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I Am Tired, Are You? I am aware of lots of game-playing and insidious, hurtful shit lately between some of the Orgers here. Low-blows, new Org accounts used for the sole purpose of riling people up, insults, mockery, "ganging up" on other members, etc. It's childish and although this is "just" the internet, there are real people behind these names of ours.
I am tired of it, are you? Just let it be. Let's stop the cattiness, and if anyone has anything to say--is it possible to directly deal with the person to resolve things, instead of spread more venom/rumors/ugliness to others? I hope so... Pious posse? No. Just sick at heart and tired of "man's inhumanity to man"... | |
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I'm all for it. | |
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AnotherLover2 said: I am aware of lots of game-playing and insidious, hurtful shit lately between some of the Orgers here. Low-blows, new Org accounts used for the sole purpose of riling people up, insults, mockery, "ganging up" on other members, etc. It's childish and although this is "just" the internet, there are real people behind these names of ours.
I am tired of it, are you? Just let it be. Let's stop the cattiness, and if anyone has anything to say--is it possible to directly deal with the person to resolve things, instead of spread more venom/rumors/ugliness to others? I hope so... Pious posse? No. Just sick at heart and tired of "man's inhumanity to man"... I am tired of it, yes. | |
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i am tired of everything....
fuck you, edit... [This message was edited Sun Feb 9 12:46:35 PST 2003 by EllisDee] Mr. Ellis Dee-licious, the Official NPGigolo
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SuperC said: I'm all for it.
You don't say? :LOL: SUPERJOINT RITUAL - http://www.superjointritual.com
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IceNine said: SuperC said: I'm all for it.
You don't say? :LOL: and this is how the story ends :LOL: | |
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SuperC, RedFeathers, EllisDee, IceNine | |
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Why do I feel like I'm doin' an altar call? | |
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DORA said: Is that Pia Zadora in your avatar? SUPERJOINT RITUAL - http://www.superjointritual.com
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there are people doing that on the org??? No... I AM King BAD a.k.a. BAD,
YOU EITHER WANNA BE ME, OR BE JUST LIKE ME ™ | |
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IceNine said: DORA said: Is that Pia Zadora in your avatar? why yes it is | |
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00769BAD said: there are people doing that on the org??? No...
You don't say? :LOL: SUPERJOINT RITUAL - http://www.superjointritual.com
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DORA said: IceNine said: DORA said: Is that Pia Zadora in your avatar? why yes it is I thought so. SUPERJOINT RITUAL - http://www.superjointritual.com
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Why is Me get da impression dat i is bein spoke of???
Me was way back in da lab, when my ears is start boinin. King BAD is the giver of ME LIFE
Me will Live for he, Me Die for He this account, i would make it FRY for He. | |
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IceNine said: 00769BAD said: there are people doing that on the org??? No...
You don't say? :LOL: Same thing you said to me, you ain't lumping us together are you? :LOL: | |
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SuperC said: IceNine said: 00769BAD said: there are people doing that on the org??? No...
You don't say? :LOL: Same thing you said to me, you ain't lumping us together are you? :LOL: You don't say? :LOL: SUPERJOINT RITUAL - http://www.superjointritual.com
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IceNine said: SuperC said: IceNine said: 00769BAD said: there are people doing that on the org??? No...
You don't say? :LOL: Same thing you said to me, you ain't lumping us together are you? :LOL: You don't say? :LOL: Who would have thunkit, ice at a loss for words :LOL: | |
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SuperC said: IceNine said: SuperC said: IceNine said: 00769BAD said: there are people doing that on the org??? No...
You don't say? :LOL: Same thing you said to me, you ain't lumping us together are you? :LOL: You don't say? :LOL: Who would have thunkit, ice at a loss for words :LOL: You don't say? :LOL: SUPERJOINT RITUAL - http://www.superjointritual.com
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I look at this very quickly and I thought it said 'I'm tired of you'.
Good, it wasn't about me. | |
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Thread-jacking not cool on this one! | |
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AnotherLover2 said: Thread-jacking not cool on this one!
you don't say :GRIN: I AM King BAD a.k.a. BAD,
YOU EITHER WANNA BE ME, OR BE JUST LIKE ME ™ | |
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AnotherLover2 said: Why do I feel like I'm doin' an altar call?
can i get an amen from the choir... :LOL:... Mr. Ellis Dee-licious, the Official NPGigolo
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AnotherLover
I'm feeling you... there are real people behind these names of ours... and while it is only natural for some people to get on better than others, it is the insidious vindictiveness that turns me off completely.. No-one has to like everyone... of course! However just because you may not like someone, that doesn't mean one has to do everything in their power to humiliate the person in question. Where does that get someone... at the end of the day? Anyway... we're all free to be whoever we want to be (within the limits of the org rules anyway *giggle*) .. and I definitely respect everyones right to express themselves in whatever way they choose... however it certainly wouldn't hurt if people sometimes kept in mind that the price of joke sometimes isn't worth the laughs it may get from some if in the process of being "clever" you're hurting someone deeply. Naturally one can't always (nor should they have to) anticipate the negative impact that their words can have on another person. But at the same time when you're intentionally saying things with the sole purpose of humiliating another, then it can and often does become unreasonably ugly and sinister... fortunately most of us know when a joke is taken too far... when it is no longer funny... I'm not trying to be self-righteous or "holier-than-thou" by any means... that's not where I'm coming from at all and I hope this doesn't come across that way, that is not my intention, all I'm saying is that we are responsible for the things we say here, even if it is "just" the internet... That been said, I'll reiterate, I respect everyones right to be themselves or someone else , as the case may be... I just don't like it when the criticism of another becomes so personal (and no longer about ideas or different views of a subject matter etc), when it gets to that point, I believe it often starts reflecting much more about you, than the person you're trying to hurt... you know? Anyway... I'll shut-up now . damn typos! [This message was edited Sun Feb 9 15:48:14 PST 2003 by Diva] --»You're my favourite moment, you're my Saturday... | |
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Well said Diva.
I think that over recent times some "jokes" have been taken way to far. There is also alot of bating going on. I find those non-stop, circular arguments to be boring. Let's have some fun! When I read about the evils of drinking, I gave up reading. | |
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bkw said: I think that over recent times some "jokes" have been taken way to far. There is also alot of bating going on. I find those non-stop, circular arguments to be boring.
Let's have some fun! :wOOt: --»You're my favourite moment, you're my Saturday... | |
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bkw said: Well said Diva.
I think that over recent times some "jokes" have been taken way to far. There is also alot of bating going on. I find those non-stop, circular arguments to be boring. Let's have some fun! and most of them started with my if you didnt get the picture from me it wasnt meant for you so shut the fuck up about it. PERIOD | |
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Diva said: AnotherLover
I'm feeling you... there are real people behind these names of ours... and while it is only natural for some people to get on better than others, it is the insidious vindictiveness that turns me off completely.. No-one has to like everyone... of course! However just because you may not like someone, that doesn't mean one has to do everything in their power to humiliate the person in question. Where does that get someone... at the end of the day? Anyway... we're all free to be whoever we want to be (within the limits of the org rules anyway *giggle*) .. and I definitely respect everyones right to express themselves in whatever way they choose... however it certainly wouldn't hurt if people sometimes kept in mind that the price of joke sometimes isn't worth the laughs it may get from some if in the process of being "clever" you're hurting someone deeply. Naturally one can't always (nor should they have to) anticipate the negative impact that their words can have on another person. But at the same time when you're intentionally saying things with the sole purpose of humiliating another, then it can and often does become unreasonably ugly and sinister... fortunately most of us know when a joke is taken too far... when it is no longer funny... I'm not trying to be self-righteous or "holier-than-thou" by any means... that's not where I'm coming from at all and I hope this doesn't come across that way, that is not my intention, all I'm saying is that we are responsible for the things we say here, even if it is "just" the internet... That been said, I'll reiterate, I respect everyones right to be themselves or someone else , as the case may be... I just don't like it when the criticism of another becomes so personal (and no longer about ideas or different views of a subject matter etc), when it gets to that point, I believe it often starts reflecting much more about you, than the person you're trying to hurt... you know? Anyway... I'll shut-up now . damn typos! [This message was edited Sun Feb 9 15:48:14 PST 2003 by Diva] Diva Thank you for such a heartfelt, well-thought-out response to my thread. I find it really disheartening to see several people trying to play "mindgames" with others here, trying to get people to argue and hurt one another by giving false or intentionally misleading information. Then there's the backbiting, or passive-aggressive threads/posts where people attempt to insult someone or otherwise communicate indirectly with someone they have issues with. If I could have one thing come of this thread, it would be that people would open dialogues with one another directly and work to understand the origin of the problem, rather than to continue making assumptions and spew venom for their own amusement...to me, it's even more pathetic to realize that usually the reason these things get started in the first place is over jealousy and ego. A crazy dream on my part, huh? | |
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AnotherLover2 said: Then there's the backbiting, or passive-aggressive threads/posts where people attempt to insult someone or otherwise communicate indirectly with someone they have issues with.
geez, that has got to be the most annoying thing in the world... you click on a topic thinking that it may be an interesting, legitimate topic... but it's not... it's just someone indirectly talking smack about somebody else and trying to get other people riled up and ready to attack... if people have beef, they need to settle that shit privately between themselves... or just ignore each other... but don't battle the shit by making indirect comments about each other... Mr. Ellis Dee-licious, the Official NPGigolo
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With our world already i dire straights, it is sad to watch the hurtful remarks written here. It's even sadder when U realize that the ones doing the insulting are probably the ones who are hurting the most. Immaturity and arrogance can create smoke screens that hide some very confused and malicious individuals. | |
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