A disorder? Or just a normal fact?

Bad sex partner.

Many, many women don't climax during penetration. For many women, there has to be direct clitoral stimulation in order for her to get off and that just does not happen during regular missionary sex. This is why some women prefer to be on top.

It is also, like Haterina said, can be attributed to bad sex partners. Many women need foreplay to get her to the point where she can be driven over the edge during coitus. Some men just get a woman naked and fuck like he's digging for something in there and it's "too bad" if the woman doesn't get hers. The technical term for men like these is "assholes".

Vendetta1 said:

Vendetta1 said:

Many, many women don't climax during penetration. For many women, there has to be direct clitoral stimulation in order for her to get off and that just does not happen during regular missionary sex. This is why some women prefer to be on top.

It is also, like Haterina said, can be attributed to bad sex partners. Many women need foreplay to get her to the point where she can be driven over the edge during coitus. Some men just get a woman naked and fuck like he's digging for something in there and it's "too bad" if the woman doesn't get hers. The technical term for men like these is "assholes".

Does the OP mean just intercourse or all sex? I interpreted it as meaning no orgasms during oral sex as well. That's a REAL problem.

sextonseven said:

Serious said:

Vendetta1 said:

Many, many women don't climax during penetration. For many women, there has to be direct clitoral stimulation in order for her to get off and that just does not happen during regular missionary sex. This is why some women prefer to be on top.

It is also, like Haterina said, can be attributed to bad sex partners. Many women need foreplay to get her to the point where she can be driven over the edge during coitus. Some men just get a woman naked and fuck like he's digging for something in there and it's "too bad" if the woman doesn't get hers. The technical term for men like these is "assholes".

I was thinking of you when I saw this thread .

Is that a good thing?

Hello Martina.

missfee said:

A disorder? Or just a normal fact?

No.

A clitoris vibrator, privacy and some magazines can help out and determine if it is a physical issue or not.

Never settle for a life without orgasms. Sex is a pleasure, not a duty!

Vendetta1 said:

Vendetta1 said:

Many, many women don't climax during penetration. For many women, there has to be direct clitoral stimulation in order for her to get off and that just does not happen during regular missionary sex. This is why some women prefer to be on top.

It is also, like Haterina said, can be attributed to bad sex partners. Many women need foreplay to get her to the point where she can be driven over the edge during coitus. Some men just get a woman naked and fuck like he's digging for something in there and it's "too bad" if the woman doesn't get hers. The technical term for men like these is "assholes".

Amen!

missfee said:

A disorder? Or just a normal fact?

That....just REALLY sucks!

"asshole?"

i was once in a relationship

where we stayed in bed for hours

have the greatest of times. however,

she and i were always at odds over

other things. one day she said that

she never 'NEVER' came. that it was

not possible for her to do it.

at that point i decided that if she wasn't

commin, then i would not spend so much time

in the act of makin her do so.

when i told her of my intentions i was informed

that she had 'fun' havin sex so she wanted

to continue in the manner that we had

been accustom to.

i expressed my reluctance to do so

because it felt like i was the only one

gettin somethin out of it.

long story short is

we were often at odds on other

issues, but this was her way of havin

an issue that could not be worked out.

she soon came clean on that, but it distroyed

the relationship we had than. we are still friends now

but i wouldn't sleep with her again.

"assholes?"

there are women whom advise others to 'fake'

orgasms... why not just say "you ain't hittin it"

(cheeeeeeeeeeeeeese)

this is a very touchy subject for a man to touch on

however i thought i should have my say, at hte risk

of becommin a target for "women against insensitive creeps" or waic (wake)

anyway

if it's a real concern, we love you and will do whut we can to suport you through your time of trouble.

if it's just some more b.s. to show who's boss

i'm with the 'get yours' crew.

KingBAD said:

"asshole?"

i was once in a relationship

where we stayed in bed for hours

have the greatest of times. however,

she and i were always at odds over

other things. one day she said that

she never 'NEVER' came. that it was

not possible for her to do it.

at that point i decided that if she wasn't

commin, then i would not spend so much time

in the act of makin her do so.

when i told her of my intentions i was informed

that she had 'fun' havin sex so she wanted

to continue in the manner that we had

been accustom to.

i expressed my reluctance to do so

because it felt like i was the only one

gettin somethin out of it.

long story short is

we were often at odds on other

issues, but this was her way of havin

an issue that could not be worked out.

she soon came clean on that, but it distroyed

the relationship we had than. we are still friends now

but i wouldn't sleep with her again.

"assholes?"

there are women whom advise others to 'fake'

orgasms... why not just say "you ain't hittin it"

(cheeeeeeeeeeeeeese)

this is a very touchy subject for a man to touch on

however i thought i should have my say, at hte risk

of becommin a target for "women against insensitive creeps" or waic (wake)

anyway

if it's a real concern, we love you and will do whut we can to suport you through your time of trouble.

if it's just some more b.s. to show who's boss

i'm with the 'get yours' crew.

If a man is only concerned about getting his, he is an asshole. Obviously from your story, this ain't you. Some women will fake because they don't want to hurt the guy's feelings. I've done it. It was nothing sinister behind it.

Sometimes, you can't tell a guy he ain't hittin it. I did that once and the guy stopped speaking to me.Women telling other women to fake it who are on some ol' bullshit are assholes, too.

In my most humble opinion, dialogue needs to be had before people hit the sheets. This is for people who are hittin' it for one night or plan to stick around. Life is too short to have a relationship where the sex is bad for no good damn reason.

girls who fake, ruin their lives. And the girls he will be with after her, because she miseducated him.

Woman can't expect a man to exactly know what to do or how to please her, without telling him. And I do think she should be comfortable with her own body in order to have good sex.

Conscious and insecurity are true sex killers in my opinion. Nobodoy is perfect, really no body!

Focussing on any flaws will reduce your libido and diminish the pleasure part of sex. And also, trying to stay in control, for me is turnof. Only when you can let yourself go, the sex can be great.

Well, at least King Bad supports the woman, he's on our side when it comes to come

so basically the man needs to rub the clitoris while pumping...

or have penis shaped like a bag holder to reach the g spot

i think women get off on the thought of having sex more so than the act

formallypickles said:

i think women get off on the thought of having sex more so than the act

depends on the definition of sex. For me that includes the foreplay, and some TLC for my clitoris...and intercourse itself. However, penetration is just one part of it, not the whole deal. At least for me, that is.

KingBAD said:

"asshole?"

i was once in a relationship

where we stayed in bed for hours

have the greatest of times. however,

she and i were always at odds over

other things. one day she said that

she never 'NEVER' came. that it was

not possible for her to do it.

at that point i decided that if she wasn't

commin, then i would not spend so much time

in the act of makin her do so.

when i told her of my intentions i was informed

that she had 'fun' havin sex so she wanted

to continue in the manner that we had

been accustom to.

i expressed my reluctance to do so

because it felt like i was the only one

gettin somethin out of it.

long story short is

we were often at odds on other

issues, but this was her way of havin

an issue that could not be worked out.

she soon came clean on that, but it distroyed

the relationship we had than. we are still friends now

but i wouldn't sleep with her again.

"assholes?"

there are women whom advise others to 'fake'

orgasms... why not just say "you ain't hittin it"

(cheeeeeeeeeeeeeese)

this is a very touchy subject for a man to touch on

however i thought i should have my say, at hte risk

of becommin a target for "women against insensitive creeps" or waic (wake)

anyway

if it's a real concern, we love you and will do whut we can to suport you through your time of trouble.

if it's just some more b.s. to show who's boss

i'm with the 'get yours' crew.

CONCLUSION : your a crap shag...

well, yeah, some males are just bad sex partners...

JoeTyler said:

well, yeah, some males are just bad sex partners...

I'm glad to have met you..........

...I had the perfect song for this thread but when I went to YouTube and looked up The Time, all that's there is the obvious stuff like "Jungle Love" and "Ice Cream Castles".

armpit said:

...I had the perfect song for this thread but when I went to YouTube and looked up The Time, all that's there is the obvious stuff like "Jungle Love" and "Ice Cream Castles".

what about he licks her, oh sorry, misspelled, elixer?

dJJ said:

armpit said:

...I had the perfect song for this thread but when I went to YouTube and looked up The Time, all that's there is the obvious stuff like "Jungle Love" and "Ice Cream Castles".

what about he licks her, oh sorry, misspelled, elixer?

No, no!

"If the Kid Can't Make You Come", by The Time!

ZombieKitten said:

It also helps to actually be sexually attracted to your partner,

isn't that obvious?? I mean , wtf

JerseyKRS said:

JoeTyler said:

my wife n i talk alot .. play . .kiss .. lots of it the act isnt as important as feeling ok with w everything .. our days are long n our kids take alot of our time so we do alot to get in touch w each other .. if one of us isnt feeling it its totally ok .. i do my best to make sure she gets her needs met .. i try .. its all i can do .. does she get off when she says she does i honestly for her sake hope so. its not the end all b all .. being together n doing what comes b4 in the end is what keeps the fire sizzling.