Virgo92 said:

If it's with a girl that I know I want to spend my life with or make her the mother of my child, sex isn't really important then. But if I'm in a relationship with a girl that I really don't see me having a future with, then sex is very important.

That's the number one reason people cheat! Because they ain't getting it at home anymore.

Serious said:

As much as I enjoy reading your posts as they are always funny I consider it really sad that sex is the best you think you can get out of somebody. When my man tells me he loves me and looks me in the eyes or when he holds me in his arm when we fall asleep it makes me more happy than when I come 5 or 10 times when we fuck.

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no bloody wonder you miss him so much.

ZombieKitten said:

I wouldn't have stayed with ANYONE if the sex was bad

I hear you. Would anybody ever stay in a relationship if the sex was bad????

85%

the rest is about charm and affinity...

CarrieMpls said:

jaimestarr79 said:

Serious said:

jaimestarr79 said:

I hear you. Would anybody ever stay in a relationship if the sex was bad????

Yes if I love the person I would.

I'm not talking about people in their 80's that have been married 50+ years. I'm talking about being young in your sexual prime and being with a person for 5 years and the sex is still bad and never improves??????

whistle said:

jaimestarr79 said:

Serious said:

vainandy said:

I prefer sex without a relationship any day. Get the best out of the motherfucker, which is sex. Then send the bastard home to his wife, girlfriend, boyfriend, or whatever the hell he has, and let him be their problem.

As much as I enjoy reading your posts as they are always funny I consider it really sad that sex is the best you think you can get out of somebody. When my man tells me he loves me and looks me in the eyes or when he holds me in his arm when we fall asleep it makes me more happy than when I come 5 or 10 times when we fuck. [Edited 4/28/11 7:47am]

Well, I've never had a man tell me he loved me unless he was up to some sort of con and thought I would be fool enough to fall for that "I love you" jazz, let my guard down, and let him make a fool of me. You don't just suddenly "love someone" that you've either just met or haven't known very long and the longer I've gotten to know these men, the few that I've let stick around that long, the easier it was to see that they weren't to be trusted and that the only thing they were good for was a dick for 20 minutes and then send them on their way to be somebody else's problem. I'm not the one to be made a fool of. If anybody's going to be making a fool out of somebody, it's going to be me that comes out on top.

As for "being held in his arms when we fall asleep", oh hell naw. You fall asleep with some man, you'll wake up ripped off.

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'Is Sex Important To You In A Relationship'

YES.... and te longer u r married / in the relationship the more important it gets

yes. there has to be some sort of incentive to sit and listen them talk for ages.

whistle said:

yes. there has to be some sort of incentive to sit and listen them talk for ages.

does your talk during sex???? that's the only time i don't

physco185 said:

whistle said:

yes. there has to be some sort of incentive to sit and listen them talk for ages.

does your talk during sex???? that's the only time i don't

if i'm doing it properly she does.

whistle said:

physco185 said:

does your talk during sex???? that's the only time i don't

if i'm doing it properly she does.

not that kind of talk

jaimestarr79 said:

ZombieKitten said:

I wouldn't have stayed with ANYONE if the sex was bad

I hear you. Would anybody ever stay in a relationship if the sex was bad????

It depends on the type of relationship. I would, if it was a really strong companionship and as long as I was able to fulfill my sexual needs elsewhere.

physco185 said:

whistle said:

if i'm doing it properly she does.

not that kind of talk

do you think we like blowjobs because they feel good?

whistle said:

physco185 said:

not that kind of talk

do you think we like blowjobs because they feel good?

whistle said:

physco185 said:

not that kind of talk

do you think we like blowjobs because they feel good?

we can easily say the same about

You pay by the hour-It dang better be!

JustErin said:

I would love to be in a serious relationship again before I die. I will be hurt if the sexual chemistry is no longer there. I don't want to be kissing cousins so to speak. There are sex toys that can help compensate for nearly every disfunction. Dana Reeves said that she and Superman still had sex time together. Clearly it was different, but not absent.

I read something recently that married couples have more sex and are more satisfied with their sex lives than unmarried couples. There is the whole hormonal thing too, it is actually very good for your brain and body etc.

If I'm in the relationship for love...then sex is important.

If I'm in the relationship for convenience....sex is unimportant.

Different at different ages?

You would know the anwer if you ever had been in a serious loving relationship

Sex in a relationship ain't that important to me (actually, it's nonexistent, anyways)...I imagine when I get married, I'll care more.

ufoclub said:

sex should'nt be important in the relationship but i could make it or break it.

I for one can NOT be in a relationship with a guy without sex.

I won't feel as desired or attractive

Imayte said:

sex should'nt be important in the relationship but i could make it or break it.

I for one can NOT be in a relationship with a guy without sex.

I won't feel as desired or attractive

Why shouldn't it?

when you hit 70 sex is the most important thing

ask my granddad