dJJ said:

Tokyo89 said:

Yes he does.. and he makes it all about me. He's gentle. Still can't "bust" from penetration, only oral

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That's normal. I've never met a woman who has an orgasm from penetration. Orgasm comes from stimulating the clitoris. And that doesn't happen during penetration. So, eventhoug penetration can be a great and satisfying feeling, and a pivotal experience, the orgasm only happens from stimulating the clitoris.

So, that sounds all pretty normal and healthy to me.

Films and porn miseducate women about their orgasms. Good to have the prince.org to get educated about it

ParanoidAndroid said:

Vendetta1 said:

Many, many women don't climax during penetration. For many women, there has to be direct clitoral stimulation in order for her to get off and that just does not happen during regular missionary sex. This is why some women prefer to be on top.

It is also, like Haterina said, can be attributed to bad sex partners. Many women need foreplay to get her to the point where she can be driven over the edge during coitus. Some men just get a woman naked and fuck like he's digging for something in there and it's "too bad" if the woman doesn't get hers. The technical term for men like these is "assholes".

But what if a woman doesn't like foreplay?

She probably has control issues. Some women are truly scared to trust and open up to anybody. They want to be able to control their body and mind at all costs. Ratio is a very strong defense against surrendering to love. Or she isn't that comfortable with her body? Or she is irritated and withdrawn from the relationship without telling? I don't know, however, if you miss that part of being together, and not sharing romantic intimicy, then tell her that you feel left out by her.

dJJ said:

dJJ said:

Serious said:

dJJ said:

That's normal. I've never met a woman who has an orgasm from penetration. Orgasm comes from stimulating the clitoris. And that doesn't happen during penetration. So, eventhoug penetration can be a great and satisfying feeling, and a pivotal experience, the orgasm only happens from stimulating the clitoris.

So, that sounds all pretty normal and healthy to me.

Films and porn miseducate women about their orgasms. Good to have the prince.org to get educated about it

Like I said before for me it is easier to come from penetration than from clitoral stimulation. Probably one of the reasons why I prefer intercourse to oral even though that of course is great too. And if women could not have orgasms from penetration how could they have orgasms from anal without any clitoral stitumaltion at all?

Yes, there are different kind of orgasms, and it's all up to definition and experience I guess.

What I'm saying is the majority of women come from clitoris stimulation. And eventhough films and porn suggests, that it's normal to sream out loud, because of a great orgasm when penetrated by a man, in reality that is not the case for 99% of women.

However, most women feel as if there is something wrong with them. Similar as the vagina discussion. Only 10% of women have a small labia that doesn't flower. Therefore, the so called playboy vagina is a rarety. The fact that young girls go out of their way for surgery for a playboy vagina is sickening.

And there is no male equal. The males in porn are mostly groce, ugly, old guys. And it's produced for that kind. Unfortunately, girls get the idea it's a normal way of treating ladies and girls as they see in porn. Sad. Just sad.

dJJ said:

What pisses me off are the men who toot their own horns and claim that they are the end all to be all when it comes to making love. Then you get to the point where you want to "sample the wares." I could have done the job myself with better results. In other words, he wasn't shit! I almost told a guy that, but I was afraid he would get violent or something because he had a terrible temper. I just simply stopped seeing his tired, nonfucking, evil ass.

Shyra said:

What pisses me off are the men who toot their own horns and claim that they are the end all to be all when it comes to making love. Then you get to the point where you want to "sample the wares." I could have done the job myself with better results. In other words, he wasn't shit! I almost told a guy that, but I was afraid he would get violent or something because he had a terrible temper. I just simply stopped seeing his tired, nonfucking, evil ass.

That's horrible and sad. I'm happy you elevated your standards and won't see him again. When you don't feel free to say what you think or want, that is an alarm bell going off!!

What about the men who can't come during sex?

novabrkr said:

What about the men who can't come during sex?

There is a parallel thread. It's about side effects of medicine.

dJJ said:

Tokyo89 said:

Yes he does.. and he makes it all about me. He's gentle. Still can't "bust" from penetration, only oral

[Edited 5/17/11 9:54am]

That's normal. I've never met a woman who has an orgasm from penetration. Orgasm comes from stimulating the clitoris. And that doesn't happen during penetration. So, eventhoug penetration can be a great and satisfying feeling, and a pivotal experience, the orgasm only happens from stimulating the clitoris.

So, that sounds all pretty normal and healthy to me.

Films and porn miseducate women about their orgasms. Good to have the prince.org to get educated about it

I think you have that the other was around since the porn industry by and large caterers to men sexual fantasy point of view. Well, both sexes have been miseducated by porn. What women need to be straight up and assertive and tell men what pleases them and what doesn't. Only way they'll women will know themeselves what gets them off, is to and explore and touch their bodies.

TD3 said:

dJJ said:

That's normal. I've never met a woman who has an orgasm from penetration. Orgasm comes from stimulating the clitoris. And that doesn't happen during penetration. So, eventhoug penetration can be a great and satisfying feeling, and a pivotal experience, the orgasm only happens from stimulating the clitoris.

So, that sounds all pretty normal and healthy to me.

Films and porn miseducate women about their orgasms. Good to have the prince.org to get educated about it

I think you have that the other was around since the porn industry by and large caterers to men sexual fantasy point of view. Well, both sexes have been miseducated by porn. What women need to be straight up and assertive and tell men what pleases them and what doesn't. Only way they'll women will know themeselves what gets them off, is to and explore and touch their bodies.

I think we'r pretty much on the same page.

novabrkr said:

What about the men who can't come during sex?

Then he got a problem!

Tremolina said:

Vendetta1 said:

Many, many women don't climax during penetration. For many women, there has to be direct clitoral stimulation in order for her to get off and that just does not happen during regular missionary sex. This is why some women prefer to be on top.

Take note gentlemen.

Also, miss vendetta, some women have a preference for more ferarum, also more commonly known as doggy style. This does not stimulate the woman´s clitoris as much as the on top position, but it does greatly enhance the chance to become more intimate with her g spot. And it leaves her plenty of room to stimulate her clitoris herself. So, if done right, this can ensure many intense orgasms, anally too, and when the dick is right and the owner knows what he is doing. But I digress lol...

And some women can come from words on a screeen from someone four thousand miles away. Carry on.

It is possible to climax from penetration, it all depends on the position & movement of the pelvises.

BlackSweat86 said:

It is possible to climax from penetration, it all depends on the position & movement of the pelvises.

explain, explain, I want to know!

dJJ said:

BlackSweat86 said:

It is possible to climax from penetration, it all depends on the position & movement of the pelvises.

explain, explain, I want to know!

It's basically what i call "the grind effect." I was shown this by an ex-girlfriend who showed me that clitoral stimulation was possible during missionary by having her bend at the knees, placing her feet flat and both us working opposite each other if you will. when i slide in forward, she arches her back upward to meet me, when i slide backwards, she arches her back away from me. In the interim, i'm grinding as she does the same when our hips meet. this causes the top portion of a stiff penis to "massage" the clitoris while penetrating the vagina.

Believe me, it takes some stamina, i suggest you take your ginsing

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Vendetta1 said:

Tremolina said:

Take note gentlemen.

Also, miss vendetta, some women have a preference for more ferarum, also more commonly known as doggy style. This does not stimulate the woman´s clitoris as much as the on top position, but it does greatly enhance the chance to become more intimate with her g spot. And it leaves her plenty of room to stimulate her clitoris herself. So, if done right, this can ensure many intense orgasms, anally too, and when the dick is right and the owner knows what he is doing. But I digress lol...

And some women can come from words on a screeen from someone four thousand miles away. Carry on.

Really? Wow...

women who can't come during sex need to tell their partner exactly what they want, step by step.

like maybe, try a playful mutual masturbation session. a game of pleasure using only hands.

which requires said woman to find a partner who is into the woman enough to care that she gets what she needs.

also, i disagree with someone who said that women don't come during penetration. just sayin.

this thread is weird

This thread is kinda weird as someone else said..Cuz all the women I been with ALL came..

Some men can't come when they get head....I've dated a guy who couldn't come no matter how long or how exotically I sucked his dick.

ThrillUorKillU said:

This thread is kinda weird as someone else said..Cuz all the women I been with ALL came..

TD3 said:

ThrillUorKillU said:

This thread is kinda weird as someone else said..Cuz all the women I been with ALL came..

TD3 said:

ThrillUorKillU said:

This thread is kinda weird as someone else said..Cuz all the women I been with ALL came..

Stop hatin damn..Cuz I dont think so bro..Don't hate the playa hate the game

ThrillUorKillU said:

TD3 said:

Stop hatin damn..Cuz I dont think so bro..Don't hate the playa hate the game

Funny, that's exactly what I was about to say to you.

JustErin said:

ThrillUorKillU said:

Stop hatin damn..Cuz I dont think so bro..Don't hate the playa hate the game

Funny, that's exactly what I was about to say to you.

Really, thats because its true.

missfee said:

Some men can't come when they get head....I've dated a guy who couldn't come no matter how long or how exotically I sucked his dick.

BlackSweat86 said:

missfee said:

Some men can't come when they get head....I've dated a guy who couldn't come no matter how long or how exotically I sucked his dick.

Yeah...that was me for years. somehow, my wife figured it out though

Hmm so that's why she became your wife right? just joking

TD3 said:

ThrillUorKillU said:

This thread is kinda weird as someone else said..Cuz all the women I been with ALL came..

Not to mention...