JustErin said:

Clearly, I need help....

JustErin said:

Fauxie said:

Yeah, well if you did kinda intimate that and you didn't get the sense that he's stupid then what would it mean? He could be into you but not all that much, but he could also be really into you and still doing all that shit. The site might be like his new toy and he's just having too much fun with it right now.

I don't want to get even the slightest emotionally attached to anyone that is into me - but not that much.

Isn't the bigger issue that I'm snooping around checking up on him in the first place?

Like, literally everything this guys has said to me, I looked into it to see if it checked out. I'm paranoid as all fuck.

Clearly, I need help....

or another drink.

Yeah, stop that.

You're your own worst enemy. How did you get like that? Given all you have to offer it seems like you're locked into kinda cocking things up for yourself. What to do?

JustErin said:

Fauxie said:

What we need is for Violator to return so that Erin can do her whole flirting/crushed to fuck because they never hook up thing entirely on the org, and not over at some site where we can't see it.

I messaged him the other day.

He hasn't responded.

oh holy fucking shit.

Girl, you HAVE EARNED YOUR PITY PARTY, so rock this thread.

imago said:

ok, other than the fact that he's cheating on you, was the website effective?

Like, did it actually truly match you with a partner?

I'm always curious about this, because I think on the one hand it eliminates people with obvious differences (politics, height, weight, penis size, animals, etc.), but how do we know folks are being honest?

I guess it's no different at the bar? or church?

I think the org should set itself up as an ass-connection site, though it's got a 50/50 hit or miss of success.

I thought that was what the photo whore threads where all about?

johnart said:

imago said:

I don't think you folks are being terribly helpful to Erin. I know your'e friends with her and all so you don't want to kick her while she's down, but doesn't she need an HONEST opinion of what is going on?

We really need Redfeathers here to offer her 2 cents.

Has she even posted what the fuck happened?? Like did she blow some dude she met on that dating site in the back of a cab and then he bolted and stuck her with having to pay the cabfare??

What happened Erin?

I drink, so if your issue has been explained in detail earlier in this thread I have a medical excuse for having missed it, so please don't make fun of me the way you did that retarded bullet head shaped poor defensless minority dude.

Hahahaha.

JustErin said:

Fauxie said:

But he's just keeping his options open, surely. He could say all that and be genuine and still be on the site and posting new pictures, couldn't he? How does he know what you were thinking about it if you didn't come out directly and say it? We're men, not bloody intelligent people or something.

A serious fucking answer???

Well, in my own little guarded way I told him that I was into this thing with him.

I dunno, still being on there is one thing...but posting new pics?

Did you guys have a discussion about how neither of you should be back on the site posting new pics?

JustErin said:

Fauxie said:

Yeah, well if you did kinda intimate that and you didn't get the sense that he's stupid then what would it mean? He could be into you but not all that much, but he could also be really into you and still doing all that shit. The site might be like his new toy and he's just having too much fun with it right now.

I don't want to get even the slightest emotionally attached to anyone that is into me - but not that much.

Isn't the bigger issue that I'm snooping around checking up on him in the first place?

Like, literally everything this guys has said to me, I looked into it to see if it checked out. I'm paranoid as all fuck.

Clearly, I need help....

or another drink.

I don't mean this in any sort of assholish sense, but I kinda wonder what you would tell someone who was posting this...

Fauxie said:

JustErin said:

I don't want to get even the slightest emotionally attached to anyone that is into me - but not that much.

Isn't the bigger issue that I'm snooping around checking up on him in the first place?

Like, literally everything this guys has said to me, I looked into it to see if it checked out. I'm paranoid as all fuck.

Clearly, I need help....

or another drink.

Yeah, stop that.

You're your own worst enemy. How did you get like that? Given all you have to offer it seems like you're locked into kinda cocking things up for yourself. What to do?

But don't you often check to see who I'm obsessed with on the org at certain times then respond with pangs of jealousy?

I can't believe people are actually trying to post serious, helpful responses.

kewlschool said:

imago said:

ok, other than the fact that he's cheating on you, was the website effective?

Like, did it actually truly match you with a partner?

I'm always curious about this, because I think on the one hand it eliminates people with obvious differences (politics, height, weight, penis size, animals, etc.), but how do we know folks are being honest?

I guess it's no different at the bar? or church?

I think the org should set itself up as an ass-connection site, though it's got a 50/50 hit or miss of success.

I thought that was what the photo whore threads where all about?

Those aren't terribly honest though. On the first meeting you'd be scratching your head saying, "I thought this chick had glowing (literally) difuse-glow skintone? )

imago said:

ok, other than the fact that he's cheating on you, was the website effective?

Like, did it actually truly match you with a partner?

I'm always curious about this, because I think on the one hand it eliminates people with obvious differences (politics, height, weight, penis size, animals, etc.), but how do we know folks are being honest?

I guess it's no different at the bar? or church?

I think the org should set itself up as an ass-connection site, though it's got a 50/50 hit or miss of success.

He's not cheating on me, we're not together.

My problem is that I am supposed to be so fucking amazing that he should have not only dumped the site but should have....he should have...fuck, I dunno...now I'm drunk and can't think of something else.

Cerebus said:

JustErin said:

Clearly, I need help....

Cerebus said:

I can't believe people are actually trying to post serious, helpful responses.

Again, you need only check shit out like this:http://prince.org/msg/7/286420

to see that folks will post serious responses to anything.

I do think that she's being somewhat serious though. Perhaps more or less just venting a bit

than looking for solutions, which I'd imagine she's too smart to request here.

johnart said:

JustErin said:

A serious fucking answer???

Well, in my own little guarded way I told him that I was into this thing with him.

I dunno, still being on there is one thing...but posting new pics?

Did you guys have a discussion about how neither of you should be back on the site posting new pics?

No.

Ooops.

FauxReal said:

JustErin said:

I don't want to get even the slightest emotionally attached to anyone that is into me - but not that much.

Isn't the bigger issue that I'm snooping around checking up on him in the first place?

Like, literally everything this guys has said to me, I looked into it to see if it checked out. I'm paranoid as all fuck.

Clearly, I need help....

or another drink.

I don't mean this in any sort of assholish sense, but I kinda wonder what you would tell someone who was posting this...

"clearly, you need help".

JustErin said:

imago said:

ok, other than the fact that he's cheating on you, was the website effective?

Like, did it actually truly match you with a partner?

I'm always curious about this, because I think on the one hand it eliminates people with obvious differences (politics, height, weight, penis size, animals, etc.), but how do we know folks are being honest?

I guess it's no different at the bar? or church?

I think the org should set itself up as an ass-connection site, though it's got a 50/50 hit or miss of success.

He's not cheating on me, we're not together.

My problem is that I am supposed to be so fucking amazing that he should have not only dumped the site but should have....he should have...fuck, I dunno...now I'm drunk and can't think of something else.

gurrrrrrrrrrrrrrrl.

Let me say that again in a "Dan" voice, so you understand me.

GURRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRL.

[Edited 8/31/11 23:32pm]

imago said:

Fauxie said:

Yeah, stop that.

You're your own worst enemy. How did you get like that? Given all you have to offer it seems like you're locked into kinda cocking things up for yourself. What to do?

But don't you often check to see who I'm obsessed with on the org at certain times then respond with pangs of jealousy?

Of course, but that's different. When I log off the org at 3am, my fingers worn down to the bone and no longer able to muster the strength to punch out any more malice-filled words as I chase your wannaboos around the forums, I can kiss my wife on her brow before I go to sleep. JustErin has no-one.

Cerebus said:

I can't believe people are actually trying to post serious, helpful responses.

Holy shit dude, we're just having fun here.

Geez...

JustErin said:

imago said:

ok, other than the fact that he's cheating on you, was the website effective?

Like, did it actually truly match you with a partner?

I'm always curious about this, because I think on the one hand it eliminates people with obvious differences (politics, height, weight, penis size, animals, etc.), but how do we know folks are being honest?

I guess it's no different at the bar? or church?

I think the org should set itself up as an ass-connection site, though it's got a 50/50 hit or miss of success.

He's not cheating on me, we're not together.

My problem is that I am supposed to be so fucking amazing that he should have not only dumped the site but should have....he should have...fuck, I dunno...now I'm drunk and can't think of something else.

ok ok.

He's preemtively cheating on you, and your ego is bruised?

Or perhaps you're a bit tired of casual hookups and want something a bit more

subtantial with no drama or bullshit. And the new photos are and indication that

there will be drama should you go further?

Desire2006's pity parties were far darker. This thread seems like you'll come out of this fine.

imago said:

kewlschool said:

I thought that was what the photo whore threads where all about?

Those aren't terribly honest though. On the first meeting you'd be scratching your head saying, "I thought this chick had glowing (literally) difuse-glow skintone? )

^^Not only that-you could be a lady who posts a "pretty" picture with long thick beautiful hair on her back and a good set teeth that can pull your truck out of the mud. And you will still get a compliment here.

JustErin said:

johnart said:

Did you guys have a discussion about how neither of you should be back on the site posting new pics?

No.

Ooops.

Because I was about to post in response to what you said up above...

Your problem is actually that you assumed he would do the same things you did.

....fuckin' nevermind... I'm not getting sucked into this mess.

JustErin said:

Cerebus said:

I can't believe people are actually trying to post serious, helpful responses.

Holy shit dude, we're just having fun here.

Geez...

Look where that got you.

Cerebus said:

JustErin said:

Holy shit dude, we're just having fun here.

Geez...

Look where that got you.

imago said:

kewlschool said:

I thought that was what the photo whore threads where all about?

Those aren't terribly honest though. On the first meeting you'd be scratching your head saying, "I thought this chick had glowing (literally) difuse-glow skintone? )

True that. Lawd, if I spend a lazy day on the computer when there's a photowhore thread, scrolling up and down, seeing my pics over and over as I respond to the comments about them I get exclusively from gay men and middle-aged women, when I next look in the mirror I think 'fuck me, you're far uglier than on the internet, Nick'.

Fauxie said:

imago said:

Those aren't terribly honest though. On the first meeting you'd be scratching your head saying, "I thought this chick had glowing (literally) difuse-glow skintone? )

True that. Lawd, if I spend a lazy day on the computer when there's a photowhore thread, scrolling up and down, seeing my pics over and over as I respond to the comments about them I get exclusively from gay men and middle-aged women, when I next look in the mirror I think 'fuck me, you're far uglier than on the internet, Nick'.

I will always think of you as a leaping kitten

Fauxie said:

imago said:

Those aren't terribly honest though. On the first meeting you'd be scratching your head saying, "I thought this chick had glowing (literally) difuse-glow skintone? )

True that. Lawd, if I spend a lazy day on the computer when there's a photowhore thread, scrolling up and down, seeing my pics over and over as I respond to the comments about them I get exclusively from gay men and middle-aged women, when I next look in the mirror I think 'fuck me, you're far uglier than on the internet, Nick'.

Well, obviously, why do you think Dani came up with "org-wise"?

kewlschool said:

imago said:

Those aren't terribly honest though. On the first meeting you'd be scratching your head saying, "I thought this chick had glowing (literally) difuse-glow skintone? )

^^Not only that-you could be a lady who posts a "pretty" picture with long thick beautiful hair on her back and a good set teeth that can pull your truck out of the mud. And you will still get a compliment here.

Yeah, but I've figure out the code. When folks focus on "smile", "hair", "eyes", they're reaching for compliments. When they say they want to sleep with you, they're more or less telling the truth.

If a gay man says that he thinks you're hot and sexy, he's really saying he wants you to be his portly fag-hag. Chile, please.

Sometimes, the compliments make me want to stab someboy in the face.

This stupid ass thread is making me angry now.

.

[Edited 8/31/11 23:43pm]

kewlschool said:

imago said:

Those aren't terribly honest though. On the first meeting you'd be scratching your head saying, "I thought this chick had glowing (literally) difuse-glow skintone? )

^^Not only that-you could be a lady who posts a "pretty" picture with long thick beautiful hair on her back and a good set teeth that can pull your truck out of the mud. And you will still get a compliment here.

Never mind, Imago just said it.

On some level, dating websites can be likened to Erin's blue exercise ball.

imago said:

This stupid ass thread is making angry now.

This thread has the power to produce anger!