Gym? Networking events?

JowiiCoco said:

Probably at home.

Which means a vast amount of them spend their time online?

The library

formallypickles said:

The library

okay, didn't think about that one. Writing that on my list. Thanks.

My place.

Proberbly where all the married women hang out!!!

davetherave6767 said:

Proberbly where all the married women hang out!!!

According to an article on Essence.com, the top 10 places to meet men are:

10. Men's Clothing Store

9. Interstate Train

8. Online Dating Sites

7. Gym

6. The Apple Store

5. High End Grocery Stores (ex. Whole Foods)

4. Annual Events (New Years Parties, Christmas Parties, Birthday Parties, etc.)

3. Facebook

2. Educational Setting

1. Volunteer Project

missfee said:

According to an article on Essence.com, the top 10 places to meet men are:

10. Men's Clothing Store

9. Interstate Train

8. Online Dating Sites

7. Gym

6. The Apple Store

5. High End Grocery Stores (ex. Whole Foods)

4. Annual Events (New Years Parties, Christmas Parties, Birthday Parties, etc.)

3. Facebook

2. Educational Setting

1. Volunteer Project

Annual events? I guess you have to book a lot of them.

Facebook? Dunno. I guess I don't fully utilize Facebook but I presume if you're contacting me on Facebook you already know me.

SUPRMAN said:

missfee said:

According to an article on Essence.com, the top 10 places to meet men are:

10. Men's Clothing Store

9. Interstate Train

8. Online Dating Sites

7. Gym

6. The Apple Store

5. High End Grocery Stores (ex. Whole Foods)

4. Annual Events (New Years Parties, Christmas Parties, Birthday Parties, etc.)

3. Facebook

2. Educational Setting

1. Volunteer Project

Annual events? I guess you have to book a lot of them.

Facebook? Dunno. I guess I don't fully utilize Facebook but I presume if you're contacting me on Facebook you already know me.

Yeah a few of their choices I question too. Like I would think if I'm hanging around in a men's clothing store, as a woman, normally you are buying clothes for your man or whatever, or maybe men don't think like that. The interstate train is pointless if you work in the same city you live in, there would be no need in even taking the train.

Nana and Soi Cowboy.

Or Silom, but then they wouldn't be interested in women.

But if you mean in general, the good single men are probably snatched up by age 23 or 24.

missfee said:

SUPRMAN said:

Annual events? I guess you have to book a lot of them.

Facebook? Dunno. I guess I don't fully utilize Facebook but I presume if you're contacting me on Facebook you already know me.

Yeah a few of their choices I question too. Like I would think if I'm hanging around in a men's clothing store, as a woman, normally you are buying clothes for your man or whatever, or maybe men don't think like that. The interstate train is pointless if you work in the same city you live in, there would be no need in even taking the train.

And online dating sites? Like Craigslist?

I wouldn't think women would be high on that.

Maybe match.com but not much different than Craigslist.

missfee said:

According to an article on Essence.com, the top 10 places to meet men are:

10. Men's Clothing Store

9. Interstate Train

8. Online Dating Sites

7. Gym

6. The Apple Store

5. High End Grocery Stores (ex. Whole Foods)

4. Annual Events (New Years Parties, Christmas Parties, Birthday Parties, etc.)

3. Facebook

2. Educational Setting

1. Volunteer Project

I know for a fact that there's at least ONE good single man right now at the gym.

...and he's posting on prince.org even-!

PurpleJedi said:

missfee said:

According to an article on Essence.com, the top 10 places to meet men are:

10. Men's Clothing Store

9. Interstate Train

8. Online Dating Sites

7. Gym

6. The Apple Store

5. High End Grocery Stores (ex. Whole Foods)

4. Annual Events (New Years Parties, Christmas Parties, Birthday Parties, etc.)

3. Facebook

2. Educational Setting

1. Volunteer Project

I know for a fact that there's at least ONE good single man right now at the gym.

...and he's posting on prince.org even-!

exercising your thumbs

PurpleJedi said:

missfee said:

According to an article on Essence.com, the top 10 places to meet men are:

10. Men's Clothing Store

9. Interstate Train

8. Online Dating Sites

7. Gym

6. The Apple Store

5. High End Grocery Stores (ex. Whole Foods)

4. Annual Events (New Years Parties, Christmas Parties, Birthday Parties, etc.)

3. Facebook

2. Educational Setting

1. Volunteer Project

I know for a fact that there's at least ONE good single man right now at the gym.

...and he's posting on prince.org even-!

Oh really?

in my pants lol. nah, i dont know where they are. i stopped looking. been tossed around like garbage and toyed with once too often for my liking, so i'm not really interested in checking to see if there are any 'good' men out there.

but if there are, they'll need to buy me a house lol

Right here.

ZombieKitten said:

PurpleJedi said:

I know for a fact that there's at least ONE good single man right now at the gym.

...and he's posting on prince.org even-!

exercising your thumbs

I will beat a muthafukka DOWN when it comes to thumb-wrestling!

missfee said:

PurpleJedi said:

I know for a fact that there's at least ONE good single man right now at the gym.

...and he's posting on prince.org even-!

Oh really?

missfee said:

According to an article on Essence.com, the top 10 places to meet men are:

10. Men's Clothing Store

9. Interstate Train

8. Online Dating Sites

7. Gym

6. The Apple Store

5. High End Grocery Stores (ex. Whole Foods)

4. Annual Events (New Years Parties, Christmas Parties, Birthday Parties, etc.)

3. Facebook

2. Educational Setting

1. Volunteer Project

I'm kinda liking these right here, and to No.5's High End Grocery Stores I would also add high end cafes.

I'm also thinking club/hobby gatherings. Like maybe events fo special interests like photography, wine tasting, etc. Or singles organizations based on centered around faith (New Age, Buddhist, Christian, or etc).

I admit I haven't been to Whole Foods that often but the few times I did go, I don't remember the place crawling with men.

i see heaps at the local internet cafe... but they all look like orgers... so i just run off

missfee said:

SUPRMAN said:

Annual events? I guess you have to book a lot of them.

Facebook? Dunno. I guess I don't fully utilize Facebook but I presume if you're contacting me on Facebook you already know me.

Yeah a few of their choices I question too. Like I would think if I'm hanging around in a men's clothing store, as a woman, normally you are buying clothes for your man or whatever, or maybe men don't think like that. The interstate train is pointless if you work in the same city you live in, there would be no need in even taking the train.

I met my bf at a friend’s birthday party. It’s as good a place as any.

I think the key with that and most of these is you need to be social (put yourself out there!) and finding someone with common friends or interests gives you an “in” to begin a conversation without it being so “hey – I’m looking for a date!”.

For years I wasn’t really putting myself in situations where it was even possible to meet somebody. In fact, the night I met my bf I was planning to leave early and almost did but he’d caught my eye and I decided at the last minute (my ride was leaving) to stay and be social a little longer.

Volunteering, group hobbies, taking classes, those are the really good advice in my mind because hey – you’re having fun anyway. You’re doing something you enjoy and becoming a more interesting (and attractive) person in the process.

I usually hang out over a toilet.

missfee said:

Gym? Networking events?

Define "good"

Good to his mother?

Good at his job?

Good in bed?

Good at internet stalking?

It all depends on what you want him to be good at!

Church.

SUPRMAN said:

My place.

No "good" single man is going to be hanging out at your whorehouse.

Everywhere.

JustErin said:

Everywhere.

I was going to say the same thing. These lists are so silly sometimes.

"The Apple Store" ??? Give me a fucking break.