sorry for any mistakes..i was very nervous while writing this ..

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formallypickles said:

i had unprotected oral sex about 2 1/2 years ago on a one night stand and never had sex after that it was my first time.. i also had protected vagina intercourse

but this std anxiety is ruining my life..im so scared

i went to the emergency room for fatigue and they did CBC /CHEM blood test and urine test said everything was fine but i looked up stuff on hiv and they say only way you know is to get an HIV test cause normal blood test dont test for hiv antibodies.

after that i went to my doctor for a follow up and she said its depression and anxiety

i told her that i havent had sex in 3 years and she wrote down that i was not sexual active..

so i guess she figured there is no real threat to ask if i wanted to be tested for stds..

but i still dont believe her, plus i didnt want to be tested at the doctors office because it will show up on the insurance bill and my mom will know i had sex.. and she'll be upset i didnt tell her..

i finally decided to schedule to get tested but i dont go till monday and im freaking out.

has anyone had this std anxiety?...

and if you have std can you please share you experiences with it..

sorry for any mistakes..i was very nervous while writing this ..

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[Edited 4/19/11 13:15pm]

I think your guilt about having sex has increased your anxiety and made you a little paranoid

The good news is by getting a test you will put your mind at rest and probably gain some perspective for the future!!!

Remember as the good man George Michael said 'sex is natural sex is good not everybody does it but everybody should' umm and practice safe sex etc.

endymion said:

formallypickles said:

i had unprotected oral sex about 2 1/2 years ago on a one night stand and never had sex after that it was my first time.. i also had protected vagina intercourse

but this std anxiety is ruining my life..im so scared

i went to the emergency room for fatigue and they did CBC /CHEM blood test and urine test said everything was fine but i looked up stuff on hiv and they say only way you know is to get an HIV test cause normal blood test dont test for hiv antibodies.

after that i went to my doctor for a follow up and she said its depression and anxiety

i told her that i havent had sex in 3 years and she wrote down that i was not sexual active..

so i guess she figured there is no real threat to ask if i wanted to be tested for stds..

but i still dont believe her, plus i didnt want to be tested at the doctors office because it will show up on the insurance bill and my mom will know i had sex.. and she'll be upset i didnt tell her..

i finally decided to schedule to get tested but i dont go till monday and im freaking out.

has anyone had this std anxiety?...

and if you have std can you please share you experiences with it..

sorry for any mistakes..i was very nervous while writing this ..

[Edited 4/19/11 13:12pm]

[Edited 4/19/11 13:15pm]

I think your guilt about having sex has increased your anxiety and made you a little paranoid

The good news is by getting a test you will put your mind at rest and probably gain some perspective for the future!!!

Remember as the good man George Michael said 'sex is natural sex is good not everybody does it but everybody should' umm and practice safe sex etc.

if the test comes back postive

i dont know what i would do ...

Ooooooooooooooo, tsk tsk tsk....

never ever ever should you have sex again EVER!!!

if i were you i wouldn't even look at a sexual thing

or have a sexual thought... by writin this thread

there's no tellin whut kind of sh-tuff you've exsposed yourself to. LOOK AT YOUR KEYBOARD!!! my god,

you may be transmitttin some vile lil thing right now.

STOP IT!!!

and whutever you do

DON'T TOUCH YOURSELF...

KingBAD said:

Ooooooooooooooo, tsk tsk tsk....

never ever ever should you have sex again EVER!!!

if i were you i wouldn't even look at a sexual thing

or have a sexual thought... by writin this thread

there's no tellin whut kind of sh-tuff you've exsposed yourself to. LOOK AT YOUR KEYBOARD!!! my god,

you may be transmitttin some vile lil thing right now.

STOP IT!!!

and whutever you do

DON'T TOUCH YOURSELF...

are you the loony orger that folks have been speaking abpout as of late?

you aren't alone. a lot of people worry about STDs. there are a ton of STDs and some are not much to look at but others can be killers. it's the ultimate irony that, while making love, another person can harm you physically to the point of no return. and, the only really safe sex is no sex, or sex with a long term partner.

right now you may be worrying yourself over something not worth so much stress. but, you should go ahead and have the HIV test if you are worried. planned parenthood has a number of options for people without insurance. they can help you out with birth control and stuff too, if you want to look into that. i hope you find peace with this

eye went 2 a std clinic & a female doc put a small umbrella in2 my penis then opened it up & scraped the fuck out of my poor cock.the bitch wont try that again!!

xlr8r said:

are you the loony orger that folks have been speaking abpout as of late?

people have talking about me behind my back on the org

formallypickles said:

xlr8r said:

are you the loony orger that folks have been speaking abpout as of late?

people have talking about me behind my back on the org

^ you and the other 2,376,978 million loonies up in here welcome

I would think that your local county, or state has resources for free or low cost hiv testing. heck, you can buy a kit at CVS and do it yourself

XxAxX said:

you aren't alone. a lot of people worry about STDs. there are a ton of STDs and some are not much to look at but others can be killers. it's the ultimate irony that, while making love, another person can harm you physically to the point of no return. and, the only really safe sex is no sex, or sex with a long term partner.

right now you may be worrying yourself over something not worth so much stress. but, you should go ahead and have the HIV test if you are worried. planned parenthood has a number of options for people without insurance. they can help you out with birth control and stuff too, if you want to look into that. i hope you find peace with this

thanks for the advice

i was reading that many people get hiv and stds from there long time partners between the ages pf 25-35

noone is safe ..this made me even more paranoid

XxAxX said:

formallypickles said:

people have talking about me behind my back on the org

^ you and the other 2,376,978 million loonies up in here welcome

well if they have something to say send it to my org note

formallypickles said:

XxAxX said:

you aren't alone. a lot of people worry about STDs. there are a ton of STDs and some are not much to look at but others can be killers. it's the ultimate irony that, while making love, another person can harm you physically to the point of no return. and, the only really safe sex is no sex, or sex with a long term partner.

right now you may be worrying yourself over something not worth so much stress. but, you should go ahead and have the HIV test if you are worried. planned parenthood has a number of options for people without insurance. they can help you out with birth control and stuff too, if you want to look into that. i hope you find peace with this

thanks for the advice

i was reading that many people get hiv and stds from there long time partners between the ages pf 25-35

noone is safe ..this made me even more paranoid

it seems to me that you suffer more from guilt, than anything. you can get discreetly tested, if you put your mind to it. don't live in fear, it's not worth. knowledge is power. you're going to get tested one of these days anyway, be it for a life insurance exam..

BlackAdder7 said:

I would think that your local county, or state has resources for free or low cost hiv testing. heck, you can buy a kit at CVS and do it yourself

im taking it at my schools clinic its low cost

but i only had unprotected oral and this was only one time ...they say that oral sex and get hiv is low risk about 1-1000 but im still scared

formallypickles said:

BlackAdder7 said:

I would think that your local county, or state has resources for free or low cost hiv testing. heck, you can buy a kit at CVS and do it yourself

im taking it at my schools clinic its low cost

but i only had unprotected oral and this was only one time ...they say that oral sex and get hiv is low risk about 1-1000 but im still scared

it's okay to be scared. think of how relieved you'll be when you find out that you're hiv negative. don't lose sleep over it. human nature dictates anxiety causes us to think about worst case scenarios, which ultimately never come to fruition

BlackAdder7 said:

formallypickles said:

thanks for the advice

i was reading that many people get hiv and stds from there long time partners between the ages pf 25-35

noone is safe ..this made me even more paranoid

it seems to me that you suffer more from guilt, than anything. you can get discreetly tested, if you put your mind to it. don't live in fear, it's not worth. knowledge is power. you're going to get tested one of these days anyway, be it for a life insurance exam..

yes but i know people are gonna look at me as a whore even though this was only time i had sex in my entire life. just because it was casual people will think im a whore sure didnt stop that gross asshole from thinking that.

i really want some revenge but i didnt know him that well and its mostly my fault

BlackAdder7 said:

formallypickles said:

im taking it at my schools clinic its low cost

but i only had unprotected oral and this was only one time ...they say that oral sex and get hiv is low risk about 1-1000 but im still scared

it's okay to be scared. think of how relieved you'll be when you find out that you're hiv negative. don't lose sleep over it. human nature dictates anxiety causes us to think about worst case scenarios, which ultimately never come to fruition

thanks blackadder you're always so good to me

How do you have protected oral sex? Especially if you're a guy doing it to a girl?

formallypickles said:

BlackAdder7 said:

it's okay to be scared. think of how relieved you'll be when you find out that you're hiv negative. don't lose sleep over it. human nature dictates anxiety causes us to think about worst case scenarios, which ultimately never come to fruition

thanks blackadder you're always so good to me

it's okay...it's all part of growing up. you're harder on yourself, than anyone else.

Maytiana said:

How do you have protected oral sex? Especially if you're a guy doing it to a girl?

Dental dam, baby girl.

Lammastide said:

Maytiana said:

How do you have protected oral sex? Especially if you're a guy doing it to a girl?

Dental dam, baby girl.

That's so stupid....

Maytiana said:

Lammastide said:

Dental dam, baby girl.

That's so stupid....

in the dark, you'd never know the difference

ok, don't listen...

with all this sex talk you'll prolly never recover

from whutever it is you think you may or may not have.

I get paranoia too about having gotten something, even though it was sexual behaviour and not penetration. Don't laugh at me or make fun of me, but I hope things like anal sex(from him) and kissing didn't give me anything. I found out he was dishonest with me about his history of how many people he was with, so I don't really know what the truth is now or if he made it up to look good. I know people say you can't get anything from kissing, but I still don't trust it.

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haha don't worry my friend has herpes and she dranked out of my drink while I was sleep and I freaked out and almost had a heart attack. The doctors and nurses laughed so hard, but the test was negative and I was fine lol.

Maytiana said:

Lammastide said:

Dental dam, baby girl.

That's so stupid....

Hey, I didn't invent them.

But a barrier device like this can block the passing of certain cooties.

alphastreet said:

I get paranoia too about having gotten something, even though it was sexual behaviour and not penetration. Don't laugh at me or make fun of me, but I hope things like anal sex(from him) and kissing didn't give me anything. I found out he was dishonest with me about his history of how many people he was with, so I don't really know what the truth is now or if he made it up to look good. I know people say you can't get anything from kissing, but I still don't trust it.

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Maybe I'm misunderstanding what you've written...

You were on the receiving end of anal sex, but you weren't penetrated?

Anyway, yes, you absolutely can contract certain STIs from anal sex with an infected partner. If you feel unsure about your encounters -- especially if they were unprotected -- it can't hurt to be tested.

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Lammastide said:

alphastreet said:

I get paranoia too about having gotten something, even though it was sexual behaviour and not penetration. Don't laugh at me or make fun of me, but I hope things like anal sex(from him) and kissing didn't give me anything. I found out he was dishonest with me about his history of how many people he was with, so I don't really know what the truth is now or if he made it up to look good. I know people say you can't get anything from kissing, but I still don't trust it.

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Maybe I'm misunderstanding what you've written...

You were on the receiving end of anal sex, but you weren't penetrated?

Anyway, yes, you absolutely can contract certain STIs from anal sex with an infected partner. If you feel unsure about your encounters -- especially if they were unprotected -- it can't hurt to be tested.

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I just meant tongue