Serious said:

ZombieKitten said:

If it is for me: Thank you sweetie

ZombieKitten said:

Serious said:

If it is for me: Thank you sweetie

the kiss is for you, the hug is for militant

Militant said:

Fucks sake. Everytime my mood swings back to low the wound feels fresh again.

Seriously.....I keep trying to tell myself that other people have it much worse than I do.

But sometimes nothing I try is helping me feel better at all. Why is there no easy way to take away this pain? How come we can go to the fucking moon and space and clone animals and all this shit but nobody figured out how to cure a broken heart?

Yes it hurts. I know. Allow yourself to feel the hurt. Just sit and experience it. It's useless to try to avoid it, because it comes back anyway. Go through the pain. And you'l notice that the intermittant time lapses become longer. Every day, slowly.

And it's okay to concentrate on the pain, you will not die from it. You will experience the depts of your emotions. And there is beauty in that.

Go for it, Militant. You are not alone in this world, and things happen for a reason. Maybe in a few years you will know why this happened

Did you listen to the single version of "solo" from P? That's one of my favorites when in pain like that.

Ottensen said:

HotGritz said:

Yeah we had that discussion and we can have it again.

Going into such a relationship, you already know what the visa situation is and its not likely to change any time soon. Its your choice to have a relationship, and start a family, with someone from another country when you know you may not be able to move to their country or they to yours. Period.

So if the law is not in your favor then this is something that needs to be considered BEFORE you marry and make babies.

Nations don't give a damn about who we love. They care about their borders, their safety, their economy etc. as well they should.

I'm not saying it doesn't suck, clearly it does, but why be mad about an immigration policy when that policy was in effect before you fell in love?

I totally hear you. I'm a person who has rarely been involved with someone from the same country as me, and these policies are simply a fact of life. You know it going into a long-distance relationship, so I imagine a person with any level of rationale and discernment would have enough sense to prepare themselves (emotionally, financially) for the best and worst case scenarios in a situation like this and not just sit and moan about how unfair the world is

EXACTLY!

cheers my love

Militant said:

So my wife broke the news to me yesterday, after almost 5 years of marriage and 7 years together, that she wants a divorce. I just got my VISA to move to the States to be with her and was planning to move there in a few months time. I'm crushed, confused and heartbroken. She says the visa getting approved meant she had to confront the reality of the situation - of us being together permanently - and she doesn't think she'll be happy and says I'm no longer the man she fell in love with.

I've never felt so crushed in my whole life. it's like my whole world has fallen down. There also seems to be another guy in the picture - some trainer she met at a new gym she started going to not too long ago. So no doubt he's been enforcing her doubts for his own gains and there's nothing I can do about it. It fucking sucks, I cried for hours yesterday and today and now I'm simply having to stay on anti-depressants and face the reality of the situation.

No kids involved and we did get married young - I just turned 24. So at least it won't be a complicated affair. But I was so excited to move to the States, I thought we were going to start a family and it would be the beginning of a new chapter in my life. So I'm kinda feeling lost and confused about what I should do now.

This is the hardest thing I've ever had to deal with I can't sleep, I can't eat, I can't even watch TV because all the shows I like, we used to watch together. So much music is off limits because I know certain songs will make me bawl and I have to try and stay positive. I know I'll make it through the other side but it's going to be very hard.

:'(

:'(

:'(

Im so so sorry! Seven years is a long time! Please just take the time and reflect on what you learned and what you will do differently next time! I am glad she didnt drag u along the way while she met someone new at the same time. Wow...you are still young man so take it easy!!

So sorry to hear this.

Another guy in the picture explains it all..

Pick your head up and enjoy the fruits that lay ahead of you.. There are alot of wonderful woman out there waiting for someone like you.

Last night I was so angry.

And today I'm just feeling sad again.

She was my best friend too. We used to talk about everything that was happening in our day. Good, bad, funny, just everything. I keep wanting to talk to her, not even necessarily about us but just the way we used to talk about all kinds of things. And I keep having to stop myself. Because she'll either ignore me, or tell me she doesn't want to talk to me, or it'll become more obvious to me at just how much she resents me etc and that will hurt more.

write it down, sweetey,

Just write everything down.

Don't call her.

Don't e-mail.

Don't twitter.

Don't send a letter.

Don't manipulate by means of friends.

Just sit down and write.

Everything

dJJ said:

write it down, sweetey,

Just write everything down.

Don't call her.

Don't e-mail.

Don't twitter.

Don't send a letter.

Don't manipulate by means of friends.

Just sit down and write.

Everything

I sooo disagree. If you avoid her you're only keeping the angry and sad thoughts about the last time you contacted her bottled up. You're not going to get over this until you know that you and her are still close and good friends who can call each other whenever. Treating her like she's not there isn't gonna help.

I've had my heart broken (not by a boyfriend) and I didn't feel content until I spoke with him and settled my feelings with him.

"Keep your head up"

2Pac has the answers to your questions!

Deez hoez is scandalous!

You'll get over it eventually, juss keep that in mind.

"I've seen the future and it will be"

you know what you need to do is firstly dump your shitty android phone, that's probably why the bitch dumped you in the first place as they thought you were the kind of dude to have a cheap copy iphone imatation peice of shit instead of the real deal, and then get yourself an iphone4 and flash it about bars with tidy birds, as the iphone4 is a fanny magnet, so you will then pull lots of far hotter birds and you can shag them and mistakenly on purpose facetime your ex whilst your shagging a hot bird up the arse and let her see what a fucking good time you are having without her

ALL WOMEN ARE BITCHES. that's the mantra. just shout that to yourself every day as you wake up. you need to tame the cunt. respect the cock!

once you realise that you can seduce and destroy ANY woman you like. and if you follow my 30 day money back guaranteed program, you too can get any bitch you like

if not, then...

Militant said:

Fucks sake. Everytime my mood swings back to low the wound feels fresh again.

Seriously.....I keep trying to tell myself that other people have it much worse than I do.

But sometimes nothing I try is helping me feel better at all. Why is there no easy way to take away this pain? How come we can go to the fucking moon and space and clone animals and all this shit but nobody figured out how to cure a broken heart?

Ask why there's no real cure for the common cold except rest and time...

Same deal applies here I guess.

Much love Militant...you know I care about you and I'm here for you whenever you need me.

unique said:

ALL WOMEN ARE BITCHES. that's the mantra. just shout that to yourself every day as you wake up. you need to tame the cunt. respect the cock

Cut out this misogynist shit.

unique said:

you know what you need to do is firstly dump your shitty android phone, that's probably why the bitch dumped you in the first place as they thought you were the kind of dude to have a cheap copy iphone imatation peice of shit instead of the real deal, and then get yourself an iphone4 and flash it about bars with tidy birds, as the iphone4 is a fanny magnet, so you will then pull lots of far hotter birds and you can shag them and mistakenly on purpose facetime your ex whilst your shagging a hot bird up the arse and let her see what a fucking good time you are having without her

ALL WOMEN ARE BITCHES. that's the mantra. just shout that to yourself every day as you wake up. you need to tame the cunt. respect the cock!

once you realise that you can seduce and destroy ANY woman you like. and if you follow my 30 day money back guaranteed program, you too can get any bitch you like

if not, then...

keep ya head up soldier!

smoothcriminal12 said:

unique said:

you know what you need to do is firstly dump your shitty android phone, that's probably why the bitch dumped you in the first place as they thought you were the kind of dude to have a cheap copy iphone imatation peice of shit instead of the real deal, and then get yourself an iphone4 and flash it about bars with tidy birds, as the iphone4 is a fanny magnet, so you will then pull lots of far hotter birds and you can shag them and mistakenly on purpose facetime your ex whilst your shagging a hot bird up the arse and let her see what a fucking good time you are having without her

ALL WOMEN ARE BITCHES. that's the mantra. just shout that to yourself every day as you wake up. you need to tame the cunt. respect the cock!

once you realise that you can seduce and destroy ANY woman you like. and if you follow my 30 day money back guaranteed program, you too can get any bitch you like

if not, then...

[img:$uid]http://www.threadbombing.com/data/media/54/wh-double-facepalm.jpg[/img:$uid]

it's called humour. dude needs cheering up. has no-one seen magnolia? fuck sake

unique said:

smoothcriminal12 said:

[img:$uid]http://www.threadbombing.com/data/media/54/wh-double-facepalm.jpg[/img:$uid]

it's called humour. dude needs cheering up. has no-one seen magnolia? fuck sake

I kind'a thought that you probably were being tongue-in-cheek with that comment!

...no I haven't seen Magnolia.

PurpleJedi said:

unique said:

[img:$uid]http://www.threadbombing.com/data/media/54/wh-double-facepalm.jpg[/img:$uid]

it's called humour. dude needs cheering up. has no-one seen magnolia? fuck sake

I kind'a thought that you probably were being tongue-in-cheek with that comment!

...no I haven't seen Magnolia.

type in tame the cunt respect the cock tom cruise into google and watch the youtube video for explanation

unique said:

PurpleJedi said:

I kind'a thought that you probably were being tongue-in-cheek with that comment!

...no I haven't seen Magnolia.

type in tame the cunt respect the cock tom cruise into google and watch the youtube video for explanation