JustErin said:

I had just turned 19.

I dunno what's too old but I think most should wait until they can fully understand the consequences of their actions.

I bet you went through a lot of pillows by time you reached the age of 19.

PurpleJedi said:

sextonseven said:

Not a typo. Lack of confidence combined with overly romanticized ideas about sex led to many years wasted.

Your friend said men have it easier when it comes to hooking up with the opposite sex? I am proof that is a total fantasy.

sextonseven said:

PurpleJedi said:

Your friend said men have it easier when it comes to hooking up with the opposite sex? I am proof that is a total fantasy.

As if it was a lack of offers that you didn't loose your virginity at a younger age . And I am very sure that's pretty much never the reason why a woman is still a virgin. For me it sure was not.

I was 23 when I lost mine, which I guess is old among most of the people I know, but I don't care.

Serious said:

sextonseven said:

Your friend said men have it easier when it comes to hooking up with the opposite sex? I am proof that is a total fantasy.

As if it was a lack of offers that you didn't loose your virginity at a younger age . And I am very sure that's pretty much never the reason why a woman is still a virgin. For me it sure was not.

After being rejected a few times, I decided to wait until a woman 'offered' to date me--which you know doesn't happen that often.

sextonseven said:

Serious said:

As if it was a lack of offers that you didn't loose your virginity at a younger age . And I am very sure that's pretty much never the reason why a woman is still a virgin. For me it sure was not.

After being rejected a few times, I decided to wait until a woman 'offered' to date me--which you know doesn't happen that often.

Well it has 2 sides. I sometimes wonder if I might have lost my virginity earlier if I would not have had offers for dates all the time. It made me think after having turned down some great men the one who would finally get it needs to be better than all the ones I had turned down .

Serious said:

Tokyo89 said:

18 I wish I was still a virgin.. I love sex and all, but the cons totally out weigh the pros

How so? What was better about being a virgin?

Confusing lust with love and ending up with a broken heart..

STD's

Pregnancy

And if you're religious (like me) it's a constant conflict within

Tokyo89 said:

Serious said:

How so? What was better about being a virgin?

Confusing lust with love and ending up with a broken heart..

STD's

Pregnancy

And if you're religious (like me) it's a constant conflict within

You can protect yourself quite well from STD's and pregnancy. And not having sex does not protect you from being broken hearted. If it was that easy I would still be a virgin .

Serious said:

Tokyo89 said:

Confusing lust with love and ending up with a broken heart..

STD's

Pregnancy

And if you're religious (like me) it's a constant conflict within

You can protect yourself quite well from STD's and pregnancy. And not having sex does not protect you from being broken hearted. If it was that easy I would still be a virgin .

not if ya don't like condoms

Tokyo89 said:

Serious said:

You can protect yourself quite well from STD's and pregnancy. And not having sex does not protect you from being broken hearted. If it was that easy I would still be a virgin .

not if ya don't like condoms

I hate condoms myself, but for those very reasons I need to use them .

Serious said:

Tokyo89 said:

not if ya don't like condoms

I hate condoms myself, but for those very reasons I need to use them .

I'm 22 now..for the last 4 years I did some pretty terrible things. If I could go back I would hold onto my virginity like grim death

17. I think.

Tokyo89 said:

Serious said:

I hate condoms myself, but for those very reasons I need to use them .

I'm 22 now..for the last 4 years I did some pretty terrible things. If I could go back I would hold onto my virginity like grim death

Sorry to hear that . But that sounds more like the wrong choice in men and that can happen at any age and after having lost your virginity for a long time.

Serious said:

Tokyo89 said:

I'm 22 now..for the last 4 years I did some pretty terrible things. If I could go back I would hold onto my virginity like grim death

Sorry to hear that . But that sounds more like the wrong choice in men and that can happen at any age and after having lost your virginity for a long time.

[Edited 10/3/11 10:17am]

Tokyo89 said:

Serious said:

Sorry to hear that . But that sounds more like the wrong choice in men and that can happen at any age and after having lost your virginity for a long time.

but then again I have to take responsibility for my actions.. I'm not against sex.. and me and my boyfriend dont use condoms.. i just feel like i coulde saved myself a lot of drama if i never did it

[Edited 10/3/11 10:17am]

I understand!

Tokyo89 said:

Serious said:

You can protect yourself quite well from STD's and pregnancy. And not having sex does not protect you from being broken hearted. If it was that easy I would still be a virgin .

not if ya don't like condoms

You can still spread Gonorrhea and syphilis while using a condom even if the condom doesn't break. Any skin to skin contact. Like balls to Vaginally area contact.

a week shy of 15

18 and I was still too young!

But then, It's kind of like having kids; Im not sure anyone is ever really ready

13.

Shit happens.

17, the woman next door

15,she was 22 !

Too young-20

Too old-40

tinaz said:

18

i will let you know

Serious said:

sextonseven said:

After being rejected a few times, I decided to wait until a woman 'offered' to date me--which you know doesn't happen that often.

Well it has 2 sides. I sometimes wonder if I might have lost my virginity earlier if I would not have had offers for dates all the time. It made me think after having turned down some great men the one who would finally get it needs to be better than all the ones I had turned down .

oh my god the pressure!!

actually that's probably a real reason for many girls/women hanging on to their virginities, you get all hung up about WHO to give your v-card to, and placing all these high expectations on that first time

I'm glad I was DESPARATE to get with the guy I was in love with at the time when I was 18 - it couldn't have come at a better time actually it was special and above all HOT

I'd had no previous offers before that though

sextonseven said:

Serious said:

As if it was a lack of offers that you didn't loose your virginity at a younger age . And I am very sure that's pretty much never the reason why a woman is still a virgin. For me it sure was not.

After being rejected a few times, I decided to wait until a woman 'offered' to date me--which you know doesn't happen that often.

wanna go on a date?

(did I do that right? )

davetherave6767 said:

tinaz said:

18

you weren't there were you?

ZombieKitten said:

sextonseven said:

After being rejected a few times, I decided to wait until a woman 'offered' to date me--which you know doesn't happen that often.

wanna go on a date?

(did I do that right? )

...actually, all you really have to say is; "Wanna?"

PurpleJedi said:

ZombieKitten said:

wanna go on a date?

(did I do that right? )

...actually, all you really have to say is; "Wanna?"

I was trying to to this right!!!

We don't go on dates where I come from

ZombieKitten said:

Serious said:

Well it has 2 sides. I sometimes wonder if I might have lost my virginity earlier if I would not have had offers for dates all the time. It made me think after having turned down some great men the one who would finally get it needs to be better than all the ones I had turned down .

oh my god the pressure!!

actually that's probably a real reason for many girls/women hanging on to their virginities, you get all hung up about WHO to give your v-card to, and placing all these high expectations on that first time

I'm glad I was DESPARATE to get with the guy I was in love with at the time when I was 18 - it couldn't have come at a better time actually it was special and above all HOT

I'd had no previous offers before that though

Looking back I think I should not have waited as long as I did.