Fauxie said:

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What's the nicest compliment you've ever received?

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This one is the dilly of the dillies, mine almost made me faint!

-There is this famous club kid whose is gay, and he his an icon with fashion; there is this posh club he works at and everyone dresses up in there, I didn't want to. I wore jeans, blouse and kicks. So then Jojo says to me: "Your ass looks Great in those jeans." All calmly about it too!!

-The Greatest compliment sor far in my tiny life!

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MyJobIz2beCute said:

Fauxie said:

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What's the nicest compliment you've ever received?

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This one is the dilly of the dillies, mine almost made me faint!

-There is this famous club kid whose is gay, and he his an icon with fashion; there is this posh club he works at and everyone dresses up in there, I didn't want to. I wore jeans, blouse and kicks. So then Jojo says to me: "Your ass looks Great in those jeans." All calmly about it too!!

-The Greatest compliment sor far in my tiny life!

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You've thought a lot about this compliments stuff, I see.

What was the worst you ever got?

How transparent is it that I just wanted to revive my flagging thread and I would've taken interest in whomever's post was last?

Fauxie said:

How transparent is it that I just wanted to revive my flagging thread and I would've taken interest in whomever's post was last?

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I was going to revive this thread as soon as I got back from the Chinese food take out.

Fauxie said:

MyJobIz2beCute said:

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This one is the dilly of the dillies, mine almost made me faint!

-There is this famous club kid whose is gay, and he his an icon with fashion; there is this posh club he works at and everyone dresses up in there, I didn't want to. I wore jeans, blouse and kicks. So then Jojo says to me: "Your ass looks Great in those jeans." All calmly about it too!!

-The Greatest compliment sor far in my tiny life!

[Edited 8/13/11 1:50am]

You've thought a lot about this compliments stuff, I see.

What was the worst you ever got?

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In the chinese take out after I pick up and then tip the staff, a man held the door open for me and told me, "Have a nice day beautiful." I said thank you and ran out of there because I couldn't stop with the

MyJobIz2beCute said:

Fauxie said:

How transparent is it that I just wanted to revive my flagging thread and I would've taken interest in whomever's post was last?

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I was going to revive this thread as soon as I got back from the Chinese food take out.

MyJobIz2beCute said:

Fauxie said:

You've thought a lot about this compliments stuff, I see.

What was the worst you ever got?

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In the chinese take out after I pick up and then tip the staff, a man held the door open for me and told me, "Have a nice day beautiful." I said thank you and ran out of there because I couldn't stop with the

That's really sweet!

Fauxie said:

MyJobIz2beCute said:

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I was going to revive this thread as soon as I got back from the Chinese food take out.

Fauxie said:

MyJobIz2beCute said:

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In the chinese take out after I pick up and then tip the staff, a man held the door open for me and told me, "Have a nice day beautiful." I said thank you and ran out of there because I couldn't stop with the

That's really sweet!

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-So is your thread, it already is a 'hot topic'!

MyJobIz2beCute said:

Fauxie said:

That's really sweet!

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-So is your thread, it already is a 'hot topic'!

I know. How did that happen?

Fauxie said:

MyJobIz2beCute said:

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-So is your thread, it already is a 'hot topic'!

I know. How did that happen?

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-I don't know but I have to compliment you Fauxie on choosing the topic.

MyJobIz2beCute said:

Fauxie said:

I know. How did that happen?

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-I don't know but I have to compliment you Fauxie on choosing the topic.

Thank you, and I have to thank you for your rampant posting on this thread, without which none of this would've been possible.

Fauxie said:

MyJobIz2beCute said:

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-I don't know but I have to compliment you Fauxie on choosing the topic.

Thank you, and I have to thank you for your rampant posting on this thread, without which none of this would've been possible.

-Fauxie, you are such a wild kitty!

-I didn't expect it to be without control but it was fun, we had fun.

-Cheers.

MyJobIz2beCute said:

Fauxie said:

Thank you, and I have to thank you for your rampant posting on this thread, without which none of this would've been possible.

-Fauxie, you are such a wild kitty!

-I didn't expect it to be without control but it was fun, we had fun.

-Cheers.

What on earth is my image here?

I was given a compliment the other day about my hair, and I'm trying really hard to smile and say "thank you" like I mean it. The problem is I don't believe it. I don't like anything about my appearance so how could others? I do however try to give compliments, and then I really mean it. But as somebody said, I think it was Spinlight, you can't script it - it has to be spontaneity (sp) about it. Otherwise it's dead in the water.

If people don't really mean it, compliments are worthless.

MarySharon said:

If people don't really mean it, compliments are worthless.

And The Org is the best place for "compliments" that are really insults. I'm getting very fed up with that, it's old and juvenile.

Can giving too many compliments be a turn off, in the extent that you begin to come across as insincere?

johnart said:

You just do it.

I always make it a point ot compliment folk if there's something about them that stands out to me.

Your compliment could make their entire day.

Thats how I am. Even with my relatives. If my sister has a nice outfit on I'll tell her and it makes her happy.

JDInteractive said:

Can giving too many compliments be a turn off, in the extent that you begin to come across as insincere?

I distrust people who are 'all compliments'.

It's probably my biggest problem here in Thailand--The Thais have this inability to abstain from flattery, and it comes off very insencere. They're doing it to make people feel better, but it makes me recoil a bit.

be true to you.

I'm pretty stingy with giving them...but if I do, I really mean it.

I give compliments to people who look a hot mess because im fake like that.

Nah, just kidding . I like giving and receiving compliments. This world is so cold, a nice compliment makes life worth living.

Eye think 4 a bastard eye do quite well giving compliments.......sometimes eye amaze myself when im nice.....

I have the desire to say something genuine but at the same time I can see that this is just a faux excuse for a thread. Anyway; when complimenting people, especially children, it is far more effective if it is not a big generalization. "You look nice today" is general," I love that outfit on you" is more specific, and "I love that you have such a unique style that really works for you" is most effective of all. Nobody likes to feel manipulated by someone who is simply good at blowing smoke up peoples ass.

I can be very complimentary...It's just in my nature to be so....I'm not fake about it either. I compliment when I see something worth complimenting. It doesn't take anything outta me and maybe makes someone feel good for the day so why the hell not.

imago said:

How to interpret compilments on the org:

You have such beautiful eyes. You're ugly

You have such a beautiful smile. You're fat

You have such a lovely face. You're fat

You have such pretty hair. There is absolutely nothing on your face worth complimenting.

Let's fuck You're actually good-looking

ZombieKitten said:

Does "you have great tits" mean something else?

You have great tits = I'm embracing my inner toddler

MarySharon said:

ZombieKitten said:

Does "you have great tits" mean something else?

You have great tits = I'm embracing my inner toddler