I really wanted to keep up with this thread, but damn.

Is there a special color ribbon or bracelet girls who are willing to do anal wear nowadays in college?

I suggest that.

Cerebus is having flashbacks to threads about handkerchief colors, which he still doesn't fucking understand. But he guesses the bracelet color would be brown. Or maybe somebody should just start a company that makes way too tight sweats with the word ANAL printed in an arc across the ass.

johnart is posting this post without quoting Cerebus on principle.

johnart loves the idea of the dumbass sweats with writing on the ass saying shit that would actually make sense or be useful.

He also recalls the hankie threads (not from this site) Cerebus is referring to.

johnart said:

I really wanted to keep up with this thread, but damn.

Is there a special color ribbon or bracelet girls who are willing to do anal wear nowadays in college?

I suggest that.

yeah they wear anal bead necklaces

I had a roommate who did that.. she looked like Drew Carey as a woman, but thats okay you can still have her

IamFunkay7 said:

johnart said:

I really wanted to keep up with this thread, but damn.

Is there a special color ribbon or bracelet girls who are willing to do anal wear nowadays in college?

I suggest that.

yeah they wear anal bead necklaces

I had a roommate who did that.. she looked like Drew Carey as a woman, but thats okay you can still have her

SHUT UPPPPP they do NOTTTTT

tinaz said:

TheFreakerFantastic said:

^ You've dug yourself an even bigger hole now....just bury it and leave the poor girl alone.

How on earth can you tell if someone is genuine or isn't through an internet forum, its a mad statement to make.

If you or the other negative posters have nothing constructive to say don't say it and move on...leave her to the people that do want to help a fellow human being.

Have some sympathy i'm sure you've had some rough times like that in the past especially when you were a teenager...

[Edited 8/31/11 13:07pm]

You did read this...

I brought a vase hoping that a boy would bring me flowers.. what am i kidding no one evr brings me flowers or gifts and that's never gonna randomly happen.

And this...

It just maes me sad because my roommate has a boyfriend who bought her 2 bouquets of red roses and I had to let her use my vase for it. OH and to make it EVEN WORSE another boy likes her and brougt her flowers too..along with a cute teddy bear, chocolate and soup (becuase she has a cold).

And finally this...

She's mexican and I guess got all the right looks so boys just flock to her. I hate myself

You seriously thought any of this was real... Im not picking on her, hell I haven even talked to her since my second post..

And as i stated before, i was not like that in high school, and i couldnt stand girls that were...

I gave her constructive criticism, you are choosing to skim over it if you even read it in the first place...

Well she clearly is upset and it is real as she has even posted a reply since you posted. Why would someone do this as a joke or pretend, i mean what would be the possible advantage in that?

Have some compassion to a fellow woman, i'm sure you've felt like that at some point in the past. So much for sisterhood!!

[Edited 9/1/11 1:16am]

This thread here...wtf.

FauxReal said:

This thread here...wtf.

johnart said:

I really wanted to keep up with this thread, but damn.

Is there a special color ribbon or bracelet girls who are willing to do anal wear nowadays in college?

I suggest that.

Okay so I read the first post and response to this thread and then click to late in the thread, because it got so many replies I thought, "What if it got really sweet and emotional?"... and I get this.

johnart said:

johnart is posting this post without quoting Cerebus on principle.

johnart loves the idea of the dumbass sweats with writing on the ass saying shit that would actually make sense or be useful.

He also recalls the hankie threads (not from this site) Cerebus is referring to.

Wasn't there a gif with a key to the Hanky Code?

Ha!

http://btbears.com/hcode.html

[Edited 9/1/11 7:04am]

imago said:

ok, let's start at the very beggining.

First, are you an alter or recycled orger?

Good alter. Better thread.

Ottensen said:

Genesia said:

You are a piece of work. You come in here and, instead of replying to the OP, proceed to lecture and condescend to me. You need to back the fuck up - and take your own advice about taking something to orgnotes if you have a problem.

I think it's pretty clear who went there first.

This is amusing.

I'm not going to insult you as you have tried to do to me. My standards in how I address others here are, shall we say, a bit different than yours, so let me explain it this way:

In my original post, the phrase "power of the tongue" was one I thought you were familiar with, and thus understood the generational nuances attached to it. In which case you would have understood exactly where I was coming from.

Well apparently that's not the case.

Let the record show that in my first post I actually co-signed what you and Efan were saying as a response to the OP; hardly an act of aggressive condescension or lecture. My second post explained why I posted what did regarding the word pathetic. Hardly a reason for you to say I'm a piece a work, nor for me to back the fuck up. Back the fuck up? Girl, please. I'm laughing at the folly of you right now.

While I often agree with advice that you give on these threads, I'm sure you'll find many in agreement here that you can be rude and biting in your delivery when it's not necessary. You've just displayed these tendencies yet again in your responses to me.

With that said, I think I've been here long enough for everyone here to know that I back the fuck up nor bow down to NO ONE- least of all you, Doll.

See that, Genesia? While there's a plethora of unsavory phrases galloping about in the corners of my mind to refer to you at this moment, I consciously and purposely chose the word "Doll" to refer to you & soften everything up a bit. You see, just because I can say any and everything to another person here doesn't necessarily mean that I should or I will. Learn the lesson or not for yourself, Honey--- frankly, I could give a damn and will continue to do me regardless; however I don't think it's a crime to consider context before using certain words in advising others and I honestly stand by that. You however, may just say the wrong thing to someone one day and end up being drop-kicked in your throat.

Bottom line, I don't think I did anything warranting your responses nor did I have ill intention in the post that spurred them. I'm not here to start trouble with anyone, and therefore request kindly that you not start trouble with me. Furthermore--- please note that the restraint that I try to use here is not weakness, nor carte blanche for you to address me any way you see fit. I'm not that that chick, Honey. Believe it.

You have never been disrespectful as far as I have seen. I don't know...lately a few of these girls have been just plain ugly to people. I don't come here too often anymore, but I definitely have noticed it.

Cerebus said:

JerseyKRS said:

I was kidding Rodeo!

A sense of humor is.... ahhh fuck it!

I think that Rodeo KNEW that JerseyKRS was kidding but wanted to get that idea right out of the OP's head ASAP. Becoming easy is the last thing an insecure young woman should do.

Now that I have read further it does seem that Rodeo did not get Jerseykrs' remark as a joke,hmmm.

[Edited 9/1/11 8:30am]

johnart said:

I didn't want to come in here and seem insensitive, but since other orgers have beat me to it...

What kind of institution do you attend that every girl buys a vase in preparation of receiving flowers?

It's been a bit since I was in college . Is this a new thing??

Also, 2 bouquets from her boyfriend annnnnd other dudes coming around with soup??

You're roomate clearly does anal.

I guess there were too many orgers fighting for anyone to show appretiation for this post. The roomate deffinately is giving off the "touch me squeeze me, oops-oh I kinda like that" vibe.

Well babyj, this was a good thread because you got to see the individual personalities of many regulars. Some people are always going to be flippant and some will always try and be sympathetic. If you feel that anyone on the org is being mean to you just go to their org page and log onto other threads that they have been recently on. You will see the same snarky style of writing on those threads and realize it is not you. It is that orgers personality. Don't take it personally.

Deadflow3r said:

Well babyj, this was a good thread because you got to see the individual personalities of many regulars. Some people are always going to be flippant and some will always try and be sympathetic. If you feel that anyone on the org is being mean to you just go to their org page and log onto other threads that they have been recently on. You will see the same snarky style of writing on those threads and realize it is not you. It is that orgers personality. Don't take it personally.

nvrmd...

[Edited 9/1/11 9:10am]

paintedlady said:

Deadflow3r said:

Well babyj, this was a good thread because you got to see the individual personalities of many regulars. Some people are always going to be flippant and some will always try and be sympathetic. If you feel that anyone on the org is being mean to you just go to their org page and log onto other threads that they have been recently on. You will see the same snarky style of writing on those threads and realize it is not you. It is that orgers personality. Don't take it personally.

babyj is imago.

I am so gonna fucken kill that man I am telling you Imago if that is true, and you had me fucken fooled you are sooooo gonna need more than one jar of that KY jam before I get through with you!!!!!!

you will figure it out, in the ends you'll be okay.

I'll be your boyfriend.

Deadflow3r said:

paintedlady said:

babyj is imago.

I am so gonna fucken kill that man I am telling you Imago if that is true, and you had me fucken fooled you are sooooo gonna need more than one jar of that KY jam before I get through with you!!!!!!

no wonder he hides in Thailand...

I think I may have made an error. Never mind.

To answer the original post...

Let me say I know where you're coming from. I'm 21, in grad school, and I've never had a boyfriend, or a gentleman caller. But let me tell ya, I'm not beating myself too much about it. I mean, yes I have my moments where it bothers me and I cry about it, but I pick myself up and move on. Because I know in the end, crying over it won't make it happen. I'd rather invest my time in meaningful pursuits, like my studies, my friendships, my family..etc, than to keep worry why or why not a certain guy didn't ask me out.

See, you have to give yourself a sense of purpose in life. What are you studying right now? You're undergrad, right? Why don't you make that a larger priority? To do better and be the best you can be in your studies or in anything else? LIfe's too short to worry about this, especially when you're this young (and I bet you're pretty too)

The point I'm tryin' to say is, men will always be around. And trust me on this, though they say nothing, they notice you're around. The time will come when the right one will step forward and ask you out. You should not make seeking their attention your number one priority. Take it from one who knows, you'll only be miserable.

I don't believe that there are certain "leagues" of people. They all wake up and look like crap in the morning, so as far as I'm concerned, we're all the same.

One day, the right guy will be there and it'll be the right time. Just in the mean time enjoy your singlehood. Look at yourself as independent, not alone. Women around our age sometimes wear men as accesories. I say that sometimes a bare arm is better than wearing the wrong jewellry.

PS I do remember you, amberella. If you ever need a friend, feel free to PM me.

babyjubilation said:

It seems that it comes easy to a lot of girls. How did they get a boyfriend and how come boysdon't ever talk to me? Im in college and I thought that at least ONE boy would say something. I talk to boys all the time and I ALWAYS have to be the one to initiate the conversation. Will I ever have someone or be alone forever. It definetly feels like it. I brought a vase hoping that a boy would bring me flowers.. what am i kidding no one evr brings me flowers or gifts and that's never gonna randomly happen. It just maes me sad because my roommate has a boyfriend who bought her 2 bouquets of red roses and I had to let her use my vase for it. OH and to make it EVEN WORSE another boy likes her and brougt her flowers too..along with a cute teddy bear, chocolate and soup (becuase she has a cold). I think because she's far prettier than me. She's mexican and I guess got all the right looks so boys just flock to her. I hate myself.

There are tons of guys out there looking for a steady Girl and not having much luck. So it goes both ways...Don't worry about a Thang...The Right Dude will come along when you're not even expecting it...It happens like that a lot. One day you're going to meet a Guy and you will feel a "connection" that you won't be able to brush off. You might have to ask him to hang-out simply because some of us Men are SLOW. You have to decide what you're looking for in a guy and step-up your Game. It might be time for you to hang out more with your cirlce-of-friends. Change up your social-settings a bit.

P.S. don't be envious of those females that attract males like flies. When I was younger every guy in America seemed to have a crush on Christy Brinkley. She attracted men like flies and had at least 3 failed marriages. Halle Berry has the same story. Marilyn Monroe and Elizabeth Taylor could be two of the best looking women of all times and they were soooo unlucky in love. When you attract men like flies they are usually attracted to your looks or extra girlie energy and they don't bother to look any further then that.

At the same time they put on a good show. The whole 'Mr Goodnight" thing were they buy those women as much as they can afford. However, once they hook them they aren't so nice to those women any longer. It was just a game. They wanted the beauty to show off to their friends; they don't really have any sort of special spiritual connection or chemistry with her.

Better to wait longer, work on being the most authentic you you can be, and wind up with someone who is really into YOU and not just your look.

Deadflow3r said:

P.S. don't be envious of those females that attract males like flies. When I was younger every guy in America seemed to have a crush on Christy Brinkley. She attracted men like flies and had at least 3 failed marriages. Halle Berry has the same story. Marilyn Monroe and Elizabeth Taylor could be two of the best looking women of all times and they were soooo unlucky in love. When you attract men like flies they are usually attracted to your looks or extra girlie energy and they don't bother to look any further then that.

At the same time they put on a good show. The whole 'Mr Goodnight" thing were they buy those women as much as they can afford. However, once they hook them they aren't so nice to those women any longer. It was just a game. They wanted the beauty to show off to their friends; they don't really have any sort of special spiritual connection or chemistry with her.

Better to wait longer, work on being the most authentic you you can be, and wind up with someone who is really into YOU and not just your look.