I know that a lot of us have different kinks, or different types of taste in men or women. I have always wondered where this comes from?

I'm obsessed with butts, everyone knows that. I don't know how that happened.

I wonder how some people get into the extreme stuff, i.e. watersports, spanking etc.

What say you?

Funny I was thinking the same thing!

First, what would make a person think to do some of the things they do.

Second, how is some of that extreme stuff arousing?

Hell if I know, but I'm sure glad for it.

Nothinbutjoy said:

Funny I was thinking the same thing!

First, what would make a person think to do some of the things they do.

Second, how is some of that extreme stuff arousing?

This is the part I'm trying to wrap my head around, like, how is peeing on someone, sexy in any way shape or form? I just can't grasp that.

armpit said:

Nothinbutjoy said:

Funny I was thinking the same thing!

First, what would make a person think to do some of the things they do.

Second, how is some of that extreme stuff arousing?

This is the part I'm trying to wrap my head around, like, how is peeing on someone, sexy in any way shape or form? I just can't grasp that.

maybe if they're on fire, or being swarmed by ants or something. THEN peeing on someone would be maybe kind of cool

I don't have an obsession with a particular body part, or extreme tastes in sex. I should say "sex" cause some of the stuff out there just doesn't qualify as that to me.

I do however have a liking for voices. I can totally fall in love with just a voice, regardless of who has it. If the person attached to it is sexy too then all the better, but otherwise I can just look away and listen.

I have no idea why I'm into what I'm into.

The current thinking mode is that it's our genetic make-up that wires our brains mostly and is decisive on our sexual preferences.

Here we go again....

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Im into erotica and erotic stories, because I enjoy having my imagination being stimulated.

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Im into bare-back, rapey, dungeon sex.....probably cuz I was abused repeatedly by my uncle when i was a kid

dJJ said:

The current thinking mode is that it's our genetic make-up that wires our brains mostly and is decisive on our sexual preferences.

I have a hard time believing the extreme stuff is a natural inclination, though.

Seriously - people coming out of the womb, hitting puberty and out of the blue wanting someone to shit on them during sex isn't quite the same as realizing you like girls or boys.

armpit said:

dJJ said:

The current thinking mode is that it's our genetic make-up that wires our brains mostly and is decisive on our sexual preferences.

I have a hard time believing the extreme stuff is a natural inclination, though.

Seriously - people coming out of the womb, hitting puberty and out of the blue wanting someone to shit on them during sex isn't quite the same as realizing you like girls or boys.

I'm not familiar with that field of research. A fetish is a specific stimulus that triggerst sexual arousal. Ofcourse, conditioning can play a role in the development, however if it't just conditioning, than fetishes could also disappear under a reversed conditioning process. And that doesn't seem the case. Hence, my guess that it's a genetically based condition in the brain.

i like a man with a nicely sculpted chest. (not a beefy type though). the area around a man's solar plexus looks so sexy to me. i luv the hug from a sexy chested man.

i enjoy a raspy voiced man. also, i'm really really really turned on by a man with good credit, no criminal back ground and a healthy medical record. Also i'm very attracted to the alpha type male.

I firmly believe that my passion for going down on a woman stems from the fact that this was my first sexual experience and my neighbor and I would do this all afternoon long in the woods near my house...

believe me when I say good times were had by all...

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

I know that a lot of us have different kinks, or different types of taste in men or women. I have always wondered where this comes from?

I'm obsessed with butts, everyone knows that. I don't know how that happened.

I wonder how some people get into the extreme stuff, i.e. watersports, spanking etc.

What say you?

This extreme stuff is being pushed along by the porn industry as a new fetish to sell and creating a false need.

I've no doubt it's a real fetish for some people but when the barebacking and watersport stuff starts popping up everywhere you have to stop and think "Why is this suddenly being rammed down our throat?" - the answer is MONEY.

JustErin said:

I have no idea why I'm into what I'm into.

For me, if it turns me on, great. If it doesn't, I move on. I find nothing interesting about anylizing it.

mynameisnotsusan said:

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

I know that a lot of us have different kinks, or different types of taste in men or women. I have always wondered where this comes from?

I'm obsessed with butts, everyone knows that. I don't know how that happened.

I wonder how some people get into the extreme stuff, i.e. watersports, spanking etc.

What say you?

This extreme stuff is being pushed along by the porn industry as a new fetish to sell and creating a false need.

I've no doubt it's a real fetish for some people but when the barebacking and watersport stuff starts popping up everywhere you have to stop and think "Why is this suddenly being rammed down our throat?" - the answer is MONEY.

I can tell you with complete certainty that there is nothing I've seen in porn that I hadn't tried first, other than stuff I would never try.

Cerebus said:

mynameisnotsusan said:

This extreme stuff is being pushed along by the porn industry as a new fetish to sell and creating a false need.

I've no doubt it's a real fetish for some people but when the barebacking and watersport stuff starts popping up everywhere you have to stop and think "Why is this suddenly being rammed down our throat?" - the answer is MONEY.

I can tell you with complete certainty that there is nothing I've seen in porn that I hadn't tried first, other than stuff I would never try.

JohnArt and I are cahrter members of this spectacular club...

thanks inernetz...

JustErin said:

I have no idea why I'm into what I'm into.

You have issues and you like them.

Fauxie said:

JustErin said:

I have no idea why I'm into what I'm into.

You have issues and you like them.

hahaha...yeah.

I should use that again.

I will date and have dated any race. but...

I have this think for white girls...the whiter and paler the better. Like a redhead's skin....WOW. creamy thighs, delicate, fragile...i dunno...i just love it.

why...imma say cuzza my father... or more so MY reaction to my dad's belief in a "big white conspiracy", (not to say this does or doesn't exist)...and what seemed like a persistent view that I date black chicks. He even expressed disapointment with the notion of my brother's wife being white.

This all made white girls/women taboo for me and all the more alluring.

DAMN U WHITE GIRLS!!!

also...I erroneously encountered a Tranny by the name of Vanity on some xHamster porn clip. She/he..i unno...was fuckin this(haha pale white). At first it ws like an accident scene...couldn't turn away...but then...I got all into it. Now I'm not trying to go out and find some tranny and have sex wiith her/him...but in terms of intensity and ferocity...i unooo...it just got me...this is the first I'm speaking of it to...it's been about 3 mo's ago I first saw this. This girl/guy, mia isabella catches my eye too. I'm not into tranny/guy scens....but the tranny/girl scenes get the blood flowin "so to speak".

Another thing I dig but I don't know where it coems from at all. But I like being restrained. Not that crazy rig set up kida shit...but scarves and handcuffs and chairs and beds.

[Edited 8/4/11 21:05pm]

JustErin said:

Fauxie said:

You have issues and you like them.

hahaha...yeah.

I should use that again.

I thought maybe you'd overcome those issues and were now a secure, well-adjusted person.

Fauxie said:

JustErin said:

hahaha...yeah.

I should use that again.

I thought maybe you'd overcome those issues and were now a secure, well-adjusted person.

No, you didn't.

JustErin said:

Fauxie said:

I thought maybe you'd overcome those issues and were now a secure, well-adjusted person.

No, you didn't.

You're right. I like your issues too and I hope you never overcome them.

BobGeorge909 said:

I believe your early sexual experiences and exposures shape it.

I looked at hard-core porn as a kid, so soft porn or vanilla sex has never been enough for me

ZombieKitten said:

I believe your early sexual experiences and exposures shape it.

I looked at hard-core porn as a kid, so soft porn or vanilla sex has never been enough for me

oh, and because all these early experiences were always silent, it could be why the SOUND of sex or talking or screaming and all that doesn't play a role in my enjoyment

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

I know that a lot of us have different kinks, or different types of taste in men or women. I have always wondered where this comes from?

I'm obsessed with butts, everyone knows that. I don't know how that happened.

I wonder how some people get into the extreme stuff, i.e. watersports, spanking etc.

What say you?

Is this sex while skiing

XxAxX said:

armpit said:

This is the part I'm trying to wrap my head around, like, how is peeing on someone, sexy in any way shape or form? I just can't grasp that.

maybe if they're on fire, or being swarmed by ants or something. THEN peeing on someone would be maybe kind of cool

or suffering from heatstroke or athletes foot

SexLovely said:

Here we go again....

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Im into erotica and erotic stories, because I enjoy having my imagination being stimulated.

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Im into bare-back, rapey, dungeon sex.....probably cuz I was abused repeatedly by my uncle when i was a kid

Wow, thanks for sharing that and I'm sorry you had to go through that. Do you ever wonder why we tend to be turned on by things that at one time was an abusive situation?

It's interesting how the mind works.

BobGeorge909 said:

I will date and have dated any race. but...

I have this think for white girls...the whiter and paler the better. Like a redhead's skin....WOW. creamy thighs, delicate, fragile...i dunno...i just love it.

why...imma say cuzza my father... or more so MY reaction to my dad's belief in a "big white conspiracy", (not to say this does or doesn't exist)...and what seemed like a persistent view that I date black chicks. He even expressed disapointment with the notion of my brother's wife being white.

This all made white girls/women taboo for me and all the more alluring.

DAMN U WHITE GIRLS!!!

also...I erroneously encountered a Tranny by the name of Vanity on some xHamster porn clip. She/he..i unno...was fuckin this(haha pale white). At first it ws like an accident scene...couldn't turn away...but then...I got all into it. Now I'm not trying to go out and find some tranny and have sex wiith her/him...but in terms of intensity and ferocity...i unooo...it just got me...this is the first I'm speaking of it to...it's been about 3 mo's ago I first saw this. This girl/guy, mia isabella catches my eye too. I'm not into tranny/guy scens....but the tranny/girl scenes get the blood flowin "so to speak".

Another thing I dig but I don't know where it coems from at all. But I like being restrained. Not that crazy rig set up kida shit...but scarves and handcuffs and chairs and beds.

[Edited 8/4/11 21:05pm]

What I wanna know is why in the hell do tranny's have the biggest dicks in the world?!!!! It doesn't seem fair!!!!! I know it's a generalization but jeez!