Lets talk about bitches and all around bitch behavior. When is being a bitch a good thing and when is being a bitch a bad thing? Do you consider yourself a bitch? If so, why?

What about man bitches? Do men get passes for being bitchy or is it worse when they behave like bitches?

Discuss...

I don't consider myself a bitch anymore, but I know that some others do. I guess we don't see the same things.

To me there's a huge difference between standing up for yourself and setting boundaries, and being a right bitch. Being a bitch is bad, standing up for yourself is good.

I like how friends can be a bitch to you and at the same time make you laugh so you cant get angry! I'm not a bitch and wont tolerate it unless it's from close friends

I'm a BAAAAAD bitch, but in a good Cleopatra Jones/Tamara Dobson kinda way. I try to use my bitch powers for good. But like Teacher said I don't equate standing up for myself and calling out bullshit when I see it as being a bitch, that's just honesty.

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It aint what I can do it's what I will do.

I can be a bitch but will I be a bitch? Depends on the people and the situation.

HotGritz said:

It aint what I can do it's what I will do.

I can be a bitch but will I be a bitch? Depends on the people and the situation.

Very true.

HotGritz said:

It aint what I can do it's what I will do.

I can be a bitch but will I be a bitch? Depends on the people and the situation.

And it's all kindsa bitches. Some bad, some good.

Now I can't tolerate a dumb bitch, a broke bitch, an ugly bitch, a silly bitch, an insecure bitch, OR a bitchass ho.

SCNDLS said:

HotGritz said:

It aint what I can do it's what I will do.

I can be a bitch but will I be a bitch? Depends on the people and the situation.

And it's all kindsa bitches. Some bad, some good.

Now I can't tolerate a dumb bitch, a broke bitch, an ugly bitch, a silly bitch, an insecure bitch, OR a bitchass ho.

Oooh honey that's like some demonic trinity right there.

those are the kinds of bitches that make a boss bitch wanna cry (whilst whuppin ass)

Boss Bitch = A woman who has herself together financially, spiritually and mentally and has little tolerance for women who are bitchy just for the hell of it. Don't play the game if you don't know the fuckin' rules.

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Teacher said:

I don't consider myself a bitch anymore, but I know that some others do. I guess we don't see the same things.

To me there's a huge difference between standing up for yourself and setting boundaries, and being a right bitch. Being a bitch is bad, standing up for yourself is good.

certain people, even on here, bug the hell out of me because theyre so bitchy. i cant even be around people like that, let alone talk to them.

I don't know if it's good or bad but it sure can be useful.

I dislike bitches. I tell my girlfriend all the time, "if you act like a bitch, I'll act like a dick".

TylerHippie said:

I dislike bitches. I tell my girlfriend all the time, "if you act like a bitch, I'll act like a dick".

Timing is everything. Does she act like a bitch before or after you act like a dick?

dyvrdown said:

Teacher said:

I don't consider myself a bitch anymore, but I know that some others do. I guess we don't see the same things.

To me there's a huge difference between standing up for yourself and setting boundaries, and being a right bitch. Being a bitch is bad, standing up for yourself is good.

certain people, even on here, bug the hell out of me because theyre so bitchy. i cant even be around people like that, let alone talk to them.

And too many people think it's ok to act a bitch on the internet, because they'll never see 99% of the people they talk to face to face. Why behave so badly just because people are strangers? I don't see the point. And it ain't sexy, EVER - no matter what you look like, being a bitch brings the looks down to nothing.

HotGritz said:

SCNDLS said:

And it's all kindsa bitches. Some bad, some good.

Now I can't tolerate a dumb bitch, a broke bitch, an ugly bitch, a silly bitch, an insecure bitch, OR a bitchass ho.

Oooh honey that's like some demonic trinity right there.

those are the kinds of bitches that make a boss bitch wanna cry (whilst whuppin ass)

!

I swear I don busted my gut already wit you fools today

HotGritz said:

I can be a bitch but will I be a bitch? Depends on the people and the situation.

And here is my answer.

Teacher said:

dyvrdown said:

certain people, even on here, bug the hell out of me because theyre so bitchy. i cant even be around people like that, let alone talk to them.

And too many people think it's ok to act a bitch on the internet, because they'll never see 99% of the people they talk to face to face. Why behave so badly just because people are strangers? I don't see the point. And it ain't sexy, EVER - no matter what you look like, being a bitch brings the looks down to nothing.

Again preach that muthafukkin' gospel

HotGritz said:

TylerHippie said:

I dislike bitches. I tell my girlfriend all the time, "if you act like a bitch, I'll act like a dick".

Timing is everything. Does she act like a bitch before or after you act like a dick?

Nah, before our day start I always make that speech.

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Do I consider myself a bitch? No, I'm sarcastic and snarky at times but it's more along the lines of like, Hyde from that 70s show, or Dr House - basically I'm more inclined towards assholery than bitchiness.

There's times though when being a bitch is a good thing. Like when a mother needs to speak up for or protect her kids, that kind of thing. Bitchiness is a bad thing when it occurs during minor and/or unimportant situations when there's just no need for it, or when it's due to cattiness, that type of thing.

When guys are bitchy I actually get the 'ewwww' feeling and lose all respect for them. And usually when guys are bitchy, they don't even have a good, justifiable reason for it. It's kind of surreal to watch grown men act like catty schoolgirls, and it's a phenomenon witnessed more and more in recent years.

According to the venerable Snoop Dogg, "bitches ain't shit but ho's and tricks". Now I don't consider myself a ho. Definitely not a trick. So it is scientifically irrefutable that I am not a bitch.

I find that some guys get scared of girls who are even slightly bitchy because they're intimidated. I don't think there's any reason to be. On the other hand, total bitches are too angry or so easily irritated that nobody wants to be around them. Pushovers tend to soothe their friends' egos at their own expense. I think the good is somewhere in between being a total bitch and being a total pushover.

It's not okay for women to act like total bitches all the time, and it's not okay for guys to act like dicks all the time.

I'm kind of a bitch, or so I've been told.

If people equate outspokenness (that's a word right?) and assertiveness for bitchiness then fuck it, yeah, I guess I am.

I embrace my bitchhood openly... especially during fight week.

i can be the worst bitch ever if i am upset or hurt

and i expect ppl to deal with it but i hate being bitched upon and i get all funny when that happens

FauxReal said:

According to the venerable Snoop Dogg, "bitches ain't shit but ho's and tricks". Now I don't consider myself a ho. Definitely not a trick. So it is scientifically irrefutable that I am not a bitch.

What about a bitchass? Can a man be a bitchass?

This thread made me think of this...

The contestant using the word 'bitch' is demonstrating being one perfectly.

paintedlady said:

FauxReal said:

According to the venerable Snoop Dogg, "bitches ain't shit but ho's and tricks". Now I don't consider myself a ho. Definitely not a trick. So it is scientifically irrefutable that I am not a bitch.

What about a bitchass? Can a man be a bitchass?

I am sure they can. They can be bitches too. Anybody can be a bitch. The bitch - ho/trick relationship is like that of squares and rectangles.

just1lousydime said:

I find that some guys get scared of girls who are even slightly bitchy because they're intimidated. I don't think there's any reason to be. On the other hand, total bitches are too angry or so easily irritated that nobody wants to be around them. Pushovers tend to soothe their friends' egos at their own expense. I think the good is somewhere in between being a total bitch and being a total pushover.

It's not okay for women to act like total bitches all the time, and it's not okay for guys to act like dicks all the time.

Should they act according to what pleases other people?

I'd rather see someone being bitchy and true to themselves than someone being fake-nice all the time trying constantly to please and win people over. Fuck what anyone else has to say about them.

And I actually like my friends to have a little 'bitch' in them, so... .

Can men be empowering bitches?

FauxReal said:

paintedlady said:

What about a bitchass? Can a man be a bitchass?

I am sure they can. They can be bitches too. Anybody can be a bitch. The bitch - ho/trick relationship is like that of squares and rectangles.

paintedlady said:

FauxReal said:

I am sure they can. They can be bitches too. Anybody can be a bitch. The bitch - ho/trick relationship is like that of squares and rectangles.

Yeah I don't even know if it makes sense my damn self. I just type and send sometimes.