Spinlight said:

Imayte said:

sex should'nt be important in the relationship but i could make it or break it.

I for one can NOT be in a relationship with a guy without sex.

I won't feel as desired or attractive

Why shouldn't it?

wait whats the question you ask? why should'nt it be important or why it doesnt make me feel desirable?

Imayte said:

Spinlight said:

Why shouldn't it?

wait whats the question you ask? why should'nt it be important or why it doesnt make me feel desirable?

Sorry -

Why shouldn't it be important?

of course it's important. good relationship means good communication. good communication means good sex. they go hand in hand and imo if one isn't hitting the other will be affected.

Spinlight said:

Imayte said:

wait whats the question you ask? why should'nt it be important or why it doesnt make me feel desirable?

Sorry -

Why shouldn't it be important?

its okay.And for most people(PRUDES mainly) sex is not the only thing they want in the relationship.

It was a guy i dated a year ago... he was a virgin and didnt believe in sex before marriage,

i was fine with it, until it ran its course and and I became bored. You wind up cheating on

people when they don't want to have sex. Thats why i said it SHOULD'NT be a factor. But it is anyways. We don't live in the 1930's anymore lol and sex is EVERYWHERE

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Imayte said:

Spinlight said:

Sorry -

Why shouldn't it be important?

its okay.And for most people(PRUDES mainly) sex is not the only thing they want in the relationship.

It was a guy i dated a year ago... he was a virgin and didnt believe in sex before marriage,

i was fine with it, until it ran its course and and I became bored. You wind up cheating on

people when they don't want to have sex. Thats why i said it SHOULD'NT be a factor. But it is anyways. We don't live in the 1930's anymore lol and sex is EVERYWHERE

[Edited 4/29/11 17:20pm]

Well, that speaks more to the importance of sex in the public eye on things other than relationships. I think sex SHOULD be an important component of a healthy relationship. Sex with the person you are in love with is 3 dimensional compared to casual sex which is just 1 dimensional. IMO!

Spinlight said:

Imayte said:

its okay.And for most people(PRUDES mainly) sex is not the only thing they want in the relationship.

It was a guy i dated a year ago... he was a virgin and didnt believe in sex before marriage,

i was fine with it, until it ran its course and and I became bored. You wind up cheating on

people when they don't want to have sex. Thats why i said it SHOULD'NT be a factor. But it is anyways. We don't live in the 1930's anymore lol and sex is EVERYWHERE

[Edited 4/29/11 17:20pm]

Well, that speaks more to the importance of sex in the public eye on things other than relationships. I think sex SHOULD be an important component of a healthy relationship. Sex with the person you are in love with is 3 dimensional compared to casual sex which is just 1 dimensional. IMO!

your right. casual sex is dull. wam bam thank you mam.

sex with you in love with is beautiful and more passionate

ZombieKitten said:

I wouldn't have stayed with ANYONE if the sex was bad

I can agree with you...

If theres no motion in that ocean then it will be boring as hell...

lPoeticl said:

ZombieKitten said:

I wouldn't have stayed with ANYONE if the sex was bad

I can agree with you...

If theres no motion in that ocean then it will be boring as hell...

I've never kicked anyone out of bed like straight away, but if nothing much happened after first few time, then I let things fizzle out. I am not disagreeing with those who are talking about their spouse of 20 years and what happens if health affects things. I wouldn't leave my husband if he can't do it any more, but I'd still expect a lot of when I need it

ZombieKitten said:

lPoeticl said:

I can agree with you...

If theres no motion in that ocean then it will be boring as hell...

I've never kicked anyone out of bed like straight away, but if nothing much happened after first few time, then I let things fizzle out. I am not disagreeing with those who are talking about their spouse of 20 years and what happens if health affects things. I wouldn't leave my husband if he can't do it any more, but I'd still expect a lot of when I need it

I was a horrible late teen (17-19 area) I had my friend on speed dial and would dial her while it was going on. That was the "abort get me the hell out of here now call" She couldn't hear anything because I would let it ring and hang up when I heard her so that he wouldn't know what was going on. Then 5 minutes later she would make up this wild story that would have me almost about to laugh about how she needed me home.

daily slap & tickle is crucial!.. sensual kissing, slap/pinch on the bottom, quick feel, hugs & skinny cuddles is more important than launching in2 sex. i'm happy with this all week!

& then when i get it, I REALLY get it!!