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I didn't want to come in here and seem insensitive, but since other orgers have beat me to it... What kind of institution do you attend that every girl buys a vase in preparation of receiving flowers? It's been a bit since I was in college . Is this a new thing??
Also, 2 bouquets from her boyfriend annnnnd other dudes coming around with soup?? You're roomate clearly does anal.
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I don't picture any other couples having grudge-fucks on their honeymoon.
Bear in mind this isn't unusual, but describes how more than half of our nights out go. We once argued in the taxi at around 3am on the way home about what had been the best value thing to buy in Subway. We'd ended up not buying anything after a stand-off in the restaurant. We argued in the street until a taxi came and continued the 20 mins until we were home. Then I fucked her and came on her face.
I figure I won but did I? I'm always worried that my wife might be enjoying herself. Maybe I'm just being paranoid.
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[Edited 8/30/11 22:53pm] MY COUSIN WORKS IN A PHARMACY AND SHE SAID THEY ENEMA'D PRANCE INTO OBLIVION WITH FENTONILS!! | |
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I will be 23 in a week and some days and I never dated or anything, I graduate in December from college, and... uhhhh thats just life. Idk I felt like maybe I was an alien or something because.. I just dont do well with dating.. never been on a date.. I'm just a bit odd when it comes to the dating deal. I love myself and really when it comes down to it, you just got to love yourself. Look at yourself through the eyes of the creator, not through the foggy mirrors of others. you certainly are not alone, but thats okat because in the end, its all good. Yeah sometimes it depression depending on what angle you look at it from. I.. dont have much to say about it. I mean just know you arent alone. | |
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I guess if the OP wasnt totally laughable I may just feel a tinge of guilt for joking around, but come on! If she is always coddled her whole life and never told she is being a whiny baby then she will never learn how to properly communicate with men in order to land herself one..
I couldnt draw on my experience because at 18 I was nothing like her... I wasnt even like that at 16... I dont understand that mentality...
My whole point was the approach... You wanna play with the grown ups, then act like one... ~~~~~ Oh that voice...incredible....there should be a musical instrument called George Michael... ~~~~~ | |
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Okay, Genesia...you know I was with you until you kept throwing out the word pathetic.
Remember... power of the tongue
With the exception of the p-word, I'm all good with your & Efan's points. Sometimes a gal just has to put on her big girl panties, buckle up on concentrate on fufilling herself in other ways without depending on love to do that for them. [Edited 8/31/11 6:27am] | |
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oh dear. | |
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And you need to check the actual meaning of pathetic, without projecting your own ideas of what I "might" mean. We don’t mourn artists because we knew them. We mourn them because they helped us know ourselves. | |
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You lack confidence, and I'm guessing that's why you haven't dated. You're entire post goes from one side of the argument to the other, and contains some clear contradictions. Its nice that you're trying to be supportive, but you "don't do well with dating" is not the same as you've "never been on a date." Just... never mind... | |
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Really, now?
Well perhaps you might wanna pump ya breaks for a second, Girlie: for real.
I don't need to check anything, Genesia- I've already studied Greek & know the roots to the word pathetic very well, and recall that I also have a pretty good SAT verbal score. In my estimation, I'm good. But thanks for the suggestion
In all sincerity, what I wanted to express in that post is that in today's society the connotation of the word pathethic is very negative . Would you deny that this isn't true in many cases where the word is casually used today? Given the nature of the thread I was honestly considering the connotation of the words we use when dispensing advice, especially as older women with more seasoned experience in life, and how those words impact others- nothing more, nothing less.
That being said, let me clear: I'm not projecting shit ...so let's not do that dance, mmmm'kay? There is no need to insult nor condescend in your posts to me, so, for future reference, please don't. It's not necessary.
If you have a problem with what I've just written, I advise you to move it to orgnotes henceforth.
Otherwise I stand by what I said before; I agree with your post that states a person attracts what they put out, but I disagree with referring to the OP as pathetic- for what I thought were obvious reasons. Punto e basta.
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You are a piece of work. You come in here and, instead of replying to the OP, proceed to lecture and condescend to me. You need to back the fuck up - and take your own advice about taking something to orgnotes if you have a problem.
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Im sorry that i didn't know i had to tell my feelings in the form of a college dissertation.
Im also sorry that I didn't spell check, proofread, look for comma splices, run-ons and indent when I was suppose too. I hope I can make up the grade in extra credit. [Edited 8/31/11 8:45am] | |
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Hey, we're all here to help you and whenever I come across girls around your age and in their early 20's who say similar things like feeling they want a boyfriend just cause they are done school now or don't have a job yet and things like that, I tell them it's so important to learn to love yourself and focus on enhancing your own life, and most of all, developing self-respect. A good guy will find THAT attractive. Also, someone said earlier guys will get turned off if you throw yourselves onto them and chase them away, but you also have to look out for yourself, cause some guys can easily take advantage of you and your needs. I believe I had similar thoughts when I was 15 going on 16 feeling pressured to have a boyfriend by my 16th birthday cause I felt left out when seeing my friends having them(and not realizing this pressure was intense after a death in the family), and after a difficult death I dealt with 2 years ago, I started to feel alone again though this time I had to focus on doing things for myself, and gave people the same advice I'm giving you, though it eventually led to a bad relationship I'm no longer in. I think you need to sit down with yourself and figure out what voids you are trying to fill in your life. Is it lonliness? Is it feelings of inferiority? Low confidence and self-esteem? Worrying over grades? And believe me, a relationship is like having a job and requires too much energy, consider yourself lucky for having other opportunities in your life. Oh, and buy teddies for your bed, and flowers for your table, you deserve it for yourself! And if people your age are pressuring you, tell them to focus on their own life. I get very irritated if people approach me and say I should date this guy or that guy or whatever or feel shocked I'm not with someone just cause I'm 28 and in their eyes, good looking. Just cause they are happy with having someone doesn't mean it's for everyone. [Edited 8/31/11 10:23am] | |
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Don't worry about that. You'll be fine | |
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Don't worry, some people on here have nothing better to do in life than nitpick, it's usually because they don't have anything worth saying.
I hope some of the more sensible responses have comforted you, just hang in there, its something we all have gone through at that kind of age....
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The government is messing with my post..
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I like you BJ but, if you got mad at what these people said you need to toughen up girl. :lol:
I'm learning day by day that the world doesn't owe you shat! Not a boyfriend, not some shitty roses, not a sensitive comment... | |
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You get what you're willing to give.
It's not about what is owed to anyone.
The girl reached out, and y'all call yourselves giving out tough love, but it comes across as bitterness. Bitter ain't tough. Good night, sweet Prince | 7 June 1958 - 21 April 2016
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She wasn't playing with you. She was asking for help. I thought she made that clear. And I wasn't aware you knew her to make that judgment about her.
Old folks ain't always grown ups. This thread has proven that.
[Edited 8/31/11 12:14pm] Good night, sweet Prince | 7 June 1958 - 21 April 2016
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^ Totally agree. | |
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EXACTLY!!
So this whole thread is pointless because according to you "I" dont know her so why would she even come on a board full of total strangers and ask US why boys dont like her... How are we supposed to know.. We dont know her.... How are we supposed to tell her how to fix a problem that we have no idea what it involves..
It was a rant, plain and simple, she wasnt asking for help... She was simply disgusted at the point in her life and probably by now realizes it was silly... A RANT, plain and simple... I was never mean to her in the first place so I think your barking up the wrong tree...
I can tell when someone genuinely needs help with a problem, and when someone is just spouting off because they are frustrated... And if people cant take MULTIPLE difference's of opinions, then they ought not ask for them...
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^ You've dug yourself an even bigger hole now....just bury it and leave the poor girl alone. How on earth can you tell if someone is genuine or isn't through an internet forum, its a mad statement to make. If you or the other negative posters have nothing constructive to say don't say it and move on...leave her to the people that do want to help a fellow human being. Have some sympathy i'm sure you've had some rough times like that in the past especially when you were a teenager... [Edited 8/31/11 13:07pm] | |
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To the OP: I don't have much advice but I can say that at least you're young so you have plenty of time to find a boyfriend, that is if the boyfriend doesn't find you first! And if shyness or something like that is keeping you from meeting someone at least you have a better chance being female since it's kinda expected for guys to take the first step.
I'm 28, will be 29 next month - I'm rather shy and I've never had a girlfriend - closest thing was a 6 months long friends-with-benefits situation last year. And I don't know if I'll find someone, be it a friend with benefits or a girlfriend, anytime soon.
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