I love your sincerity. You are such a special young woman Whoever was talkin shit is lucky I didn't catch that crap because their face would have been ripped off!

You're beautiful.

Some people are just assholes thinking they can spout bullshit without consequences. But people remember shit like that, especially on the Org people have elephant memory. They'll get what's coming to them, as I understand it they were already banned but that's just the first part. If they're let back things won't be easy on them. What goes around comes around. Try not to worry, I don't know you but you seem to be very well liked.

JustErin said:

JerseyKRS said:

I just LOLed IRL.

Shut up.

It is the truth.

I have always been one of those supper sensative people and absolutely cringed at the thought that I hurt another's feelings. Anybody that was thin skinned I gladly walked on eggshells for and held their hand too.

When I first ran into JustErin I thought she was the most evil and hateful orger on here. I could not believe she would say things that hurt peoples feelings and then when they told her so and not so much as apologized. What a cunt, what an asshole,

THEN I READ A THREAD WHERE MY JUSTERIN HATE TURNED INTO JUSTERIN LOVE

It was a thread about a supper stinky and very overweight coworker who smelled likes feces mixed with nasty perfume.

The OP was put in the position of having to tell this woman that she needed to bathe and the original OP was not her boss. Her bosses did not have the balls to tell her the truth. Worse yet this women, whose feelings no one wanted to hurt, was clearly close to loosing her job over personal hygeine.

Suddenly Erin just got on the thread and said the truth. SHE STINKS, SHE STINKS, SHE STINKS!!!! Is it better to fire her and leave her without an income or tell her the truth and let her fucken cry, deal with it and still at least have a job. The women had a decent job in the movie industry, as I recall, and probably an decent income tha would not be easily replaced.

Finally I got it. At fifty I finally got it that sometimes it is O.K, that you hurt someones feelings. Sometimes it takes courage because many thin skin types are very good at manipulating people with their overly emotional whining. Fuck that.

Honestly, had JustErin worked at this woman's job that stanky mess would have gone running home the first day and grabbed a long handled scrub brush at CVS on her way home and solved that problem pronto. One day and that stench would be over with.

But no, there was no JustErin to the rescue at that job so this women had been coming to work for weeks smelling nassty and being talked about but not TALKED TO!

Anyway, there is a point here I am trying to make.

It is great to be sensative. It is great to be sensative to other's feelings. However, being too sensative will result in people not feeling comfortable telling you the truth and eventually when you find it out the pain will be worse. Being too sensative to other's feeling means putting up with crap, sometimes literally, that really should not be going on because someone might need a good cry afterwards.

So, that is my hate can turn to love story. Amen.

JerseyKRS said:

I just LOLed IRL.

What does IRL mean?

Deadflow3r said:

Unlike JustErin you are easily likeable.

over & over again

insatiable3 said:

i dont know how to even start this.. i guess this is more of a vent thread for me .. i just wanted to say that here on the org i try to be as true to my real self as i possibly can at all times.. not only is it important for me to let all of you guys try to see me for me but im never one to put on a show for anybody.. what you see with me is what you get... like anyone i know i have my flaws and im only human and i try to work on them everyday... insecurity is a major one for me.. but i have to tell you incase you dont know this about me i love every human that crosses my path until they give me a reason not too.. i guess im sensitive.. i guess i care to much about what everybody on here thinks of me... but thats who i am and i cant change it.. it kinda comes with the insatiable3 package..

i guess what im trying to say is i was deeply hurt about a comment said about me on a thread here at the org.. i know you cant stop this ... what i just dont understand is how someone can judge like that without even knowing who i am.. and i loved how they made the comment when i couldnt defend myself..

i thank all of you who stuck up for me on that thread and know that all the positive comments in responce meant so much to me .. i know that there are some totally wonderful people on here and dont ever think you go unnoticed to me... the org has done so much for me since i joined about a year and half ago.. i think its changed me in ways i never thought it could.. some of the people on here are the best friends anyone could wish for ... and im so blessed to have that.

anyway i just wanted to get all this off my chest so i could feel better im sorry for my dramatic rant..

thanks for listening

lol im such a emotional wreck lately oh well im gonna try to laugh it off i guess ( i dont expect many responces to this thread lol)

[Edited 8/9/11 19:56pm]

I missed this.

You seem like a lovely lady. Sometimes people are total assholes. I wonder if they'd have the guts to talk like that to peoples faces.

Fuck 'em.

Deadflow3r said:

JustErin said:

Shut up.

It is the truth.

I have always been one of those supper sensative people and absolutely cringed at the thought that I hurt another's feelings. Anybody that was thin skinned I gladly walked on eggshells for and held their hand too.

When I first ran into JustErin I thought she was the most evil and hateful orger on here. I could not believe she would say things that hurt peoples feelings and then when they told her so and not so much as apologized. What a cunt, what an asshole,

THEN I READ A THREAD WHERE MY JUSTERIN HATE TURNED INTO JUSTERIN LOVE

It was a thread about a supper stinky and very overweight coworker who smelled likes feces mixed with nasty perfume.

The OP was put in the position of having to tell this woman that she needed to bathe and the original OP was not her boss. Her bosses did not have the balls to tell her the truth. Worse yet this women, whose feelings no one wanted to hurt, was clearly close to loosing her job over personal hygeine.

Suddenly Erin just got on the thread and said the truth. SHE STINKS, SHE STINKS, SHE STINKS!!!! Is it better to fire her and leave her without an income or tell her the truth and let her fucken cry, deal with it and still at least have a job. The women had a decent job in the movie industry, as I recall, and probably an decent income tha would not be easily replaced.

Finally I got it. At fifty I finally got it that sometimes it is O.K, that you hurt someones feelings. Sometimes it takes courage because many thin skin types are very good at manipulating people with their overly emotional whining. Fuck that.

Honestly, had JustErin worked at this woman's job that stanky mess would have gone running home the first day and grabbed a long handled scrub brush at CVS on her way home and solved that problem pronto. One day and that stench would be over with.

But no, there was no JustErin to the rescue at that job so this women had been coming to work for weeks smelling nassty and being talked about but not TALKED TO!

Anyway, there is a point here I am trying to make.

It is great to be sensative. It is great to be sensative to other's feelings. However, being too sensative will result in people not feeling comfortable telling you the truth and eventually when you find it out the pain will be worse. Being too sensative to other's feeling means putting up with crap, sometimes literally, that really should not be going on because someone might need a good cry afterwards.

So, that is my hate can turn to love story. Amen.

I like your story and all, and your final point is one that I believe strongly in....and it's nice that you went from a hate to a like when it comes to me, but I just want to clarify that I have never said anything "hateful" to anyone one here. I may comment on what someone says that might go against everyone else's opinion, I may ask the questions that might make some uncomfortable, I may joke about someone's behaviour and posts on here, but I have never flat out insulted anyone anywhere near the way people have flat out insulted me.

The only time I hurl a real insult is when it's towards a friend and it's all in fun...and they know it.

There are threads dedicated to making fun of people on here but I guess no one cares because they are not orgers. It's extremely rare that I ever participate in slamfests like that, have even tried to stick up for people that have no voice on here....but dare I make a comment about how someone behaves on here, or call someone out on their bullshit...hell, even hint at someone's bs that forces them to take a look at themselves and all shit breaks loose....honestly, all I pretty much see around me on here - especially lately - are a bunch of fucking hypocrites.

Insult me all you want, whatever, it's ok, it's your opinion and I can take it. I do wonder sometimes if that's one of the main reasons why I am disliked the most by some....Sure, I can dish it out but I can take it even better, and they simply can't.

I do hope that smelly girl got her shit together though.

orger said:

Deadflow3r said:

Unlike JustErin you are easily likeable.

over & over again

JustErin said:

Deadflow3r said:

It is the truth.

I have always been one of those supper sensative people and absolutely cringed at the thought that I hurt another's feelings. Anybody that was thin skinned I gladly walked on eggshells for and held their hand too.

When I first ran into JustErin I thought she was the most evil and hateful orger on here. I could not believe she would say things that hurt peoples feelings and then when they told her so and not so much as apologized. What a cunt, what an asshole,

THEN I READ A THREAD WHERE MY JUSTERIN HATE TURNED INTO JUSTERIN LOVE

It was a thread about a supper stinky and very overweight coworker who smelled likes feces mixed with nasty perfume.

The OP was put in the position of having to tell this woman that she needed to bathe and the original OP was not her boss. Her bosses did not have the balls to tell her the truth. Worse yet this women, whose feelings no one wanted to hurt, was clearly close to loosing her job over personal hygeine.

Suddenly Erin just got on the thread and said the truth. SHE STINKS, SHE STINKS, SHE STINKS!!!! Is it better to fire her and leave her without an income or tell her the truth and let her fucken cry, deal with it and still at least have a job. The women had a decent job in the movie industry, as I recall, and probably an decent income tha would not be easily replaced.

Finally I got it. At fifty I finally got it that sometimes it is O.K, that you hurt someones feelings. Sometimes it takes courage because many thin skin types are very good at manipulating people with their overly emotional whining. Fuck that.

Honestly, had JustErin worked at this woman's job that stanky mess would have gone running home the first day and grabbed a long handled scrub brush at CVS on her way home and solved that problem pronto. One day and that stench would be over with.

But no, there was no JustErin to the rescue at that job so this women had been coming to work for weeks smelling nassty and being talked about but not TALKED TO!

Anyway, there is a point here I am trying to make.

It is great to be sensative. It is great to be sensative to other's feelings. However, being too sensative will result in people not feeling comfortable telling you the truth and eventually when you find it out the pain will be worse. Being too sensative to other's feeling means putting up with crap, sometimes literally, that really should not be going on because someone might need a good cry afterwards.

So, that is my hate can turn to love story. Amen.

I like your story and all, and your final point is one that I believe strongly in....and it's nice that you went from a hate to a like when it comes to me, but I just want to clarify that I have never said anything "hateful" to anyone one here. I may comment on what someone says that might go against everyone else's opinion, I may ask the questions that might make some uncomfortable, I may joke about someone's behaviour and posts on here, but I have never flat out insulted anyone anywhere near the way people have flat out insulted me.

The only time I hurl a real insult is when it's towards a friend and it's all in fun...and they know it.

There are threads dedicated to making fun of people on here but I guess no one cares because they are not orgers. It's extremely rare that I ever participate in slamfests like that, have even tried to stick up for people that have no voice on here....but dare I make a comment about how someone behaves on here, or call someone out on their bullshit...hell, even hint at someone's bs that forces them to take a look at themselves and all shit breaks loose....honestly, all I pretty much see around me on here - especially lately - are a bunch of fucking hypocrites.

Insult me all you want, whatever, it's ok, it's your opinion and I can take it. I do wonder sometimes if that's one of the main reasons why I am disliked the most by some....Sure, I can dish it out but I can take it even better, and they simply can't.

I do hope that smelly girl got her shit together though.

She did.

And that is the beauty of you; you never dish out more than you can take.

JustErin said:

I like your story and all, and your final point is one that I believe strongly in....and it's nice that you went from a hate to a like when it comes to me, but I just want to clarify that I have never said anything "hateful" to anyone one here. I may comment on what someone says that might go against everyone else's opinion, I may ask the questions that might make some uncomfortable, I may joke about someone's behaviour and posts on here, but I have never flat out insulted anyone anywhere near the way people have flat out insulted me.

The only time I hurl a real insult is when it's towards a friend and it's all in fun...and they know it.

There are threads dedicated to making fun of people on here but I guess no one cares because they are not orgers. It's extremely rare that I ever participate in slamfests like that, have even tried to stick up for people that have no voice on here....but dare I make a comment about how someone behaves on here, or call someone out on their bullshit...hell, even hint at someone's bs that forces them to take a look at themselves and all shit breaks loose....honestly, all I pretty much see around me on here - especially lately - are a bunch of fucking hypocrites.

Insult me all you want, whatever, it's ok, it's your opinion and I can take it. I do wonder sometimes if that's one of the main reasons why I am disliked the most by some....Sure, I can dish it out but I can take it even better, and they simply can't.

I do hope that smelly girl got her shit together though.

JustErin said:

Deadflow3r said:

It is the truth.

I have always been one of those supper sensative people and absolutely cringed at the thought that I hurt another's feelings. Anybody that was thin skinned I gladly walked on eggshells for and held their hand too.

When I first ran into JustErin I thought she was the most evil and hateful orger on here. I could not believe she would say things that hurt peoples feelings and then when they told her so and not so much as apologized. What a cunt, what an asshole,

THEN I READ A THREAD WHERE MY JUSTERIN HATE TURNED INTO JUSTERIN LOVE

It was a thread about a supper stinky and very overweight coworker who smelled likes feces mixed with nasty perfume.

The OP was put in the position of having to tell this woman that she needed to bathe and the original OP was not her boss. Her bosses did not have the balls to tell her the truth. Worse yet this women, whose feelings no one wanted to hurt, was clearly close to loosing her job over personal hygeine.

Suddenly Erin just got on the thread and said the truth. SHE STINKS, SHE STINKS, SHE STINKS!!!! Is it better to fire her and leave her without an income or tell her the truth and let her fucken cry, deal with it and still at least have a job. The women had a decent job in the movie industry, as I recall, and probably an decent income tha would not be easily replaced.

Finally I got it. At fifty I finally got it that sometimes it is O.K, that you hurt someones feelings. Sometimes it takes courage because many thin skin types are very good at manipulating people with their overly emotional whining. Fuck that.

Honestly, had JustErin worked at this woman's job that stanky mess would have gone running home the first day and grabbed a long handled scrub brush at CVS on her way home and solved that problem pronto. One day and that stench would be over with.

But no, there was no JustErin to the rescue at that job so this women had been coming to work for weeks smelling nassty and being talked about but not TALKED TO!

Anyway, there is a point here I am trying to make.

It is great to be sensative. It is great to be sensative to other's feelings. However, being too sensative will result in people not feeling comfortable telling you the truth and eventually when you find it out the pain will be worse. Being too sensative to other's feeling means putting up with crap, sometimes literally, that really should not be going on because someone might need a good cry afterwards.

So, that is my hate can turn to love story. Amen.

I like your story and all, and your final point is one that I believe strongly in....and it's nice that you went from a hate to a like when it comes to me, but I just want to clarify that I have never said anything "hateful" to anyone one here. I may comment on what someone says that might go against everyone else's opinion, I may ask the questions that might make some uncomfortable, I may joke about someone's behaviour and posts on here, but I have never flat out insulted anyone anywhere near the way people have flat out insulted me.

The only time I hurl a real insult is when it's towards a friend and it's all in fun...and they know it.

There are threads dedicated to making fun of people on here but I guess no one cares because they are not orgers. It's extremely rare that I ever participate in slamfests like that, have even tried to stick up for people that have no voice on here....but dare I make a comment about how someone behaves on here, or call someone out on their bullshit...hell, even hint at someone's bs that forces them to take a look at themselves and all shit breaks loose....honestly, all I pretty much see around me on here - especially lately - are a bunch of fucking hypocrites.

Insult me all you want, whatever, it's ok, it's your opinion and I can take it. I do wonder sometimes if that's one of the main reasons why I am disliked the most by some....Sure, I can dish it out but I can take it even better, and they simply can't.

I do hope that smelly girl got her shit together though.

*Like*

JustErin said:

I like your story and all, and your final point is one that I believe strongly in....and it's nice that you went from a hate to a like when it comes to me, but I just want to clarify that I have never said anything "hateful" to anyone one here. I may comment on what someone says that might go against everyone else's opinion, I may ask the questions that might make some uncomfortable, I may joke about someone's behaviour and posts on here, but I have never flat out insulted anyone anywhere near the way people have flat out insulted me.

The only time I hurl a real insult is when it's towards a friend and it's all in fun...and they know it.

There are threads dedicated to making fun of people on here but I guess no one cares because they are not orgers. It's extremely rare that I ever participate in slamfests like that, have even tried to stick up for people that have no voice on here....but dare I make a comment about how someone behaves on here, or call someone out on their bullshit...hell, even hint at someone's bs that forces them to take a look at themselves and all shit breaks loose....honestly, all I pretty much see around me on here - especially lately - are a bunch of fucking hypocrites.

Insult me all you want, whatever, it's ok, it's your opinion and I can take it. I do wonder sometimes if that's one of the main reasons why I am disliked the most by some....Sure, I can dish it out but I can take it even better, and they simply can't.

I do hope that smelly girl got her shit together though.

wanna know what I think? You probably don't but I'm gonna say it anyway...if you were a faceless orger that had never posted a pic or if you were a male orger, a lot of folks wouldn't have a problem with you or the things you say...but you're not faceless and you're not male...you're a good looking woman that says what she wants...I know it sounds oversimplified but I think there's a level of truth to it...there are many faceless orgers here that have said much worse than you that haven't caught half the hell that you have...so if others can spout off at the mouth and not worry about repercussion, why do you always catch shit?? I think that when you post a pic or you express your opinion or when you openly talk about your love/sex life (or lack thereof )or anything else you may do around here, that some folks have a perception that you're rubbing their noses in "it", that you think you're better/smarter than them, that you think your shit doesn't stink...that you're flaunting yourself in order to make them feel shitty about themselves...I know someone out there in orgland is rolling their eyes or calling bullshit but I don't give a fuck, it's my perception...and I've seen it happen to other people as well for what I think are the same reasons...people are always looking to tear somebody down, whether it be for good reason or not...what I've noticed with you is that what normally starts out as a difference of opinion between you and someone else transgresses into an all out personal attack against you...I've seen it plenty of times...this isn't the first time you've heard the story of an orger originally disliking you only to have their opinion changed later...I think some here are intimidated by you without knowing a single thing about you...in all fairness, there are even some here that have a genuine dislike for you not based on anything I've said and thats fine too, we can't all be friends...but I think that's the exception, not the norm...I've seen you take way more shit than you've ever dished out and just for that, you ARE better than some of these fuckers, in my eyes...just as I'm sure there's someone thinking to themselves right now, "He just wants to fuck her." That's the mentality here, especially as of late-form a totally irrational, simple minded opinion and profess it as truth...I've developed a small handful of friendships here over the years and you are one of those friends....I've never met you and likely never will but I think I "know" you a hell of a lot better than most org type folks do...imo, you are easy to like but people have too hard of a time letting go of preconceived notions...that's their problem, not yours-but too many times you get the shit end of the deal as it pertains to their problem...you've spent a lot of time here defending yourself, I just wanted to do it for a change...

folks, this is basic but it needs to be said: noone here is qualified to pass judgment on anyone else here. esPECially not when you haven't actually spent time with the person you are judging.

and that's that

XxAxX said:

folks, this is basic but it needs to be said: noone here is qualified to pass judgment on anyone else here. esPECially not when you haven't actually spent time with the person you are judging.

and that's that

Sexton -

Spinlight and Jason - thanks

Anyhoo...enough of me....this thread is not about me. It's about insatiable.

orger said:

JustErin said:

I like your story and all, and your final point is one that I believe strongly in....and it's nice that you went from a hate to a like when it comes to me, but I just want to clarify that I have never said anything "hateful" to anyone one here. I may comment on what someone says that might go against everyone else's opinion, I may ask the questions that might make some uncomfortable, I may joke about someone's behaviour and posts on here, but I have never flat out insulted anyone anywhere near the way people have flat out insulted me.

The only time I hurl a real insult is when it's towards a friend and it's all in fun...and they know it.

There are threads dedicated to making fun of people on here but I guess no one cares because they are not orgers. It's extremely rare that I ever participate in slamfests like that, have even tried to stick up for people that have no voice on here....but dare I make a comment about how someone behaves on here, or call someone out on their bullshit...hell, even hint at someone's bs that forces them to take a look at themselves and all shit breaks loose....honestly, all I pretty much see around me on here - especially lately - are a bunch of fucking hypocrites.

Insult me all you want, whatever, it's ok, it's your opinion and I can take it. I do wonder sometimes if that's one of the main reasons why I am disliked the most by some....Sure, I can dish it out but I can take it even better, and they simply can't.

I do hope that smelly girl got her shit together though.

wanna know what I think? You probably don't but I'm gonna say it anyway...if you were a faceless orger that had never posted a pic or if you were a male orger, a lot of folks wouldn't have a problem with you or the things you say...but you're not faceless and you're not male...you're a good looking woman that says what she wants...I know it sounds oversimplified but I think there's a level of truth to it...there are many faceless orgers here that have said much worse than you that haven't caught half the hell that you have...so if others can spout off at the mouth and not worry about repercussion, why do you always catch shit?? I think that when you post a pic or you express your opinion or when you openly talk about your love/sex life (or lack thereof )or anything else you may do around here, that some folks have a perception that you're rubbing their noses in "it", that you think you're better/smarter than them, that you think your shit doesn't stink...that you're flaunting yourself in order to make them feel shitty about themselves...I know someone out there in orgland is rolling their eyes or calling bullshit but I don't give a fuck, it's my perception...and I've seen it happen to other people as well for what I think are the same reasons...people are always looking to tear somebody down, whether it be for good reason or not...what I've noticed with you is that what normally starts out as a difference of opinion between you and someone else transgresses into an all out personal attack against you...I've seen it plenty of times...this isn't the first time you've heard the story of an orger originally disliking you only to have their opinion changed later...I think some here are intimidated by you without knowing a single thing about you...in all fairness, there are even some here that have a genuine dislike for you not based on anything I've said and thats fine too, we can't all be friends...but I think that's the exception, not the norm...I've seen you take way more shit than you've ever dished out and just for that, you ARE better than some of these fuckers, in my eyes...just as I'm sure there's someone thinking to themselves right now, "He just wants to fuck her." That's the mentality here, especially as of late-form a totally irrational, simple minded opinion and profess it as truth...I've developed a small handful of friendships here over the years and you are one of those friends....I've never met you and likely never will but I think I "know" you a hell of a lot better than most org type folks do...imo, you are easy to like but people have too hard of a time letting go of preconceived notions...that's their problem, not yours-but too many times you get the shit end of the deal as it pertains to their problem...you've spent a lot of time here defending yourself, I just wanted to do it for a change...

I agree with Jason. She's not male, she's not faceless, and not shy with her opinions. That's against the grain of society-so they have to attack her to "put" her in her place.

Oddly enough Prince gets the same crap on this site too. They have to tear him down to make themselves feel better.

i'm so glad to see that I'm not the only one jason is gay for.

JustErin said:

Deadflow3r said:

JustErin is the first person I absolutely fucken hated on the org. It all started 'cause she stuck up for Bria . I have learned much from her though on being thin skinned and sticking up for people with thin skin.

My daughter has a Barbie movie and in that movie Barbie tells her friends "my grandemother once said ' other people's opinion of you is none of your business' " and that is so true. Can you all imagine what it must be like to no only be known on the org but actually be famous? You have got to learn in life that people have a right to form their own opinion of you and that opinion could be negative. They do no have a right to post lies about you, but they can infact say, "you suck!!"

Squirrelgrease, one of my favs, has a rant that someone once posted displayed on his org page. You know he thought that was some histerical shit .

Given how many of us give you a HUGE every time you come back from a break from the org, I can not believe that you still have not got the down pat.

Unlike JustErin you are easily likeable. Erin has grown on me with time and made me rethink quite a few things. Thank God she doesn't have thin skin and took off for higher ground or I may never have learned them

kewlschool said:

orger said:

wanna know what I think? You probably don't but I'm gonna say it anyway...if you were a faceless orger that had never posted a pic or if you were a male orger, a lot of folks wouldn't have a problem with you or the things you say...but you're not faceless and you're not male...you're a good looking woman that says what she wants...I know it sounds oversimplified but I think there's a level of truth to it...there are many faceless orgers here that have said much worse than you that haven't caught half the hell that you have...so if others can spout off at the mouth and not worry about repercussion, why do you always catch shit?? I think that when you post a pic or you express your opinion or when you openly talk about your love/sex life (or lack thereof )or anything else you may do around here, that some folks have a perception that you're rubbing their noses in "it", that you think you're better/smarter than them, that you think your shit doesn't stink...that you're flaunting yourself in order to make them feel shitty about themselves...I know someone out there in orgland is rolling their eyes or calling bullshit but I don't give a fuck, it's my perception...and I've seen it happen to other people as well for what I think are the same reasons...people are always looking to tear somebody down, whether it be for good reason or not...what I've noticed with you is that what normally starts out as a difference of opinion between you and someone else transgresses into an all out personal attack against you...I've seen it plenty of times...this isn't the first time you've heard the story of an orger originally disliking you only to have their opinion changed later...I think some here are intimidated by you without knowing a single thing about you...in all fairness, there are even some here that have a genuine dislike for you not based on anything I've said and thats fine too, we can't all be friends...but I think that's the exception, not the norm...I've seen you take way more shit than you've ever dished out and just for that, you ARE better than some of these fuckers, in my eyes...just as I'm sure there's someone thinking to themselves right now, "He just wants to fuck her." That's the mentality here, especially as of late-form a totally irrational, simple minded opinion and profess it as truth...I've developed a small handful of friendships here over the years and you are one of those friends....I've never met you and likely never will but I think I "know" you a hell of a lot better than most org type folks do...imo, you are easy to like but people have too hard of a time letting go of preconceived notions...that's their problem, not yours-but too many times you get the shit end of the deal as it pertains to their problem...you've spent a lot of time here defending yourself, I just wanted to do it for a change...

I agree with Jason. She's not male, she's not faceless, and not shy with her opinions. That's against the grain of society-so they have to attack her to "put" her in her place.

Oddly enough Prince gets the same crap on this site too. They have to tear him down to make themselves feel better.

Prince is a bit of a dick though, let's be fair.

To the OP... I think you'll shrug it off if something similar ever happens again. You're well liked, and even loved, here. No need to sweat it.

JerseyKRS said:

has anyone mentioned me yet?

imago said:

has anyone mentioned me yet?

imago said:

has anyone mentioned me yet?

no...

Wow !! i cant believe this thread is on fire.. i didnt expect many people to post to it .. thanks everyone for your kind responces... you all mean alot to me too..

erin i read what you said hun and your right.. i need to toughen up i know.. i believe i can handle what is said about me too.. i havent come on here the last couple days just to give myself a break.. ive thought alot about the comments that were left for me and i didnt even realized how much everyone on here cares that in itself has helped alot .. i know its only the internet and someone was trolling.. i had a weak moment and have been going through alot here at home ... so i guess it was the straw that broke the camels back when that shit went down in that thread .. cause one thing i know for sure is i have always been able to take a joke ... to everyone who is reading this.. im ok i promise you dont have to walk on egg shells around me.. im still the cortney i have always been .. i just guess ive been a little more sensitive lately.. im gonna grasp that fuck you attitude from now on so i wont let shit like this bother me ... learn that if i am happy then who the fuck cares what anybody else thinks..

once again to everybody who posted and read this thread..

thank you !! just knowing that so many people care has made my day

i love you all

Cortney

JamFanHot said:

There was no excuse for that comment. Never mind that it's wholy un-true & out of touch with reality (you are lovely)....but it was just god damned rude & an uncalled for cheap shot from a weak-minded cretin.

Glad Mars at least gave him a smack down.

You are a beatiful woman & thank you for sharing. Believe THAT.

Well said!

Insatiable: I always love to see your photos ! And you are one of the nicest people here on the org IMO and add a lot to this place .

JustErin said:

I like your story and all, and your final point is one that I believe strongly in....and it's nice that you went from a hate to a like when it comes to me, but I just want to clarify that I have never said anything "hateful" to anyone one here. I may comment on what someone says that might go against everyone else's opinion, I may ask the questions that might make some uncomfortable, I may joke about someone's behaviour and posts on here, but I have never flat out insulted anyone anywhere near the way people have flat out insulted me.

The only time I hurl a real insult is when it's towards a friend and it's all in fun...and they know it.

There are threads dedicated to making fun of people on here but I guess no one cares because they are not orgers. It's extremely rare that I ever participate in slamfests like that, have even tried to stick up for people that have no voice on here....but dare I make a comment about how someone behaves on here, or call someone out on their bullshit...hell, even hint at someone's bs that forces them to take a look at themselves and all shit breaks loose....honestly, all I pretty much see around me on here - especially lately - are a bunch of fucking hypocrites.

Insult me all you want, whatever, it's ok, it's your opinion and I can take it. I do wonder sometimes if that's one of the main reasons why I am disliked the most by some....Sure, I can dish it out but I can take it even better, and they simply can't.

I do hope that smelly girl got her shit together though.

Good points .

JerseyKRS said:

its easy for people to throw insults around here, they never have to own up to being a prick.