TheFreakerFantastic said:

Tremolina said:

^ lol that's gonna be hard...

maybe djj has more beds to spare

Fine well maybe i'll have to share then hahah

with me yes

but let's not get all too excited here now

Tremolina said:

but let's not get all too excited here now

Too late hahahah i'm coming over to see those girls and if i don't then its back to yours

This site is like sex education for me, I swear xD I've learned so much on this damn site.

Indeed, let's not get too excited.

I'm a woman. I don't respond well to cheap insinuations. I do respond well to well thought out and classy (or funny) dates.....

Friday the 13th at 12.30 there is an interesting show for a date , it's by Orkater at the Bellevue theater.

So, I do respond to invitations,

if you are single,

sorted out most of your issues (minimum of one year therapy. The ones who claim they don't need it, are too ignorant or boring for me)

and able to communicate (even slightly will do)

However, that's just about individual dates.

Friday the 13th might also be a good date for an org party! Any suggestions for that one?

IamFunkay7 said:

This site is like sex education for me, I swear xD I've learned so much on this damn site.

i wouldn't get your sex education from this site, you'll end up very warped lol

TheFreakerFantastic said:

IamFunkay7 said:

This site is like sex education for me, I swear xD I've learned so much on this damn site.

i wouldn't get your sex education from this site, you'll end up very warped lol

lol, yeah... I just learn alot from here... lol I didn't know much about sex until I came on here, shame on these people, I've been traumatized for life lol.

I didn't know what a Fleshlight was until Bob started talking about them lol At least if his gf finds it he can say its a new type of torch!

TheFreakerFantastic said:

I didn't know what a Fleshlight was until Bob started talking about them lol At least if his gf finds it he can say its a new type of torch!

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a male sex toy is big news...funny that...if i said a vibrator...nobody would have batted an eyelid....

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you cant beat the real thing....thats what i have learned...

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thanks for all the comments...i will try and go with the flow and 'feel the force, luke ' as alec guiness once said..

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i do have my tongue in my cheek with half my posts and its always interesting reading your replys.......thanks everyone...

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Serious said:

veronikka said:

He did mention she was shy and probably why he is asking here instead of asking her. But he definitely needs to ask her, maybe while doing it just ask her if she wants it slower or harder, that way its a simple yes or no from her and not a full on conversation during sex

Good advice

she's shy?

during sex is not the time for shy. i mean come on there's someone else inside your body and you're holding back in your head? if you're going to refrain from telling your partner what you want, or somehow finding a way to get what you want and let your partner know that... why even bother having sex?

in an ideal world having sex means you're with someone you trust enough to let them know what you want. to actually tell them what turns you on, what feels good and know they won't laugh, and, better yet, they'll do it for you. if this gal is holding back in bed that way then she's not sharing, not trusting. she's keeping him guessing in all the wrong ways, imo

bob, i've been reading your posts and this gal sounds really high maintenance. making you guess what she wants in bed is not cool. yelling at you for pointing out hazardous behavior as concerns the child is also not cool (from your prior thread about leaving things around where the kid can get to them). your feeling that you can't talk to your lover about the fleshlight sex toy you bought, imo also not ideal. you should be able to confide in her as easily as you do people on the interent. you shouldn't be afraid of her, but it almost sounds like you are.

no one will like me for saying this but imo you should run away. it sounds like stuff aint working for you two. sounds like dysfunctional to me. run far, run fast, and fly free little bird......

^ ps: i'm not an expert on relationships. in no way, shape, or form am i qualified to give advice on love. therefore, it ain't even my 2c it's my 0c

XxAxX said:

Serious said:

veronikka said: Good advice

she's shy?

during sex is not the time for shy. i mean come on there's someone else inside your body and you're holding back in your head? if you're going to refrain from telling your partner what you want, or somehow finding a way to get what you want and let your partner know that... why even bother having sex?

in an ideal world having sex means you're with someone you trust enough to let them know what you want. to actually tell them what turns you on, what feels good and know they won't laugh, and, better yet, they'll do it for you. if this gal is holding back in bed that way then she's not sharing, not trusting. she's keeping him guessing in all the wrong ways, imo

bob, i've been reading your posts and this gal sounds really high maintenance. making you guess what she wants in bed is not cool. yelling at you for pointing out hazardous behavior as concerns the child is also not cool (from your prior thread about leaving things around where the kid can get to them). your feeling that you can't talk to your lover about the fleshlight sex toy you bought, imo also not ideal. you should be able to confide in her as easily as you do people on the interent. you shouldn't be afraid of her, but it almost sounds like you are.

no one will like me for saying this but imo you should run away. it sounds like stuff aint working for you two. sounds like dysfunctional to me. run far, run fast, and fly free little bird......

Hm. I agree. I do hate it when I'm not the one with the best advice. Hurts my ego.

XxAxX said:

^ ps: i'm not an expert on relationships. in no way, shape, or form am i qualified to give advice on love. therefore, it ain't even my 2c it's my 0c

At least I own up to my 2c. I don't rely on the small letters in the contract, invalidating my statements.

XxAxX said:

Serious said:

veronikka said: Good advice

she's shy?

during sex is not the time for shy. i mean come on there's someone else inside your body and you're holding back in your head? if you're going to refrain from telling your partner what you want, or somehow finding a way to get what you want and let your partner know that... why even bother having sex?

in an ideal world having sex means you're with someone you trust enough to let them know what you want. to actually tell them what turns you on, what feels good and know they won't laugh, and, better yet, they'll do it for you. if this gal is holding back in bed that way then she's not sharing, not trusting. she's keeping him guessing in all the wrong ways, imo

bob, i've been reading your posts and this gal sounds really high maintenance. making you guess what she wants in bed is not cool. yelling at you for pointing out hazardous behavior as concerns the child is also not cool (from your prior thread about leaving things around where the kid can get to them). your feeling that you can't talk to your lover about the fleshlight sex toy you bought, imo also not ideal. you should be able to confide in her as easily as you do people on the interent. you shouldn't be afraid of her, but it almost sounds like you are.

no one will like me for saying this but imo you should run away. it sounds like stuff aint working for you two. sounds like dysfunctional to me. run far, run fast, and fly free little bird......

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well i have had my doubts but i aint giving up that easy...she can be lovely and kind as well....when she has ' a hairy ' as we say in scotland...she can be horrible but i aint perfect either and the good times outweight the bad...thanks for taking the time to reply..your really nice

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blackbob said:

TheFreakerFantastic said:

I didn't know what a Fleshlight was until Bob started talking about them lol At least if his gf finds it he can say its a new type of torch!

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a male sex toy is big news...funny that...if i said a vibrator...nobody would have batted an eyelid....

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you cant beat the real thing....thats what i have learned...

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thanks for all the comments...i will try and go with the flow and 'feel the force, luke ' as alec guiness once said..

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i do have my tongue in my cheek with half my posts and its always interesting reading your replys.......thanks everyone...

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That's a good point about how its big news for a male toy but perfectly acceptable for female toy...true but yeah i can imagine its not as good as the real thing.

blackbob said:

XxAxX said:

she's shy?

during sex is not the time for shy. i mean come on there's someone else inside your body and you're holding back in your head? if you're going to refrain from telling your partner what you want, or somehow finding a way to get what you want and let your partner know that... why even bother having sex?

in an ideal world having sex means you're with someone you trust enough to let them know what you want. to actually tell them what turns you on, what feels good and know they won't laugh, and, better yet, they'll do it for you. if this gal is holding back in bed that way then she's not sharing, not trusting. she's keeping him guessing in all the wrong ways, imo

bob, i've been reading your posts and this gal sounds really high maintenance. making you guess what she wants in bed is not cool. yelling at you for pointing out hazardous behavior as concerns the child is also not cool (from your prior thread about leaving things around where the kid can get to them). your feeling that you can't talk to your lover about the fleshlight sex toy you bought, imo also not ideal. you should be able to confide in her as easily as you do people on the interent. you shouldn't be afraid of her, but it almost sounds like you are.

no one will like me for saying this but imo you should run away. it sounds like stuff aint working for you two. sounds like dysfunctional to me. run far, run fast, and fly free little bird......

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well i have had my doubts but i aint giving up that easy...she can be lovely and kind as well....when she has ' a hairy ' as we say in scotland...she can be horrible but i aint perfect either and the good times outweight the bad...thanks for taking the time to reply..your really nice

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my advice ain't worth much. i know that we here on the ORG likely only 'see' the downside of what goes on from your threads, and then we project what we think we read onto the words you posted. i'm glad to hear you say the good times outweigh the bad. that's what really matters