all nite baby!!!!!.............If eye dont have any luck eye go home and spank the .....Its all good....And sometimes it works:evillol: ....Silly women..

[Edited 10/3/11 14:21pm]

davetherave6767 said:

Men have it easy..............or at least Davetherave does.....This is how eye roll...."Hello..Fancy a drink and a shag?"..No ok.........."Hello ...Fancy a drink and a shag?".....No ok......."Hello....Fancy a drink and a shag?"..................Eye can do that all nite baby!!!!!.............If eye dont have any luck eye go home and spank the .....Its all good....And sometimes it works:evillol: ....Silly women..

...and honestly Dave...have flies swarming around the cootchie ever been a turn-off?

PurpleJedi said:

davetherave6767 said:

Men have it easy..............or at least Davetherave does.....This is how eye roll...."Hello..Fancy a drink and a shag?"..No ok.........."Hello ...Fancy a drink and a shag?".....No ok......."Hello....Fancy a drink and a shag?"..................Eye can do that all nite baby!!!!!.............If eye dont have any luck eye go home and spank the .....Its all good....And sometimes it works:evillol: ....Silly women..

...and honestly Dave...have flies swarming around the cootchie ever been a turn-off?

I`ll share her cootchie with afew bluebottles thats cool....

JerseyKRS said:

thekidsgirl said:

Well if you drove pass a bus stop in one of the bad areas around here and happened to have a few loose cigarettes on you, you would have to fight away the ladies with a stick

omg, that's so gross! around where is this? it's so sad that some ladies are that bad. where exactly is this again? is it at an intersection? do you know the names of the intersecting streets? man, that's terrible. which bus stop exactly?

See, next time you and the mistress are touring the east coast, you will have to drive through B-more and visit the hoes!

......And see an O's game.....

.

[Edited 10/3/11 14:34pm]

CarrieMpls said:

PurpleJedi said:

I agree that there are more beautiful women out there, but you just proved my point...we guys have to WORK at getting your attention while (for the most part) you're sitting back picking & choosing.

I realize that I'm stating a generalization but that's I think the rule not the exception (I've know guys who have numbers thrown at them by women, the lucky bastards, but they're the exception).

Ah, but you’re talking about hooking up. JustErin hit the nail on the head - it’s easy to find a man for a hook-up, not so easy to find one for a relationship. Most women are looking for a relationship, not just a hook-up.

So if we continue to talk in generalities, knowing that everyone’s individual experience may differ, it’s easy for women to find a hook-up without lowering their standards, but more difficult to find a good man for a long-term partnership. Men looking for relationships and marriage will have a larger pool than those just looking for a hook-up.

yes, yes, and yes.

thekidsgirl said:

I think men have it easier because there are more do-able women than there are men in the world.

Sure a woman could walk out the door and get laid, but would it be by a man she really wanted?

50%* of women don't LIKE sex and don't want to get laid, that surely decreases the opportunities for men one would think

*pure speculation

But I agree with you Stacey, women could laid any minute of the day but why would she even want that? It's not the meeting of 2 random bodies women seek He has to be WORTH it