I really don't know how to start this off.... I feel like something's wrong with me sometimes...whenever I actually start to like someone I become shy for whatever reason & that usually seems to push guys away. But I can surprisingly get impatient and rather than telling them, I show guys what I think of them in a casual manner. Is that considered throwing myself at them or does it depend on the guy ?

I told you already....U are NOT gonna have my babies!!

SexLovely said:

I told you already....U are NOT gonna have my babies!!

.....What ?

Giselle said:

SexLovely said:

I told you already....U are NOT gonna have my babies!!

.....What ?

That night we met in the Royal Hermaphrodite....that was all it was, a 1 nighter ok?!

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....oh and plus u owe me £6.70 for the malibu and cokes I bought you!

SexLovely said:

Giselle said:

.....What ?

That night we met in the Royal Hermaphrodite....that was all it was, a 1 nighter ok?!

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....oh and plus u owe me £6.70 for the malibu and cokes I bought you!

leave me alone.

Last!

I'm starting to think everyone replying to this is on that stuff because , none of anything you guys are saying makes sense.

Giselle said:

I'm starting to think everyone replying to this is on that stuff because , none of anything you guys are saying makes sense.

What stuff? Now I'm confused.

I don't know what you mean by showing them what you think of them in a casual manner, so I don't know if you are throwing yourself at them.

Does it mean blowing them? Because in that case, yes I think you are throwing yourself at them. If you mean casually smiling at them, then no, I don't.

NDRU said:

I don't know what you mean by showing them what you think of them in a casual manner, so I don't know if you are throwing yourself at them.

Does it mean blowing them? Because in that case, yes I think you are throwing yourself at them. If you mean casually smiling at them, then no, I don't.

Noooooo nooooo noooo *Amy Winehouse Voice* Simply just by flirting or kissing , by body language. Showing interest. That's what I mean by casual , or is it casual ....? I didn't think that's throwing myself at a guy , but I sense it is unless he's being a punkass.

Giselle said:

NDRU said:

I don't know what you mean by showing them what you think of them in a casual manner, so I don't know if you are throwing yourself at them.

Does it mean blowing them? Because in that case, yes I think you are throwing yourself at them. If you mean casually smiling at them, then no, I don't.

Noooooo nooooo noooo *Amy Winehouse Voice* Simply just by flirting or kissing , by body language. Showing interest. That's what I mean by casual , or is it casual ....? I didn't think that's throwing myself at a guy , but I sense it is unless he's being a punkass.

That's what I figured

I think kissing someone is maybe throwing yourself at them, but that sounds negative, and kissing someone does not sound negative.

Flirting is more of a gray area, it depends on how clueless they are. You might flirt subtly, or you might be totally overt

NDRU said:

Giselle said:

Noooooo nooooo noooo *Amy Winehouse Voice* Simply just by flirting or kissing , by body language. Showing interest. That's what I mean by casual , or is it casual ....? I didn't think that's throwing myself at a guy , but I sense it is unless he's being a punkass.

That's what I figured

I think kissing someone is maybe throwing yourself at them, but that sounds negative, and kissing someone does not sound negative.

Flirting is more of a gray area, it depends on how clueless they are. You might flirt subtly, or you might be totally overt

This guy didn't seem bothered by it , maybe more surprised coming from someone like myself. I really don't know what to think , he shows no facial expressions whatsoever but always wants me around. I was just in the moment , and couldn't resist.

Giselle said:

SexLovely said:

That night we met in the Royal Hermaphrodite....that was all it was, a 1 nighter ok?!

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....oh and plus u owe me £6.70 for the malibu and cokes I bought you!

leave me alone.

Fauxie said:

Last!

some men r weird they hate to think you like them because they can't cope with emotion and all that mushy shit

Giselle said:

NDRU said:

That's what I figured

I think kissing someone is maybe throwing yourself at them, but that sounds negative, and kissing someone does not sound negative.

Flirting is more of a gray area, it depends on how clueless they are. You might flirt subtly, or you might be totally overt

This guy didn't seem bothered by it , maybe more surprised coming from someone like myself. I really don't know what to think , he shows no facial expressions whatsoever but always wants me around. I was just in the moment , and couldn't resist.

No worries. Just play it by ear and time will tell. You can't do it wrong, as long as you act in accordance with yourself.

Just be yourself, it's up to him if he feels he wants to be with you or not. Don't force it. And in stead of focusing on what he thinks about you, start focussing on what you think of him.

Sure, you like him and maybe feel small butterflies, however, just watch his behaviour for a while and see if you think he's good for you. Does he make you feel good about yourself or does he make you insecure and incompetent?

Set your standard high. Don't bother your energy and time with a guy who doesn't make you feel good about yourself.

Observe him and see if you really want to be with a guy like him.

Giselle said:

SexLovely said:

That night we met in the Royal Hermaphrodite....that was all it was, a 1 nighter ok?!

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....oh and plus u owe me £6.70 for the malibu and cokes I bought you!

leave me alone.

Well thats negated you from my world class advice!!!!

dJJ said:

Giselle said:

This guy didn't seem bothered by it , maybe more surprised coming from someone like myself. I really don't know what to think , he shows no facial expressions whatsoever but always wants me around. I was just in the moment , and couldn't resist.

No worries. Just play it by ear and time will tell. You can't do it wrong, as long as you act in accordance with yourself.

Just be yourself, it's up to him if he feels he wants to be with you or not. Don't force it. And in stead of focusing on what he thinks about you, start focussing on what you think of him.

Sure, you like him and maybe feel small butterflies, however, just watch his behaviour for a while and see if you think he's good for you. Does he make you feel good about yourself or does he make you insecure and incompetent?

Set your standard high. Don't bother your energy and time with a guy who doesn't make you feel good about yourself.

Observe him and see if you really want to be with a guy like him.

^imo that's really good advice

Giselle said:

I really don't know how to start this off.... I feel like something's wrong with me sometimes...whenever I actually start to like someone I become shy for whatever reason & that usually seems to push guys away. But I can surprisingly get impatient and rather than telling them, I show guys what I think of them in a casual manner. Is that considered throwing myself at them or does it depend on the guy ?

U push people away cuz yr afraid of getting hurt.....

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What are u getting impatient of exactly? What do u want from him?

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Sometimes if thing feel weird and you're not sure where they are going I've found that stepping back a little and giving less attention puts the onus on them makes them do the chasing and that's a clue to how they feel.

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Whatever you do, don't put out!

Giselle said:

I really don't know how to start this off.... I feel like something's wrong with me sometimes...whenever I actually start to like someone I become shy for whatever reason & that usually seems to push guys away. But I can surprisingly get impatient and rather than telling them, I show guys what I think of them in a casual manner. Is that considered throwing myself at them or does it depend on the guy ?

Short answer:

Boys are stuuuuuupid.

Women are a pain in the ass, so don't think about switching teams.

Buy a Chia Pet, a puppy, a cat and an aquarium. You'll be way happier in the end.

Armpit :

SexLovely : I want him. Affection is what I want from him , but I guess it takes time. & I'm taking your advice. But hey , what the hell was with you last night ? lol

Giselle said:

Armpit :

SexLovely : I want him. Affection is what I want from him , but I guess it takes time. & I'm taking your advice. But hey , what the hell was with you last night ? lol

Well tell yourself, U may want him, but you dont NEED him.....dont allow yourself to want him too much.

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When it comes to the quickly changing dynamics of lust and relationships, always ALWAYS keep your cards close to your chest, don't give too much of yourself away too soon, always hold back. It's all about playing it cool and give and take.

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Erm... lol ....I was amusing myself, thinking you'd join in! Sorry!

Fauxie said:

Last!

SexLovely said:

Giselle said:

Armpit :

SexLovely : I want him. Affection is what I want from him , but I guess it takes time. & I'm taking your advice. But hey , what the hell was with you last night ? lol

Well tell yourself, U may want him, but you dont NEED him.....dont allow yourself to want him too much.

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When it comes to the quickly changing dynamics of lust and relationships, always ALWAYS keep your cards close to your chest, don't give too much of yourself away too soon, always hold back. It's all about playing it cool and give and take.

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Erm... lol ....I was amusing myself, thinking you'd join in! Sorry!

ALLOW A LIL HUMOR FROM MY CAMP WILL YOU???

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