versiongirl said:

paintedlady said:

^^^^ honest answer... that is what I normally run into with men.

I also get real agressive resquests to date married men...

I was told by one married man,

"You have 3 kids.... no man will marry you, so you might as well be my mistress and let me come on by and get some lovin' from you."

I told him to go fuck himself... but this is the mormal sentiment I ran into before I met the guy I am with now.

yuck...married men are scandalous! didn't someone post on another thread that most of prostitutes clientele is married men....

I think some guys just need to feel like they still got it going on with the ladies....

it may just be about the chase and not the sex really...

but still, as a single mom, I get the "babbymomma = drama" vibe, when IMHO any crazy bitch can bring drama to a relationship, kids are not a factor.

whistle said:

It's a lot of baggage to take on, and I prefer to go a different way romantically.

whistle said:

Gee, you mean I can pay twice as much to date a woman with stretch marks and get half the sex as a normal relationship? And she will have a chip on her shoulder against men that her baby daddy put there? Where do I sign?!....

LOL....."half the sex".... sadly Im sure that is true..

As for the person who said they wouldn't "impose" a new man on their children if they had any, you would seriously give up dating and having sex and or being in a relationship to "protect" your children from "stress"!? I know a lot of moms who are in new relationships (HAPPILY) and their children are better off because of it; a happy mom is a good mom!