purplehippieonthe1 said:

IamFunkay7 said:

lol I love that song, well start holding out stop being the fwb and trust me, those people are gonna pause and wanna date you lol

Well the FWB thing is pretty much over now - it started last summer and it was working out as it was supposed to, just having a bit of fun during weekends but still being friends..

Early this year she started to get increasingly more attention while we were in clubs with friends and I started getting a bit jealous and my "sleepovers" almost stopped, then I realised I had feelings for her and told her so, but she felt like me and her could only be friends. The FWB thing isn't COMPLETELY over, but it's more like once a month rather than every weekend at this point.

So when it comes to my FWB-thing, SHE'S the one that's been holding out, we're still good friends though... I'm a bit shy and a dude so I hardly have any choices, girls don't walk up to me in bars or clubs, I don't know if I come accross as "desperate", but holding out in my case probably won't get me anywhere, my FWB has choices, I don't.

Oh I see, well as a guy you have more choices really, all you must do it be able to talk to women and greet them, approach them as a new person you want to become friends with. it always occur in FWB situation once person is bound to fall for the other, its usually the woman and every now and then the guy. Trust me, theres a woman out there who will dig you for more than your body parts, you just gotta learn how to be yourself and add a fling to it, you know? I'm not a love wizard or anything, just know the basics.

never had one

IamFunkay7 said:

How old were you when you got that first flare or spark of love? Some were 12, some were born pimps lol and were dating in the womb, do you remember?

First girlfriend was name Christina in the first grade. She was Puerto Rican and taller than me. Thin with black hair. We used to kiss when the teacher was not looking...only lasted what had to have been a couple moths lol.

I fell in love hard or least I thought I did at 14...he was 25.

I like to tell myself as I got older that he really thought I was 18 but I know he knew how young I was....Pervert.

Thankfully he never got my cookies even though I really really wanted to give it to him.

IamFunkay7 said:

purplehippieonthe1 said:

Well the FWB thing is pretty much over now - it started last summer and it was working out as it was supposed to, just having a bit of fun during weekends but still being friends..

Early this year she started to get increasingly more attention while we were in clubs with friends and I started getting a bit jealous and my "sleepovers" almost stopped, then I realised I had feelings for her and told her so, but she felt like me and her could only be friends. The FWB thing isn't COMPLETELY over, but it's more like once a month rather than every weekend at this point.

So when it comes to my FWB-thing, SHE'S the one that's been holding out, we're still good friends though... I'm a bit shy and a dude so I hardly have any choices, girls don't walk up to me in bars or clubs, I don't know if I come accross as "desperate", but holding out in my case probably won't get me anywhere, my FWB has choices, I don't.

Oh I see, well as a guy you have more choices really, all you must do it be able to talk to women and greet them, approach them as a new person you want to become friends with. it always occur in FWB situation once person is bound to fall for the other, its usually the woman and every now and then the guy. Trust me, theres a woman out there who will dig you for more than your body parts, you just gotta learn how to be yourself and add a fling to it, you know? I'm not a love wizard or anything, just know the basics.

That's the hard part for me - my female friends are always trying to get me to pick up chicks at bars, perhaps because they want to me to go somewhere else because they feel I'm cock-blocking them or something..

And sometimes they even try to find some random chick to dance with me, and it's almost always some girl I don't find attractive and I just try to get out of the situation.

I wouldn't mind going home with a girl I just met for some casual sex, but it seems like I'm not capable of making it happen, unless the girl is the one taking the initiative, which has only happened maybe two or three times.

purplehippieonthe1 said:

IamFunkay7 said:

Oh I see, well as a guy you have more choices really, all you must do it be able to talk to women and greet them, approach them as a new person you want to become friends with. it always occur in FWB situation once person is bound to fall for the other, its usually the woman and every now and then the guy. Trust me, theres a woman out there who will dig you for more than your body parts, you just gotta learn how to be yourself and add a fling to it, you know? I'm not a love wizard or anything, just know the basics.

That's the hard part for me - my female friends are always trying to get me to pick up chicks at bars, perhaps because they want to me to go somewhere else because they feel I'm cock-blocking them or something..

And sometimes they even try to find some random chick to dance with me, and it's almost always some girl I don't find attractive and I just try to get out of the situation.

I wouldn't mind going home with a girl I just met for some casual sex, but it seems like I'm not capable of making it happen, unless the girl is the one taking the initiative, which has only happened maybe two or three times.

Well it sll depends on what kind of women you like, if you like slutty women you find them in slutty places.. not all women who go to bars are slutty, but their def not looking for a soul mate. Try another setting for once, go other places. You will find her in her natural habitat

19....and I regret meeting him What an idiot...

19 we met at the Flex LA a bathhouse LOL... true story. he was in the porn that was playing in his room and i was like oh hey it's you and he laughed and said yeah it is... Oh my life LOL

Shyra said:

IamFunkay7 said:

How old were you when you got that first flare or spark of love? Some were 12, some were born pimps lol and were dating in the womb, do you remember?

6 years old. I remember having a crush on little boy in kindergarten.

It's freaky to hear you say that. My first crush was in kindegarten too, on a little blonde boy who was always playing with blocks and didn't even know I was alive .

But to answer the actual thread question, I was 19.

I got my first really bad crush when I was 18 on none other than Prince . I don't know if that counts...

Fauxie said:

Alej said:

Why not?

I can't tell you it didn't involve baby bones.

Oh, that's hot

When i was 10, we kissed once lol my first kiss.We were so excited we banged our teeth together .... i saw her for the first time in 10 years two days ago...she looked awful and her husband looked a bit unapproachable so i left it at that.I now wish i had the guts to go over and say hello..

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I was 11, it was actually at a her birthday party and we were listening to 1999 when it first came out

we started dating and used to go to the roller skating palace8-)