I am certainly not 18 anymore, but no my sex drive does not die for more than a couple days.

It does ebb & flow in terms of relationships, but that is a little different.

MattyJam said:

I used to have quite a healthy appetite for sex. I'm a guy and sex was something I thought of a lot. I used to always want it more than my girlfriend did, which I'm guessing is the plight of most straight relationships.

Lately though, I just don't want to do it anymore. I'm not interested, I'm never horny, I'd rather listen to a good album or watch a film.

Is it normal for a guys sex drive to just disappear like that? I know it's never going to be the same as when you're 16-23 and sex is all you think about... but I'm only in my late twenties and I can't help but feel like a bit of a freak for just not craving sex anymore.

[Edited 5/14/11 4:36am]

Low testosterone. You should be glad. Think of all the hard work you no longer have to do.

its strange this cuz in time eye can c sex not being that important 2 me??not as important as porn!! Eye need help!!.

HotGritz said:

MattyJam said:

I used to have quite a healthy appetite for sex. I'm a guy and sex was something I thought of a lot. I used to always want it more than my girlfriend did, which I'm guessing is the plight of most straight relationships.

Lately though, I just don't want to do it anymore. I'm not interested, I'm never horny, I'd rather listen to a good album or watch a film.

Is it normal for a guys sex drive to just disappear like that? I know it's never going to be the same as when you're 16-23 and sex is all you think about... but I'm only in my late twenties and I can't help but feel like a bit of a freak for just not craving sex anymore.

[Edited 5/14/11 4:36am]

Low testosterone. You should be glad. Think of all the hard work you no longer have to do.

davetherave6767 said:

its strange this cuz in time eye can c sex not being that important 2 me??not as important as porn!! Eye need help!!.

There was an article in Newsweek (or was it New Yorker?) talking about this phenomenom.

Apparently, guys are so addicted to online porn nowadays that they are losing interest in real sex.

As of lately, I have lost all interest in pursuing the opposite sex. I'm not interested in sex, developing feelings or relationships.

I'm not on any anti-depressants either.

I guess it's just one of these phases people go thru..

PurpleJedi said:

davetherave6767 said:

its strange this cuz in time eye can c sex not being that important 2 me??not as important as porn!! Eye need help!!.

There was an article in Newsweek (or was it New Yorker?) talking about this phenomenom.

Apparently, guys are so addicted to online porn nowadays that they are losing interest in real sex.

That sounds an interesting point...it definately can desensitise people but then again I think sometimes it spices things up to get u in the mood - and actually make u want sex more.

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PurpleJedi said:

davetherave6767 said:

its strange this cuz in time eye can c sex not being that important 2 me??not as important as porn!! Eye need help!!.

There was an article in Newsweek (or was it New Yorker?) talking about this phenomenom.

Apparently, guys are so addicted to online porn nowadays that they are losing interest in real sex.

did it mention davetherave???

I haven't had sex for 3 weeks - doesn't bother me or my usband at all - mind you we are 50! - but next week we could have sex every day - just depends on how you feel at the time and whether you can sum up enough hormones for the job l0l xxx