JustErin said:

Fauxie said:

Probably on one of those premium dating sites.

No, he's far too good for that.

Remember that pic he posted of himself, with his shirt off?

Um, yeah....I like to think about that pic now and then....

Yes, he was hot...but he also was so very sweet to me.

Boooo!!!! Make him come back.

He's far too good for that but you're not?

Yeah, he was actual real life not org-wise good-looking, I must admit. Maybe he was too good for the org too, then?

He was sweet to you? Why?

Fauxie said:

JustErin said:

No, he's far too good for that.

Remember that pic he posted of himself, with his shirt off?

Um, yeah....I like to think about that pic now and then....

Yes, he was hot...but he also was so very sweet to me.

Boooo!!!! Make him come back.

He's far too good for that but you're not?

Yeah, he was actual real life not org-wise good-looking, I must admit. Maybe he was too good for the org too, then?

He was sweet to you? Why?

We almost met as well, you know that? It almost happened!

JustErin said:

Fauxie said:

He's far too good for that but you're not?

Yeah, he was actual real life not org-wise good-looking, I must admit. Maybe he was too good for the org too, then?

He was sweet to you? Why?

We almost met as well, you know that? It almost happened!

So why didn't it happen? And do you think that's part of the reason he left?

It's good this thread's back on topic now after the tangent it went off on from the first post up until a couple of posts ago (about shopping or some shit ).

Fauxie said:

JustErin said:

We almost met as well, you know that? It almost happened!

So why didn't it happen? And do you think that's part of the reason he left?

It's good this thread's back on topic now after the tangent it went off on from the first post up until a couple of posts ago (about shopping or some shit ).

He was supposed to be in Canada on business, in a small town fairly close to me....but in the end, it didn't happen...and he didn't even tell me about it until after it all fell through.

My guess is he's not on here because he has a life.

How dare he????

JustErin said:

Fauxie said:

So why didn't it happen? And do you think that's part of the reason he left?

It's good this thread's back on topic now after the tangent it went off on from the first post up until a couple of posts ago (about shopping or some shit ).

He was supposed to be in Canada on business, in a small town fairly close to me....but in the end, it didn't happen...and he didn't even tell me about it until after it all fell through.

My guess is he's not on here because he has a life.

How dare he????

I hate that.

No.

No.

Yes.

I could totally relate to the main character in this movie

veronikka said:

I could totally relate to the main character in this movie

I am a:

sarcastaholic

know-it-aholic

obsessive compulsaholic

altoidaholic

pretty much anything with "ahol" in it and I am done.

oh, yeah, I am also an A-hole-aholic

Shopping and I love that even if I can't find something for myself to buy, I can buy stuff for my husband or kids. My little girl is awesome to shop with - I love shopping with her. She's also very sensible for her age and really makes informed decisions about what she's spending her money on.

Sexaholic? I'm thinking most people on this site would say yes

I wouldn't say i'm a sexaholic, but I definitely have sexaholic phases. Cock is my craving of choice.

what if you shop for sex?

used to be...nearly lost all my modest savings ( I was 22-24) not anymore

money wasted on booze, music, books, food, clothes, girls...

whistle said:

what if you shop for sex?

not really. i don't think so. none of the above

So um...where is violator?

depends on my mood... its either sex chocolate or shopping

sometimes i even combine atlease 2 together...

shopping 4 chocolate

sex with chocolate

I got my Book of Shadows IV. I simply needed it.

JuliePurplehead said:

JuliePurplehead said:

I got my Book of Shadows IV. I simply needed it.

i love to shop for gifts for others, i hate shopping for myself. it's rare that i ever buy myself anything, my husband has to buy things for me usually or i won't get it. he on the other hand, LOVES to shop!

veronikka said:

JuliePurplehead said:

I got my Book of Shadows IV. I simply needed it.

I'm jealous!

It's so cool! Too cool for me as it has special codes you can scan on your smart phone to open up video tutorials for this palette. I don't even own a smart phone. I've been putting off upgrading my cell phone; might be time now.

I felt that familiar euphoric feeling wash over my body as I bought it.

I'm definately a shopaholic. I do experience a high when I buy something new. I have way too many clothes. No man needs 40 pairs of jeans! I've banned myself from the shopping malls. My biggest indulgence has been music CDs. That's my ultimate shopping high. Debt has slowed me down a lot. Though I still find myself on ebay bidding on shit that I don't need. but it's not nearly as bad as it used to be. I'm trying to find other, healthier, less expensive things to fill that void. It's all about finding happiness. Everytime I buy something, I think it's going to make me happy. It does for a few minutes and then the happiness starts to subside, especially when the credit card bill comes in.

I'm a bit of a sexaholic, too. I don't enjoy having sex with different people but I do love watching porn. I never realized it was an addiction until I discovered how much of it I had collected over the years. But, porn has gotten really boring lately so I don't seek out any new stuff as often. The porn addiction is going to be way easier to me to tackle than the shopping addiction.

Back in the day I would be able to walk into a store, or a mall, and spend hours in there (with friend(s) or my younger sister)

and not walk out with a damn thing. Clothes don’t really pull me in. I have a lot and I usually only buy something if I need something

specific for a specific event.

BUT, I have a total sickness when it comes to buying other random crap that I don’t really need. Hell, in HS I had a storage unit that

had tables (brand new and in their boxes), lamps, kitchen appliances, and other random ass household stuff that I

definitely didn’t need. I would always go around and buy stuff at yard sells, going out of business sells etc. It was useful

when I went to college and lived off campus, I just pulled the stuff out of the storage unit and had my place set up in less than

3 days without spending a shit load of cash. I like having physical things. I don’t like to gamble or anything like that. I like to spend

my money on things that I will still have in a few years time. I also have a shit load of dry food and other things stored away,

as if I’m always afraid of food suddenly running out (in the world) ha-ha.

A bookstore is a dangerous place for me. I have a kick ass library and am always buying new books to add to my collection.

My shoe collection is getting out of hand. The issue is that I buy shoes without any intention of wearing them.

I have a lot of heels/boots/wedges that have never left the house.

I used to have a sex-related-items addiction. I had tons and tons of condoms (all different kinds, sizes, colors etc), dental dams,

lubes, toys, erotica, bondage gear, lingerie, and other such related things. The thing my friends found interesting was

that I NEVER put out, it used to confuse the hell out of the people I dated. When I was living in the dorms in college people

would come to my room to get free condoms. I had an open door policy (people could knock anytime) and I would

give them the condoms/lube no questions asked. I got quite a few “emergency” visits late at night.

When it comes to shopping, I'm a 100% man. I hate shopping.

kimrachell said:

i love to shop for gifts for others, i hate shopping for myself. it's rare that i ever buy myself anything, my husband has to buy things for me usually or i won't get it. he on the other hand, LOVES to shop!

Sounds like you've got a good man. If I were you, I'd just give him my share of the money to contribute and let him shop till his heart's content.

As for shopping for others, I get frustrated because I don't have much money to spend so I'm always afraid I'll end up getting them something they won't like and I like giving people something that they really like. If I was a star, I'd be one of those that give people a car as a gift. I did feel good last year when I moved into my own place and had so much of my own furniture and my mother's furniture that I inherited that it wouldn't fit in my own little apartment. I gave my best friend a coffee table, bar stools, huge framed pictures, nic nacs, etc. I was over at his place just last week. It's a small little rundown place in a rough neighborhood but the inside of it looks absolutely wonderful. I'm just glad I was able to give him a lot of stuff that he likes because he was definitely a big help, especially while I was moving. Now, if I had to shop for clothes for him, that would be a completely different story. His grand ass would turn his nose up at some of the stuff I'd buy.