Everywhere I go, each dating site, this specific guy finds me and he looks very creepy. He copies and paste in his message a page long of him describing himself, the same thing! I delete my accounts, then open up new ones, he keeps finding me and I told him I wasn't interested. He has been doing this for 2 years lol, on every dating site I join, he is there! He said he has a fetish for black women! I think he wants to cut me up and freeze my remainings are something its scary.

Another thing, I get an im from this guy talking about he wants to ask me a question for survey purposes and dont take it wrong. Then he puts in caps DO YOU LIKE BUTT NAKED ANAL SEX, wth.. I did not reply and he kept asking me until I had to block him.

Then this other guy said you're so sexy I want to bite you so badly! and I laughed and said that sounded like some twilight stuff and he responded that he wants to bite everything I have, wth..

Weirdos! man

lol the list goes on.. I think Im going to call it quits,

there are some nice ones though.. lol yeah yeah yeah so I put my business out there, I go on dating sites w/e

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Can't you report the guy and block him?

Dating sites totally suck...I will never ever join another one again. Yuck.

JustErin said:

Dating sites totally suck...I will never ever join another one again. Yuck.

yes! it seems better to meet people in person -.-

NDRU said:

Can't you report the guy and block him?

I didnt know how, but I blocked him now lol.

IamFunkay7 said:

JustErin said:

Dating sites totally suck...I will never ever join another one again. Yuck.

yes! it seems better to meet people in person -.-

Online just makes it easier for people to harass you, even when you've explained that you're not interested. It just never seems to stop...

JustErin said:

Dating sites totally suck...I will never ever join another one again. Yuck.

What in the hell does someone who looks like you be doing on a dating site?

weused2luvhim said:

JustErin said:

Dating sites totally suck...I will never ever join another one again. Yuck.

What in the hell does someone who looks like you be doing on a dating site?

What's that supposed to mean?

JustErin said:

weused2luvhim said:

What in the hell does someone who looks like you be doing on a dating site?

What's that supposed to mean?

I guess they are only for uggos?

NDRU said:

JustErin said:

What's that supposed to mean?

I guess they are only for uggos?

No it's not for just ugly ppl, I'm not ugly

IamFunkay7 said:

NDRU said:

I guess they are only for uggos?

No it's not for just ugly ppl, I'm not ugly

Sure you're not ugly

I keed, I keed!!

NDRU said:

IamFunkay7 said:

No it's not for just ugly ppl, I'm not ugly

Sure you're not ugly

I keed, I keed!!

maybe its time for me to change my avatar then,

Just to prove a point

IamFunkay7 said:

NDRU said:

Sure you're not ugly

I keed, I keed!!

maybe its time for me to change my avatar then,

Just to prove a point

aha! my plan worked perfectly!!!

No you are definitely not even close to ugly

NDRU said:

IamFunkay7 said:

maybe its time for me to change my avatar then,

Just to prove a point

aha! my plan worked perfectly!!!

No you are definitely not even close to ugly

I've been tricked lol! and thanks ^_^

Dating sites are the devil. I barely go there.

'Cause JustErin scares all the good guys away.

Because they reflect the real world.

The guys on dating sites are not a species from another galaxy. It's sad, but that's a fairly reliable representation of men that are out there.

dJJ said:

Because they reflect the real world.

The guys on dating sites are not a species from another galaxy. It's sad, but that's a fairly reliable representation of men that are out there.

I've never joined one but I lurk from time to time. It seems like a lot of the guys are still on there every time I lurk. So it makes me think that either they suck or they're just looking for some ass. I'm not interested in weeding through the good, the bad and the ugly.

That and I simply can't handle being in competition with others which essentially is what happens on dating sites. I'm waaaaayyyy too insecure.

Fauxie said:

'Cause JustErin scares all the good guys away.

Shut up.

I don't scare them away...I snatch them up.

dJJ said:

Because they reflect the real world.

The guys on dating sites are not a species from another galaxy. It's sad, but that's a fairly reliable representation of men that are out there.

JuliePurplehead said:

I've never joined one but I lurk from time to time. It seems like a lot of the guys are still on there every time I lurk. So it makes me think that either they suck or they're just looking for some ass. I'm not interested in weeding through the good, the bad and the ugly.

That and I simply can't handle being in competition with others which essentially is what happens on dating sites. I'm waaaaayyyy too insecure.

i know plenty of people whose husbands have been rumbled playing about at those places

At least you haven't had any Smoove B loverman type replies.

Adorecream said:

At least you haven't had any Smoove B loverman type replies.

Oh, I bet she has.

weused2luvhim said:

JustErin said:

Dating sites totally suck...I will never ever join another one again. Yuck.

What in the hell does someone who looks like you be doing on a dating site?

That's like asking a pretty single girl what the hell she is doing at a singles bar or happening party!

Most everyone who's single has been or is on a dating site. It's so mainstream that almost every single popular good looking woman I've know thats active on the social scene, but happens to be single has tried out a dating site.

I met my lady on a dating site. And both of us have no problem meeting people at bars, through friends, or parties either. Which we were also both doing. It's just another way to meet people.

Is this normal behavior on the computer? I had a guy sending me weird messages, and I flipped! Deleted all my accounts- thought I had a stalker. My friends said I was overreacting but I don't want someone I don't want, wanting me!

JustErin said:

Adorecream said:

At least you haven't had any Smoove B loverman type replies.

Oh, I bet she has.

What in the hell is someone who looks like you doing on a dating site?

ufoclub said:

weused2luvhim said:

What in the hell does someone who looks like you be doing on a dating site?

That's like asking a pretty single girl what the hell she is doing at a singles bar or happening party!

Most everyone who's single has been or is on a dating site. It's so mainstream that almost every single popular good looking woman I've know thats active on the social scene, but happens to be single has tried out a dating site.

I met my lady on a dating site. And both of us have no problem meeting people at bars, through friends, or parties either. Which we were also both doing. It's just another way to meet people.

You mean I missed meeting you on a dating site???? I was too late?

Damn.

Fauxie said:

JustErin said:

Oh, I bet she has.

What in the hell is someone who looks like you doing on a dating site?

"someone that looks like you" freaks me out.

That could mean ANYTHING.

JustErin said:

Fauxie said:

What in the hell is someone who looks like you doing on a dating site?

"someone that looks like you" freaks me out.

That could mean ANYTHING.

Actually, it could now that I think of it. 'Why would YOU, looking how you do, even bother?'

Still, I think it was definitely a case of 'you're too hot for dating sites for realz'