TheFreakerFantastic said:

DJJ...its ok, i see on other posts you are going through a divorce so its OK to go on here as its probably a form of relaxation for now. At times of upheaval for me i've spent more time on here as a distraction, so for now its probably ok but once the case is settled try to wean yourself off and maybe have a rule that if a friend asks you out you have to say Yes even if you don't feel like it. Its not always easy but I think gaining more IRL will help, in my experience friends definately help when these things are tricky.

Sterkte.

AndGodCreatedMe said:

TheFreakerFantastic said:

DJJ...its ok, i see on other posts you are going through a divorce so its OK to go on here as its probably a form of relaxation for now. At times of upheaval for me i've spent more time on here as a distraction, so for now its probably ok but once the case is settled try to wean yourself off and maybe have a rule that if a friend asks you out you have to say Yes even if you don't feel like it. Its not always easy but I think gaining more IRL will help, in my experience friends definately help when these things are tricky.

Sterkte.

Thank you both