johnart said:

ThrillUorKillU said:

I really dont care if she swallows it or not. Just dont spit it back on my dick after it's been in your mouth.

What's the gross part about that? That the cum was in her mouth or that it's cum.

One was in your dick...which was just in her mouth.

None of the above bothers me. It's the cleaning part honestly

ThrillUorKillU said:

johnart said:

What's the gross part about that? That the cum was in her mouth or that it's cum.

One was in your dick...which was just in her mouth.

None of the above bothers me. It's the cleaning part honestly

You know, I was gonna add a third option asking whether you were just being lazy and wanted her to take care of the damn mess. Shame on U

johnart said:

ThrillUorKillU said:

None of the above bothers me. It's the cleaning part honestly

You know, I was gonna add a third option asking whether you were just being lazy and wanted her to take care of the damn mess. Shame on U

Haha. Yeah, after sex I just wanna relax. But I do my part in cleaning when I need to. Plus the spitting it back part is always their idea.

ThrillUorKillU said:

johnart said:

You know, I was gonna add a third option asking whether you were just being lazy and wanted her to take care of the damn mess. Shame on U

Haha. Yeah, after sex I just wanna relax. But I do my part in cleaning when I need to. Plus the spitting it back part is always their idea.

To each their own. All this talk about messy blowjobs and whatever has me needing to look up some videos though.

HobbesLeCute said:

ThrillUorKillU said:

Haha. Yeah, after sex I just wanna relax. But I do my part in cleaning when I need to. Plus the spitting it back part is always their idea.

To each their own. All this talk about messy blowjobs and whatever has me needing to look up some videos though.

What else is there to do at this time

PunkMistress said:

TheFreakerFantastic said:

Jersey my advice is try some of your own and if you are too scared to do that then u shouldn't expect some chick to do it...

[Edited 8/30/11 12:18pm]

Wouldn't the equivalent for a straight man be to swallow pussy juice?

I'm guessing most of the anti-swallowing prudes are totally fine with a man eating their conch-milk. Which is completely hypocritical.

but girlie sauce tastes alright!..have u ever tried kissing a bloke after lapping up his conch juice?!! i've never met any bloke who up 4 kissing after a messy blowie.. i tell u what, try sending your bloke down there after he's emptied out! YUM! clunge creampie!

vainandy said:

dJJ said:

Well, some man don't want to come inside a woman. So, in order to keep the process going, it's most fun to come in eachothers' nearness.

For me, my face is never an option, because to me, it's degrading. However, I love glazing on other parts of my body.

Damn right, it's degrading. I'd slap the shit out of a motherfucker if he so much as aimed it at my face, let alone shoot it. You better shoot that shit up in the air and let it land on your own self where it belongs.

JustErin said:

I'm seriously having a hard time understanding how jizz on the face is degrading. For something to be degrading it has to have some sort of negative aspect to it. There is absolutely nothing wrong or dirty or negative about spunk.

I don't get it...

i think cuz it makes so much mess, it tastes like dodgy oyster & stinks of bleach? i don't fancy that all round me nose thankyou very much!

Spitters are quitters, I personally love swallowing it's the most exciting part!

PunkMistress said:

TheFreakerFantastic said:

Jersey my advice is try some of your own and if you are too scared to do that then u shouldn't expect some chick to do it...

[Edited 8/30/11 12:18pm]

Wouldn't the equivalent for a straight man be to swallow pussy juice?

I'm guessing most of the anti-swallowing prudes are totally fine with a man eating their conch-milk. Which is completely hypocritical.

My new favorite term EVER!

LadyCasanova said:

PurpleJedi said:

...but the mouth is just fine...?

THAT works.

For you?

I'll take extra pulp any day.

Lick up every drop...

[mapquest]

JerseyKRS said:

oh please, eat that shit up.

JustErin said:

I'm seriously having a hard time understanding how jizz on the face is degrading. For something to be degrading it has to have some sort of negative aspect to it. There is absolutely nothing wrong or dirty or negative about spunk.

I don't get it...

For me personally I don't re-enact porn stars in order to please someone else. That would not match with my self esteem, self respect and dignity. However, it's a personal taste. It's not about sperm being dirty or groce or that I don't swallow it. Some people set no boundaries in order to please somebody else, for whatever reason. If a person wants to do whatever a demands, that's okay.

I have (different) standards.

dJJ said:

JustErin said:

I'm seriously having a hard time understanding how jizz on the face is degrading. For something to be degrading it has to have some sort of negative aspect to it. There is absolutely nothing wrong or dirty or negative about spunk.

I don't get it...

For me personally I don't re-enact porn stars in order to please someone else. That would not match with my self esteem, self respect and dignity. However, it's a personal taste. It's not about sperm being dirty or groce or that I don't swallow it. Some people set no boundaries in order to please somebody else, for whatever reason. If a person wants to do whatever a demands, that's okay.

I have (different) standards.

It's one thing to say you don't do it because you don't like it...it's another thing to say it's degrading.

Women who don't have a problem with it are not trying to be something they are not, or trying to act like a porn star, or are just doing it to please a man. They simply have no issue with it. There is nothing degrading about it at all...just like it's not degrading for a man to down on a woman who just had an orgasm.

It is interesting to me that some people always seem to relate acts to porn. Like women only do things out of some desperate attempt to keep a man, that they don't actually take pleasure in such acts....they only do it because men watch it in porn.

But people were doing these things (and loving it) long before porn was so common.

I have no issues with it

I actually miss it

Prostatectomy ...

for 5 yrs cancer free and GREATFUL for

JustErin said:

dJJ said:

For me personally I don't re-enact porn stars in order to please someone else. That would not match with my self esteem, self respect and dignity. However, it's a personal taste. It's not about sperm being dirty or groce or that I don't swallow it. Some people set no boundaries in order to please somebody else, for whatever reason. If a person wants to do whatever a demands, that's okay.

I have (different) standards.

It's one thing to say you don't do it because you don't like it...it's another thing to say it's degrading.

Women who don't have a problem with it are not trying to be something they are not, or trying to act like a porn star, or are just doing it to please a man. They simply have no issue with it. There is nothing degrading about it at all...just like it's not degrading for a man to down on a woman who just had an orgasm.

It is interesting to me that some people always seem to relate acts to porn. Like women only do things out of some desperate attempt to keep a man, that they don't actually take pleasure in such acts....they only do it because men watch it in porn.

But people were doing these things (and loving it) long before porn was so common.

I wrote it's degrading to me. Not in general for everybody, otherwise I would not have bothered to explicitly point that out. Ofcourse it depends on the situation and how both partners relate to eachother. And there's a variety of positions and atmospheres for shooting up once face, however most are degrading (again to me). And I don't like it because it feels degrading to me. So, it's not a simple "I don't like it, it's not for me". I know why I don't like it.

I don't find porn very exciting, because I've done research on sex industries. Talked to too many women in the sex industry to enjoy porn. The stories behind it aren't very juicy and nice at all. I can't ignore that when confronted with porn footage. I do hear about girls re-enacting porn in order to please a man. I feel sorry for these girls, especially when they don't engage for their own pleasure/satisfaction or expression of love, however, merely for enhancing their self-image in a social environment. Very saddening indeed.

I guess sex has to do a lot with domination/surrender and the tension and adrenaline that brings. To me that can be very exciting. However, there is a line between surrender and degrading, and I don't feel comfortable with getting shot in the face, because to me it feels degrading.

And your reply to the OP, that you do whatever is asked from you, would not fit my style of sexual behaviour. However, I don't feel inclined to question you about it. It's just a personal difference to me. And I'm glad there is a variety. Other wise, it would all be pretty boring, wouldn't it?

[Edited 8/31/11 17:11pm]

dJJ said:

JustErin said:

It's one thing to say you don't do it because you don't like it...it's another thing to say it's degrading.

Women who don't have a problem with it are not trying to be something they are not, or trying to act like a porn star, or are just doing it to please a man. They simply have no issue with it. There is nothing degrading about it at all...just like it's not degrading for a man to down on a woman who just had an orgasm.

It is interesting to me that some people always seem to relate acts to porn. Like women only do things out of some desperate attempt to keep a man, that they don't actually take pleasure in such acts....they only do it because men watch it in porn.

But people were doing these things (and loving it) long before porn was so common.

I wrote it's degrading to me. Not in general for everybody, otherwise I would not have bothered to explicitly point that out. Ofcourse it depends on the situation and how both partners relate to eachother. And there's a variety of positions and atmospheres for shooting up once face, some very nice and pleasant, some degrading (again for me).

I don't find porn very exciting, because I've done research on sex industries. Talked to too many women in the sex industry to enjoy porn. The stories behind it aren't very juicy and nice at all. I can't ignore that when I do hear about girls re-enacting porn in order to please a man. I feel very bad for these girls, especially when they don't engage for their own pleasure/satisfaction or expression of love, however, merely for enhancing their self-image in a social environment. Very saddening indeed.

I guess sex has to do a lot with domination/surrender and the tension and adrenaline that brings. To me that can be very exciting. I most of the times, don't feel comfortable with getting shot in the face, because to me it feels degrading.

And your reply to the OP, that you do whatever is asked from you, would not fit my style of sexual behaviour. However, I don't feel inclined to question you about it. It's just a personal difference to me. And I'm glad there is a variety. Other wise, it would all be pretty boring, wouldn't it?

You didn't question me about it, instead your clever response straight up implyed that women that are into it or are turned on by being submissive have self esteem issues, are trying to be porn stars (for men) and are degrading themselves.

It actually would have been much more respectful to question me about it, if interested, than say what you said adding a "to me" to make an implication on the sly....but hey, that's cool.

I do exactly what I want and nothing that I don't want when it comes to sex. Doing as I am told has nothing to do with pleasing a man and everything about pleasing myself.

Anyway, I respect that you're not into it...I just can't see how it would be any less degrading than a man going down on a woman.

JustErin said:

I do exactly what I want and nothing that I don't want when it comes to sex. Doing as I am told has nothing to do with pleasing a man and everything about pleasing myself.

Anyway, I respect that you're not into it...I just can't see how it would be any less degrading than a man going down on a woman.

Well said. Modern sexual paradigms minimize the feminine side of the equation (IMO). I do NOT want to sleep with a gal who doesn't know her boundaries / have her own sexual agenda.

Bottom line for me? It's an act of intense intimacy & trust....if you are squeemish <sigh> ok..I guess.....but I think it begs the question: Just HOW intimate are you with your partner & just HOW much are you really willing to share in that environment?

For me & true monogamous intimacy..I want to share it ALL. I wanna be a PART of them (and vice versa)...as much as we can phyisically.....and that includes "swallowing"...as Erin correctly notes, as an act of pleasure, joy, closeness & sharing...and should NEVER be done as a "task" or "favor" (head given to either partner). Its a joy & A priviledge....not an "obligation" or "game" or "weapon".

Love each other & revel in how close you can become through acts of profound physical intimacy

see below

[Edited 9/1/11 1:28am]

dJJ said:

JustErin said:

It's one thing to say you don't do it because you don't like it...it's another thing to say it's degrading.

Women who don't have a problem with it are not trying to be something they are not, or trying to act like a porn star, or are just doing it to please a man. They simply have no issue with it. There is nothing degrading about it at all...just like it's not degrading for a man to down on a woman who just had an orgasm.

It is interesting to me that some people always seem to relate acts to porn. Like women only do things out of some desperate attempt to keep a man, that they don't actually take pleasure in such acts....they only do it because men watch it in porn.

But people were doing these things (and loving it) long before porn was so common.

I wrote it's degrading to me. Not in general for everybody, otherwise I would not have bothered to explicitly point that out. Ofcourse it depends on the situation and how both partners relate to eachother. And there's a variety of positions and atmospheres for shooting up once face, however most are degrading (again to me). And I don't like it because it feels degrading to me. So, it's not a simple "I don't like it, it's not for me". I know why I don't like it.

I don't find porn very exciting, because I've done research on sex industries. Talked to too many women in the sex industry to enjoy porn. The stories behind it aren't very juicy and nice at all. I can't ignore that when confronted with porn footage. I do hear about girls re-enacting porn in order to please a man. I feel sorry for these girls, especially when they don't engage for their own pleasure/satisfaction or expression of love, however, merely for enhancing their self-image in a social environment. Very saddening indeed.

I guess sex has to do a lot with domination/surrender and the tension and adrenaline that brings. To me that can be very exciting. However, there is a line between surrender and degrading, and I don't feel comfortable with getting shot in the face, because to me it feels degrading.

And your reply to the OP, that you do whatever is asked from you, would not fit my style of sexual behaviour. However, I don't feel inclined to question you about it. It's just a personal difference to me. And I'm glad there is a variety. Other wise, it would all be pretty boring, wouldn't it?

[Edited 8/31/11 17:11pm]

Good answer...fair point!!

JustErin said:

dJJ said:

I wrote it's degrading to me. Not in general for everybody, otherwise I would not have bothered to explicitly point that out. Ofcourse it depends on the situation and how both partners relate to eachother. And there's a variety of positions and atmospheres for shooting up once face, some very nice and pleasant, some degrading (again for me).

I don't find porn very exciting, because I've done research on sex industries. Talked to too many women in the sex industry to enjoy porn. The stories behind it aren't very juicy and nice at all. I can't ignore that when I do hear about girls re-enacting porn in order to please a man. I feel very bad for these girls, especially when they don't engage for their own pleasure/satisfaction or expression of love, however, merely for enhancing their self-image in a social environment. Very saddening indeed.

I guess sex has to do a lot with domination/surrender and the tension and adrenaline that brings. To me that can be very exciting. I most of the times, don't feel comfortable with getting shot in the face, because to me it feels degrading.

And your reply to the OP, that you do whatever is asked from you, would not fit my style of sexual behaviour. However, I don't feel inclined to question you about it. It's just a personal difference to me. And I'm glad there is a variety. Other wise, it would all be pretty boring, wouldn't it?

You didn't question me about it, instead your clever response straight up implyed that women that are into it or are turned on by being submissive have self esteem issues, are trying to be porn stars (for men) and are degrading themselves.

It actually would have been much more respectful to question me about it, if interested, than say what you said adding a "to me" to make an implication on the sly....but hey, that's cool.

I do exactly what I want and nothing that I don't want when it comes to sex. Doing as I am told has nothing to do with pleasing a man and everything about pleasing myself.

Anyway, I respect that you're not into it...I just can't see how it would be any less degrading than a man going down on a woman.

My post wasn't about you, I'm sorry if you interpreted my post that way and feel attacked by it. The way you infer that my posts are aimed at you personally and in any way judgemental about you, really is on your account.

Thanks for the compliment about my cleverness, though.

Make love not war please my bitches. Peace and spunk all over you.

LadyCasanova said:

Not in my eye, up my nose, in my ear, or in my hair.

Once I was with a guy that was such a power blaster that he shot in my mouth and it came flying out of my nose!

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

LadyCasanova said:

Not in my eye, up my nose, in my ear, or in my hair.

Once I was with a guy that was such a power blaster that he shot in my mouth and it came flying out of my nose!

I'm already there.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

LadyCasanova said:

Not in my eye, up my nose, in my ear, or in my hair.

Once I was with a guy that was such a power blaster that he shot in my mouth and it came flying out of my nose!

How did that feel?

LadyCasanova said:

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Once I was with a guy that was such a power blaster that he shot in my mouth and it came flying out of my nose!

How did that feel?

Wasted

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

LadyCasanova said:

How did that feel?

Wasted

dJJ said:

JustErin said:

You didn't question me about it, instead your clever response straight up implyed that women that are into it or are turned on by being submissive have self esteem issues, are trying to be porn stars (for men) and are degrading themselves.

It actually would have been much more respectful to question me about it, if interested, than say what you said adding a "to me" to make an implication on the sly....but hey, that's cool.

I do exactly what I want and nothing that I don't want when it comes to sex. Doing as I am told has nothing to do with pleasing a man and everything about pleasing myself.

Anyway, I respect that you're not into it...I just can't see how it would be any less degrading than a man going down on a woman.

My post wasn't about you, I'm sorry if you interpreted my post that way and feel attacked by it. The way you infer that my posts are aimed at you personally and in any way judgemental about you, really is on your account.

Thanks for the compliment about my cleverness, though.

Nope, don't buy it...but alrighty then.

JustErin said:

dJJ said:

My post wasn't about you, I'm sorry if you interpreted my post that way and feel attacked by it. The way you infer that my posts are aimed at you personally and in any way judgemental about you, really is on your account.

Thanks for the compliment about my cleverness, though.

Nope, don't buy it...but alrighty then.

You'r very funny and amusing.

dJJ said:

JustErin said:

Nope, don't buy it...but alrighty then.

You'r very funny and amusing.

Thanks.