So I was having a discussion with a friend...and she believes that guys have it easier when it comes to hooking up with women.

She thinks that guys are naturally agressive and can say and do things to get in there with no problem.

I disagree. IMO, women really just have to be receptive so that guys can approach and swoon and play the game and try to get in there.

Basically her opinion was that men are in control of the situation, while I think that women are totally in control of the scene, (I mean ultimately the 'yes' has to come from HER no?).

We agreed to disagree.

How does the Org feel about this?

What are your personal experiences regarding this?

Does it really just boil down to personalities and how "easy" you are (either as a man or a woman)?

Keep it civil please.

Your friend is on crack.

Women have it a million times easier. Any woman can get laid at any time.

...now holding onto a man, that's a different story.

JustErin said:

Your friend is on crack.

Women have it a million times easier. Any woman can get laid at any time.

...now holding onto a man, that's a different story.

Yeah, that's what I think.

I pretty much told her that a woman could be sitting there wearing a Hefty bag and she will get it.

there are guys for whom this is very easy indeed.

JustErin said:

Your friend is on crack.

Women have it a million times easier. Any woman can get laid at any time.

...now holding onto a man, that's a different story.

Yes, yes, yes and yes !

I would think most women can hook up whenever they please, with much less effort than men.

JerseyKRS said:

I would think most women can hook up whenever they please, with much less effort than men.

Don't listen to Jerseykrs, yall.

For almost 2 years of my life I found my org responsibilities relegated to being his hookup secretary. Orgnote after orgnote from obsessed female fans bombarding me with questions like, "Do you think he'll fuck me?" or "Does he like brownies? I can bake brownies", or, "If I bake him brownies, do you think he will fuck me?"

It was exhausting!

I finally came to point in my life where I decided he was only human. Surely, this man didn't have a golden penis or anything. I was projecting on to him this image of the ideal alpha male. I was turning him into some sort of supernatural myth..... I knew I needed to snap out of it.

And I did snap out of it. I came to a place where I realized Chris didn't possess supernatural gifts of placing women under his spell. He was only human.

...then he converted a lesbain.

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women have it easier.

whistle said:

there are guys for whom this is very easy indeed.

...and would you say that they're the majority or the minority?

JerseyKRS said:

I would think most women can hook up whenever they please, with much less effort than men.

imago said:

JerseyKRS said:

I would think most women can hook up whenever they please, with much less effort than men.

Don't listen to Jerseykrs, yall.

For almost 2 years of my life I found my org responsibilities relegated to being his hookup secretary. Orgnote after orgnote from obsessed female fans bombarding me with questions like, "Do you think he'll fuck me?" or "Does he like brownies? I can bake brownies", or, "If I bake him brownies, do you think he will fuck me?"

It was exhausting!

I finally came to point in my life where I decided he was only human. Surely, this man didn't have a golden penis or anything. I was projecting on to him this image of the ideal alpha male. I was turning him into some sort of supernatural myth..... I knew I needed to snap out of it.

And I did snap out of it. I came to a place where I realized Chris didn't possess supernatural gifts of placing women under his spell. He was only human.

...then he converted a lesbain.

So basically then...was it after he rejected your advances that you decided to "turn straight" again?

Is the Jersey mojo THAT powerful?

kimrachell said:

women have it easier.

Don't tease us...give us details...!

Women do have it easier... Most men are horn dogs, so if you offer it, they are gonna take it, "usually" no matter what the women looks like, to a certain point... women on the other hand are WAYYY more picky, even if we are horn dogs...

tinaz said:

Women do have it easier... Most men are horn dogs, so if you offer it, they are gonna take it, "usually" no matter what the women looks like, to a certain point... women on the other hand are WAYYY more picky, even if we are horn dogs...

Exactly.

I've been talking to some buddies and can't BELIEVE some of the stories they tell (not that I think they're lying...more like I can't believe this goes on for real!).

PurpleJedi said:

tinaz said:

Women do have it easier... Most men are horn dogs, so if you offer it, they are gonna take it, "usually" no matter what the women looks like, to a certain point... women on the other hand are WAYYY more picky, even if we are horn dogs...

Exactly.

I've been talking to some buddies and can't BELIEVE some of the stories they tell (not that I think they're lying...more like I can't believe this goes on for real!).

Oh I know! Heck, you just have to walk around walmart and look at some of the women there with kids! I always think... SOMEONE FUCKED THAT!

tinaz said:

PurpleJedi said:

Exactly.

I've been talking to some buddies and can't BELIEVE some of the stories they tell (not that I think they're lying...more like I can't believe this goes on for real!).

Oh I know! Heck, you just have to walk around walmart and look at some of the women there with kids! I always think... SOMEONE FUCKED THAT!

A couple of drinks and a couple of rejections from the "hot chicks" leads guys to do strange things..."allegedly".

PurpleJedi said:

tinaz said:

Oh I know! Heck, you just have to walk around walmart and look at some of the women there with kids! I always think... SOMEONE FUCKED THAT!

A couple of drinks and a couple of rejections from the "hot chicks" leads guys to do strange things..."allegedly".

I think men have it easier because there are more do-able women than there are men in the world.

Sure a woman could walk out the door and get laid, but would it be by a man she really wanted?

thekidsgirl said:

I think men have it easier because there are more do-able women than there are men in the world.

Sure a woman could walk out the door and get laid, but would it be by a man she really wanted?

Exactly!

veronikka said:

thekidsgirl said:

I think men have it easier because there are more do-able women than there are men in the world.

Sure a woman could walk out the door and get laid, but would it be by a man she really wanted?

Exactly!

But the fact is the opportunities are still there. The average guy can't walk out the door and decide to not have sex with any of the women that are pursuing him.

veronikka said:

thekidsgirl said:

I think men have it easier because there are more do-able women than there are men in the world.

Sure a woman could walk out the door and get laid, but would it be by a man she really wanted?

Exactly!

That's true. But apart from us being picky and having our high standards we have it a lot easier. But yes that doesn't always help much .

sextonseven said:

veronikka said:

Exactly!

But the fact is the opportunities are still there. The average guy can't walk out the door and decide to not have sex with any of the women that are pursuing him.

And thank God, I wonder how many men would cheat (even more) if it was like that.

sextonseven said:

veronikka said:

Exactly!

But the fact is the opportunities are still there. The average guy can't walk out the door and decide to not have sex with any of the women that are pursuing him.

If you walked down a shady dark alley, I'm sure plenty of women would offer you a piece, and you could take pleasure in rejecting any of them

thekidsgirl said:

sextonseven said:

But the fact is the opportunities are still there. The average guy can't walk out the door and decide to not have sex with any of the women that are pursuing him.

If you walked down a shady dark alley, I'm sure plenty of women would offer you a piece, and you could take pleasure in rejecting any of them

Serious said:

sextonseven said:

But the fact is the opportunities are still there. The average guy can't walk out the door and decide to not have sex with any of the women that are pursuing him.

And thank God, I wonder how many men would cheat (even more) if it was like that.

I don't know that answer. Ask gay men.

thekidsgirl said:

sextonseven said:

But the fact is the opportunities are still there. The average guy can't walk out the door and decide to not have sex with any of the women that are pursuing him.

If you walked down a shady dark alley, I'm sure plenty of women would offer you a piece, and you could take pleasure in rejecting any of them

Paying for it (with cash) doesn't count.

sextonseven said:

thekidsgirl said:

If you walked down a shady dark alley, I'm sure plenty of women would offer you a piece, and you could take pleasure in rejecting any of them

Paying for it (with cash) doesn't count.

Well if you drove pass a bus stop in one of the bad areas around here and happened to have a few loose cigarettes on you, you would have to fight away the ladies with a stick

thekidsgirl said:

sextonseven said:

Paying for it (with cash) doesn't count.

Well if you drove pass a bus stop in one of the bad areas around here and happened to have a few loose cigarettes on you, you would have to fight away the ladies with a stick

thekidsgirl said:

sextonseven said:

Paying for it (with cash) doesn't count.

Well if you drove pass a bus stop in one of the bad areas around here and happened to have a few loose cigarettes on you, you would have to fight away the ladies with a stick

omg, that's so gross! around where is this? it's so sad that some ladies are that bad. where exactly is this again? is it at an intersection? do you know the names of the intersecting streets? man, that's terrible. which bus stop exactly?

thekidsgirl said:

I think men have it easier because there are more do-able women than there are men in the world.

Sure a woman could walk out the door and get laid, but would it be by a man she really wanted?

I agree that there are more beautiful women out there, but you just proved my point...we guys have to WORK at getting your attention while (for the most part) you're sitting back picking & choosing.

I realize that I'm stating a generalization but that's I think the rule not the exception (I've know guys who have numbers thrown at them by women, the lucky bastards, but they're the exception).