So I'm watching an old episode of Sex in the City last night - one where Charlotte is sleeping with a guy who cusses at her every time he has an orgasm - dirty, filthy slutty bitch!

It reminded me of an ex who used to say something dirty to me when I was about to .... ya know!

I've also dated guys who have asked me to talk dirty in bed, too.

So what is the orgs opinion on talking dirty?

Are you into it?

Opposed to it?

Please discuss...

nobody ever really said anything dirty to me apart from "I love to fuck you" and that's just NICE IMO

that said, I turn the sound off when I watch porn, so I'm pretty sure to me the talk isn't the most important thing I almost imagine I'd find it distracting, especially being asked questions I'd have to respond to if I'm off in my zone but then again

I love it if it's done right. The one and only love of my life (one of my ex's) used to do it and I couldn't listen 'cause it would make me laugh. It was just silly coming out of his mouth.

He still doesn't know I feel that way....

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

I love it if it's done right. The one and only love of my life (one of my ex's) used to do it and I couldn't listen 'cause it would make me laugh. It was just silly coming out of his mouth.

He still doesn't know I feel that way....

Please describe how it's supposed to be done!

CallMeCarrie said:

So I'm watching an old episode of Sex in the City last night - one where Charlotte is sleeping with a guy who cusses at her every time he has an orgasm - dirty, filthy slutty bitch!

That´s not talking dirty. That´s being a total doofus.

ZombieKitten said:

nobody ever really said anything dirty to me apart from "I love to fuck you" and that's just NICE IMO

that said, I turn the sound off when I watch porn, so I'm pretty sure to me the talk isn't the most important thing I almost imagine I'd find it distracting, especially being asked questions I'd have to respond to if I'm off in my zone but then again

I'd agree with you!

But what is interesting to me...you watch porn? I don't know too many chicks who are into that. I've seen some porn, usually when a guy has wanted to watch it. That is probably the reason for my aversion to talking dirty! It's sooooo corny in the films!

Tremolina said:

CallMeCarrie said:

So I'm watching an old episode of Sex in the City last night - one where Charlotte is sleeping with a guy who cusses at her every time he has an orgasm - dirty, filthy slutty bitch!

That´s not talking dirty. That´s being a total doofus.

Yeah - this guy on the show definitely had issues! But I've known guys that say things like..."you want this you dirty girl" (or things of that sort).

Tremolina...would you like to share your examples of talking dirty?

CallMeCarrie said:

ZombieKitten said:

nobody ever really said anything dirty to me apart from "I love to fuck you" and that's just NICE IMO

that said, I turn the sound off when I watch porn, so I'm pretty sure to me the talk isn't the most important thing I almost imagine I'd find it distracting, especially being asked questions I'd have to respond to if I'm off in my zone but then again

I'd agree with you!

But what is interesting to me...you watch porn? I don't know too many chicks who are into that. I've seen some porn, usually when a guy has wanted to watch it. That is probably the reason for my aversion to talking dirty! It's sooooo corny in the films!

I watch a LOT of porn I tend to be by myself much of the time

CallMeCarrie said:

Tremolina said:

That´s not talking dirty. That´s being a total doofus.

Yeah - this guy on the show definitely had issues! But I've known guys that say things like..."you want this you dirty girl" (or things of that sort).

Tremolina...would you like to share your examples of talking dirty?

I only talk dirty in private

I cuss at them all the time....

Come...COME you motherfucker! Shoot it....shoot it....shoot it.....shoot it. Shoot it like you do for your bitches. Shoot it you lowdown good for nothing motherfucker!

^

CallMeCarrie said:

ZombieKitten said:

nobody ever really said anything dirty to me apart from "I love to fuck you" and that's just NICE IMO

that said, I turn the sound off when I watch porn, so I'm pretty sure to me the talk isn't the most important thing I almost imagine I'd find it distracting, especially being asked questions I'd have to respond to if I'm off in my zone but then again

I'd agree with you!

But what is interesting to me...you watch porn? I don't know too many chicks who are into that. I've seen some porn, usually when a guy has wanted to watch it. That is probably the reason for my aversion to talking dirty! It's sooooo corny in the films!

Yep, I watch porn and talk dirty too! When I talk dirty in bed, it drives my hubby wild which makes for better orgasms for me!!! It's a win, win!

vainandy said:

I cuss at them all the time....

Come...COME you motherfucker! Shoot it....shoot it....shoot it.....shoot it. Shoot it like you do for your bitches. Shoot it you lowdown good for nothing motherfucker!

I knew I could count on you, andy!

I say this every time this topic comes up:

I love it, the dirtier and nastier the better.

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

I love it if it's done right. The one and only love of my life (one of my ex's) used to do it and I couldn't listen 'cause it would make me laugh. It was just silly coming out of his mouth.

He still doesn't know I feel that way....

That's when he should have smacked you and sat on your face, grinding his balls and crack over your mouth and talk dirty some more, making you laugh and resulting in you playing the rusty trombone.

I love it!

JowiiCoco said:

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

I love it if it's done right. The one and only love of my life (one of my ex's) used to do it and I couldn't listen 'cause it would make me laugh. It was just silly coming out of his mouth.

He still doesn't know I feel that way....

That's when he should have smacked you and sat on your face, grinding his balls and crack over your mouth and talk dirty some more, making you laugh and resulting in you playing the rusty trombone.

Oh my!

vainandy said:

I cuss at them all the time....

Come...COME you motherfucker! Shoot it....shoot it....shoot it.....shoot it. Shoot it like you do for your bitches. Shoot it you lowdown good for nothing motherfucker!

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JowiiCoco said:

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

I love it if it's done right. The one and only love of my life (one of my ex's) used to do it and I couldn't listen 'cause it would make me laugh. It was just silly coming out of his mouth.

He still doesn't know I feel that way....

That's when he should have smacked you and sat on your face, grinding his balls and crack over your mouth and talk dirty some more, making you laugh and resulting in you playing the rusty trombone.

You always know just what to say..........*sigh*

Some of y'all on this thread need to visit my SHOW ME YOUR BOOTY thread. Yeah....you know who you are.

O Carrie this is my subject eye have a diploma in this shit!!!First of all not everyone can talk dirty!some try & just cant pull it off,its just not natural 4 them & they r uncomfortable doing it!But if a man finds the right woman & the woman the right man talking dirty is the sexiest thing ever!!!Theres nothing better than 2b F**King a woman & she says the following:F**K me u bastard/shag me u dirty f**ker/F**K me deeper u dirty wanker/This stuff blows my mind eye wish eye could b more xplicit but the fear of a ban prevents me from doing so! Theres a woman in the world of porn called Michelle Thorne she is English & the dirty stuff she comes out with is blow ur mind dirty talk!!!She is so nasty!!She calls u names even ridicules u but its a turn on simply amazing!!!Talking dirty is so much fun & enhances love making/F**King whatever ,what man after a good sweaty session of hot sex doesnt like 2 hear her say"wank that cock u dirty f**ker""come all over my face u f**king bastard""come over my tits".Dirty talk has always been an important part of my sex life but finding a woman who is comfortable talking dirty & who likes 2 hear that shit aint easy but wwhen u find her hold on2 that bitch & if u can record that shit 2 play in the future wwhen shes long gone!!Its nice 2 reminisce.....

JowiiCoco said:

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

I love it if it's done right. The one and only love of my life (one of my ex's) used to do it and I couldn't listen 'cause it would make me laugh. It was just silly coming out of his mouth.

He still doesn't know I feel that way....

That's when he should have smacked you and sat on your face, grinding his balls and crack over your mouth and talk dirty some more, making you laugh and resulting in you playing the rusty trombone.

JustErin said:

I say this every time this topic comes up:

I love it, the dirtier and nastier the better.

I wonder how many orgnote offers you got with that post .

Serious said:

JustErin said:

I say this every time this topic comes up:

I love it, the dirtier and nastier the better.

I wonder how many orgnote offers you got with that post .

Zero.

I LOVE it, but I have to ask for it

JustErin said:

JustErin said:

Serious said:

I wonder how many orgnote offers you got with that post .

Zero.

That surprises me. I guess you are kinda intimidating to some men .

I'm open to talking to dirty. Shucks I talk lots of shit during sex anyway, it's right down my alley. I actually feel like something wrong if NO dirty talk is going on.

missfee said:

Shucks I talk lots of shit during sex anyway,

Lol, like what? Sometimes you cant go too over board, gotta keep it classy.

Serious said:

JustErin said:

Zero.

That surprises me. I guess you are kinda intimidating to some men .

I dunno about that.