HotGritz said:

Spinlight said:

Or he simply doesn't feel the need to acquiesce to the societal norms of people obsessed with youth.

If I wanted to put a hairless dick in my mouth, I'd be a pedophile.

You'd be a pedophile if the hairless dick belonged to a minor. Seriously, don't most men realize by now how much body hair stinks and traps bacteria, especially if you're prone to sweating after a few minutes of movement? Being that it's 2011, I thought most guys were doing some sort of waxing or shaving. Many have even tended to those extra long nose hairs, another item.

Oh Lord, y'all motherfuckers are trying to force me to go straight with all these pussy looking dicks!

Spinlight said:

Also, just wash your dick. It ain't that rough. I would rather wash my dick before I had sex regardless of what the status of my dick hair was. It just feels nasty to put a grimey ass sweaty dick covered in bacteria (cuz you know, the hair being gone doesnt mean the bacteria is gone) into someone's booty.

Exactly, that's it right there. Wash the motherfucker. And as far as the bacteria goes, if you get rid of all of it, you'll get a yeast infection and have to eat lots of yogurt. There's such a thing as "good bacteria". I learned that the hard way and got rid of Dial antibacterial soap. I use Zest or Coast but I ain't going near no damn Dial anymore.

vainandy said:

with all these pussy looking dicks!

...... ....... ..........

"Pussy looking dicks" - (C) Vainandy

HotGritz said:

Timmy84 said:

You just want a metrosexual man with your picky self.

With a tad thug in him. Michael Eric Dyson meets 2Pac meets one of those Calvin Klein underwear models.

Girl, you a mess! But Mikey do have a sexy mind, don't he?

Shyra said:

HotGritz said:

With a tad thug in him. Michael Eric Dyson meets 2Pac meets one of those Calvin Klein underwear models.

Girl, you a mess! But Mikey do have a sexy mind, don't he?

Chile!!!

I just die if I got to fuck that man. I'd want him to quote pieces of his book "Can You Hear Me Now" with every thrust! Then we can listen to the live version of "How Do You Want It" from 2Pacs performance at the House of Blues. Afterwards he can massage my back and I can share with him my thoughts on race, sexuality and the re-imaging of the black woman in hip hop videos.

HotGritz said:

Shyra said:

Girl, you a mess! But Mikey do have a sexy mind, don't he?

Chile!!!

I just die if I got to fuck that man. I'd want him to quote pieces of his book "Can You Hear Me Now" with every thrust! Then we can listen to the live version of "How Do You Want It" from 2Pacs performance at the House of Blues. Afterwards he can massage my back and I can share with him my thoughts on race, sexuality and the re-imaging of the black woman in hip hop videos.

Now see...I'm jes up the skreet from GT! I could make a copy of this here missive of yours and deliver it to him....for a fee of course!

For real, though. I really get off on listening to him speak and reading his books. I love an intelligent, articulate man. Now, I just wonder if he really know how to do the nasty?

Shyra said:

HotGritz said:

Chile!!!

I just die if I got to fuck that man. I'd want him to quote pieces of his book "Can You Hear Me Now" with every thrust! Then we can listen to the live version of "How Do You Want It" from 2Pacs performance at the House of Blues. Afterwards he can massage my back and I can share with him my thoughts on race, sexuality and the re-imaging of the black woman in hip hop videos.

Now see...I'm jes up the skreet from GT! I could make a copy of this here missive of yours and deliver it to him....for a fee of course!

For real, though. I really get off on listening to him speak and reading his books. I love an intelligent, articulate man. Now, I just wonder if he really know how to do the nasty?

If he were unskilled in the art of lovemaking...I don't think I could bare it. Like really, that would be some end of days shit right there.

^ I don't see any handsome qualities in Michael Dyson...lol

Timmy84 said:

^ I don't see any handsome qualities in Michael Dyson...lol

Shame on you. He is a god among men and you know it!

He is getting a bit hefty these days but I can dig it. I like a little fat on my steak.

HotGritz said:

Timmy84 said:

^ I don't see any handsome qualities in Michael Dyson...lol

Shame on you. He is a god among men and you know it!

He is getting a bit hefty these days but I can dig it. I like a little fat on my steak.

Whatever you say...

Timmy84 said:

^ I don't see any handsome qualities in Michael Dyson...lol

Wellll, we are all getting a little older and paunchier. Anyway, he could be butt ugly, but he still would be sexy to me. THE MIND, CHILE. THE MIND!!!

Shyra said:

Timmy84 said:

^ I don't see any handsome qualities in Michael Dyson...lol

Wellll, we are all getting a little older and paunchier. Anyway, he could be butt ugly, but he still would be sexy to me. THE MIND, CHILE. THE MIND!!!

I am and will probably always be a sucker for pretty boys but a man with a brilliant mind and cultural awareness will always come in first place. Michael could have a face full of acne and he would still be sexy to me.

^^

He's a good speaker don't get me wrong. I'm just waiting for someone to blow the whistle on his sex drive. You know there's always SOMEBODY... and wasn't this thread about "straight acting"?

HotGritz said:

SagsWay2low said:

?

Over and over again, I keep seeing the "I like straight acting men..." etc. etc.

Isn't that kind of self-hating?

Don't get me wrong--I've overflowing with testosterone to the point that I drag my knuckles and shit when I walk.

But, I don't get how this mantra helps the queer community.

How does it hurt the community? Some gay guys are actually manly...in fact...I'd bet a good lot of them are manly. What is gay acting as opposed to straight acting? Isn't gay acting, for a man, merely acting like a chick which he isn't or for a woman, acting like a man which she isn't? Also, if everybody is "acting" be it acting straight or acting gay then isn't the community pretty much fucked cuz everyone is putting up a facade?

because it is demeaning femininity, which is just as natural for some in the community.

Timmy84 said:

^^

He's a good speaker don't get me wrong. I'm just waiting for someone to blow the whistle on his sex drive. You know there's always SOMEBODY... and wasn't this thread about "straight acting"?

Timmy you are surely right.

But its your fault!

You got me thinking of examples of metrosexual men.

You know...that term metrosexual is complete bullshit. Kind of like "lipstick lesbian". People are people as Depeche Mode says. Some gay guys are slobs, some str8 guys are clean cut, some gay chicks are fashion models, some str8 chicks are road kill.

Brings me back to my original question of what the hell is "straight acting" and "gay acting"? If its all just acting....then where does the self-hate begin and end for anyone?

HotGritz said:

Timmy84 said:

^^

He's a good speaker don't get me wrong. I'm just waiting for someone to blow the whistle on his sex drive. You know there's always SOMEBODY... and wasn't this thread about "straight acting"?

Timmy you are surely right.

But its your fault!

You got me thinking of examples of metrosexual men.

You know...that term metrosexual is complete bullshit. Kind of like "lipstick lesbian". People are people as Depeche Mode says. Some gay guys are slobs, some str8 guys are clean cut, some gay chicks are fashion models, some str8 chicks are road kill.

Brings me back to my original question of what the hell is "straight acting" and "gay acting"? If its all just acting....then where does the self-hate begin and end for anyone?

Not everyone is "acting". Some do put on airs of being more masculine for fear of being equated with women. Others act campy or extra feminine for whatever reason. There are all kinds in the middle who are everywhere between on the spectrum.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

HotGritz said:

Timmy you are surely right.

But its your fault!

You got me thinking of examples of metrosexual men.

You know...that term metrosexual is complete bullshit. Kind of like "lipstick lesbian". People are people as Depeche Mode says. Some gay guys are slobs, some str8 guys are clean cut, some gay chicks are fashion models, some str8 chicks are road kill.

Brings me back to my original question of what the hell is "straight acting" and "gay acting"? If its all just acting....then where does the self-hate begin and end for anyone?

Not everyone is "acting". Some do put on airs of being more masculine for fear of being equated with women. Others act campy or extra feminine for whatever reason. There are all kinds in the middle who are everywhere between on the spectrum.

This is what I'm more inclined to believe. Some people just have a way about them whether it was cultivated through upbringing, life experiences, group identification, or is just how they feel inside. I'd think we can all pretty much tell when somebody is pretending/acting to fit in to some group. You know...those people that try EXTRA hard to be something they're not.

HotGritz said:

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Not everyone is "acting". Some do put on airs of being more masculine for fear of being equated with women. Others act campy or extra feminine for whatever reason. There are all kinds in the middle who are everywhere between on the spectrum.

This is what I'm more inclined to believe. Some people just have a way about them whether it was cultivated through upbringing, life experiences, group identification, or is just how they feel inside. I'd think we can all pretty much tell when somebody is pretending/acting to fit in to some group. You know...those people that try EXTRA hard to be something they're not.

yeah, the straight acting

I am soooooooo proud of you guys!

You're having a civil conversation about the topic!

I thought that once the words 'hairy dick' were introduced, I had lost my thread forever.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

HotGritz said:

This is what I'm more inclined to believe. Some people just have a way about them whether it was cultivated through upbringing, life experiences, group identification, or is just how they feel inside. I'd think we can all pretty much tell when somebody is pretending/acting to fit in to some group. You know...those people that try EXTRA hard to be something they're not.

yeah, the straight acting

straight acting

gay acting

it all sucks if it's done to merely "belong". then again....can we blame them? everybody wants to belong somewhere and to something. aah the pity of being human.