paintedlady said:

ConsciousContact said:

Another human being getting violent instead of looking at why their own behaviour contributed to the break down in a relationship.

So its the wife's fault he cheated? Um, maybe HE should have tried getting divorced from her or marriage counseling before he tried to stick his dick in someone else.

You know damn well if a cheating wife tells her husband "its your fault/you are partly responsible for my hoishness" then she would get socked square in her jaw!

paintedlady said:

ConsciousContact said:

Another human being getting violent instead of looking at why their own behaviour contributed to the break down in a relationship.

So its the wife's fault he cheated? Um, maybe HE should have tried getting divorced from her or marriage counseling before he tried to stick his dick in someone else.

I didn t say it was her fault. There is a breakdown in the relationship. 2 people in a relationship. He s acting out the breakdown in their relationship, by going with another woman and now she s acting out with violence. Obviously they have both contributed to this situation.

ConsciousContact said:

paintedlady said:

So its the wife's fault he cheated? Um, maybe HE should have tried getting divorced from her or marriage counseling before he tried to stick his dick in someone else.

I didn t say it was her fault. There is a breakdown in the relationship. 2 people in a relationship. He s acting out the breakdown in their relationship, by going with another woman and now she s acting out with violence. Obviously they have both contributed to this situation.

Or maybe he is just a slut now, before and forever more.

ConsciousContact said:

paintedlady said:

So its the wife's fault he cheated? Um, maybe HE should have tried getting divorced from her or marriage counseling before he tried to stick his dick in someone else.

I didn t say it was her fault. There is a breakdown in the relationship. 2 people in a relationship. He s acting out the breakdown in their relationship, by going with another woman and now she s acting out with violence. Obviously they have both contributed to this situation.

The only reason people cheat is because they are selfish and passive agressive. It has NOTHING to do with what the spouse does or doesn't do at all. Just you hit a rough patch its a reason to cheat? GTFOH

Cheaters blame in their relationship woes for their cheating, but that is only a lame excuse they dream up so they can feel better about their selfish act. The truth is that they are never forced to cheat... no one is holding a gun to their heads, they only cheat for personal pleasure.

What you descibe is the same exact mentality abusers have towards their spouses, BTW.

"She made me hit her!"

A person who is cheated on is never the reason... the relationship is not the reason either, that's pure and utter bullshit. People cheat because they want to dammit... they know they can, so they do... just like an abuser... he knows he can hit her, so he does.... same mentality....

just because you can, doesn't mean you should.

Rayan said:

Harlepolis said:

@ the other woman refusing to get her ass off the floor. She got rained with shoe leather on her head and she didn't even fight back.

and look at the wife taking a quick break to give an interview with the shoe in her hand

this is ridiculous though what the hell were they doing filming within a fight rather than try stop it?

See now, y'all ain't right!

That dude shouldn't have been hitting on her, though.