Ok, so i went out with a gentleman this week. He was 28 so 8 years OLDER then me not that big a deal to me...

This mother fucker... i was being very romantic because truthfully it was a hook-up i set the mood, played some jazz music and was being a gentleman he kne wi was 20.. i hold him and start making out with him and he freaks out and keep asking if i'm 17!!! i said no dude i am really 20 and i look 20 come on now!! i'm 6'5, 205 ibs, i don't look 17.

This dude was half thai & half korean he was 28 looking 18 he looked like the young one lol, this is not the first time this happened....

I have gone on dates with 3 other older asian guys one was 28, the other 29, and another 26. They treat me like i'm Lollita! i mean damn lol, they all think i'm nice, or cute or whatever then say but your to young. I realize we are at different points in life but if i liek a guy i do not care if your older.

And if your going to hook-up with someone it's a hook-up why is it neccassary to act like your own to catch a predator? lol

Please tell me i'm not the only that has had this issue:p

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myfavorite said:

ack yack yack ..:-/

That tell me shit from burgers/: lol

You are 20 right?

So you mean that the dude is 8 years older than you not younger.....

Anywhoo I'm not the best at giving advice but I'mma try...

The age difference is not a big deal at all so maybe they all had past drama with dating jailbaits who lied about their ages and got them in trouble? I would say move on to the next.

lavender1983 said:

You are 20 right?

So you mean that the dude is 8 years older than you not younger.....

Anywhoo I'm not the best at giving advice but I'mma try...

The age difference is not a big deal at all so maybe they all had past drama with dating jailbaits who lied about their ages and got them in trouble? I would say move on to the next.

True... but it has happened to me 7 times now... it's just a bit silly to me.

R u sure they weren't all the same guy. He was asian...*Booom*(a la john stewart)

Disclaimer: I know all asians don't look alike.

what?

he was worried this guy was gonna show up...

(in case you're not in the know that's Chris Hansen the pedo-hunter...)

RenHoek said:

maybe he changed his mind and made up that excuse

it's called last minute second thought....

it happened to me once years ago... the guy was standing infront of me fully naked and i changed my mind and told him that we couldnt do it cause it was that time of month, but men cant use that excuse and then they need to make shit up, which they do and it always sounds stupid

FuzzyWitch said:

maybe he changed his mind and made up that excuse

it's called last minute second thought....

it happened to me once years ago... the guy was standing infront of me fully naked and i changed my mind and told him that we couldnt do it cause it was that time of month, but men cant use that excuse and then they need to make shit up, which they do and it always sounds stupid

Oh no he wanted it.... he was on & off about it. He would stop then make then stop then get naked.... and it was confusing. And he kept texting me today asking for us to try it again...... but eh idk lol

Yeah, I'm familiar with men playing the pull/push game.

They'r just a bunch of borderliners

we all would probably fuck-on-site, kill-on-site, if there was a speck of attraction, but since we have souls and consciouses n shyt.........we air out to keep our scruples in tact...

LOOOOOOSERZZZZZZZZZ!!!!...

Gunsnhalen said:

FuzzyWitch said:

maybe he changed his mind and made up that excuse

it's called last minute second thought....

it happened to me once years ago... the guy was standing infront of me fully naked and i changed my mind and told him that we couldnt do it cause it was that time of month, but men cant use that excuse and then they need to make shit up, which they do and it always sounds stupid

Oh no he wanted it.... he was on & off about it. He would stop then make then stop then get naked.... and it was confusing. And he kept texting me today asking for us to try it again...... but eh idk lol

Leave darling.

Run, baby, run!

Look for a guy who has is act together and doesn't need to play those kind of mindfuck games with you.

Run to a guy that makes you feel good about yourself and stimulates you to grow as the best possible version of you.

Don't spend time with a man that is taking your energy by making you questioning yourself in a negative and non-constructive way.

Do yourself a favor and don't lose time by spending your energy on someone else. Especially not on somebody who only takes and doesn't give (and I don't mean that in a materialistic way).

Gunsnhalen said:

Ok, so i went out with a gentleman this week. He was 28 so 8 years OLDER then me not that big a deal to me...

This mother fucker... i was being very romantic because truthfully it was a hook-up i set the mood, played some jazz music and was being a gentleman he kne wi was 20.. i hold him and start making out with him and he freaks out and keep asking if i'm 17!!! i said no dude i am really 20 and i look 20 come on now!! i'm 6'5, 205 ibs, i don't look 17.

This dude was half thai & half korean he was 28 looking 18 he looked like the young one lol, this is not the first time this happened....

I have gone on dates with 3 other older asian guys one was 28, the other 29, and another 26. They treat me like i'm Lollita! i mean damn lol, they all think i'm nice, or cute or whatever then say but your to young. I realize we are at different points in life but if i liek a guy i do not care if your older.

And if your going to hook-up with someone it's a hook-up why is it neccassary to act like your own to catch a predator? lol

Please tell me i'm not the only that has had this issue:p

[Edited 8/7/11 19:14pm]

show him/them your ID

ScarletScandal said:

Gunsnhalen said:

Ok, so i went out with a gentleman this week. He was 28 so 8 years OLDER then me not that big a deal to me...

This mother fucker... i was being very romantic because truthfully it was a hook-up i set the mood, played some jazz music and was being a gentleman he kne wi was 20.. i hold him and start making out with him and he freaks out and keep asking if i'm 17!!! i said no dude i am really 20 and i look 20 come on now!! i'm 6'5, 205 ibs, i don't look 17.

This dude was half thai & half korean he was 28 looking 18 he looked like the young one lol, this is not the first time this happened....

I have gone on dates with 3 other older asian guys one was 28, the other 29, and another 26. They treat me like i'm Lollita! i mean damn lol, they all think i'm nice, or cute or whatever then say but your to young. I realize we are at different points in life but if i liek a guy i do not care if your older.

And if your going to hook-up with someone it's a hook-up why is it neccassary to act like your own to catch a predator? lol

Please tell me i'm not the only that has had this issue:p

[Edited 8/7/11 19:14pm]

Ima let your whore ass slide just cause your room mate..... but i am possibly throwing you in the streets tonight

To Catch a Predator sure did have a lot of Asian dudes on there tho. You sure you're 20? Maybe you are really 17 but you don't remember your birthday.

HotGritz said:

To Catch a Predator sure did have a lot of Asian dudes on there tho. You sure you're 20? Maybe you are really 17 but you don't remember your birthday.

My ID says i'm 20, my mom say's i'm 20, i watched an old videp of me being born that dates dec.20th 1990 on the screen

I'm pretty sure

we all would probably fuck-on-site, kill-on-site, if there was a speck of attraction, but since we have souls and consciouses n shyt.........we air out to keep our scruples in tact...

LOOOOOOSERZZZZZZZZZ!!!!...

and btw, you need birth controls settin up romantic dates at such a young age...

myfavorite said:

we all would probably fuck-on-site, kill-on-site, if there was a speck of attraction, but since we have souls and consciouses n shyt.........we air out to keep our scruples in tact...

LOOOOOOSERZZZZZZZZZ!!!!...

and btw, you need birth controls settin up romantic dates at such a young age...

but he's a man, i'm a man... i don't think it's needed lol