What do you consider sexy about a man or a woman?

Do you think sex appeal comes with birth or it can be learned?

It comes from stuff that is sexy.

You know, things that make you feel like, that's sexy and, I want to have sex now.

Sexy little things, or it could even be a big sexy thing, sexiness is all good.

You know what I'm saying?

PunkMistress said:

It comes from stuff that is sexy.

You know, things that make you feel like, that's sexy and, I want to have sex now.

Sexy little things, or it could even be a big sexy thing, sexiness is all good.

You know what I'm saying?

For me you don't even have to show skin, it can be how they say something, or the look in their eyes...

Kindness.

Sensitivity.

boobies

hmmm. i don't know a sense of playfulness mixed in with some assertiveness. a slight touch of vanity mixed in with a sense of mindfulness. i don't know really.

quiet confidence

TO ME........ It's how a person carries themselves from the way they dress to the way they walk/talk. They just have that "IT" factor. It is kind of hard to describe.

They don't have to be handsome/beautiful. In fact, MOST of the men that I have found incredibly sexy are usually average looking but they have mad sex appeal. That is what I am mostly attracted to. Average looks but sexy. I can't stand handsome (cookie cutter looks) and boring. But if he is handsome and sexy. WOW!!!!

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Most men i find sexy are usually average looking too.

There's a big difference between handsome and sexy. With sexy, you get a vibe like "i know that is going to be good sex"

IamFunkay7 said:

Do you think sex appeal comes with birth or it can be learned?

It can be learned.

Ace said:

IamFunkay7 said:

Do you think sex appeal comes with birth or it can be learned?

It can be learned.

First, I just have to say that I always enjoy reading Ace's comments, despite the fact, or maybe because of the fact, that they are always succinct and to the point.

For me, what is sexy is the way my lover/partner gestures with his hands when he talks (as most people in our profession do) to add emphasis or subtlety, etc. to what he is saying. To me, it is so very very hot how expressive his hands are.

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Ace said:

IamFunkay7 said:

Do you think sex appeal comes with birth or it can be learned?

It can be learned.

yes, it can

and it can also come from birth. Sometimes the appeal is in the stuff that they don't know they are doing, when they are being candid & let down their guard

Man - when he can think quick on his feet or fix just about anything with his own two hands. So I guess Creativity for me is sexy in a man.

Woman - when you think she's just that homely person just milling through life and then when a paryt comes up...she makes everyone in the room choke on their drink when she enters the room.... ...you know a woman is to me the most sexy when the sexy isn't on 24/7!!!!

Feeling sexy yourself somehow shows.

And, it can be learned. When you can learn to hate your body, you can also learn to love your body.

Big ears and an interesting nose.

Oh yeah, they have to have a booty.

IamFunkay7 said:

What do you consider sexy about a man or a woman?

In a woman: confidence, compassion, a great smile, a sense of humor

In a man: muscles, good teeth, clean nails, confidence, swagger, big bulge in his pants that looks like it could either be a dick or big ole wad of cash!

Do you think sex appeal comes with birth or it can be learned?

I don't think it comes with birth. babies and kids are not sexy. I think it is learned and refined throughout the adult years. Life experiences and wisdom can make one very sexy and that definitely comes with age.

p.s.

Once you get old and haggard though; it's a wrap! Aint no sexiness left in ya.

whistle said:

boobies

let's just keep it all the way real, right Whistle...

Yes, boobies are sexy on a woman, but not on a man.

Lips are sexy to me...like plump juicy, bite yourbottom lip type lips. Pair that up with some sleepy brown bedroom eyes and it's a wrap....

BUT, funny and witty are an equally powerful force of sexiness...

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IamFunkay7 said:

What do you consider sexy about a man or a woman?

For me, it's a woman who wears glasses, keeps herself nicely groomed and in shape, has dark hair, a nice round ass, a sexy walk and a j-o-b.

PapaSmurf said:

Oh and I love when women are angry! That's so sexy

I remember this show where a photographer was making suggestions to a model as he took pictures, and he says "You hate me, you despise me!!! That's it!" as she made sexy snarling faces

sexy clothes

ZombieKitten said:

The look he gives me when he wants me

and getting gently pushed on the bed

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I think the media's definition of sexy can be learned. Victoria's Secret models in swimsuits are sexy: their pose, their hair and makeup, their faces, it all works for them. But the effortless sexy that you see from a person when they aren't trying, that is instinctual. And clearly, everyone has their own opinion of sexy, so it's all relative.

InternationalLover82 said:

ZombieKitten said:

The look he gives me when he wants me

and getting gently pushed on the bed

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or not so gently

hmm so sexy comes from within.. I see I see.. I think I get it lol

If a man is skinny and has a nice smile.

Puppy eyes can be sexy too

IamFunkay7 said:

hmm so sexy comes from within.. I see I see.. I think I get it lol

Your the exception honey, your outside is where you should rely on.

ZombieKitten said:

InternationalLover82 said:

and getting gently pushed on the bed

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or not so gently

When he has drank a litttle, his wild side comes out