I know just the mom to do it... a retired grandma of my daughter's best friend. She used to be a meter-maid and is brassy as hell.
I am sad too. These girls are sweet girls, its not thier fault but I just can't do this again. I want to make sure these girls are safe and healthy ......and they just want a friend in my daughter.
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Those poor babies... A kid at my kids school had his own shower kit that he had to use everyday before school... And they took the clothes he had on that day and washed them for the next day so his stuff would always be clean... How fucking sad that his own parents couldnt even keep him clean
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A teacher named Mrs. Meadows?
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They don't have showers at that school... its a teeny elementary K-grade5 school and there is only one fourth grade and one fifth grade class.
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Yes... and she is a totally sweet lady with a really wrinkled face. She wears cute sweaters that have themes. The one today had apples all over it.
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I really have to explain?
It was my tactful way of saying (because of your useage of exclamtion points and the sensitive subject matter... )
a breakout caused by stress... I wouldn't want your face to flower with coldsores from getting upset.
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Poor thing for those girls. Can the teacher or counselor pull the girls on the side and have a little talk with them about hygiene? I agree that the teacher should talk with the parents also but maybe educating the girls because the parents don't care about educating them about physical health.
Too bad there aren't federal or community programs within schools that will mentor children that are obviously being neglected so they can get 'other' care besides education at school such as help with health related problems or even one last good school meal before they go home (even though some families have foodstamps it doesn't always go towards feeding the kids but sold or exchanged for drugs). I know it's not anyone else's responsibility to care for the kids, but it's not their fault the parents can't care for them well.
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if u speak up and tell the school u will actually be helping those girls!!!
they r neglected and i am sure they know but cant do much about it cause they r kids and they r defenceless.... esp when their parents dont care
and thats just it... the parents dont care
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This story just made my stomach turn.
How the f*ck can these children walk around like that and still be in the custody of those useless cunts they call mothers?
Lice? Odor? Cold sores? Curdled milk in baby bottle?
Those kids need to be taken away quick. An orphanage would serve them better than whatever hellhole they're living in now.
[emoticon edit] [Edited 9/13/11 5:38am] By St. Boogar and all the saints at the backside door of Purgatory! | |
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I'm surprised the other kids in school aren't harassing them because kids can be mean as hell. That's usually enough right there to make someone either clean themself up or attempt to clean themself up. But even if they can't, I'm surprised the teachers aren't seeing their condition themselves. Andy is a four letter word. | |
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This is just so sad. Those poor girls. MY COUSIN WORKS IN A PHARMACY AND SHE SAID THEY ENEMA'D PRANCE INTO OBLIVION WITH FENTONILS!! | |
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Well this morning I was in a meeting with the school's parent corrdinator, the principal, and the school nurse about the situation and my concerns.
They were helpful, they even got the former administration from their former school (the vice principal and school nurse-she actually worked in both schools last year) on a conference call. They will transfer the old records by hand tomorrow. They had on going issues with the same mothers last year as well. They wouldn't get into details while I was in the office, so they ended the conference and the principal took the call in his office to talk with the school nurse privately.
So I was told if any new issues came up that she would be brought in for a meeting and that they would have to start from step one with her. Its the law... they would have to witness major indicators of neglect before taking any action. They thanked me and sent me on my way.
So basically until the girls have lice jumping off them again or are covered with rashed skin they will take no action.
My one consolation is that the school's parent coordinator doesn't play... she WILL make sure the girls do NOT cause an outbreak and assured me that at the first signs of neglect that she would have social workers do a healthy check up on the home especially since the parents of the school's council (I am one of them) will raise holy hell.
Here we go....
Those sweet girls, I hope they have a better experience this school year and that their moms are more on point to doing what they need to do.
I have two extra back packs....
Today they will get fresh oranges and nice huge pink lady apples, (they were on sale, so I picked up lots... the apples are BEAUTIFUL ) I also picked up two bottles of gummy vitamins and I will stick those in the packs to give the girls. I'll do that so other kids won't notice and the girls suffer no embarrassment. Imma give it to them as they file out of school on their way home.
Later on I will speak to the parents on the council to help get these girls all the essentials they need... like toiletries and clothing.
Thanks for your support guys...
I hope these two moms straightened up their acts.
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I am totally opposed to "theme" sweaters...
...unless they are worn by wrinkled old school teachers named "Mrs. Meadows." We don’t mourn artists because we knew them. We mourn them because they helped us know ourselves. | |
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NO. It's NEVER ok to hurt a persons (especially a childs) feelings. but I don't really think that was a proper thread title. Poor kids! "not a fan" | |
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My daughter will have to hurt the girls feelings if I see another rash lump or bug...
the mommas will get their feelings hurt too if I have to call DSS on them.
Freggin drama... I hope the girls like the fruit... I know they will like the gummy vitamins. I don't care if the mommas are offended either. F@@k those nasty lazy heffas.
But you are right... on all points... I hope those girls don't get teased like they did in the old school. Vainandy is right on point with his post... that is my fear along with giving my daughter headlice or a rash. | |
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She passed out those "smelly" pencils that smell like cookies and cakes and fruit to her kids yesterday. My daughter loves her.
I am glad those girls will have a more compasionate teacher who will deal with them. Thank God for small favors.
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Sandra, you're amazing, you know that? By St. Boogar and all the saints at the backside door of Purgatory! | |
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Thanks but I feel like I am a judgemental bitch right now... I can't even front on that.
I am a single mom and people have blessed me... so when I can I always give to those who need it. Especially kids... man, I HATE to see kids suffer in any kind of way. The nice thing about where I live... the good people that care out number the hood rats. So I am mad at these two trifiling moms, but all I can do is just offer help.
I shouldn't judge... I am poor too. I just want these kids to know that people have their backs and that the moms will get the help they need even if they don't ask. I never asked and help came my way from awesome people when I needed it. I am just passing along blessings that were given to me.
Heck, they may not even like apples but I will keep these girls on my radar and try to get them things when ever I can. Everyone once in a while needs support and those moms deserve support also.
TY Pjedi
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Nobody doesn't like Pink Lady apples. They are the best ever! (I loooooove a hard apple...) We don’t mourn artists because we knew them. We mourn them because they helped us know ourselves. | |
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I like kids but have no problem setting their little asses straight. Just tell them "look so and so, i know you guys are all friends but you need to tell your mommy to help you get rid or your lice and your cold sores because it is very nasty and you can't play with my daughter until you and your mommy fix that. Understand? Ok now run along and make sure you tell your mommy I said you were nasty."
Now girl, you just have to deal with the mother. She's is the culprit for letting her kids walk around like that. Ring worm! Shit! I'M NOT SAYING YOU'RE UGLY. YOU JUST HAVE BAD LUCK WHEN IT COMES TO MIRRORS AND SUNLIGHT!
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Awww you did good I'M NOT SAYING YOU'RE UGLY. YOU JUST HAVE BAD LUCK WHEN IT COMES TO MIRRORS AND SUNLIGHT!
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ahh...My oldest son doesn't like apples! "not a fan" | |
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I love sales on fruit when they are in season. I can't wait to go apple picking in a few weeks also.
I gave the girls the bags... them shits were heavy.
The girls were like
Poor things. Yes, I cringed again. Atleast they didn't smell like poop, only regular funk.
Lord help me Imma go to hell in a handbasket.
Now I am grubbing on apples... damn these are so good!
*mental note.. the girls need deoderant *
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Well, see...here's the thing about apples. It all depends what you like. I wouldn't touch a Red Delicious with a 10-foot pole. They're always soft and mealy...and the skins are thick and bitter.
On the other hand...a really hard, tart, heritage apple like Earliblaze?
The best thing to do is go to an apple stand at a farmer's market, tell them what you like, and let them recommend one. With kids, it helps to cut them up - because the apples they sell at grocery stores these days are just too big for kids to get their mouths around. Try a few different kinds - no dipping sauce - and let them discover what they like. We don’t mourn artists because we knew them. We mourn them because they helped us know ourselves. | |
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Those mommas are too ghetto, they have NO shame. I wish they did. People talk about their girls ALL the time in the neighborhood, those girls aren't allowed in anyone's homes. The DSS social workers made them clean up their act... I hope.
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yeah I don't care for red delicious either...they remind me of a pear...and I'm not a big fan of pears. I take them apple picking every year. "not a fan" | |
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That's entirely possible. But I still wouldn't go with Red Delicious. We don’t mourn artists because we knew them. We mourn them because they helped us know ourselves. | |
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I thought it was just me who didn't like Red Delicious or that it was just my grocers who carry them soft and mealy. Fucking cannot stand that, ugh. Making my saliva glands shrink up right now just thinking about it.
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My face 2 flower with coldsores.......it sounds nicer than it actually is. Dave Is Nuttier Than A Can Of Planters Peanuts...(Ottensen) | |
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Since you're here... what is the best medicine for cold sores? Can anyone buy some over the counter something for the girl in the school? Something she can apply herself and keep in her backpack?
I need a recommendation because baby girl looks rough right now. [Edited 9/13/11 16:30pm] | |
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