Dude no one can answer that question but you...and you can only answer it if you're being honest with yourself.

JustErin said:

Any man that is intelligent and comfortable with himself and his heterosexuality really doesn't give a fuck if people think he is gay when he's not. Why would he? It's not like it's an insult and it's not like it would hinder him from getting women.

I knew several guys that are accused of being gay because they take care of themselves, dress amazing and don't totally freak out if another dude flirts with them. They just laugh off being called gay and go fuck super hot chicks.

Now that's what I'm talking about! Thanks for being alive, woman.

I think some of you didn't really understand the reason for this thread.

I am not asking for help, wanting to know whether I am homosexual or not. I know I'm not. Furthermore, if all of you agreed on me being homosexual, it wouldn't change a thing, nor would it mean a thing to me. I'd have to accept and live with it and I could.

But this is rather about the irony of how some people try to project an image onto you, just because you do things differently than they do.

minneapolisFunq said:

Do you even have to ask why people may assume that you are gay?

It seems to me that you purposely project an androgynous image, whether it is for entertainment or it is the real you.

I'm surprised that someone who is seemingly so in touch with themself would even ask these questions.

I don't think hugging a friend is gay (unless you want more than the hug).

Fuqqit though, you know what you want!

Well, I do understand why many people think that some things I do are "gay", but that doesn't prevent me from thinking they're narrow-minded and don't really have a clue about life.

So, yes, out of interest, I do have to ask why some people assume (or want to assume) I'm gay, because I'm simply curious about this.

You may be right about this androgyny thing, although I never really gave it a proper thought, but the thing is that I just do whatever I want and not just try to make the impression of doing so. That's why I don't think that the way I move, talk, dress and fuck is important at all.

Dave1992 said:

connorhawke said:

Depends.

What does this do for you:

If your first thought is "she needs to clean up that kitchen" you're probably gay.

If it was something more predictable, then nope

Actually, I was a bit dissapointed that she wore so much and that I couldn't see her whole bum.

But my second thought was that the kitchen is a bit ugly .

Then you're a straight interior designer! Or cabinet maker

connorhawke said:

Dave1992 said:

Actually, I was a bit dissapointed that she wore so much and that I couldn't see her whole bum.

But my second thought was that the kitchen is a bit ugly .

Then you're a straight interior designer! Or cabinet maker

This shit is extremely confusing and you should become a psychologist!

Dave1992 said:

connorhawke said:

Then you're a straight interior designer! Or cabinet maker

This shit is extremely confusing and you should become a psychologist!

I know a lovely lesbian stonemason so as a craftsmanperson you'd be in excellent company.

Dave1992 said:

And last but not least... does it make me gay when I let seven men suck me cock and open up their assholes for me every day after dinner? Why?!

there is a test to see if your roommate is gay. Does his cock taste like shit?

Dave1992 said:

I think some of you didn't really understand the reason for this thread.

I am not asking for help, wanting to know whether I am homosexual or not. I know I'm not. Furthermore, if all of you agreed on me being homosexual, it wouldn't change a thing, nor would it mean a thing to me. I'd have to accept and live with it and I could.

But this is rather about the irony of how some people try to project an image onto you, just because you do things differently than they do.

But a lot of us knew that-yet still are giving you sh*t. Well, just for giggles and sh*t.

TheFreakerFantastic tried questioning my sexuality too on my "Your Thoughts On Glory Holes" thread. Look, here's the deal....

If you're sexually attracted to men, then your are gay. If you're not sexually attracted to men, then your not gay. It's that simple.

The thought of anything happening sexually between me & another men is gag inducing, but If your into that, I don't care. I'm not judging anyone at all. We are all who we are....

If your not, don't worry about it. These people on here don't know you personally on here anyway, right?

NDRU said:

Dave1992 said:

minneapolisFunq said:

Do you even have to ask why people may assume that you are gay?

It seems to me that you purposely project an androgynous image, whether it is for entertainment or it is the real you.

I'm surprised that someone who is seemingly so in touch with themself would even ask these questions.

I don't think hugging a friend is gay (unless you want more than the hug).

Fuqqit though, you know what you want!

Well, I do understand why many people think that some things I do are "gay", but that doesn't prevent me from thinking they're narrow-minded and don't really have a clue about life.

So, yes, out of interest, I do have to ask why some people assume (or want to assume) I'm gay, because I'm simply curious about this.

You may be right about this androgyny thing, although I never really gave it a proper thought, but the thing is that I just do whatever I want and not just try to make the impression of doing so. That's why I don't think that the way I move, talk, dress and fuck is important at all.

I can relate to ppl thinking I'm gay or bi, I presume, over behaving in ways similar to what you described in your first post, but I'm most definitely not pretty. I don't think I have the adrogynous thing going on, so whether you do or not, it can't be just that.

I find it hard to believe ppl might think I'm gay when I have such a rugged, manly beard.

Fauxie said:

Dave1992 said:

Well, I do understand why many people think that some things I do are "gay", but that doesn't prevent me from thinking they're narrow-minded and don't really have a clue about life.

So, yes, out of interest, I do have to ask why some people assume (or want to assume) I'm gay, because I'm simply curious about this.

You may be right about this androgyny thing, although I never really gave it a proper thought, but the thing is that I just do whatever I want and not just try to make the impression of doing so. That's why I don't think that the way I move, talk, dress and fuck is important at all.

I can relate to ppl thinking I'm gay or bi, I presume, over behaving in ways similar to what you described in your first post, but I'm most definitely not pretty. I don't think I have the adrogynous thing going on, so whether you do or not, it can't be just that.

I find it hard to believe ppl might think I'm gay when I have such a rugged, manly beard.

If there's one thing I learned on the org, it's that gay men usually prefer hairy men/are hairy themselves!

Damn, these modern times make it really hard not to be gay...

Dave1992 said:

Fauxie said:

I can relate to ppl thinking I'm gay or bi, I presume, over behaving in ways similar to what you described in your first post, but I'm most definitely not pretty. I don't think I have the adrogynous thing going on, so whether you do or not, it can't be just that.

I find it hard to believe ppl might think I'm gay when I have such a rugged, manly beard.

If there's one thing I learned on the org, it's that gay men usually prefer hairy men/are hairy themselves!

Damn, these modern times make it really hard not to be gay...

http://prince.org/msg/15/366672

Dan was the first to post on your thread.

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^^^

that reminds me, my gf recently said she saw Stayin' Alive on TV and "it actually wasn't very good!" I was like "yeah it's total shit, one of the only films that could compete with Graffiti Bridge"

After a few minutes I realized she was confusing it with Saturday Night Fever. She must have been really disappointed "Why on earth was this ever popular?!?!"

GeminiBrown said:

Dude no one can answer that question but you...and you can only answer it if you're being honest with yourself.

This is complete bullshit, Dave. Don't listen to him.

We'll take a vote on it, and the result will mean that you're obviously gay.

We voted on Prince this way ages ago. I wish the mods would update the Q&A

section of this thread about that shit.

no i would not feel you are gay because of your love for some of your male friends. however narrow minded people will interpret just to get attention.

i once (upon invitation) gave a eulogy at a funeral of a former friend's mother. i expressed how wonderful a lady her mother was and how difficult the time was and etc. before ending my eulogy, i told of my love for my friend and how i'd be there for her.

well her new man-friend read into my words on a physical level. within a few weeks i saw the end of a twenty year friendship as my friend told me how her new bow felt about my words and how he did not feel comfortable with me around. so my (former) friend told me that we'd have to part ways.

yes, i fall in love with my female friends, but it's totally non-physical. i am a heart person and i do love my friends. those that read anything further are poot butt *uck heads.

(i also have gay friends that i love)

It all has to do with how other people view you and their own prejudice and insecurity. It's easy to pass judgement, but harder to dare and take a deep look inside of yourself and see where that insecurity comes from.

Also, there is a difference between people that lust after you (like I lust after Fauxie) and just wish you gay or slightly bisexual to satisfy their own needs and between people that use the word 'ghey' as an adjective.

Question their agenda; but in BOTH cases, ignore the hell outa them, as it says more about them than it does about you. It does not matter you wear fancy shoes, have emo hair, carry around a suede manbag and speak English like a 50's UK aristocrat.

In short; fuck them. Okay?

HamsterHuey said:

It all has to do with how other people view you and their own prejudice and insecurity. It's easy to pass judgement, but harder to dare and take a deep look inside of yourself and see where that insecurity comes from.

Also, there is a difference between people that lust after you (like I lust after Fauxie) and just wish you gay or slightly bisexual to satisfy their own needs and between people that use the word 'ghey' as an adjective.

Question their agenda; but in BOTH cases, ignore the hell outa them, as it says more about them than it does about you. It does not matter you wear fancy shoes, have emo hair, carry around a suede manbag and speak English like a 50's UK aristocrat.

In short; fuck them. Okay?

Wait.

imago said:

GeminiBrown said:

Dude no one can answer that question but you...and you can only answer it if you're being honest with yourself.

This is complete bullshit, Dave. Don't listen to him.

We'll take a vote on it, and the result will mean that you're obviously gay.

We voted on Prince this way ages ago. I wish the mods would update the Q&A

section of this thread about that shit.

Alright. Please do inform me of the result - I might have to change my wardrobe, language etc. if I really turn out to be gay.

free2bfreeda said:

no i would not feel you are gay because of your love for some of your male friends. however narrow minded people will interpret just to get attention.

i once (upon invitation) gave a eulogy at a funeral of a former friend's mother. i expressed how wonderful a lady her mother was and how difficult the time was and etc. before ending my eulogy, i told of my love for my friend and how i'd be there for her.

well her new man-friend read into my words on a physical level. within a few weeks i saw the end of a twenty year friendship as my friend told me how her new bow felt about my words and how he did not feel comfortable with me around. so my (former) friend told me that we'd have to part ways.

yes, i fall in love with my female friends, but it's totally non-physical. i am a heart person and i do love my friends. those that read anything further are poot butt *uck heads.

(i also have gay friends that i love)

That's quite sad...

Oh, no I remember: My Mum also asked me once whether I was gay, because I used to spend so much time with my best (male) friend! However, I'm sure she just wanted me to pound her furiously with my cock. Typical woman.

HamsterHuey said:

It all has to do with how other people view you and their own prejudice and insecurity. It's easy to pass judgement, but harder to dare and take a deep look inside of yourself and see where that insecurity comes from.

Also, there is a difference between people that lust after you (like I lust after Fauxie) and just wish you gay or slightly bisexual to satisfy their own needs and between people that use the word 'ghey' as an adjective.

Question their agenda; but in BOTH cases, ignore the hell outa them, as it says more about them than it does about you. It does not matter you wear fancy shoes, have emo hair, carry around a suede manbag and speak English like a 50's UK aristocrat.

In short; fuck them. Okay?

Is it gay when I say that I watched a movie the other night and couldn't help but thinking of you whenever I saw that one actor? I've only seen a couple of pictures of you, but the character seemed to fit the way you communicate and all that, too. The only thing was, he became a heavy drinker (maybe because he suffered from being actually gay! Who knows?).

And thanks for the advice, Ron Livingston, but I don't think I wear suede manbags (gotta be confusing me with Viv!), and of course I'm going to fuck them! Basically, I'm going to fuck all of you.

Dave1992 said:

imago said:

This is complete bullshit, Dave. Don't listen to him.

We'll take a vote on it, and the result will mean that you're obviously gay.

We voted on Prince this way ages ago. I wish the mods would update the Q&A

section of this thread about that shit.

Alright. Please do inform me of the result - I might have to change my wardrobe, language etc. if I really turn out to be gay.

It's actually not that easy, Dave.

There has to be a revote, then a commitee of the ghey have to go over the evidence.

it could actually take months.

However, if you're a Smiths fan, then we can waiver any doubts.

imago said:

Dave1992 said:

Alright. Please do inform me of the result - I might have to change my wardrobe, language etc. if I really turn out to be gay.

It's actually not that easy, Dave.

There has to be a revote, then a commitee of the ghey have to go over the evidence.

it could actually take months.

However, if you're a Smiths fan, then we can waiver any doubts.

I do own a couple of Smiths and Morrissey albums . I like listening to them when I feel depressed about my homosexuality.

Does that mean I'm gay, without all of you having to revote and shit? Because I really don't think I already want the ghey to "go over" the evidence. It might hurt. I'm still new to the community, remember.

And your sig is absolutely fantastic again!

Does that mean we're a gay couple now?

Dave1992 said:

imago said:

It's actually not that easy, Dave.

There has to be a revote, then a commitee of the ghey have to go over the evidence.

it could actually take months.

However, if you're a Smiths fan, then we can waiver any doubts.

I do own a couple of Smiths and Morrissey albums . I like listening to them when I feel depressed about my homosexuality.

Does that mean I'm gay, without all of you having to revote and shit? Because I really don't think I already want the ghey to "go over" the evidence. It might hurt. I'm still new to the community, remember.

endlessly

free2bfreeda said:

no i would not feel you are gay because of your love for some of your male friends. however narrow minded people will interpret just to get attention.

i once (upon invitation) gave a eulogy at a funeral of a former friend's mother. i expressed how wonderful a lady her mother was and how difficult the time was and etc. before ending my eulogy, i told of my love for my friend and how i'd be there for her.

well her new man-friend read into my words on a physical level. within a few weeks i saw the end of a twenty year friendship as my friend told me how her new bow felt about my words and how he did not feel comfortable with me around. so my (former) friend told me that we'd have to part ways.

yes, i fall in love with my female friends, but it's totally non-physical. i am a heart person and i do love my friends. those that read anything further are poot butt *uck heads.

(i also have gay friends that i love)

^^^ This reminds me of me.

Loving a man doesn't make you gay. You love men such as your father, uncle, or brother and you're not considered gay for it. There's nothing gay about loving a man outside the family either. It's called friendship. Hell, I'm gay and love far more women than men. Hugs don't mean anything either. A hug is just a form of showing affection. Nobody makes a fuss when two women hug so why should they make a fuss when two men hug? A lot of men are so stupid and insecure with their own sexuality because there are so many closet trade men (bisexual men in denial) and those are the ones that have made it such a big issue if two men hug. They are the ones walking around overly masculine and spurting out homophobia and they aren't straight themselves, they just think they are. Straight men aren't that masculine and straight men could care less if another man is gay because they see it as one less man to have to compete with when it comes to getting women.

As for flirting with gay men or letting gay men flirt with you, that means nothing either unless you actually have a desire to sleep with them. That's just having fun, making conversation, and humoring each other. Gay men flirt with straight women all the time giving them compliments, etc. which means nothing to either party. Just harmless fun and giving each other compliments. As for straight men doing it, it's usually a man who is very secure with his sexuality and is so secure that he doesn't give a damn what others think. Men like that are rare and to be admired.

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