Ironically there are probably tons of desperate guys at your school posting exactly the same thing on other forums...so don't worry. It's part of being a teenager.

My tip is make sure you look your best and take care of your personal appearance. Men are very visually based in terms of attraction. Also try to have confidence and belief in yourself and you will become magnetic, if you seem desperate and clingy it scares men off, so try to feel happy in yourself and it will come. Go out with your girlfriends too - the more you go out the more you have a chance to meet people.

Another option is Internet dating but it sounds like you are v.young so you should be a little careful, go with a friend if you arrange to meet anyone.

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I've never had one either.

^ I take it you are joking and you are hetero or are you a closet case?!

TheFreakerFantastic said:

^ I take it you are joking and you are hetero or are you a closet case?!

a sense of humor.......

...... ......

TheFreakerFantastic said:

^ I take it you are joking and you are hetero or are you a closet case?!

Yes.

RodeoSchro said:

TheFreakerFantastic said:

^ I take it you are joking and you are hetero or are you a closet case?!

Yes.

Which is it to be - hetero or closet?

TheFreakerFantastic said:

RodeoSchro said:

Yes.

Which is it to be - hetero or closet?

It can't be both?

I can't be a hetero closet case?

Bummer.

RodeoSchro said:

TheFreakerFantastic said:

Which is it to be - hetero or closet?

It can't be both?

I can't be a hetero closet case?

Bummer.

A closet hetero? A gay man too afraid to confess to being hetero?!?! Never heard of that?!

TheFreakerFantastic said:

RodeoSchro said:

It can't be both?

I can't be a hetero closet case?

Bummer.

A closet hetero? A gay man too afraid to confess to being hetero?!?! Never heard of that?!

Well once upon a time, for three days Imago listed me as his boo in his signature.

I guess that's as close as I've ever gotten to the closet side of things. Please don't take that away from me.

RodeoSchro said:

TheFreakerFantastic said:

A closet hetero? A gay man too afraid to confess to being hetero?!?! Never heard of that?!

Well once upon a time, for three days Imago listed me as his boo in his signature.

I guess that's as close as I've ever gotten to the closet side of things. Please don't take that away from me.

LOL yes Imago has tried to convert most of the org from what i've heard...

TheFreakerFantastic said:

RodeoSchro said:

Well once upon a time, for three days Imago listed me as his boo in his signature.

I guess that's as close as I've ever gotten to the closet side of things. Please don't take that away from me.

LOL yes Imago has tried to convert most of the org from what i've heard...

He's pretty sneaky. For all I know, he converted me already but I just haven't figured it out yet!

RodeoSchro said:

TheFreakerFantastic said:

LOL yes Imago has tried to convert most of the org from what i've heard...

He's pretty sneaky. For all I know, he converted me already but I just haven't figured it out yet!

In what way has he converted u? Are you single/married/ltr?

TheFreakerFantastic said:

RodeoSchro said:

He's pretty sneaky. For all I know, he converted me already but I just haven't figured it out yet!

In what way has he converted u? Are you single/married/ltr?

I'm a happily married man with two teenage children.

And yet, I will drink Cosmopolitans, I love Prince and I am not afraid to say another man's handsome. So my children are now convinced I'm gay. Even though they both know all about the birds and the bees, and they both look exactly like me!

The scary thing is, they don't even know Imago. Man, when they meet him, it's all over for me.

I actually can't blame Imago for any of this but I will if I have to.

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I just thought of something.

The OP said she used to be amberella. Don't I remember amberella being on here for many years?

Honey, if you're just now 18, did you join this site when you were 9?!?

I understand BJ. I made a similar thread called "why do men ignore me"

I finally asked myself " pickles, do you really want a boyfriend"

No, I really didnt want a boyfriend, i just liked the idea of having one.

If you really wanted a BF, you'd have one by know. Trust me

You're just looking for validation from Men/relationships and that is not the winning way.

RodeoSchro said:

I just thought of something.

The OP said she used to be amberella. Don't I remember amberella being on here for many years?

Honey, if you're just now 18, did you join this site when you were 9?!?

I think you may be thinking of amorbella

LionsAndTigers said:

RodeoSchro said:

I just thought of something.

The OP said she used to be amberella. Don't I remember amberella being on here for many years?

Honey, if you're just now 18, did you join this site when you were 9?!?

I think you may be thinking of amorbella

This is classic.

LionsAndTigers said:

RodeoSchro said:

I just thought of something.

The OP said she used to be amberella. Don't I remember amberella being on here for many years?

Honey, if you're just now 18, did you join this site when you were 9?!?

I think you may be thinking of amorbella

I think you're right. Almost the same name. Thanks!

AmbOrella went to Prince's house for the 3121 concert, right?

RodeoSchro said:

TheFreakerFantastic said:

In what way has he converted u? Are you single/married/ltr?

I'm a happily married man with two teenage children.

And yet, I will drink Cosmopolitans, I love Prince and I am not afraid to say another man's handsome. So my children are now convinced I'm gay. Even though they both know all about the birds and the bees, and they both look exactly like me!

The scary thing is, they don't even know Imago. Man, when they meet him, it's all over for me.

I actually can't blame Imago for any of this but I will if I have to.

.

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My advice...stick to being hetero...you are married and with kids now...it would be way too complicated to change now....just stick to the gay stuff in fantasties only is my advice!

Oh. My. Gawd!

RodeoSchro said:

I actually can't blame Imago for any of this but I will if I have to.

If we think about it really hard, I'm sure we could ALL find something to blame Imago for.

Cerebus said:

Vendetta1 said:

Cerebus said:

Why do people keep asking the broken ass Org collective questions like this? Do they really think THIS CROWD is where they should be getting their answers for all of life's great mysteries? And if its the answers THIS CROWD is going to supply that they want, then they MUST already be familiar with the type of response they're likely to get. Cerebus just doesn't really get it.

Also, this, "remember amberella..yeah of course you don't". Error.

Make it happen already.

PurpleJedi said:

RodeoSchro said:

I actually can't blame Imago for any of this but I will if I have to.

If we think about it really hard, I'm sure we could ALL find something to blame Imago for.

miles ahead of you there. i don't even think about it anymore, i just blame blame blame!

XxAxX said:

PurpleJedi said:

If we think about it really hard, I'm sure we could ALL find something to blame Imago for.

miles ahead of you there. i don't even think about it anymore, i just blame blame blame!

^Yes that seems to be a common affliction among your compatriots on the org lol

Damn a boyfriend, they ain't shit anyway. All they're good for is a dick. Hell, you don't need a boyfriend for that and since you're a woman, it's very easy to get all the dick you want. Just walk into a room full of men and say..."I want some dick and which one of you motherfuckers is going to give it to me"....and watch how many hands go up. As for flowers and teddy bears, fuck that shit. Flowers die and teddy bears are for children so you have no reason to be jealous of your roommate because she ain't got shit out those men but some little petty bullshit. Hell, that's a cheap lay. If she was all that, she'd be getting paid.

vainandy said:

Damn a boyfriend, they ain't shit anyway. All they're good for is a dick. Hell, you don't need a boyfriend for that and since you're a woman, it's very easy to get all the dick you want. Just walk into a room full of men and say..."I want some dick and which one of you motherfuckers is going to give it to me"....and watch how many hands go up. As for flowers and teddy bears, fuck that shit. Flowers die and teddy bears are for children so you have no reason to be jealous of your roommate because she ain't got shit out those men but some little petty bullshit. Hell, that's a cheap lay. If she was all that, she'd be getting paid.

vainandy said:

Damn a boyfriend, they ain't shit anyway. All they're good for is a dick. Hell, you don't need a boyfriend for that and since you're a woman, it's very easy to get all the dick you want. Just walk into a room full of men and say..."I want some dick and which one of you motherfuckers is going to give it to me"....and watch how many hands go up. As for flowers and teddy bears, fuck that shit. Flowers die and teddy bears are for children so you have no reason to be jealous of your roommate because she ain't got shit out those men but some little petty bullshit. Hell, that's a cheap lay. If she was all that, she'd be getting paid.

Vainandy does it again