would you marry me??

when it would be better to say : would you like to live with me, and build something beautiful?

really... ??? perhaps, but I can't stop thinking about it

it's just a piece of paper...

Lots of people fighting for that piece of paper right now.

Eh....the other proposal just sounds like a fancy way of saying "can I fuck you with no committment and kick you to the curb when a new hottie comes along?"

HotGritz said:

Lots of people fighting for that piece of paper right now.

Eh....the other proposal just sounds like a fancy way of saying "can I fuck you with no committment and kick you to the curb when a new hottie comes along?"

yeah right.

at least that option is faster (AND CHEAPER) than a divorce

lol

no committment?? I can live with you, have children with you and die with you WITHOUT that piece of paper...

JoeTyler said:

HotGritz said:

Lots of people fighting for that piece of paper right now.

Eh....the other proposal just sounds like a fancy way of saying "can I fuck you with no committment and kick you to the curb when a new hottie comes along?"

yeah right.

at least that option is faster (AND CHEAPER) than a divorce

lol

no committment?? I can live with you, have children with you and die with you WITHOUT that piece of paper...

I'm sure the person who is being kicked to the curb doesn't want to make it

faster or cheaper for you...

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JoeTyler said:

would you marry me??

when it would be better to say : would you like to live with me, and build something beautiful?

really... ??? perhaps, but I can't stop thinking about it

it's just a piece of paper...

i agree that second option is ten times more appealing

LadyCasanova said:

JoeTyler said:

yeah right.

at least that option is faster (AND CHEAPER) than a divorce

lol

no committment?? I can live with you, have children with you and die with you WITHOUT that piece of paper...

I'm sure the person who is being kicked to the curb doesn't want to make it

faster or cheaper for you...

JoeTyler said:

HotGritz said:

Lots of people fighting for that piece of paper right now.

Eh....the other proposal just sounds like a fancy way of saying "can I fuck you with no committment and kick you to the curb when a new hottie comes along?"

yeah right.

at least that option is faster (AND CHEAPER) than a divorce

lol

no committment?? I can live with you, have children with you and die with you WITHOUT that piece of paper...

Yeah but if i get terminally ill, you have no say so in my form of treatment and you may not be able to visit me in the hospital without my permission.

if i up and leave with the kids and don't tell you where I'm going, it aint kidnapping cuz their my kids and you're just out of luck.

We can live together and I don't have to put you on the mortgage because there's no communal property for dating partners.

You would have to file a piece of paper just to cover me on your health insurance.

AND in some states, if we live together for a certain number of years, the state will consider us married so it's not really faster or cheaper than a divorce after all, especially if kids are involved.

At least when you ask the person to marry you they know without a doubt you are willing to take on a lot e.g. joint debt, property, extended families, tax credits or penalties, committment to the kids (its harder for a husband to walk away than a baby daddy) and other things. Marriage isn't for everyone that's for damn sure but if you want to act married then be married.

HotGritz said:

JoeTyler said:

yeah right.

at least that option is faster (AND CHEAPER) than a divorce

lol

no committment?? I can live with you, have children with you and die with you WITHOUT that piece of paper...

Yeah but if i get terminally ill, you have no say so in my form of treatment and you may not be able to visit me in the hospital without my permission.

if i up and leave with the kids and don't tell you where I'm going, it aint kidnapping cuz their my kids and you're just out of luck.

We can live together and I don't have to put you on the mortgage because there's no communal property for dating partners.

You would have to file a piece of paper just to cover me on your health insurance.

AND in some states, if we live together for a certain number of years, the state will consider us married so it's not really faster or cheaper than a divorce after all, especially if kids are involved.

At least when you ask the person to marry you they know without a doubt you are willing to take on a lot e.g. joint debt, property, extended families, tax credits or penalties, committment to the kids (its harder for a husband to walk away than a baby daddy) and other things. Marriage isn't for everyone that's for damn sure but if you want to act married then be married.

so that confirms that marriage is basically about $$$$ !! and laws!!!

JoeTyler said:

HotGritz said:

Yeah but if i get terminally ill, you have no say so in my form of treatment and you may not be able to visit me in the hospital without my permission.

if i up and leave with the kids and don't tell you where I'm going, it aint kidnapping cuz their my kids and you're just out of luck.

We can live together and I don't have to put you on the mortgage because there's no communal property for dating partners.

You would have to file a piece of paper just to cover me on your health insurance.

AND in some states, if we live together for a certain number of years, the state will consider us married so it's not really faster or cheaper than a divorce after all, especially if kids are involved.

At least when you ask the person to marry you they know without a doubt you are willing to take on a lot e.g. joint debt, property, extended families, tax credits or penalties, committment to the kids (its harder for a husband to walk away than a baby daddy) and other things. Marriage isn't for everyone that's for damn sure but if you want to act married then be married.

so that confirms that marriage is basically about $$$$ !! and laws!!!

It depends. Do laws protect you or do they not? Is $$$ meant to care for you and your kids in case something unfortunate happens to your spouse or between the two of you? Sure you can say "I'm married in my heart" but if that was all there was to it then why are gays fighting for marriage equality if its just a piece of paper and why are polygamists living in hiding and fear of prosecution? I don't know where you draw the line between true love and true committment. All I know is aint nobody getting in MY pocket! But I'm a woman, the laws are sort of in my favor.

Start something beautiful only 2 F**K it up in a month/6months/a year/...How ever long it takes the sweet dream will bcome an ugly nitemare its simply inevitable.....