What did you suggest?

Was it something in the line of

To help her out with household chores?

To provide an evening and night for her that would satisfy all HER needs?

To listen to her dreams and nightmares?

To know what she needs to live the best life she possibly can?

Or was it something else?

Or sas your proposition based on your needs, that you wanted to get fulfilled by her? And did not inlcude any fulfillment of her needs?

dJJ said:

What did you suggest?

Was it something in the line of

To help her out with household chores?

To provide an evening and night for her that would satisfy all HER needs?

To listen to her dreams and nightmares?

To know what she needs to live the best life she possibly can?

Or was it something else?

Or sas your proposition based on your needs, that you wanted to get fulfilled by her? And did not inlcude any fulfillment of her needs?

None of the above.

We're talking about a friend here. I haven't seen her in a while and she wanted to go out and do something. Being a woman of course she didn't know what she wanted to do and everything I suggested was turned down.

JowiiCoco said:

eVeRsOlEsA said:

Someone turn you down....again?

No one ever has. It just pisses me off when I'm suggesting things we could do and people keep saying no to every suggestion.

No one has ever turned you down lol....Well there is ALWAYS a first time.

eVeRsOlEsA said:

JowiiCoco said:

eVeRsOlEsA said: No one ever has. It just pisses me off when I'm suggesting things we could do and people keep saying no to every suggestion.

No one has ever turned you down lol....Well there is ALWAYS a first time.

It's true. Never said it will never happen.

JowiiCoco said:

dJJ said:

What did you suggest?

Was it something in the line of

To help her out with household chores?

To provide an evening and night for her that would satisfy all HER needs?

To listen to her dreams and nightmares?

To know what she needs to live the best life she possibly can?

Or was it something else?

Or sas your proposition based on your needs, that you wanted to get fulfilled by her? And did not inlcude any fulfillment of her needs?

None of the above.

We're talking about a friend here. I haven't seen her in a while and she wanted to go out and do something. Being a woman of course she didn't know what she wanted to do and everything I suggested was turned down.

when I was younger I was EXACTLY like that, I would frustrate the HELL out of my boyfriend

the thing is I knew what I wanted to do he would hate to do, and I hoped that HE might come up with the suggestion himself so he wouldn't hate it and complain and whine while we did it like he would if it was MY idea

"Italian?"

"No."

"Chinese?"

"No."

"Indian?"

"No!"

"I know this soul...."

"No!"

"Well shit then what do YOu want to eat?!"

"I don't know....."

JowiiCoco said:

:spit:

Since I don't like being said 'no' to I usually leave the decision making up to the other person and since I do that, whatever that person usually suggest I just say 'yes' to.