dJJ said:

Pr1nceQuik said:

Man the hell up.

Crying about buttplugs and Masterbating? cmon man. I can't take u serious after that, it seems that this thread is just attention seeking.

Aren't all threads? And what's wrong with that?

Pr1nceQuak is nothing but a partypoop.....

davetherave6767 said:

dJJ said:

Aren't all threads? And what's wrong with that?

Pr1nceQuak is nothing but a partypoop.....

I don't have a problem with you. I actually think you're really funny (In a good way).

That much crying though, especially over the things I've mentiond............I dunno if you're being serious or not.

Pr1nceQuik said:

davetherave6767 said:

Pr1nceQuak is nothing but a partypoop.....

I don't have a problem with you. I actually think you're really funny (In a good way).

That much crying though, especially over the things I've mentiond............I dunno if you're being serious or not.

Eye think u do have a problem with me but that is simply so irrelevant...Alot of what eye post is the truth....in this thread im being very sincere apart from a couple of things....Eye wouldnt b davetherave if i didnt type something daft....Alot of people get me and alot dont and thats cool.....But some 1 as young as u telling an old fogey like me 2 man up just makes me wanna

It all comes down to motive; is he crying and not expecting anything from you or does crying mean you will be obliged to do something different? Basically is this a manipulation maneuver ?

(I think many men feel that their women use tears to manipulate them.)

Crying is a form of therapy. It is a release. Men who don't cry are often times ticking time bombs. The sadness, the anger, the frustration, the fear...if you keep it in and let it build up, it's going to come out eventually. It has to. And usually, it's not pretty, especially if they have a wife or girlfriend. Men who beat their women, children and animals are typically not criers.

kitbradley said:

Crying is a form of therapy. It is a release. Men who don't cry are often times ticking time bombs. The sadness, the anger, the frustration, the fear...if you keep it in and let it build up, it's going to come out eventually. It has to. And usually, it's not pretty, especially if they have a wife or girlfriend. Men who beat their women, children and animals are typically not criers.

I like this because it's I think it's really true.

kitbradley said:

Crying is a form of therapy. It is a release. Men who don't cry are often times ticking time bombs. The sadness, the anger, the frustration, the fear...if you keep it in and let it build up, it's going to come out eventually. It has to. And usually, it's not pretty, especially if they have a wife or girlfriend. Men who beat their women, children and animals are typically not criers.

Eye always thought men who beat women did cry???? That stupid im sorry cry.....That stupid it wont happen again cry!!! That stupid please 4 give me cry!!! That stupid please take me back cry!!! That stupid dont tell any1 about this incident cry!!!..........Women beaters cry

I never cry for myself. But (and this mostly happens around my daughter) anytime a movie or TV comes on that deals with "family" father/daughter, father/son, mother/daughter, etc. relationship issues. I start to well up. Even if it's a commercial. Worst is when the scenario occurs of a father sending his daughter off to college or to be married and he starts remembering her from a little girl and the things they used to do I'm an emotional wreck!! My daughter just looks at me and shakes her head.

dannyd5050 said:

I never cry for myself. But (and this mostly happens around my daughter) anytime a movie or TV comes on that deals with "family" father/daughter, father/son, mother/daughter, etc. relationship issues. I start to well up. Even if it's a commercial. Worst is when the scenario occurs of a father sending his daughter off to college or to be married and he starts remembering her from a little girl and the things they used to do I'm an emotional wreck!! My daughter just looks at me and shakes her head.

Thats why I only cry if I'm alone

Nothing wrong with it at all. I don't see why a man can't cry to express his emotions. I think it's good for everyone to cry once in a while.

you know what tho... dont fukkin cry over me.

When I was a child, seeing men cry in my presence or on TV, I would get this reaction . Now thankfully, I realise that it is ok for men to cry. This is what happens when you are brought up in a society that dictates men's feelings. The result of this is terrible: heart attacks, strokes, hypertension, emotional breakdowns. Men has a shorter life span. Your life insurance companies can testify to that.

Empress said:

Nothing wrong with it at all. I don't see why a man can't cry to express his emotions. I think it's good for everyone to cry once in a while.

Yes once in a blue moon, but not every time when things don't go your way. People who do that have issues too.

In general, I find it a big turnoff in men.

It's not so much the fact that a man cries--we're all human, but to me, the reasons that a man would cry.

My gut impulse is to think "be a fucking man, already."

On the flip side, when men want to cry but the fight so hard to contain it (like at the death of a pet or family member, etc.), I find that jsut ridiculous.

I know...I'm like goldilocks when it comes to men crying.

Often times when I let emotions build up inside of me and I feel like I'm ready to kill someone or myself, I cry. And I always feel so much better afterwards. What seemed like the world on my shoulders a few minutes ago has now been reduced to nothing. It's amazing! Everyone needs to cry. It saves lives. I swear by it. Sometimes I get so angry that I want to cry but I can't. That's when I'll listen to a song that will stir up emotions inside of me (usually about being deeply in love, falling out of love or death). That does it for me every time.

I actually don't understand why some men don't cry. I don't cry that often, however, when I have to cry, I just cry. I can't hold it in or stop that. Do men stop that feeling of crying? Or do they not feel that emotion and therefore not cry?

veronikka said:

dannyd5050 said:

I never cry for myself. But (and this mostly happens around my daughter) anytime a movie or TV comes on that deals with "family" father/daughter, father/son, mother/daughter, etc. relationship issues. I start to well up. Even if it's a commercial. Worst is when the scenario occurs of a father sending his daughter off to college or to be married and he starts remembering her from a little girl and the things they used to do I'm an emotional wreck!! My daughter just looks at me and shakes her head.

Thats why I only cry if I'm alone

kitbradley said:

i think if someone dies then it's understandable but otherwise no! can't stand blokes blubbering about stuff! they get ZERO sympathy from me, i'd probably laugh

DoffieParker said:

i think if someone dies then it's understandable but otherwise no! can't stand blokes blubbering about stuff! they get ZERO sympathy from me, i'd probably laugh

Ive cried watching dragons den...............

dJJ said:

I actually don't understand why some men don't cry. I don't cry that often, however, when I have to cry, I just cry. I can't hold it in or stop that. Do men stop that feeling of crying? Or do they not feel that emotion and therefore not cry?

The only times I get emotional is death or illness i my family.

Real men cry .

I personally love it when men cry . Whether its good tears or bad tears . It means they have feelings & are sensetive . Don't get me wrong .... I wouldn't want a crybaby , but I strongly dislike when guys show no emotion , no nothing . That really sucks . When I see a man cry it's a big TURNON . Just don't cry all the time !

as long as they are sincere. I'm psychic and i will cut you... ....:eyeroll: ..

kitbradley said:

Crying is a form of therapy. It is a release. Men who don't cry are often times ticking time bombs. The sadness, the anger, the frustration, the fear...if you keep it in and let it build up, it's going to come out eventually. It has to. And usually, it's not pretty, especially if they have a wife or girlfriend. Men who beat their women, children and animals are typically not criers.

I get where you're coming from, but I hardly ever cry and I'd never raise my hand on a woman or child.

I do cry once about half a year, when I'm alone and have the time to. It may build up until then and it may be a sudden release, but until then, I don't feel any emotional pressure at all. Using logic makes it easier not to cry when you don't want to. And I don't like crying in front of other people (which I used to do a lot, and in the end it made me feel weak and exploited), but crying twice a year, when I'm alone, feels just about okay.

i've been crying everyday this week, but not into depression thank heavens...more of a pressure release. clears my head.

Giselle said:

Real men cry .

I personally love it when men cry . Whether its good tears or bad tears . It means they have feelings & are sensetive . Don't get me wrong .... I wouldn't want a crybaby , but I strongly dislike when guys show no emotion , no nothing . That really sucks . When I see a man cry it's a big TURNON . Just don't cry all the time !

Wow...you would've totally been diggin' me the past week-&-half.

PurpleJedi said:

Giselle said:

Real men cry .

I personally love it when men cry . Whether its good tears or bad tears . It means they have feelings & are sensetive . Don't get me wrong .... I wouldn't want a crybaby , but I strongly dislike when guys show no emotion , no nothing . That really sucks . When I see a man cry it's a big TURNON . Just don't cry all the time !

Wow...you would've totally been diggin' me the past week-&-half.

Ahw

I used to be a "keep it inside" type of guy.

When my paternal grandmother - whom I loved dearly and died waiting for me to visit - passed away 10 years ago, I didn't cry. When my godmother (whom I loved as a defacto grandmother) passed away, I didn't cry. When my uncle got assaulted and killed and everyone in my house was crying...I did not cry. I felt as though I should have been crying, and these losses were sorrowful, but the tears did not swell up in my eyes.

Yet...odd things like sad movies would make me weep. I burst into tears during "Philadelphia" (along with half the theater) but also more recently cried watching "Marley & Me".

The day that I first saw the "illicit texts", I got angry as hell...but then before I could say anything she walked into the room and kissed me on the cheek... and I bawled uncontrollably. That scared me just a bit. I think I may've had a nervous breakdown. I think that THAT started it all...let loose years of pent-up, restrained emotional release. NOW...I'm a trainwreck and prone to cry like a baby when the littlest thing sets me off. I've never let loose so many fucking tears ever before. Like, F.E.; the vase full of roses that the bitch ex set in the living room for me to see last Sunday when I dropped off the kids hit me like a sledgehammer and suddenly I can't listen to the radio anymore, lest I be driving and any one of a thousand songs sends me into a fit of crying. I almost threw something at the TV yesterday (see my thread about Mario's stupid song???).

I don't like it. I realize that it's something that I have to go through, but I can't stand it. I miss my stoic self.

But then again, Giselle suddenly brightened my day and gave me hope.

PurpleJedi said:

I used to be a "keep it inside" type of guy.

When my paternal grandmother - whom I loved dearly and died waiting for me to visit - passed away 10 years ago, I didn't cry. When my godmother (whom I loved as a defacto grandmother) passed away, I didn't cry. When my uncle got assaulted and killed and everyone in my house was crying...I did not cry. I felt as though I should have been crying, and these losses were sorrowful, but the tears did not swell up in my eyes.

Yet...odd things like sad movies would make me weep. I burst into tears during "Philadelphia" (along with half the theater) but also more recently cried watching "Marley & Me".

The day that I first saw the "illicit texts", I got angry as hell...but then before I could say anything she walked into the room and kissed me on the cheek... and I bawled uncontrollably. That scared me just a bit. I think I may've had a nervous breakdown. I think that THAT started it all...let loose years of pent-up, restrained emotional release. NOW...I'm a trainwreck and prone to cry like a baby when the littlest thing sets me off. I've never let loose so many fucking tears ever before. Like, F.E.; the vase full of roses that the bitch ex set in the living room for me to see last Sunday when I dropped off the kids hit me like a sledgehammer and suddenly I can't listen to the radio anymore, lest I be driving and any one of a thousand songs sends me into a fit of crying. I almost threw something at the TV yesterday (see my thread about Mario's stupid song???).

I don't like it. I realize that it's something that I have to go through, but I can't stand it. I miss my stoic self.

But then again, Giselle suddenly brightened my day and gave me hope.

The first half of your post very much reminds me of myself .

The second half very much reminds me of that character from Little Britain.

Please, don't take it personally!