Fauxie said:

JustErin said:

Always.

Well, that's a relief.

Now go tell Dani what you know about what excites 'chubby chasers'.

JowiiCoco said:

Turn the lights off so your image doesn't interfere with his fantasy of fucking some young, hot chick.

JustErin said:

I don't really have any because I'm pretty sure the problem is in your mind only.

That is perfect advice. It's all in your head.. all you have to do is change your perception of yourself. Your husband probably doesn't see you much differently.

paniuroczy said:

JustErin said:

I don't really have any because I'm pretty sure the problem is in your mind only.

That is perfect advice. It's all in your head.. all you have to do is change your perception of yourself. Your husband probably doesn't see you much differently.

Maybe it's not her problem though. Maybe her body is his problem and he just can't get around it. I mean, it's so big he literally can't get around it.

I love you Dani. You're a bombshell to me, always.

JustErin said:

Fauxie said:

Well, that's a relief.

Now go tell Dani what you know about what excites 'chubby chasers'.

When he's done blowing air into her and releases her, will she fly out the pool?

MacDaddy said:

JustErin said:

When he's done blowing air into her and releases her, will she fly out the pool?

You really think she's gonna release her thighs on his head??

TotalANXiousNESS said:

but yanno how guys are visual and need like to be stimulated visually?

Well what are ways of doing that besides the usual wearing a hot outfit or doing a strip tease type stuff?

Letting him fuck you in the ass.

Ace said:

TotalANXiousNESS said:

but yanno how guys are visual and need like to be stimulated visually?

Well what are ways of doing that besides the usual wearing a hot outfit or doing a strip tease type stuff?

Letting him fuck you in the ass.

JustErin said:

MacDaddy said:

When he's done blowing air into her and releases her, will she fly out the pool?

You really think she's gonna release her thighs on his head??

If you are in doubts that "visual stimulation" is working, switch over to "manual stimulation" and see if that helps.

I would agree with those who talk about just trying to feel more sexy yourself. Clearly you are beautiful!

But having been in a looooong term relationship, there are a few things that pop into my shallow male brain--please keep in mind, I only say them because you are asking:

Wearing something different. My gf does not wear skirts that often, so when she does it is like It's a new form of stimulation, you could wear glasses or do your hair different. Of course those are suggestions, it's not to say your hair is not beautiful or needs to be changed just to please him, don't get me wrong! But we notice these things even if we don't say "did you change your hair? I like it!"

Basically looking like someone else--not because he doesn't love you, it is just stimulating to see something new. When my gf gains weight I am like and then when she loses it again I am like

Another thing is preserving a little female mystery in the relationship. It's great for a relationship to share and be honest, but [some] men definitely want to think of women as creatures who never sweat, shit, have hair anywhere but on their heads, etc. That is what they see on magazines, TV, etc, and there is a reason for that. So try to preserve that fantasy at least when it comes to bedroom time.

but most of all, being interested in him is the biggest turn on. I would take that over shaved legs any day. You are and will always be a beautiful woman. If something is wrong, it may not be anything you can change, but something he needs to work on in his head.

Giving sexual advice AGAIN?

U should become a moderator for that - LOL

NDRU said:

I would agree with those who talk about just trying to feel more sexy yourself. Clearly you are beautiful!

But having been in a looooong term relationship, there are a few things that pop into my shallow male brain--please keep in mind, I only say them because you are asking:

Wearing something different. My gf does not wear skirts that often, so when she does it is like It's a new form of stimulation, you could wear glasses or do your hair different. Of course those are suggestions, it's not to say your hair is not beautiful or needs to be changed just to please him, don't get me wrong! But we notice these things even if we don't say "did you change your hair? I like it!"

Basically looking like someone else--not because he doesn't love you, it is just stimulating to see something new. When my gf gains weight I am like and then when she loses it again I am like

Another thing is preserving a little female mystery in the relationship. It's great for a relationship to share and be honest, but [some] men definitely want to think of women as creatures who never sweat, shit, have hair anywhere but on their heads, etc. That is what they see on magazines, TV, etc, and there is a reason for that. So try to preserve that fantasy at least when it comes to bedroom time.

but most of all, being interested in him is the biggest turn on. I would take that over shaved legs any day. You are and will always be a beautiful woman. If something is wrong, it may not be anything you can change, but something he needs to work on in his head.

no, I'm just wishing out loud

OzlemUcucu said:

Giving sexual advice AGAIN?

U should become a moderator for that - LOL

NDRU said:

I would agree with those who talk about just trying to feel more sexy yourself. Clearly you are beautiful!

But having been in a looooong term relationship, there are a few things that pop into my shallow male brain--please keep in mind, I only say them because you are asking:

Wearing something different. My gf does not wear skirts that often, so when she does it is like It's a new form of stimulation, you could wear glasses or do your hair different. Of course those are suggestions, it's not to say your hair is not beautiful or needs to be changed just to please him, don't get me wrong! But we notice these things even if we don't say "did you change your hair? I like it!"

Basically looking like someone else--not because he doesn't love you, it is just stimulating to see something new. When my gf gains weight I am like and then when she loses it again I am like

Another thing is preserving a little female mystery in the relationship. It's great for a relationship to share and be honest, but [some] men definitely want to think of women as creatures who never sweat, shit, have hair anywhere but on their heads, etc. That is what they see on magazines, TV, etc, and there is a reason for that. So try to preserve that fantasy at least when it comes to bedroom time.

but most of all, being interested in him is the biggest turn on. I would take that over shaved legs any day. You are and will always be a beautiful woman. If something is wrong, it may not be anything you can change, but something he needs to work on in his head.

As the day they met u?????Good luck with that!!!!!Men r so fucked up!!!!They move on so fast in there heads by heads i dont mean down there!!!!Keeping men visually interested day after day after long day is not going 2b easy!!!!!Ive seen pics of u on the photowhore stuff and u r attractive ur slim and u r nice 2 look at the problem u have is Men in general!!!!!!U can b the hottest thing on the planet and ur mans eyes will still wonder no matter what u look like????.All i will say 2u is u will feel in ur heart if ur man has gone off u!!!!Its very easy 2 find out alot of information from a kiss!!!If he isnt interested u will no from that kiss!!!!If u buy new sexy underwear and he would rather watch sports u no ur in trouble!!!!Ive seen pics of u both u look a great couple!Realy nice 2gether and i do hope u last 4 ever!!In ur head u already no how 2 turn on ur man visually but how he reacts is out of ur hands,u cannot control what he thinks about u!!!!Hes either in2u or he aint its that simple.Doesnt matter how hard u try!!!If he doesnt want 2 no then he doesnt want 2 no.......isnt that married life????4 better 4 worse...Good Luck..

two words:

AN-AL

JerseyKRS said:

two words:

AN-AL

butt be careful in following this sage advice! that shit does not turn this guy on!

NDRU said:

I would agree with those who talk about just trying to feel more sexy yourself. Clearly you are beautiful!

But having been in a looooong term relationship, there are a few things that pop into my shallow male brain--please keep in mind, I only say them because you are asking:

Wearing something different. My gf does not wear skirts that often, so when she does it is like It's a new form of stimulation, you could wear glasses or do your hair different. Of course those are suggestions, it's not to say your hair is not beautiful or needs to be changed just to please him, don't get me wrong! But we notice these things even if we don't say "did you change your hair? I like it!"

Basically looking like someone else--not because he doesn't love you, it is just stimulating to see something new. When my gf gains weight I am like and then when she loses it again I am like

Another thing is preserving a little female mystery in the relationship. It's great for a relationship to share and be honest, but [some] men definitely want to think of women as creatures who never sweat, shit, have hair anywhere but on their heads, etc. That is what they see on magazines, TV, etc, and there is a reason for that. So try to preserve that fantasy at least when it comes to bedroom time.

but most of all, being interested in him is the biggest turn on. I would take that over shaved legs any day. You are and will always be a beautiful woman. If something is wrong, it may not be anything you can change, but something he needs to work on in his head.

thank YOU! That is what I was looking for. And I understand what your saying, and I'm not insulted by it......but I appreciate you treading lightly all the same.

I'll switch it up as much as I can. I think we also spend too much time together, so that could be part of the problem too??

davetherave6767 said:

As the day they met u?????Good luck with that!!!!!Men r so fucked up!!!!They move on so fast in there heads by heads i dont mean down there!!!!Keeping men visually interested day after day after long day is not going 2b easy!!!!!Ive seen pics of u on the photowhore stuff and u r attractive ur slim and u r nice 2 look at the problem u have is Men in general!!!!!!U can b the hottest thing on the planet and ur mans eyes will still wonder no matter what u look like????.All i will say 2u is u will feel in ur heart if ur man has gone off u!!!!Its very easy 2 find out alot of information from a kiss!!!If he isnt interested u will no from that kiss!!!!If u buy new sexy underwear and he would rather watch sports u no ur in trouble!!!!Ive seen pics of u both u look a great couple!Realy nice 2gether and i do hope u last 4 ever!!In ur head u already no how 2 turn on ur man visually but how he reacts is out of ur hands,u cannot control what he thinks about u!!!!Hes either in2u or he aint its that simple.Doesnt matter how hard u try!!!If he doesnt want 2 no then he doesnt want 2 no.......isnt that married life????4 better 4 worse...Good Luck..

The sexy new undies scenario you set up has actually happened.

But I think it's just cuz now that were married he knows he can have me anytime anywhere, yanno? So why not AFTER Sportsrise is over?

TotalANXiousNESS said:

NDRU said:

I would agree with those who talk about just trying to feel more sexy yourself. Clearly you are beautiful!

But having been in a looooong term relationship, there are a few things that pop into my shallow male brain--please keep in mind, I only say them because you are asking:

Wearing something different. My gf does not wear skirts that often, so when she does it is like It's a new form of stimulation, you could wear glasses or do your hair different. Of course those are suggestions, it's not to say your hair is not beautiful or needs to be changed just to please him, don't get me wrong! But we notice these things even if we don't say "did you change your hair? I like it!"

Basically looking like someone else--not because he doesn't love you, it is just stimulating to see something new. When my gf gains weight I am like and then when she loses it again I am like

Another thing is preserving a little female mystery in the relationship. It's great for a relationship to share and be honest, but [some] men definitely want to think of women as creatures who never sweat, shit, have hair anywhere but on their heads, etc. That is what they see on magazines, TV, etc, and there is a reason for that. So try to preserve that fantasy at least when it comes to bedroom time.

but most of all, being interested in him is the biggest turn on. I would take that over shaved legs any day. You are and will always be a beautiful woman. If something is wrong, it may not be anything you can change, but something he needs to work on in his head.

thank YOU! That is what I was looking for. And I understand what your saying, and I'm not insulted by it......but I appreciate you treading lightly all the same.

I'll switch it up as much as I can. I think we also spend too much time together, so that could be part of the problem too??

maybe, when the opportunity is always there, sometimes we don't take advantage of it.

Maybe he needs to go out with the guys and get into a fight or something. you can get out that famous steak and put it on his eye, get out your Swiffer and swiff a bit...

TotalANXiousNESS said:

davetherave6767 said:

As the day they met u?????Good luck with that!!!!!Men r so fucked up!!!!They move on so fast in there heads by heads i dont mean down there!!!!Keeping men visually interested day after day after long day is not going 2b easy!!!!!Ive seen pics of u on the photowhore stuff and u r attractive ur slim and u r nice 2 look at the problem u have is Men in general!!!!!!U can b the hottest thing on the planet and ur mans eyes will still wonder no matter what u look like????.All i will say 2u is u will feel in ur heart if ur man has gone off u!!!!Its very easy 2 find out alot of information from a kiss!!!If he isnt interested u will no from that kiss!!!!If u buy new sexy underwear and he would rather watch sports u no ur in trouble!!!!Ive seen pics of u both u look a great couple!Realy nice 2gether and i do hope u last 4 ever!!In ur head u already no how 2 turn on ur man visually but how he reacts is out of ur hands,u cannot control what he thinks about u!!!!Hes either in2u or he aint its that simple.Doesnt matter how hard u try!!!If he doesnt want 2 no then he doesnt want 2 no.......isnt that married life????4 better 4 worse...Good Luck..

The sexy new undies scenario you set up has actually happened.

But I think it's just cuz now that were married he knows he can have me anytime anywhere, yanno? So why not AFTER Sportsrise is over?

Wish u all the very best.........Ur still very young...long way 2 go lotta willy 2 blow....

NDRU said:

JerseyKRS said:

two words:

AN-AL

butt be careful in following this sage advice! that shit does not turn this guy on!

yeah, that's what he's going with, right?

TotalANXiousNESS said:

but yanno how guys are visual and need like to be stimulated visually?

Well what are ways of doing that besides the usual wearing a hot outfit or doing a strip tease type stuff?

Like, when your with the same person for quite some time and they see you day after day, how do you keep them as attracted to you as the day they met you?

Sit on their face regularly. That should do the trick.

Oh shit. I hadn't even seen the above pic before I posted.

JerseyKRS said:

NDRU said:

butt be careful in following this sage advice! that shit does not turn this guy on!

yeah, that's what he's going with, right?

by "this guy" I meant me, but your point still stands

NDRU said:

JerseyKRS said:

yeah, that's what he's going with, right?

by "this guy" I meant me, but your point still stands

I got no problem doing it if that's what they want, but its not what I would call "my thing", either. And it certainly wouldn't make me more interested in a woman. Particularly in one who I'd already lost interest in.

I guess I'm just part of the "the nastier the better club",

JerseyKRS said:

I guess I'm just part of the "the nastier the better club",

to that! I mean, I'm happy to shove whatever she wants (including my whole damn hand) in there while my dick is in the front door, or her mouth, or another object or my other hand is... well, you get the picture. And it won't get ignored when I'm down there takin' care of other business, either. I just don't have any particular attraction to anal sex.

JerseyKRS said:

I guess I'm just part of the "the nastier the better club",

i guess even if it's not my thing, it would prolly be a turn on if it's something out of the ordinary

NDRU said:

JerseyKRS said:

I guess I'm just part of the "the nastier the better club",

i guess even if it's not my thing, it would prolly be a turn on if it's something out of the ordinary

right!

TotalANXiousNESS said:

but yanno how guys are visual and need like to be stimulated visually?

Well what are ways of doing that besides the usual wearing a hot outfit or doing a strip tease type stuff?

Like, when your with the same person for quite some time and they see you day after day, how do you keep them as attracted to you as the day they met you?

here r some things i'd do....

wear a short nitie with no panties - as he is watching TV accidently drop something and bend over to pick it up

when u r in the shower call him to give u soap or a towel... when he does grab him clothes and all pushing your naked wet body on him

b4 he walks in the door remove your clothes and leave them scattered on the floor... a trail into the bed room

and if none of those work - u need to go all out and make him a roast dinner that always works