vainandy said:

NMuzakNSoul said:

Aside from my disability (offically quadriplegia) I almost died during back surgery (on Intensive care for two or thre weeks and many complications...that was a close one)

Great to read your story. My mom has been diagnosed with breast cancer and was declared terminally ill. Definitely staying positive and trying to support her in every way. It doesn't have to be final and your story (and many others) proves that.

I was curious as to what your disability was but was afraid to ask because I'm sure you probably get asked all the time and are probably tired of it.

When I saw your picture on one of the photowhore threads, it was strictly your upper body and you were sitting at your keyboard. I didn't see the wheelchair and I thought you were one of the most beautiful people I had ever seen. I'm talking about that gorgeous face of yours.

When I was looking at your pictures on your facebook page, that's when I saw the wheelchair. There was one of you outside in the wheelchair in front of your parents and felt so sorry for you when I saw it. All I could think of is, it is such a shame that a man so beautiful looking would be confined to a wheelchair. However, as I browsed through more of the pictures and watched some of the videos and saw the extreme closeness you had with your family, then I almost felt jealous because I was never close with my family like that. And as I read some of your posts and saw how positive you always were and that you didn't seem to let it get you down and were happy and enjoying life, then I stopped feeling sorry for you because I saw you were strong and dealing with it. I don't know if I could if I were in your shoes. Well, I eventually would because I'd have to but it would be hard as hell to do.

And as for thinking you were beautiful before seeing any of wheelchair pictures, well, after seeing them, I think you are even more beautiful because not only are your outer looks beautiful, but you're also beautiful on the inside which is what's really important and no disability will ever stop that beauty from shining through.

Wow... I know people say this and dont know if they mean it, but this seriously brought tears to my eyes! That was one of the most beautiful and heartfelt things I have read in a long time! I feel I should thank you for allowing us to read it.. Beautiful!

tinaz said:

vainandy said:

I was curious as to what your disability was but was afraid to ask because I'm sure you probably get asked all the time and are probably tired of it.

When I saw your picture on one of the photowhore threads, it was strictly your upper body and you were sitting at your keyboard. I didn't see the wheelchair and I thought you were one of the most beautiful people I had ever seen. I'm talking about that gorgeous face of yours.

When I was looking at your pictures on your facebook page, that's when I saw the wheelchair. There was one of you outside in the wheelchair in front of your parents and felt so sorry for you when I saw it. All I could think of is, it is such a shame that a man so beautiful looking would be confined to a wheelchair. However, as I browsed through more of the pictures and watched some of the videos and saw the extreme closeness you had with your family, then I almost felt jealous because I was never close with my family like that. And as I read some of your posts and saw how positive you always were and that you didn't seem to let it get you down and were happy and enjoying life, then I stopped feeling sorry for you because I saw you were strong and dealing with it. I don't know if I could if I were in your shoes. Well, I eventually would because I'd have to but it would be hard as hell to do.

And as for thinking you were beautiful before seeing any of wheelchair pictures, well, after seeing them, I think you are even more beautiful because not only are your outer looks beautiful, but you're also beautiful on the inside which is what's really important and no disability will ever stop that beauty from shining through.

Wow... I know people say this and dont know if they mean it, but this seriously brought tears to my eyes! That was one of the most beautiful and heartfelt things I have read in a long time! I feel I should thank you for allowing us to read it.. Beautiful!

I agree. And I feel really good that Andy took the time out to say that to me.

vainandy said:

NMuzakNSoul said:

Aside from my disability (offically quadriplegia) I almost died during back surgery (on Intensive care for two or thre weeks and many complications...that was a close one)

Great to read your story. My mom has been diagnosed with breast cancer and was declared terminally ill. Definitely staying positive and trying to support her in every way. It doesn't have to be final and your story (and many others) proves that.

I was curious as to what your disability was but was afraid to ask because I'm sure you probably get asked all the time and are probably tired of it.

When I saw your picture on one of the photowhore threads, it was strictly your upper body and you were sitting at your keyboard. I didn't see the wheelchair and I thought you were one of the most beautiful people I had ever seen. I'm talking about that gorgeous face of yours.

When I was looking at your pictures on your facebook page, that's when I saw the wheelchair. There was one of you outside in the wheelchair in front of your parents and felt so sorry for you when I saw it. All I could think of is, it is such a shame that a man so beautiful looking would be confined to a wheelchair. However, as I browsed through more of the pictures and watched some of the videos and saw the extreme closeness you had with your family, then I almost felt jealous because I was never close with my family like that. And as I read some of your posts and saw how positive you always were and that you didn't seem to let it get you down and were happy and enjoying life, then I stopped feeling sorry for you because I saw you were strong and dealing with it. I don't know if I could if I were in your shoes. Well, I eventually would because I'd have to but it would be hard as hell to do.

And as for thinking you were beautiful before seeing any of wheelchair pictures, well, after seeing them, I think you are even more beautiful because not only are your outer looks beautiful, but you're also beautiful on the inside which is what's really important and no disability will ever stop that beauty from shining through.

tinaz said:

vainandy said:

I was curious as to what your disability was but was afraid to ask because I'm sure you probably get asked all the time and are probably tired of it.

When I saw your picture on one of the photowhore threads, it was strictly your upper body and you were sitting at your keyboard. I didn't see the wheelchair and I thought you were one of the most beautiful people I had ever seen. I'm talking about that gorgeous face of yours.

When I was looking at your pictures on your facebook page, that's when I saw the wheelchair. There was one of you outside in the wheelchair in front of your parents and felt so sorry for you when I saw it. All I could think of is, it is such a shame that a man so beautiful looking would be confined to a wheelchair. However, as I browsed through more of the pictures and watched some of the videos and saw the extreme closeness you had with your family, then I almost felt jealous because I was never close with my family like that. And as I read some of your posts and saw how positive you always were and that you didn't seem to let it get you down and were happy and enjoying life, then I stopped feeling sorry for you because I saw you were strong and dealing with it. I don't know if I could if I were in your shoes. Well, I eventually would because I'd have to but it would be hard as hell to do.

And as for thinking you were beautiful before seeing any of wheelchair pictures, well, after seeing them, I think you are even more beautiful because not only are your outer looks beautiful, but you're also beautiful on the inside which is what's really important and no disability will ever stop that beauty from shining through.

Wow... I know people say this and dont know if they mean it, but this seriously brought tears to my eyes! That was one of the most beautiful and heartfelt things I have read in a long time! I feel I should thank you for allowing us to read it.. Beautiful!

Ditto.

vainandy said:

NMuzakNSoul said:

Aside from my disability (offically quadriplegia) I almost died during back surgery (on Intensive care for two or thre weeks and many complications...that was a close one)

Great to read your story. My mom has been diagnosed with breast cancer and was declared terminally ill. Definitely staying positive and trying to support her in every way. It doesn't have to be final and your story (and many others) proves that.

I was curious as to what your disability was but was afraid to ask because I'm sure you probably get asked all the time and are probably tired of it.

When I saw your picture on one of the photowhore threads, it was strictly your upper body and you were sitting at your keyboard. I didn't see the wheelchair and I thought you were one of the most beautiful people I had ever seen. I'm talking about that gorgeous face of yours.

When I was looking at your pictures on your facebook page, that's when I saw the wheelchair. There was one of you outside in the wheelchair in front of your parents and felt so sorry for you when I saw it. All I could think of is, it is such a shame that a man so beautiful looking would be confined to a wheelchair. However, as I browsed through more of the pictures and watched some of the videos and saw the extreme closeness you had with your family, then I almost felt jealous because I was never close with my family like that. And as I read some of your posts and saw how positive you always were and that you didn't seem to let it get you down and were happy and enjoying life, then I stopped feeling sorry for you because I saw you were strong and dealing with it. I don't know if I could if I were in your shoes. Well, I eventually would because I'd have to but it would be hard as hell to do.

And as for thinking you were beautiful before seeing any of wheelchair pictures, well, after seeing them, I think you are even more beautiful because not only are your outer looks beautiful, but you're also beautiful on the inside which is what's really important and no disability will ever stop that beauty from shining through.

Oh Andy...that's beautiful.

You's both good men.

Yep, I recently had surgery to remove two grapefruit sized cysts from my ovaries as well as the adhesions that I had all over the place from them leaking. I'd been misdiagnosed the first time I felt pain from them and then I didn't have insurance for a long time, so the problems that they caused me went on for much longer than they should have. I was in severe pain on and off for around 3 years for months at a time and with that came anxiety and depression and insomnia from being so anxious and that made things a lot harder.The funny thing is that recovering from my surgery was nothing in comparison. I felt a million times better immediately after I woke up in the recovery room

LionsAndTigers said:

Yep, I recently had surgery to remove two grapefruit sized cysts from my ovaries as well as the adhesions that I had all over the place from them leaking. I'd been misdiagnosed the first time I felt pain from them and then I didn't have insurance for a long time, so the problems that they caused me went on for much longer than they should have. I was in severe pain on and off for around 3 years for months at a time and with that came anxiety and depression and insomnia from being so anxious and that made things a lot harder.The funny thing is that recovering from my surgery was nothing in comparison. I felt a million times better immediately after I woke up in the recovery room

Honey, the org is one big recovery room for all of us, now and then. Good to hear you recovered well. Life is though, and so are you!

vainandy said:

NMuzakNSoul said:

Aside from my disability (offically quadriplegia) I almost died during back surgery (on Intensive care for two or thre weeks and many complications...that was a close one)

Great to read your story. My mom has been diagnosed with breast cancer and was declared terminally ill. Definitely staying positive and trying to support her in every way. It doesn't have to be final and your story (and many others) proves that.

I was curious as to what your disability was but was afraid to ask because I'm sure you probably get asked all the time and are probably tired of it.

When I saw your picture on one of the photowhore threads, it was strictly your upper body and you were sitting at your keyboard. I didn't see the wheelchair and I thought you were one of the most beautiful people I had ever seen. I'm talking about that gorgeous face of yours.

When I was looking at your pictures on your facebook page, that's when I saw the wheelchair. There was one of you outside in the wheelchair in front of your parents and felt so sorry for you when I saw it. All I could think of is, it is such a shame that a man so beautiful looking would be confined to a wheelchair. However, as I browsed through more of the pictures and watched some of the videos and saw the extreme closeness you had with your family, then I almost felt jealous because I was never close with my family like that. And as I read some of your posts and saw how positive you always were and that you didn't seem to let it get you down and were happy and enjoying life, then I stopped feeling sorry for you because I saw you were strong and dealing with it. I don't know if I could if I were in your shoes. Well, I eventually would because I'd have to but it would be hard as hell to do.

And as for thinking you were beautiful before seeing any of wheelchair pictures, well, after seeing them, I think you are even more beautiful because not only are your outer looks beautiful, but you're also beautiful on the inside which is what's really important and no disability will ever stop that beauty from shining through.

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[Edited 6/6/11 14:18pm]

ThruTheEyesOfWonder said:

To answer the OP, I should say....yes, I definetly do get seriously sick with my life now and then.

It got to a point sometimes where it becomes depression, and I either get help and get on anti-depressants, or I get suicidal.

I'm an only child, and I grew up alone. I've always been sheltered to a significant degree by my parents. I'm 21 now, and for the last few years, I've been trying to distance myself from them and do things on my own. Pretty much gaining my independence short of actually leaving the house because my parents want me at home and, well, it's cheaper to live at home and go to school than live on off campus dwelling.

But some good news is, I'll be moving to the States for school. I'm excited on starting this new chapter in my life. But lately, I've having one of many fall outs with my mother. She says things sometimes that really piss me off.

See, we've lived in Canada all our lives. We realize America is more dangerous in terms of crime, but I'm not pessimistic. I don't like to think that the worst case scenario will happen to me. After all, I'd like to think I'm smarter than that.

My parents found out that where I'm moving to is....loaded with sex offenders. They have maps of where they live and stuff. I'm slightly worried, but then again, I live right now, 1/2 an hour away from a prison town, that also house sex offenders. It's really no different in my mind. But now they're worried as hell, especially my mother. They can't stop me from going, but my mother is bothering me in so many ways it's unnerving. She keeps criticizing what I wear, telling me it's "too sexy" or "too showy". I don't' dress extravagantly, nor do I dress whorish. I don't wear make up either. But any time I try and dress up tastefully, all I hear is criticism of showing too much of my femininity. Sometimes I feel I should just done a hijab and get it over with. I mean, if I can't express myself as a girl, what's the point in being one?

All she does is think in worst case scenarios. And if I refuse to comply it's "dont' complain to me if you get raped". I tell her look at actually statistics than giving in to your biases. No help. She's like "you're pretty, you have to cover it." My dad says, just be a little more modest, nothing drastic.

This has been going on for a few days now, and i could honestly pull my hair I'm so frustrated. She begins to bring up all those "customs" women in Egypt endure, I tell her they're oppressed because Egypt is sadly a man's society. She believes in equality, yet she seems to accept this. I said they're oppressed because men run the show. Hence I've been growing a sort of resentment towards men. As if this world is made for them and we as women have to adapt or something bad happens to us. *screams!*

I think sometimes, if I were a man, she'd leave me alone. Maybe she'd stop nagging me and making me feel guilty for being pretty or being a woman. I just can't stand it and it makes me hate my life.

Rant over.

Your frustration and challenges really sound very healthy for this stage in your life. It's good to go out on your own and explore the world. Form you own experiences and by this personality.

Why don't you invite your mom to join you a a slut mars? I think that is a good mom-daughter experience.

I'm with you on this one. It seems that there is a lot going on.

Your mom loves you. She wishes she could protect you from all the harm that you will most certainly endure. Therefore she tries to control you. It's not an excuse. However, mom's love for you goes beyond your skin. And offcourse you need your own skin and need to protect your own skin. Just never forget how much she really loves you.

She also is from a different generation. She accepts that it's a man's world. She is thankfull for the little that she is allowed nowadays as a woman. Going a step further, and demanding not to adjust every behaviour, in order to please/ or warn off aggression from a man, is a different league for her. She probably hasn't given it that much thought. Maybe you can give her an inspiring book about the subject?

In a way you think highly of man. You think they are capable of being an adult and mature person with likely behaviour towards women. She probably thinks: "He's a man. Not capable of inhibiting his testosteron induced behaviour. He can't help it, man are morrons. They need to be managed by women".

You don't want to manage a man. You want him to be able to be mature and sensible about his own behaviour. That is a huge generation gap in thinking about men.

Good luck and enjoy your road on life. It's covered with bumps. And just lilke a fair, it wouldn't be fun without that roller coaster feeling, would it? Walking a straight road without any bumps or accelarations is not challenging at all. You would never learn anything.

dJJ said:

ThruTheEyesOfWonder said:

To answer the OP, I should say....yes, I definetly do get seriously sick with my life now and then.

It got to a point sometimes where it becomes depression, and I either get help and get on anti-depressants, or I get suicidal.

I'm an only child, and I grew up alone. I've always been sheltered to a significant degree by my parents. I'm 21 now, and for the last few years, I've been trying to distance myself from them and do things on my own. Pretty much gaining my independence short of actually leaving the house because my parents want me at home and, well, it's cheaper to live at home and go to school than live on off campus dwelling.

But some good news is, I'll be moving to the States for school. I'm excited on starting this new chapter in my life. But lately, I've having one of many fall outs with my mother. She says things sometimes that really piss me off.

See, we've lived in Canada all our lives. We realize America is more dangerous in terms of crime, but I'm not pessimistic. I don't like to think that the worst case scenario will happen to me. After all, I'd like to think I'm smarter than that.

My parents found out that where I'm moving to is....loaded with sex offenders. They have maps of where they live and stuff. I'm slightly worried, but then again, I live right now, 1/2 an hour away from a prison town, that also house sex offenders. It's really no different in my mind. But now they're worried as hell, especially my mother. They can't stop me from going, but my mother is bothering me in so many ways it's unnerving. She keeps criticizing what I wear, telling me it's "too sexy" or "too showy". I don't' dress extravagantly, nor do I dress whorish. I don't wear make up either. But any time I try and dress up tastefully, all I hear is criticism of showing too much of my femininity. Sometimes I feel I should just done a hijab and get it over with. I mean, if I can't express myself as a girl, what's the point in being one?

All she does is think in worst case scenarios. And if I refuse to comply it's "dont' complain to me if you get raped". I tell her look at actually statistics than giving in to your biases. No help. She's like "you're pretty, you have to cover it." My dad says, just be a little more modest, nothing drastic.

This has been going on for a few days now, and i could honestly pull my hair I'm so frustrated. She begins to bring up all those "customs" women in Egypt endure, I tell her they're oppressed because Egypt is sadly a man's society. She believes in equality, yet she seems to accept this. I said they're oppressed because men run the show. Hence I've been growing a sort of resentment towards men. As if this world is made for them and we as women have to adapt or something bad happens to us. *screams!*

I think sometimes, if I were a man, she'd leave me alone. Maybe she'd stop nagging me and making me feel guilty for being pretty or being a woman. I just can't stand it and it makes me hate my life.

Rant over.

Your frustration and challenges really sound very healthy for this stage in your life. It's good to go out on your own and explore the world. Form you own experiences and by this personality.

Why don't you invite your mom to join you a a slut mars? I think that is a good mom-daughter experience.

I'm with you on this one. It seems that there is a lot going on.

Your mom loves you. She wishes she could protect you from all the harm that you will most certainly endure. Therefore she tries to control you. It's not an excuse. However, mom's love for you goes beyond your skin. And offcourse you need your own skin and need to protect your own skin. Just never forget how much she really loves you.

She also is from a different generation. She accepts that it's a man's world. She is thankfull for the little that she is allowed nowadays as a woman. Going a step further, and demanding not to adjust every behaviour, in order to please/ or warn off aggression from a man, is a different league for her. She probably hasn't given it that much thought. Maybe you can give her an inspiring book about the subject?

In a way you think highly of man. You think they are capable of being an adult and mature person with likely behaviour towards women. She probably thinks: "He's a man. Not capable of inhibiting his testosteron induced behaviour. He can't help it, man are morrons. They need to be managed by women".

You don't want to manage a man. You want him to be able to be mature and sensible about his own behaviour. That is a huge generation gap in thinking about men.

Good luck and enjoy your road on life. It's covered with bumps. And just lilke a fair, it wouldn't be fun without that roller coaster feeling, would it? Walking a straight road without any bumps or accelarations is not challenging at all. You would never learn anything.

Shit...and i was hoping nobody noticed.

Thanks for the advice. It helped a bit. I've been sick with my life and in my life. Mentally sick. And is it any wonder?

My story reads like a Freudian wet dream.

[Edited 6/6/11 14:30pm]

NMuzakNSoul said:

vainandy said:

I was curious as to what your disability was but was afraid to ask because I'm sure you probably get asked all the time and are probably tired of it.

When I saw your picture on one of the photowhore threads, it was strictly your upper body and you were sitting at your keyboard. I didn't see the wheelchair and I thought you were one of the most beautiful people I had ever seen. I'm talking about that gorgeous face of yours.

When I was looking at your pictures on your facebook page, that's when I saw the wheelchair. There was one of you outside in the wheelchair in front of your parents and felt so sorry for you when I saw it. All I could think of is, it is such a shame that a man so beautiful looking would be confined to a wheelchair. However, as I browsed through more of the pictures and watched some of the videos and saw the extreme closeness you had with your family, then I almost felt jealous because I was never close with my family like that. And as I read some of your posts and saw how positive you always were and that you didn't seem to let it get you down and were happy and enjoying life, then I stopped feeling sorry for you because I saw you were strong and dealing with it. I don't know if I could if I were in your shoes. Well, I eventually would because I'd have to but it would be hard as hell to do.

And as for thinking you were beautiful before seeing any of wheelchair pictures, well, after seeing them, I think you are even more beautiful because not only are your outer looks beautiful, but you're also beautiful on the inside which is what's really important and no disability will ever stop that beauty from shining through.

Andy, this is one of the best posts someone has ever written about me I'm really moved by it thank you very much. I appreciate all of the compliments and every word. I have a great family and although I have no closeness to my dad's side of the family my mom's side is all positive minded like us.

I think one of your biggest qualities as a person is that you're truly staying true to yourself and you don't care what anyone thinks or says about you you just are yourself and I really admire that.

For a little while during puberty I used to be ashamed of myself, but nowadays I am really proud of myself and accept myself and I think thats why people take a liking or feel a connection with me.

Thanks for this post I will put it in my facebook profile.

You are very welcome.

NMuzakNSoul said:

tinaz said:

Wow... I know people say this and dont know if they mean it, but this seriously brought tears to my eyes! That was one of the most beautiful and heartfelt things I have read in a long time! I feel I should thank you for allowing us to read it.. Beautiful!

I agree. And I feel really good that Andy took the time out to say that to me.

Hey, what can I say...I never could resist a handsome man.

vainandy said:

NMuzakNSoul said:

Hey, what can I say...I never could resist a handsome man.

thanks

NMuzakNSoul said:

vainandy said:

Hey, what can I say...I never could resist a handsome man.

thanks

what a cheesy pickup line...and you fell for it!

BlackAdder7 said:

NMuzakNSoul said:

thanks

what a cheesy pickup line...and you fell for it!

Hm. If he's that easy, I might give it a shot too

vainandy said:

NMuzakNSoul said:

Aside from my disability (offically quadriplegia) I almost died during back surgery (on Intensive care for two or thre weeks and many complications...that was a close one)

Great to read your story. My mom has been diagnosed with breast cancer and was declared terminally ill. Definitely staying positive and trying to support her in every way. It doesn't have to be final and your story (and many others) proves that.

I was curious as to what your disability was but was afraid to ask because I'm sure you probably get asked all the time and are probably tired of it.

When I saw your picture on one of the photowhore threads, it was strictly your upper body and you were sitting at your keyboard. I didn't see the wheelchair and I thought you were one of the most beautiful people I had ever seen. I'm talking about that gorgeous face of yours.

When I was looking at your pictures on your facebook page, that's when I saw the wheelchair. There was one of you outside in the wheelchair in front of your parents and felt so sorry for you when I saw it. All I could think of is, it is such a shame that a man so beautiful looking would be confined to a wheelchair. However, as I browsed through more of the pictures and watched some of the videos and saw the extreme closeness you had with your family, then I almost felt jealous because I was never close with my family like that. And as I read some of your posts and saw how positive you always were and that you didn't seem to let it get you down and were happy and enjoying life, then I stopped feeling sorry for you because I saw you were strong and dealing with it. I don't know if I could if I were in your shoes. Well, I eventually would because I'd have to but it would be hard as hell to do.

And as for thinking you were beautiful before seeing any of wheelchair pictures, well, after seeing them, I think you are even more beautiful because not only are your outer looks beautiful, but you're also beautiful on the inside which is what's really important and no disability will ever stop that beauty from shining through.

That's exactly what I thought of him the first time I got to know him. His constant postive outlook on everything despite all the twist and turns that life throws at him is truly an inspiration.

This is truly a very touching and beautiful post. The world would truly be a better place if everyone took a little time to give a little kindness, cheer and love to one and other when they need it.

Simple words can be small yet be a very powerful tool to do so. You've proven that.

Ahhhhh excuse me I cant see my screen anymore cause my eyes are filled in tears and I have to blow my nose...

lavender1983 said:

vainandy said:

I was curious as to what your disability was but was afraid to ask because I'm sure you probably get asked all the time and are probably tired of it.

When I saw your picture on one of the photowhore threads, it was strictly your upper body and you were sitting at your keyboard. I didn't see the wheelchair and I thought you were one of the most beautiful people I had ever seen. I'm talking about that gorgeous face of yours.

When I was looking at your pictures on your facebook page, that's when I saw the wheelchair. There was one of you outside in the wheelchair in front of your parents and felt so sorry for you when I saw it. All I could think of is, it is such a shame that a man so beautiful looking would be confined to a wheelchair. However, as I browsed through more of the pictures and watched some of the videos and saw the extreme closeness you had with your family, then I almost felt jealous because I was never close with my family like that. And as I read some of your posts and saw how positive you always were and that you didn't seem to let it get you down and were happy and enjoying life, then I stopped feeling sorry for you because I saw you were strong and dealing with it. I don't know if I could if I were in your shoes. Well, I eventually would because I'd have to but it would be hard as hell to do.

And as for thinking you were beautiful before seeing any of wheelchair pictures, well, after seeing them, I think you are even more beautiful because not only are your outer looks beautiful, but you're also beautiful on the inside which is what's really important and no disability will ever stop that beauty from shining through.

That's exactly what I thought of him the first time I got to know him. His constant postive outlook on everything despite all the twist and turns that life throws at him is truly an inspiration.

This is truly a very touching and beautiful post. The world would truly be a better place if everyone took a little time to give a little kindness, cheer and love to one and other when they need it.

Simple words can be small yet be a very powerful tool to do so. You've proven that.

Ahhhhh excuse me I cant see my screen anymore cause my eyes are filled in tears and I have to blow my nose...

Thanks bevbev.

BlackAdder7 said:

NMuzakNSoul said:

thanks

what a cheesy pickup line...and you fell for it!

Well, it was kind....

BlackAdder7 said:

NMuzakNSoul said:

thanks

what a cheesy pickup line...and you fell for it!

Hey, I'm never nice to men I'm trying to pick up. For years, my pickup line has been...."Shut your trap and open your flap".

vainandy said:

BlackAdder7 said:

what a cheesy pickup line...and you fell for it!

Hey, I'm never nice to men I'm trying to pick up. For years, my pickup line has been...."Shut your trap and open your flap".

Let's see how your new strategy works out for you

dJJ said:

vainandy said:

Hey, I'm never nice to men I'm trying to pick up. For years, my pickup line has been...."Shut your trap and open your flap".

Let's see how your new strategy works out for you

I'm only nice to friends, not lovers. I've had many a lowdown man try to use me and Andy ain't nobody's fool. When they get ready to tell me their name, I tell them...."Your name ain't what I'm interested in. Unzip your pants and don't spoil it by talking".

vainandy said:

dJJ said:

Let's see how your new strategy works out for you

I'm only nice to friends, not lovers. I've had many a lowdown man try to use me and Andy ain't nobody's fool. When they get ready to tell me their name, I tell them...."Your name ain't what I'm interested in. Unzip your pants and don't spoil it by talking".

I should have done that last weekend. Could have had a great sex night. Instead it got spoiled by talking.

Stupid talk about commitment. So, no sex and no commitment.

Next time, I'll just tell him to unzip his pants and I'll tie him up somewhere in my castle

Good advice. Still learning here on the org.