JustErin said:

XxAxX said:

how about a thread simply called: 'let's talk' ? it could be a jumping off point for constructive criticism wherein we critique each others' styles

[Edited 9/28/11 6:44am]

Sounds good.

But first I need to make a serious post as I need some help.

Is there anyway you can find someone's address by just having their name and city?

Before you get all, "she's stalking violator"...it's regarding my son's father who has stopped paying his child support....again. He has changed jobs and the firm I deal with can no longer garnish his wages (sad that it even came to that).

I'm stuck here...

Don't his former collegues know where he went?

Sometimes FB can do wonders:

http://www.myfoxphoenix.c...-9-12-2011

Good luck with hunting the bastard down.

dJJ said:

JustErin said:

Sounds good.

But first I need to make a serious post as I need some help.

Is there anyway you can find someone's address by just having their name and city?

Before you get all, "she's stalking violator"...it's regarding my son's father who has stopped paying his child support....again. He has changed jobs and the firm I deal with can no longer garnish his wages (sad that it even came to that).

I'm stuck here...

Don't his former collegues know where he went?

Sometimes FB can do wonders:

http://www.myfoxphoenix.c...-9-12-2011

Good luck with hunting the bastard down.

Nope. Even his father tells me that he doesn't know where he works or even lives.

It's all getting me rather down to be honest. Not just because he's not paying but my son saw him for the first time in 3 years (after my son had a complete meltdown on fathers day) and it got his hopes up in seeing him again...but he's completely abandoned him in every way again.

JustErin said:

dJJ said:

Don't his former collegues know where he went?

Sometimes FB can do wonders:

http://www.myfoxphoenix.c...-9-12-2011

Good luck with hunting the bastard down.

Nope. Even his father tells me that he doesn't know where he works or even lives.

It's all getting me rather down to be honest. Not just because he's not paying but my son saw him for the first time in 3 years (after my son had a complete meltdown on fathers day) and it got his hopes up in seeing him again...but he's completely abandoned him in every way again.

That hurts so bad. I feel bad for your boy and you. I can imagine it gets you down.

Did you already report it to the police? The article I linked is about the police having that guy on their radar. Can't you get to him with legal force?

JustErin said:

Sounds good.

But first I need to make a serious post as I need some help.

Is there anyway you can find someone's address by just having their name and city?

Before you get all, "she's stalking violator"...it's regarding my son's father who has stopped paying his child support....again. He has changed jobs and the firm I deal with can no longer garnish his wages (sad that it even came to that).

I'm stuck here...

Wow, that sucks! Sorry to hear that